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timekeeper1:
Mad

Where shud he get them

You dey ask me?

CsRockefeller:
No, I'm not.

K.

Madam don't give him any money. Now you have seen why his business is dwindling. Instead of focusing on making more money he's spending his profit and capital on strange women. The more money he has the wider his harem. A word is enough for the wise

CsRockefeller:
My dear (permit me ma'am) thats a different scenario with this. On that thread, the lady I quoted was giving excuses for his wife, especially talking about "her lacking attention"

I never adviced d man to do away with his wife.

This man has done wrong here no doubt, no excuses, she should withhold the money but divorce shouldn't be on the cards for now without trying to hear from the man. You can see that this is a woman that really loves her husband and is shocked at her findings, meaning he isn't or wasn't like this from the start.

Let's try to fix not break.

You're a hypocrite

bigl:
Wow!

Not trying to derail this thread but madam, u and oga should try and go for check up o! Na simple thing dey delay pregnancy.

Sperm count can read 200 million and still have bad quality and movement.

When all conditions of conception are met, you will get pregnant. It could be something as simple as even u not having enough blood to accomodate conception.

Ordinary folic acid sometimes could solve the issue!

And sometimes, pregnancy could take place but make oga still dey use his 3rd leg to remove it via deep penetration. So be on the look out o!

Every couple deserve to be happy and i ernestly await your testimonies ma!

Thank you so much for your concern dear. We already are on it.

There is more to what you see. Your brother cannot help himself. It seems someone cast a spell on him "efulefu spell" is there anyone you guys had issues with around the time this behavior started? Ask your parents and let me know. We take it up from there.

Jacqueline22:
Tbh 6month is too early to start getting worried
You will receive your own bundle of joy this year.

Amen

Is it only her treating infections? If yes, Bro you've been reinfecting her so both of you should go for a thorough check up.
I've been married since 2018 and we're still waiting to get pregnant. Don't put too much pressure on yourselves please.

Amya:
If she wants to scam her brother directly, and he falls for it, good and fine. If however she wants to use me in her scam, then it cant work.

My MIL usually call me from time to time to inquire in a mocking tone if I'd finally gotten the supposed one i allegedly paid for. When i tell her no, she'll be like my daughter wanted to help you but you refused.. She's been a bit chill now when the co-wife's own busted though. It was even from her i heard they'd paid for my co-wife and the job didnt come through. Her money is it sef.

Buhahahahaha
I laugh in chinese

Hmmmm. All I can say is. We didn't have a budget on so many things. All in all we where happy.

How can you be earning 405k and have just 2m as savings. Oga/madam your mouth is wide. Adjust yourself o.

I don't know. Ask people that have died before.

She might be an obanje.
Or your uncle has obanje.


I've heard stories of people getting married and someone is beating them every night and warning them to leave their said spouse alone.

Both of them know what the real problem is just remove your mind from their issues

He might be dyslexic

Grand parents that you don't even need to invite them or call them. They already have their insider around you. Once you give birth they start calling all their friends, enemies and acquaintances to spread the good news. You will still be in the hospital and be receiving calls from even people you don't know. And this one refused to call his daughter in-law or check up on his grand child. Okay o.


Op just in case he is still waiting for you to tell him yourself, please pick your phone and call him. Say you know your husband has told him already but you still feel you should tell him yourself. That he shouldn't be angry you just wanted to regain your energy small before you call him specially.


Na wah!!!!

Klass99:
I read her post and didn't see or interpret it in my mind, as her glorifying herself for having a male child.

What I understood is that, her mother in-law was gearing up to find another wife for her hubby, in the event that she has a female child. Her saving grace was the fact that she had a male child.

My understanding. If she didn't birth a male child, her marriage would have been over, by the forces of in-laws.

Thank you. If there's anyone who should keep a grudge it's the daughter in-law and not even the mother. Imagine.

adontcare:
even at that, it is wrong to transfer hatred to an innocent child cos u had issues with d parents. Nobody is painting anyone bad here. If u see an act that shows wickedness, u should know. Whether what u think am glorified thru my moniker, still I don't care

You have every right to be angry at anyone who hits your under 2 year old kid. Don't mind trolls. They're trying to get you angry. Since you have seen that the woman doesn't like you. Stay on your lane and pray very well for your children. If they can't get you they will try to get your children

TrollPolice001:
Who ask you??
I know women like you because you feel you've given birth to a son the whole world should bow at your feet.
Who knows if the woman was reprimanding your son for being naughty you termed it another thing.
God help men

You're a sad person.

roughdiamond:
Happy Birthday � mate

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...awwwn. Roughy... Thanks honey

fairygeh:
Congratulations in advance sis.From your lips to God's ears

.Amen. thanks sweetie

Genset:
If it is sex u re talking about in terms of status, we only did it twice with protection.

OK. Please go and buy something nice with your money. Don't mind goody two shoes people. You didnt do anything wrong

wendixx:
From you lips to God's ears. So shall it be for you in Jesus name

Amen!!!!

Genset:
I was never in talking terms with him. He texted me. I don't have his number anymore sef but i know it by heart. That's why i recognized the number immediately.

Don't mind them, you did nothing wrong. It's a gift. But just like someone said, check your status first before you spend.

Bodydialect57:
And God will grant you your heart desire in Jesus name. Amen

Amen. Thanks love

Mariangeles:
Happy birthday to you.
I pray that God grants you your heart's greatest desire

Thanks love. This means alot to me. I'm grateful

kingemaker:
Happy birthday !

Awwwn. Thank you I'm grateful. This means allot to me

Don't marry him. Not because of the house, but because he's too laid back. At 35 he's not thinking of ways to better his life. 30k cannot pay antenatal fees. Except your sister is ready for farm work.


House in the village is cheap. With 30k he could get at least 2rooms. In fact, saying he doesn't know where to relocate to is a red flag. No future ambition. As in.. Waaaaaaaaaaaaah.

Acidosis:
We don't have a lot of info to judge anyone. The man earns his own money, right? He's spending on rent, food, etc., while the wife do nothing but save towards buying a car for her mother? If this is the situation, the guy should simply withdraw his "services" so wifey and her mother can feed and house each other.

The mother is responsible though. The very fact that she called her son-in-law to show appreciation tells a lot.

You're not sure of the scenarios. Besides this here is a bad advice.

See thread na. When we had sane people on nairaland

Rogosa:
The feeling ni

It seems you're too proud o. Or all the money in your akant would disappear once you call her aunty or big sis. Besides you're youruba you should even be calling her mummy sef. My dear age na just number o.

Mozino007:
what is the dream interpretation of when you n your wife travelled out of country m later came back after some days!?

I wouldn't know my dear. Pray about the good aspect. Tell God you receive his blessing of traveling abroad with your wife. That He should make it come to pass.

Rogosa:
Hi everyone,
I have been having issue with this for a while. I don't know if it is proper to call your wife's elder sister "Aunty" or "Sister so and so" even though you are much older than her.
Can one call such by her name without putting the respective adjective or suffix?

Mature mind pls.

I call everyone in my husband's house aunty and uncle. Even the ones I'm at least 5yrs older than. It will not remove anything from my body plus It didn't make me grow shorter or thinner or them fatter and bigger. No one forced me to do that I choose to. Its has a way of keeping me conscious that these are people I need to handle delicately, I cant treat them anyhow like I'd do my own siblings because I don't know what will hurt their feelings or make them happy.


For national peace mbok.