₦airaland Forum

Fulaman198:
I know it's meant to be comical, but I think it's to take a jab at the Nigerian men making fools out of themselves marrying Oyibo women right?

omw this is so ironic cos when I saw that pic I thought the same thing

onila:
GO THE THE GYM AND STOP HATING!

you are such a character lol

NinaNigeria:
i think de problem wit de ones who complain here on nl is bcoz dey ran away frm their home poverty and wen down south in search of greener pastures, only to find dat dey wer already too much and wer starting to irritate us wit deir wicked ways. So dey come here to vent. Whereas wit me, i found dat naija is not saturated wit southies, and we come here having our own wealth. So wen dey see a foreinger in deir nation, coz we r nt too much and r nt doing shit on deir streets dey dey shit in ours. Dey realy treat us good. Dey realy realy treat us like royalty hey. M even thinkin of sending my house girl down south. To learn proper catering and house work in one good school i know in sandton. So dat she can look after my house properly. Coz so far she cooks shit. So i dnt allow her to cook for us, i also wana help her family financialy and i want her to go back to school and b somebody in society. Maybe she can learn thru correspondence and i wil help her study. Coz de girl is a total doof, and her english scares me. I dnt want someone who speaks like dat around my 3 year old. So i have a lot to teach her. Bt either dan dat, de ppl here r realy realy good to me. Even de female friends i have made. Dey r good to me. I havnt made any male friends coz m scared of my hubby and i know how he wud get, even if i just made 1 male friend. So i avoid trouble by stayin away frm men hey. Lol, except for business purposes of course

This is a very nasty thing to say about someone. You do know that not everyone is educated and English is not their first language. You can also find such people here in SA so saying such KAK about another individual is uncalled for because mam your English ain't all that either to be honest with you. You sound very condescending. It's funny how people complain about what other people say about them yet they say the most terrible stuff

Vanquay:
V0lv0 what's good girl, lemme.holla atchu

lol hello. How are you?

Decker:
@Onila, I think you are mrcork would make a good couple. Both of you share similar traits.

Funny enough I have had this feeling that they are both the same person. Anyways mrcork is funny but can be annoying sometimes

Lol even though this is a fake article it made me laugh.
Ghanaians sure love their fufu. I miss my people and I miss some good ol original pounded Fufu

@ Jiggamangh come and see this. I just can't

flightz:
Lola Rae, is that you?

how did you know

IamforGod:
So ur mother's state is where u come from abi?

I was simply telling you her mix. It's not about mothers state versus father's state. It's not a competing and in this day and is kinda primitive. She is biracial and that's what she is.

You do know that Lola Rae for example her father is British and her mother is Ghanaian. But she was born in Nigeria and she claims Nigeria too. So according to your interpretation she is White and British

IamforGod:
She's nt eeven ghanian she's lebanese!



Oga o

labanese father, Ghanaian/Liberian mother

easzypeaszy:
hmmmm if u're a teacher u mst flog..u say I shld nt touch any child n a child now hit d head of ur child on wall n blood start goshin out so I shld spare d boy abi until he kil pikin for my class...if u dnt flog my sistr effectv teachin wl nt tak place..jst folow d rules of flogin lik hit on d hand lik five stroke..remember u hv lots of chldrn in class n if u dnt use kane u scare dem dey wl nvr I say nvr tak u serious..even u dat gave birth to d chld flog d child wen he's wrong nt to talk of teacher...na craze dey worry dat lady

The child can be expelled and disciplinary action can be taken. The deed is already done so what would flogging him do? What if in the process you also cause blood to spill out of his head? As a mature adult tit for tat is not right. If someone stabs you in stomach must I now stab him in the stomach

That is why the police is there to deal with you and why there is a jail because if I had to stab you and kill you in process then I myself would be sent to jail

Prinzofparis:
have you schooled abroad probably at the tertiary level ? compare African students performance is all aspects with their foreign counterparts and see the difference. You cannot teach well and deep without discipline. Though there is a level of discipline but it should be instilled by the school and teachers. some kids just distract other s repeatedly...if such a child is sent home every time, that doesn't stop such a child from affecting and influencing others whose parent don't have time for handling school reports every time.
in summary, there are different types of schools...select the one you think best fits your child....

as for me I am in support of using cane and other disciplinary measures to caution a child who knowingly, intentionally and repeatedly misbehaves. if my child misbehaves at home, I am the child's teacher at home, I will discipline my child my own way...but if my child misbehaves in school....pleeeeeease dear teacher, you are my child's parent and mentor in school, do what you must to help shape my child into the right personality... that's your job!!!...not just book, pen and paper.....but morals, ethics, punctuality, speed, respect, teamwork, and most importantly integrity. ......my view tho.

So in your mind you believe that those African students who did well and are doing well is because of teachers beating them. So when teachers beat children they develop extraordinary brain cells? If that is the case them every student the teacher beats should be a genius

Do you ever wonder why most immigrant that go to foreign countries end up doing better then the locals there? It's simply because those that go abroad have a purpose. They do not have the same opportunities as the locals so they work extra hard because they know they have to do that to make it. This is why you will find that most times you do better than the locals because you have more drive. So then you will feel that SA are lazy, Ghanaians are lazy, Kenyans are lazy, AA are lazy. That's just how it is.

I will admit that some African countries generally place education as high priority and we push our children to excel no matter what. This is the drive that they take with them wanting to be the best they can be. It's not about beating the child black and blue or the teacher showing discipline. More likely than not studious kids hardly misbehave. They are usually the goody too shoes so I doubt the teacher would even be hitting them at all

Ilekeh:
Ehnnn......

In a country where it takes a village to raise a child, they've forgotten that some villagers are too abusive and evil.

These teachers barely get paid and are frustrated. They take their frustration out on innocent kids or kids. Imagine, some teachers may even hate the kid's parent and start beating the child endlessly.

Teachers are frustrated in Nigeria. I wouldn't leave my children with such frustration. Because it's not their (teachers) kids, they have no limits.

Even if you teach your children at home, kids will be kids. Give them non-physical punishments.

People must understand that it's in a kids nature to misbehave sometimes. Thats what makes them kids. I was a kid once too and I misbehaved. My parents didn't beat me black and blue and I came out alright. Beating does not mean that the child will be am upright and moral citizen. This is why even some pastors children are the Devils themselves. What you teach your child from a young age is what they will take.

If they misbehave so bad that you feel you want to hit them then that's only a parents decision.

JiggamanGh:
I agree there's punishment and there's abuse and some of these straight up abuse kids in school.

Exactly and that's why some of these kids grow up to be rebellious, angry and abusive

i honestly dunno why people are having such a headache about Damilolas comment. It's her child and she was talking about her kid personally.

Those that want their teachers to be beating their children it's up to them.

Some of us don't want that and we should be free to decide what happens to our own children.

abbey621:
This is why every household should have a strong man. These women are incapable of raising a child properly. These women are often emotional and unable to tell the difference between a teacher disciplining a student or one abusing them.

If I told you who hit me the most in my younger days it was actually my mother. My father did not hit me but I was afraid of him more. It's nor about emotions. You as a parent are responsible for your children's discipline. If you can't do that then don't become a parent because it's not supposed to be a teacher that should install discipline into your child. When your child leave that teachers class then what?

Ilekeh:
She's absolutely right.

There's no way to much how much beating or discipline Nigerian teachers should give a child.

There was one case like that about how a Nigerian teacher killed a student with beatings.

You're getting paid to educate.

If a child misbehaves, send him outta the school.

I don't have to worry about this ish since none of my kids will be sent to Nigeria. If so, I fot kill the teacher myself.

The sad part is not everyone commenting are teachers. It seems most people find it okay to beat other people's kids whether it be maids, family members etc. One needs to be very careful the company of who they decide to leave their kids. I weep for Nigeria and all other Africans who still believe in this primitive practice that it's okay for teachers to beat your children.

What if they use chairs to beat them. This can lead to abuse

[quote author= post=39648985]yea suspension and dentention is a normal and perfect process some people dont understand that punishment does not necessarily mean flooging , there are other ways of doing that, flogging is a little bit barbaric.[/quote]It is beyond barbaric and it also has psychological issues. If I was a child and I attend a school where a teacher constantly beats me I would not be happy. I would hate school so much and that could even inhibit me from doing my best.

Nowadays you can get some crazy kids. You dunno if they will keep that resentment in them till one day they snap and decide to pay the dear teacher with their own coin.

Parental discipline is different from what teachers are supposed to do. If a teacher wants to beat something then they should become a boxer and beat whoever the hell they want to beat and get paid back in their own coin

JanethEze:
You guys are getting me wrong. I am not against parents floggin their children. I flog my children well and they can't try nonsense with me. All i am saying is that teachers should not flog students because they might injure them!!! You as a parent willknow how best to flog them. Don't you know many nigerian sec school and pri school students have died in the hands of teachers

Exactly. I remember reading a story here about some teacher who slapped a girl and she later developed swollen eyes and became blind. All this would have been avoided if the teacher did the right thing. Those who want or enjoy other people hitting your own kids it's your own palava but you don't need to get upset about other people who don't want others laying hands on their kids. Every one has an opinion or preference.

[quote author= post=39648616]chill Ma'am, you are taking this too far [/quote]Lol this ish has got me high up. I hate such stuff with a passion. I know am going to be one of those mothers you don't mess with. I cannot even hit a relatives child what more someone elses.

If they become spoilt because of their parents it's not the teachers duty to ensure that but the parents. The teachers duty is to teach. If they are misbehaving the is detention, suspension and so many other things that can happen. I know of a boy who used to go beaten so much that he became immune to it. So no matter how much you beat him he never got affected by it anymore and became even more stubborn.

tete7000:
Do teachers just carry canes and beat children for no reason? If a student behaves stupidly he/she gets beating. It is difficult to educate a stupid child. Education involves disciplining too. It is only an illiterate that says teachers should educate without first enforcing discipline.

If the kids misbehave there are other punishments the at they can be given. Worse case even a suspension. Let their parents beat them if they want to beat their own kids. You have no right to hit anyone's kids at all.

Some of these comments shows that Nigerians are sick. It is not up to a teacher to discipline or flog someone else kids. It's up to the parents. In a normal civilized country such an act can even get the teacher suspended.

I agree with Damilola. The day any teacher ever lays hands on any of my kids will be the last day they will lay hands on anybody. Kwasiasem

In this day and age do teachers still beat students

KINGOFJAPAN:
@ bolded
Blasphemy at its peak
You sound pained btw

How exactly am I sounding pained? I am not a Kenyan am just stating a fact. Have you been to Kenya before?

JiggamanGh:
How come is always Nigerians against other countries. Why are Nigerians so hateful towards other African countries.

So you only realized now. Btw Kenyans have always been part of their hated list alongside Ghana and SA. I guess you were not around when all those Naija versus Kenya threads were on. Have you noticed how they bash their complexion as well (typical style) forgetting that the average Kenyan is lighter than the average Nigerian. People don't travel so they just assume what they want to assume.

Then these same people will ask why do other African countries hate us. Smh

MustyDanYaro:
Very true!
The same way Jerry Rawlings is not a Ghanaian name .

Who is Stella Demarcus. I thought that was a Nigerian surname
This man is definitely not a Ghanaian( as in both parents are Ghanaian), he may be a Ghanaian through citizenship if the story is even true at all. Jerry Rawlings is biracial so hence has his dad's surname.

onila:


Ghanaian girls are half devil, half angels

Onila oh Onila

Captainswag225:
sweet sister v0lv0! Let him continue. He thinks that is me. He will soon get banned again

Why should I let the bigot continue. Whether he thinks it's you or not, he has no right posting pictures of people without their permission. It's really distasteful. Can't he 'fight' like a civilized person. So annoying

iamord:
I then it's clear that you are not really observant... Go through the thread and see. You can't find the normal Ghanaians commenting here. Cos they all know the op.. And what he stands for. BTW.. It's a silly post and not to be taken seriously.

Exactly. That guy is a troll of all trolls and the worst part is he is not even a Ghanaian lol.