daewoorazer:
Most of the times, we guys are very sensitive to the kinda light thrown from the opposite sex (the bad and niggaz from the zanga will relate). This varies from a girl asking us whether we have a girlfriend, calling us, taking us on dates e.t.c.

Not however, there are categories of women you should never consider their acts as green lights, else, you'd end up red-flagged by her.

1. The Nudists: trust me bro, don't ever take it to be that she is into you. You get to her room and you are surprised she is in panties and bra, obviously comfortable around you. Bad news, she doesn't only does that to you, she does it to all her visitor's except for the elderly ones. If you ain't smart in d game, you'd fall for it and make a supposed 'smart move'. This will def land you a dirty slap. Be warned!



2. The Tomboys: you mostly see these girls alone in bars, football viewing centres, or on the pitch of a football match. Also you'd see them swing their arms around guys while walking with dem, or probably hugging every guy in a group of a dozen guys. Don't rush these kinda gals as they are mostly like guys, hence a number of them are lesbians (not always). If you ain't smart, you'd fall for it and you'd definitely crash.



3. Bartenders and Hostesses: these group do theirs professionally. The ethics require them to be extremely nice to clients, hence, a JJC in the game who takes these 'nice' acts as green light is obviously O.Y.O.


Feel free to add yourz

SirMichael1:


The truth is, being friend with a girl you love is risky and will only cause heartaches because she sees you purely as a friend, she can move from her ex to another guy but never to you and that can hurt you so much.

The best thing to do is to relay your feelings to her and if she doesn't see you as a potential-boyfriend, you'll know that you tried.

Now the risk is, relaying your feelings might sever your friendship or might make you her boyfriend. So which would you choose? Being in the uncomfortable friendzone or trying your luck with her.

They've been cases where a guy got promoted to a boyfriend and also cases where they don't.

Goodluck man.

SirMichael1:


Oh! Wait! Huh?! Haaa! She's not even your girlfriend self? Can you imagine!

Dude, I'm sorry but you're far into the friendzone. "You're caring" means you've been relegated 'far', way far into the friendzone. Turn thoughts from relaying your feelings as this may sever the friendship.

Take this piece of advice

pasqal09:
She's saying u as a prospect. Keep u the good work and u might finally score.

SirMichael1:


So what really is your concern as she clearly said you're caring? But wait! When a lady -your girl- says 'you're caring', dude just rethink your life because she doesn't necessary mean it like the way you take it. It's like saying you're nice but the upgraded version.

Quick question aite? Have you given her reasons to doubt your love for her? If no, then be careful as she might be looking for an excuse to breakup. Ladies are damn smart and know how to cover their tracks so you might never know if she still sees her ex.

If she's got nothing for her ex, why then does she compare you with him? If she's scared that you might not love her, when then does she compare you with her ex since the relationship was a failure? Think! There's more to this than you can fathom but you can grasp some.

If the memory of her ex keep flooding in, then bro I'm really sorry because your relationship is gon' crash except you try to relief her of such memories by overwriting them with yours

SirMichael1:


This is a hunch and you should in no way walk with it. At least not until you're sure.

Your girl is starting to like her ex again, this might be caused by the ex reaching out to her, telling her how much he still loves her and even going as far as saying derogatory things about you. Telling her how bad you take care of her and whatnot.

Now on the other hand, your babe seem loyal for now, although she's starting to like the ex. Comparing you to the good things/character between you and her ex just mean that she's tryna use logic to conquer her emotional feelings for the so-called ex in question. Her brain tells her how much you love her, her brain tells her how better than her ex you were but her heart is starting to fall back in love with ex-boo and usually, the heart wins.

Just try to read her body language, when she compares you, does she look confused, like a bit worried? Does she sulk often while you guys hangout? Check these and more.

Do have a nice day

TheHistorian:
Since It's a gaming thread,let me bare my mind as regards my plight..

I hacked Dream League Soccer 2017 to get more than enough coins but whenever i choose to play online with other players of the world,it refers me to update my DLS app at playstore.

The version is an updated version.

Whoever can help should do well to mention me.

rainerboy1010:
imagine he nonsense
hope they get pregnant same day too

PapiSmith:
Our president is young too jare. It's the stress that made him look older

Dotwillis1:
I decided to post this after seeing So much threads from ladies about been heartbroken, fear of losing their man to someone else and so on.


Okay Girls lets put an end to the needless fighting due to miscommunication, the unnecessary sex-less nights, verbal shut-downs and the rest. Follow this thread as we pour out our mind on some things we want from you in a relationship. So read through and do as we say, and I promise you’ll never see your relationship through the same lens again.

I have very short list here, so I leave the rest for the guys:


1. Respect

Men feel respect as love. So show us some, don't argue, don't insult in return even when he does out of anger.

Moreso, respect our choice and career. If he feels like you disapprove of him or the things that he believes to be integral to who he is as a person, he will have a hard time trusting and loving you. If a girl didn't respect my path or mission in life, then i will find it very difficult to feel anything other than an anxious need to distance myself from her.

2. Praise And Approval

Men have infamously tender egos. We need frequent reassurance about ourselves, our career paths, our sexual prowess, and our attractiveness (among other things).

Let your praise loose. Tell your man exactly what you find attractive about him. Let him know what physical features of his are your favourites. Tell him how attractive you find it when he says something a certain way, when he accomplishes something, or when he takes you on a date. Your praise won’t make him cocky; it will help him feel loved.

3. Sex

Men and women both connect through sex and communication, but generally, women connect better through communication and men connect better
through sex I guess.

So give us sex and don't think he is only all about sex and taking you to be a slut, No. If he reaches across the bed for you, even showing the willingness to embrace him, to kiss him deeply, and to engage him could be
enough to make him feel loved

And this does not mean that men need to have sex with their intimate partners every day in order to feel
connected..

4. Positive Affirmation

All guys want to hear that they are really sexy and good in bed. Just like women, men need to hear that their women are happy with how they look and what they do. It makes them feel appreciated, and it's also a turn on for them. This also plays into being more vocal in bed, which is closer to the top of his list - don't be afraid to scream about how amazing he is.

5. Space

Suffocating a man (either by failing to allow him free time or with overly jealous behaviour) is the fastest way to end a relationship. Men need breathing room in a relationship. We need time for our hobbies, time with our friends, and so on. Let us have our spaces, you don't need to call every minutes to check in, don't be too possessive.

6. Emotional Maturity

A woman who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a man for what she’s feeling, but to share her feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man better understand her will be attractive to a man. How a woman handles her emotions is one of the most important things men look for in a relationship, whether or not to get serious with her.

If she lets her emotions get out of control, this is a big red flag to him.
On the other hand, if she can present her feelings to him in a calm, non-dramatic manner, she will win his respect and make him feel like she’s the kind of woman who will be a real partner to him. He’ll see that she can handle things with a cool head rather than becoming a damsel in distress he has to rescue.


Do you agree with the points stated?



drop ya comments

izzou:

Congrats dude
My dream is to become the President of North Korea

Hope my dream isn't too big?

ChangeIsCostant:
cc; lalasticlala

ChangeIsCostant:
cc; lalasticlala

HungerBAD:
huh?
Why you dey ask after another man wife?

litaninja:
Let's be honest, your friend is an idio.t, the girl friend is brainless, & you the friend, a monkey.
So a girlfriend will pull out my sim card and SD card and throwaway my phone, as a test, or cuz she bought a more expensive phone.
Have you heard of valuable data stored on the device memory before
Have you heard of setting up a device properly and ensuring that it meets needs before rolling over
Have you heard of sentimental attachment to a particlar item
Again, can I ask...is the girl ma.d
I use a slightly older device right now. No, it's not because I cannot afford a newer model, it is because the older suites my needs better.
Beg your foo.lish friend to dump that crap, before he'll get married to her and she'll kill the 4 year old kid they already have because she's pregnant with another baby.
Jeez....where do y'all find these people

fuckingAyaya:
so the other phone go like that

Hades2016:
Seems there is not good and important news in nairaland anymore

refiner:

May I know the diff pls?

Longcucumber:
I know all those things,they are not new to me.
Next pls.
And pls no body should quote me because you are not in my brain.

ButterFrost212:
What's with mustache though

geunik:
I will attach photos. Just that i was sleeping when i updated the post. I have all the pictures in the blog.

stephenduru:
On Thursday January 5,the maiden edition of "Starting The Year With Jesus" an all night praise, prayer,worship & songs ministrations, a brain child of Her Excellency, Nneoma Nkechinyere Rochas Okorocha was held at Hero's Square,Owerri.

While rendering closing remarks,His Excellency Rochas Okorocha decided to dance with the "least" of them who gathered to listen to him.

Little did one know that God designed the program to change the destiny of families: 1.Chijioke,a male child of 17yrs old,a pure water seller whose father is a loader at motor park.

2. Precious Nwaogu,a female whose parents are jobless.

These two were invited by the Governor to dance with him and behold their lives were change soon.

"It is time to appreciate my dance partners.So what can I do for you.."? Okorocha inquires.Noticing they were overwhelmed he said...

" this morning,I feel it in my heart to change your lives just as I will be doing for all IMOLITES from now on.So to each of you I present five hundred thousand naira cash making it one million naira,your lives can never be the same again, congratulations"

cc; Lalasticlala,mynd44

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/01/rochas-okorocha-splashes-n1m-on-pure.html?m=1

Lionbite:
Just stay where you are Lalasticlala is on his way