blinking001:
Life happened bro. It's a cold world out there. Move on. Never feel bad for losing a Whooore

Frankicent:


F*ck you bro, once again F*ck you a thousand times

princeiceberg:


......now i have moved on hustling hard, and i now realized that trusting women was a bad idea. . .

princeiceberg:
We dated for good seven years, i have never seen her with anyone around, we both graduated school i was posted to serve my NYSC in kaltungo of Gombe state and she was sent to Ogun , since then we've not been making calls, we just chat on whatsapp and telegram, but nowadays she has not been online and her number has not been reachable, i decided to contact one of her friend, she told me that she has been with one Alhaji and he's gotten her a bank job. . . . i felt sick for that. . .and now i have moved on hustling hard, and i now realized that trusting women was a bad idea. . .

Tickles001:

The bolded must be true. The reason most relationships are now kinda pay as you go.

mibrims:

Brace up bro and be a better person
We all have been there, aside money, true love is also hard to come by, jst like in today’s Nigeria is hard to find pple with legit money same as true love, times are hard. I have been in ur shoes i understand ur pains
3yrs ago i was serving in same state with my gf of 4yrs frm uni days, man was broke and gf automatically changed, a gal i have spent more than half a million to change her phone, wardrobe and plenty flexing turned my boss over night. Started dating a guy with Benz and hardly picks my call nor reply my WhatsApp msg, i even beg her to upload pics of us together whenever i go visiting her on weekends, in my broke state i rented her a good sef-corn in akure while i stayed in corpers lodge inside one village with pit toilet, babe banned me from visiting her cos of this new Benz guy, for apartment wey i rented for 90k in 2018? U can imagine, long story short, during Xmas she moved in with this Benz guy and lied that she was home, on the is faithful day, I called and her number was switched off and i decided to call her mom since she’s home and her mom told me she’s not yet back home from service, we later spoke and she was still liein until her mom called her, then babe showed me her sel and insulted my life, i advised my sef and moved on cos she kept demanding and i tried meeting up jst so i don’t loose her to a Benz guy, but for how long can this continue? I moved on she never bothered to beg to call, today I am happily married and drives a Benz and all she does is to like my pics on IG, bro don’t kill ur sef, work hard and be happy

hybrid11:
Acrimony

baralatie:

Not the title of this thread movie




The title of this film is Eeyaah !! Who's in Love now

Offpoint1:
Imagine me suffering for 7 years and I see someone who wants to help me out and you want me not to take such an offer?

Imagine me being offering visa to leave this current Nigeria to a better country and you want me to reject the offer because I once "pledge to Nigeria my country, to be faithful, loyal and honest''?

Imagine me working for a company for 7 years with 100k salary and I got an offer from another company with salary of 500k and you want me not to take such an offer because of the years I've spent with the company?

Who no like better thing...?
Move on with your life, nobody like to suffer.
You'll meet someone else, I don't like hypocrisy in any form.

7 years no be beans, the best way of break up without hurting anyone feelings is the "Ghosting Method" of whom she applied because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings with words.

If Alhaji works for her, let her be... Alhaja might work for you someday and if Alhaji fail her in the future she'll count her losses and try Musa... Life goes on.

As long as you're not legally married to a lady or a guy, erase the entitled mentality of she/him being yours.

princeiceberg:
We dated for good seven years, i have never seen her with anyone around, we both graduated school i was posted to serve my NYSC in kaltungo of Gombe state and she was sent to Ogun , since then we've not been making calls, we just chat on whatsapp and telegram, but nowadays she has not been online and her number has not been reachable, i decided to contact one of her friend, she told me that she has been with one Alhaji and he's gotten her a bank job. . . . i felt sick for that. . .and now i have moved on hustling hard, and i now realized that trusting women was a bad idea. . .

mibrims:

Brace up bro and be a better person
We all have been there, aside money, true love is also hard to come by, jst like in today’s Nigeria is hard to find pple with legit money same as true love, times are hard. I have been in ur shoes i understand ur pains
3yrs ago i was serving in same state with my gf of 4yrs frm uni days, man was broke and gf automatically changed, a gal i have spent more than half a million to change her phone, wardrobe and plenty flexing turned my boss over night. Started dating a guy with Benz and hardly picks my call nor reply my WhatsApp msg, i even beg her to upload pics of us together whenever i go visiting her on weekends, in my broke state i rented her a good sef-corn in akure while i stayed in corpers lodge inside one village with pit toilet, babe banned me from visiting her cos of this new Benz guy, for apartment wey i rented for 90k in 2018? U can imagine, long story short, during Xmas she moved in with this Benz guy and lied that she was home, on the is faithful day, I called and her number was switched off and i decided to call her mom since she’s home and her mom told me she’s not yet back home from service, we later spoke and she was still liein until her mom called her, then babe showed me her sel and insulted my life, i advised my sef and moved on cos she kept demanding and i tried meeting up jst so i don’t loose her to a Benz guy, but for how long can this continue? I moved on she never bothered to beg to call, today I am happily married and drives a Benz and all she does is to like my pics on IG, bro don’t kill ur sef, work hard and be happy

RLouis:
She hasn't been online,her number hasn't been connecting and HER FRIEND TOLD U she's with one alhaji

And u concluded. Well the friend MIGHT be right but I think u should hear from her first and not conclude with what her friend told u
Anyone can get anyone a job

If it were to be u and one alhaja promised u a job you'd be close to her

The country is hard, everybody is out here to survive

Fiscus105:


the way you guys reason one sided is sickned, as u said 7years is not 7 months, dating a lady for 7 good years without turning her to wife, the girl finally got escaping route, yet u still complaining, did u want her to reach menopause before heading to next destination? If it's ur sister you will tell her to remain Parmanently as a girlfriend abi?!

doggedfighter:
Trusting women in your life or the ones you have met may have been a risk.

Trusting humans is a risk. It's not gender based . Don't generalize.


Learn to understand that when you are starting out in your walk of life , not everyone believes enough in you to stick it out with you.

Not because they hate you or are untrustworthy but mostly it's out of survival.


We're all fighting to survive and may do some desperate things.



Even YOU !

Life's hard ,baby.

A woman that gave you 7 years of her life just for dating should be applauded.


Don't let Nairaland boys mess with your head.

baralatie:

Trusting a woman is never a bad idea!

But not been able to execute a personal plan in life.is a terrible idea.

You can date a lady and at the time of temptation it means nothing because of choices that would be made.

Now how would you feel.if you found out that the new relationship she is in may probably fail in less than a year because of unfulfilled promises

Everyone is battling with one form.of.temptation or another.

So.forgjve,forget and move on with your new found freedom

uthlaw:
rubish talk.... trust a woman for what?

baralatie:
Nonsense..........trust a man for what?

uthlaw:
I no pity you....e go shock you!

baralatie:

I no pity you....e go shock you

uthlaw:
i just de advice you...me na chop n go I de do....who love help!

Queenslander:
Heyy guy, you should be ashamed of yourself,. Can't you see, she has seen the light? God has finally picked her call,. You should be happy for her,. Instead of trying to get back into her life.. so you can come in and pour sand sand into her golden opportunity.. so she's smart for blocking your number.. the period she was with you, was she able to get a good job? Only God when? just delete her number from your cell asap. and move on with your life.. you aren't for her. because you are rather selfish, stone hearted, insensitive and grossly irresponsible.. I'm sorry, buh it has to be said,. Because I highly doubt if you have a conscience. Jeez, I'm so angry rn.. how in God's earth were you able to date (deceive) her for seven good years without actually popping the question and turning her into a wife,. is beyond me . Maybe perhaps when she gets to menopause? Haba Op, fear God! Smh, well, I also have to blame her. For sticking with you for that long,. she should have actually told you to your face or communicated to you directly that it's over.. before proceeding to blacking you out of her life for good! I mean, Good riddance to bad rubbish, 7 years is not 7 months.. after all the sacrifices and commitment she has made and invested in the relationship.. what did she get in return? Wasted years.. you know what? you should be thrown into a solitary confinement for seven years,. So you know exactly what it really feels like to be held down for seven years without progressing or moving forward!! What nonsense!![/s]

baralatie:

I just de advice you....one day bush meat must catch the hunter

smartsmith0907:
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You're saying trash as in real bollocks

uthlaw:
i just de advice you...me na chop n go I de do....who love help!