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Magnoliaa:
Mtcheeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Kposhi kposhi.

If you want to know how hurtful my words are then you should find out what it did to Ishilove

Sometimes it is good. Sometimes it is bad. But with bad word usage you can literarily drive people to the brink of depression or insanity.
I relate quite well with what Burnaboy just did and I also want to say goodbye to the use of harsh words against people not realizing the damage i do instantly.
I apologise to anyone on this forum I have ever terrorized with my words, Ishilove especially,I am truly sorry.

Femi8586:
Simps will say it's not her fault. Or maybe he was not caring enough, that was why she cheated..

If only you could see the dirty things your girlfriend and wife do without your knowledge, you will know it is only God and maybe your parents that truly love you.

I swear down! Trust a woman at your risk o! White or black woman o, I remain single for life and enjoy myself

MozB:
Free the man to go home jare... If him money na fraud money, make una hold all these our politicians

No be EFCC hol am na Interpol send info.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Come to me,all Yee that are Hot and greatly endowed,and I shall make you climax multiple times. Keep loving your husband but you gotta fix your self sister.
Get a man to suck the living daylight out of you,and clip it all with a resounding double round nonstop. Gawd I should retire already..... smoking!

NaijaCoverBlog:
Update From . COM

A Nigerian couple, Dr. Judah and his wife Helen, have welcomed their first child after 28 years of marriage, Reports.

From The Information Gathered By , The baby boy named Jedidah, was dedicated earlier this month at Foundation Faith Church, Salem Family Worldwide in Port Harcourt, Rivers State.

The church admin of Facebook and a friend of the couple, Nwadiuto Ukonu Nwagu shared photos from the dedication ceremony.

"28 years of bareness destroyed by the power of God" the Church As She wrote.

Mrs Nwagu wrote: "Men may not understand how much you've done for us, Oh Lord.
After 28 years, we are here to danceeeeeeeee........with my beloved friend & sister.
Dance time!!!!!! Welcome to Church, Son of Destiny."

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG

Liars!! Una Don go buy/steal pikin . 28 years? Abeg how old una dey marry?

tobechi20:
Do you realize that the fastest way to enter politics is to side with the common man

Oshiomole did it and succeded .
O won't be surprised if he contesses for election 2023

Also the fastest way to become rich by feeding off their ignorance with get rich schemes.

Datedoboy:
Young girls and boys don't be decieved. This is to counteract a post on the front page of this forum https://www.nairaland.com/6818137/body-count-means-nothing-body

Why does your past matter? You cannot value a car that have been used roughly by several drivers in the past and pay high for that car as you would pay for a brand new car.

These girls are trying to twist the law of diminishing returns which is impossible.

Also, can you overlook a serial rapist and entrust him with your daughter because you don't believe in someone's past?

Don't let people who sleep around anyhow make you feel it is cool. Instead of them to feel remorseful, they validate their actions.

Some even say marrying a virgin with bad character is worst than marrying a loose girl with good character just to ridicule virgins. Now tell me where is the good character in sleeping around.

As a young virgin either boy or girl, keep yourselves chaste cos u can easily be like them but people who sleep around can never reverse their virginity in these world again so they want to pressure you to loose yours that's why they come up with every statement to justify their loose morals.

Let them continue. God will judge every word said and actions at his right time if it is good or bad. Stay blessed guys

Correct!! May your days be long and very fruitful on Earth.

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

very mumu talk! Unless no be naija woman you go love,I look forward to the day you go cry come. Naija women?? Very cheap dirty things.

SenecaTheYonger:
Deaths like yours are always satisfying because no matter how many people rally around to help, it still happens. It's almost humanely impossible to prevent

you and your mama wey be ashewo never die first

bukatyne:
How do cheating spouses have such explicit chats with their lovers though?

It beats me also...

KingDash:
bros na sugar mummy I need

who cares? Go and work man,there's no glory in collecting money from a woman.

BiggyB242:
What is to learn?

Exactly what you have seen about women berating their so called loving husbands in a heartbeat,

Chevrolet076:
In most relationship, you're not the only fvcker (or the only person being fvcked), just make sure you're the person who fvcked/is fvcked the most. Accept that and avoid problems in your relationship.

but it's wrong na.

Ofadaman:
Just to throw it out there,

Don't think that because she's planning to have sex with you means that you're better or more virile than her husband, the truth is once you get married ,sex becomes secondary ,the husband sees nothing new, he's seen her give birth, seen her bleed in her period, her fart, smelling shit and all , he's seen it all it no longer excites him, and sex is just chore.

He'd go seek adventure elsewhere, those excitement is all new and inviting to you because it has a taboo vibe of smashing someone's wife. So don't get worked up that you're special, if for anything, you're just an idiot burning time needed to build your future on worthless ventures. Once you're married, you'd see there's no Biggie and no matter how sexy your wife is, sex gets tiring and boring.,and the long for adventure continues.


The truth is bitter.

Oga sabinus,I collected investigation fee to expose this adultrous woman in less than one month.

DavidHarry:
A man after another man's wife is no real man.

IT is an investigation. .. private relationship investigation.

Dreytonisback:
I don't blame the married women who's loose for sure
I only blame the idiottt man who knows that she's a married woman , legally married to a fellow man like him and still go ahead to ruin a happy home all bc he can't control his small di*k

Wetin Dem no go do you , no do another person


Lights up my kpoli in peace

if woman no respect her marriage vows,I go help am break the marriage because men like you wey marry them too mumu.

Lights up my kpoli in satisfaction.

BiggyB242:
That dude is below 28 very immature.

Hahahaha! Read and learn.


Private relationship investigator!

justscorchone:
Indian hemp doesn't make them do this things, it only enhances whatever thought you have prior to smoking, if you are a woman beater or thief it enchances those emotions,if you are an athlete or artist it enhances those talents as well.

Exactly what I already told this guy Abi grammar dey worry am ni?

Truvelisback:
Habits don't define people's characters but smoking of marijuana has negative effect on the health of smokers, mentally and emotionally. I have seen people who had gone mad or act abnormal as a result of smoking marijuana.

Story!

Bellotelli:
Fact... There is this married ex girlfriend that is really on my neck presently..but am not that kind of man.

sorry but every woman is that kind of woman around their exes whether single or married.

Richywiz:
Damn, how will the husband feel if he finds out?

This one caught his wife trying to fcvk me.

Truvelisback:
Bro, i don't smoke.

Well believe me if I tell you habits don't define peoples characters.

Truvelisback:
Be honest. Where u that way b4 u started smoking?

Yes I was. I discovered this wonderful drug helped me view such violence prone moments as times to excise caution and uphold only bodily defense if attacked but never the attacker.

Drella:
When you marry,you must not be annoyed if you catch your wife cheating o!

Hahahaha..in your dreams.

ORIAYO70:
Not all women are slot

This is only a joke

Truvelisback:
It's not always like that. It does not always have to do with parental upbringing or family orientation.

Personally I am more prone to violence when I don't smoke and almost zero chance of violence when I smoke. Explain that.

Truvelisback:
It's not always like that. It does not always have to do with parental upbringing or family orientation.

so why didn't weed turn you into a criminal?

Truvelisback:
I know some guys who were not into criminal acts, immediately they started smoking marijuana, their behaviour changed. They started comitting crimes like stealing,fighting, causing troubles here and there.

Go and check their parental upbringing/ family orientation bro. I am a phycologist to a great extent and I haven't ever seen weed become such a character influencer.And I think weed is too cheap to become an addiction drug. #50x3 wraps ,some places more.

Lost and found!!

Truvelisback:
I said these because from my observations: Idianhemps seems to influence their behaviours negatively or how they behaviour negatively. E.g towards women, stubborness,stealing,rudeness, fighting or some kind of wayward living.

Unless you don't find such behavior among people who have never used Marijuana,only then can it be considered. Unless that, people who don't smoke or drink are also given to such traits. You can only ask if marijuana aggravates personal hidden traits then Yes!! It does.

Truvelisback:
Salut! Nairalande, from my observations, I'm yet to see or i rarely see a marijuana smoker who reasons well or talks normal, yes. Many of these guys i have met, tend to get skoy, skoy.

I bet you should try me first in an intellectual faceoff before you conclude..