Family / Real Reason African/nigerian Wives Don't Want Their Husband's Relatives To Visit by Validcode: 8:10pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
A lot of women in Nigeria don't like it when their in-laws visit for these reasons:
Nigerian in-laws often display a sense of entitlement when they come around. They start behaving as if all the things in the house belongs to the man. Even when wife is a graduate and earns more than husband.
Claim right and take things without permission.
Never want to cook or clean up after themselves.
They only come to your house for extended stays when you're better off than them. If you marry a man when he was broke and struggling, they'll start coming for extended visits when things become rosy.
Most of their visits are fact finding mission. Husband's nephew visits, give report to his mom(sister in law) , she forwards to the rest of the family. This is why many women say they don't want anyone to invade their privacy.
Please feel free to add yours. 9 Likes |
Romance / Re: She Is Still In Ss2 And She Want's To Get Married, What Should I Do? by Validcode: 5:01pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
You shouldn't marry an underage person. |
Family / Re: Will I still be loved? by Validcode: 4:56pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: Wife Finds Out About Her Husband Sidechick, Gather Her Friends To Beat Her Up by Validcode: 5:55pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Beating the sidechic is a way to tell the man, "I'm coming for you". It passes a message to the man. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Amotekun: Think of Yoruba people outside your domain — Group to South West Govs by Validcode: 5:35pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
The way people from other tribes have been talking about Amotekun, you'll think that Amotekun is being set up to kill non Yorubas without asking questions. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I Regretted Choosing The Wrong Girl In Our Shop by Validcode: 5:40pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
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Politics / Re: Hilarious Response When You Search Nigeria.com On Google by Validcode: 5:39pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Unfortunately, it's true. Nigeria itself is under construction. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Validcode: 5:30pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Looks like he has a problem with side chic 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Naija Lady Accuses Estranged Hubby Of Cheating, Later Apologizes, Reconciles Him by Validcode: 8:26am On Dec 29, 2019 |
Really strange, disgraceful, quite unusual. |
Travel / Re: Lagos Government Begins Removal Of Roundabouts Responsible For Traffic Problems by Validcode: 7:42am On Dec 29, 2019 |
RamseyBolton: Lagos should find a way to stop the troops of illiterate hausas and Nigér people who troop into the state and are ready to sleep anywhere in the name of their hustle. Also something has to be done about those Ebonyi people selling gala, rat poison and fake products. Complete nuisances Which one is Ebonyi people selling gala...? |
Politics / Re: In Biafra, The Two Most Powerful Men After Ojukwu Were Ibibios by Validcode: 1:17pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Can there be a Biafra without people dying? |
Jokes Etc / Re: Ever Since We Started Dating, All I Get From Her Is FART, FART by Validcode: 4:27pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
She's trying to twerk. |
Gaming / Re: Please Where Can I Buy Baby Toys In Carton Prizes? by Validcode: 4:26pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
my2chains: Hello nairalanders,
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i want to start this toy business but i don really know where to buy them in bulk,
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someone here maybe looking for this as well please lets help a brother
my friend told me to go check around ikeja or maybe lagos island
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Career / Re: Start Writing Your Date In Full Format Come 2020 by Validcode: 2:27pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Very necessary 127 Likes 9 Shares |
Romance / Re: It’s A Damn Shame That Same Sex Marriage Is Still Illegal In Nigeria by Validcode: 2:26pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
Of all things that are missing from this country, it's same sex marriage that you're looking for? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Meet The Fulani Man Who Became The New Emir Of Lagos (pics) by Validcode: 11:50am On Dec 27, 2019 |
frankdoz: This plan by Yoruba Muslims to subjugate Yoruba Christian minority is baffling. I call Yoruba Christian minority to rise against this Yoruba Muslims tyranny. Where do you people get this Yoruba Muslim, Yoruba Christians from? Yoruba don't divide or discriminate against each other based on religion. Most extended Yoruba families I know have both Muslims and Christians. 1 Like 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Wow!!! Photos Of Ooni Of Ife Walks In A Fashion Show by Validcode: 9:01pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
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Celebrities / Re: 'if You Must Engage In 'polygamy', Have Some 'poly-sense' - Reno Omokri by Validcode: 8:53pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Yoruba liken polygamous home to psychiatric hospital. Ile olorogun: ogba were. |
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Romance / Re: Please Help Me by Validcode: 7:24pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
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Education / Re: Video Of Kano Uni Of Science And Technology SUG President With Many Bodyguards by Validcode: 7:09pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
jumper524: Oga carry your mumuness comot for here, you claim to be intelligent but your IQ level has been belittled by sentiment. Common sense didn't tell you to ask veritable question if truly they we're his body guards or they we're just appointed for an emergency situation or of that's trulky the SUG president of the school, Nepotism and bigotry has blinded your reasoning into tinking negatively in all ramifications. Check out kano state with their illiteracy, they are more developed, exposed and educated than whatever state your from..
Ingrates like you would come online and insult northerners all day but still ass lick and fear them when you face each other bloody hypocrates. Yinmu |
Celebrities / Re: Big Show, Tiwa Savage Gaves Yemi Alade Friendly Hug At Her Concert by Validcode: 10:35am On Dec 24, 2019 |
How can you write "gaves"? |
Education / Re: Who Is A Teacher In Lagos State District 1 And Wants To Come To District 5? by Validcode: 10:34am On Dec 24, 2019 |
If she doesn't get someone to swap with her, she should get a room self contain close to her workplace. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Alaafin Of Oyo’s First Wife, Abibat Marks 81st Birthday (Throwback Photos) by Validcode: 9:55am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Aged like fine wine. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: American Best Rapper, Megan Stallion Rain Money On Naked Strippers At Lagos Club by Validcode: 3:55am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Kingpee2: Been wondering if Dangote ,Otedola and Bill gates will ever do this kind of lifestyle ... They can't... they work very hard for their money. Their wealth didn't come miraculously. 8 Likes |
Romance / Re: Tell Me What I Don't Know, Lady Bare Her B**bs Online. PHOTOS by Validcode: 3:50am On Dec 24, 2019 |
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Education / Re: Video Of Kano Uni Of Science And Technology SUG President With Many Bodyguards by Validcode: 3:47am On Dec 24, 2019 |
aminu114: are u trying to say you value a borrowed thing over your own thing? so now its a shame to study and write well in your own language? why would i boast about speaking other peoples language fluently when they dont even bother to know a word in my language? so anyone who cant write well and speak fluent english is an illiterate? #shameOnYou for this your preposterous post This is the response northerners always give when called out about their inability to speak English. When I was serving the mumu children I was teaching used to tell me this nonsense. I used to ask them, how do you expect us to communicate since I am not from the north, do not understand your language and not interested in learning it because I was forced to come here all in the name of NYSC? English language is the bridge that cuts across all ethnic groups in Nigeria. It's compulsory to speak English if you stay in Nigeria.
Outside the house with people of other tribes, I speak fluent English but when you come to my house, I speak my dialect like an illiterate person. 2 Likes |
Fashion / Re: Yet To Make Your Christmas Hair? 20 Braids Inspiration To Get You In The Mood by Validcode: 10:47am On Dec 20, 2019 |
You posted two pictures and sent us on errand to get the rest. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: The Truth About Recent COZA Adverts by Validcode: 10:45am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Well said, pastors need to preach more about holiness, without which no man can see God. |
Celebrities / Re: Regina Daniels Shows Off 'Baby Bump' At An Event by Validcode: 2:44am On Dec 20, 2019 |
I'm squinting my eyes trying to find the bump. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Do You Deal With A Woman Like This? by Validcode: 2:37am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Nigerian men have a twisted view of women and marriage. No wonder my mom always insists that her daughter must keep a job however rich the husband may be. You guys treat women like objects. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: We Had Fight Because I Ordered 2 Ladies To Enter My Car by Validcode: 9:40pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Davash222:
Does it matter? The girlfriend is one untrained bitchhh!!! Just imagine!!! So immature. |