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Omenlon:
Charity begins at home. You can start with yourself asp. Talk is cheap.

I bet, you didn't read what was posted. You just jumped in to write thrash! Óde!

No 43... I represent St Patrick's College, Ikot Ansa, Calabar. Spaco oo, Great Patrician!

Sultanofpiglets:
Nigeria's Oldest Secondary School
https://www.nairaland.com/1380969/31-oldest-secondary-schools-nigeria


(1) Baptist Academy, Lagos : 1855
(2) CMS Grammar School, Lagos: 1859
(3) Methodist Boys High School, Lagos : 1878
(4) Methodist Girls High School, Lagos : 1879
(5) Hope Waddell Training Institute, Calabar: 1895
(6) Saint Annes School, Ibadan : 1896
(7) The old Wesley college, Elekuro (now Wesley college of science, Ibadan) : 1905
(cool Abeokuta Grammar School, Ogun : 1908
(9) Kings College , Lagos : 1909
(10) Alhuda College, Zaria : 1910
(11) Ijebu-Ode Grammar School, Ogun : 1913
(12) Eko Boys High School, Lagos : 1913
(13) Government Secondary School, Ilorin : 1914
(13) Government College Katsina-Ala : 1914
(14) Etinan Institute, Etinan, Akwa Ibom: 1915
(15) Ondo Boys High School, Ondo : 1919
(16) Baptist Boys High School, Abeokuta : 1923
(17) Methodist College, Uzuakoli : 1923
(18) Dennis Memorial Grammar School, Anambra: 1925
(19) Queen's College, Lagos: 1927
(19) Ibadan Government College, Oyo State founded in 1927
(19) Barewa College, Zaria, founded in 1927
(19) Government College Umuahia found in 1927
(23) St Gregory's College, Lagos : 1928
(24) Aggrey Memorial College, Arochukwu : 1931
(25) Igbobi College, Yaba : 1932
(26) St. Teresa’s College Ibadan : 1932
(27) Christ the King College, Onitsha, Anambra :1933
(28) Christ's School, Ado Ekiti : 1933
(29) Holy Rosary College (HRC) Enugu founded: 1935
(30) Government Secondary school Owerri : 1935
(31) Edo College, Benin City : 1937


See Authentic list.. and verifiable..

Stop posting fake news..
Any School after 1940 is not applicable.

Thunder fire you. St Patrick's college Calabar, 1934 is not on your list and you're calling it the authentic list? Odē!

TimeManager:
Coward Ajaero, he can only bark against FG to score cheap political points. Flex your muscles on state governors and lets see if they won't remove your teeth. Ajaero has turned into a motivational speaker.

-Kiss the truth!

You are just as useless as the 'G' in gMELINA!

To say those Marian market revenue collectors are heartless, is just an understatement. Severally, I watched them mess those poor traders up while the so called government look the other way

TimeManager:
I pray FG approved the 494k, we will see who suffers most. Let your hate fuels you to keep pushing labour.

-Kiss the truth!

Till when we get there. Gabon is paying 400+k, Equatorial Guinea is paying above 300+; why do you think Nigeria cannot pay?

TimeManager:
Abia state can't pay the old 18k to its workers, much less the current 30k. Can't you see much sufferings in Abia if the new minimum wage is effective?

-Kiss the truth!

Not because they can't pay but because the will power is not there. Just stay tuned, and watch

TimeManager:
Ajaero is unpopular, if he was popular, people would willingly follow him and there'd be no need to forcefully push workers out of their office. In Jos, some NLC workers enforcing the strike were beaten up and got injured in same manner he was beaten in Imo state.

-Kiss the truth!

The most useless post, today. How much is your father's pension/salary?

Abeg o; Boko boys, make una no mind wetin the yeye man talk o. Na play!

A total Fiasco! Abysmal, visionless, anti people, and catastrophic!

When I heard the way he was introduced earlier today in Port Harcourt,I knew something was in the offing!

Just like he said it! It's in public space with a very different caption!

Biodun556:
The 58000 naira is basic salary excluding allowances

I really want to understand this thrash you're writing. I have something to tell you

That is a very good news. Maybe, he would start picking my call; and luckily, pay me my money.

timilehin007:
I'm not surprised...they are peculiar to that and doing hard drugs in the east...
As south west is peculiar to skull mining and internet fraud
The north is peculiar to banditry and terrorism..
The whole nation is just in a mess ...
The south south are peculiar with militancy and dangerous cultism activities
I no pick side ...all the tribes for Nigeria bad and all in a big security mess..

What a dull brain! Go through this your spewed crass, again

LegendHero:
What is the difference between your wicked God and their own wicked God?

Your own God instruct Israel to bomb children and devour them just like the other terrorist God instruct them to kill with promise of 74 virgins.

I think they need to concentrate millions of damaged Nigeria religious folks in a camp and mask the normal among us from interacting with you Christian terrorists and Muslim terrorists.

Leave God, out of it; this is the best way I can explain it to you

XploraBen:
The U.S. use to be world police, but it's not so anymore.
If World War 3 ever happen, even the U.S. will feel the heat because as they are targeting places in other countries, other countries too will be targeting U.S. bases and possibly places inside the U.S.

You're just typing thrash! They never made noise about these B-2 Spirits, until today! The US, is a million miles, away from those countries you think, have powers. Take this to the bank!

Malroux:
This can only happen in Ibadan.

I don laugh tire. You wicked, ehn!

AllenSpencer:
The reputation of the US is diminishing at a very fast rate. Despite the pro-Palestine protest rocking the US, it’s glaring that the government does not care about its citizens.

The US should know its days of global dominance are numbered. The awareness people now have via social
media is top notch, and their past and present evil deeds are being exposed on daily basis.

The UN itself needs to be scrapped. That’s not democracy! How can a single vote of a country override that of majority.

You just succeeded in spewing thrash! It's like you don't understand how these things work. 100 years to come, NO country on earth, would unseat the United States!

seunmsg:
Dear Betty,

Your husband is dead and your link to Ondo state politics is over. If you are still interested in politics, go back to Imo state and hustle with your people. Leave Ondo state politics alone for the people of Ondo state. You had your time and it's over. This is Lucky's time. Let the governor of Ondo state be.

I just wonder how your life has been like. Pessimist, sadist, egocentric, just name them; I see all these attributes in you!

I dey come from Calabar o. Welcome to the fold.

Your mother in law is very wicked. My own dry fear me like plague! Just confront both of them

Yesterday would have been my last day in that church. But we have been so brainwashed by these businessmen, so I bet you'd surely go back on Sunday

brainpulse:
Israel comiting the biggest massacre and genocide in history.

The effect is that they are breeding people with more resilience and vengeance.

You can't just take possession of people's ancestral land/ heritage by force and you tell them how to react or not to react.

A lot of people here needs to pick up history lessons.

In Fela's voice; na animal talk be thatio!

Ahmed0336:
Before some will start condemning Aisha, know that she is the only first lady that had criticized her husband's government even when they were still in power. She did same with villa clinic so what's all the wailing for?

Regarded brains everywhere! Aboki, how do you feel after writing this thrash?

Bronxie:
Hello....this is Nigeria,not the abroad.
Pray the founder is not a calabar man.

Calabar, kee you there. China and Jos, eats more dog, than Calabar.

helinues:
Abi, not even their candidates cos democracy would no longer exists.

That's what election loss can cause, chronic bitterness and hatred for their own country.

Spits on all the enemies of Nigeria

Is there anything on ground called Nigeria? Or we only hear about it on news! Whichever way, you and I, are in this godforsaken contraption, together.

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Bros, my wife dey worry me Wella but she doesn't joke with our sex life. Meanwhile,I still get side chick. Make yourself happy, go get a sidechick. Life is too short and happiness is free!

eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?

Bros, pls don't try the abortion option. Pray for directives from God, Na temptation but you'd conquer!

OloYeOfEgbE:
Calabar doings...

Always different....hahahahahahaha..I need me some calabar babe

You're just dumb; else you should have known the difference between Akwa Ibom and Cross River! Calabar doings, kee you there!

GanagiBitrus:
Moral of the story: Never Mix Business With Pleasure.

Savage!