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All I have to say is, when you finally decide to go with your mothers bidding please inform the innocent girl you're dating on time that the relationship is over so she can move on.

UNRULY:
but don't you think he (God) is trying to kill you?

God doesn't waste. He says He'll satisfy me with long life nothing can change it. Psalms 91:16

AndSunGorilla:
Only you? You need one year of fasting and praying.

My brother, I've come to understand that my life is different. A lot of people don't understand me but it is well. May God give me the grace to continue in prayers and Thanksgiving.

frank41:
Dear God is real and his marvelous works are real.

Yes He is

Do court and traditional. Same day.

Why? But that is his Choice

kingxsamz:
News flash.... Even those who believe in God are dying horribly daily.
Belief in something isn't a protection card, neither is disbelief.

I have a right to my belief so do they. There would be no conflict of beliefs if we are not in same space.

Mizwisdom:
He's looking for a house help with benefits. Why will a bachelor request for a girl instead of a boy?

Not necessarily. Not every man is like that o sis. I know some very lazy boys when it comes to chores. They can hustle bad bad for money but can't lift a spoon. Those ones would pay anything to keep their house spotless and meals cooked.

Yes
From almost being kidnapped with my younger brother on our way to school (same man was caught in the act trying to kidnap a child some years later) can never forget his face.

To having an almost ruptured appendix. My saving grace was that pus covered the spot.

To being a victim of Fulani highway robbery attack.

To a ghastly accident at Kabba junction (came out scratch free)

Plus other ones I can't mention. See, I stay far away from people who say there is no God. I've experienced things for this my young age wey be say i go come out speechless anytime I remember I still get shivers.

God I thank you for my life. It's a privilege to still be here.

Chai. I didn't know him o

megatran:
I am still looking for a maid. I may consider in house maid and it would be a 30day salary scale. if you are interested in starting as soon as possible. send me a WhatsApp message or call 08152663216.

I don't know why no one has showed up yet. Does it mean there are no awaiting university students in uyo that are willing to raise money for school? Nobody wants work again abi?

What does it mean to dream of drinking palmwine

Children of anger, una weldone

fashionale:
Different folks, different strokes.
For Nigeria here;
Every married man should always differentiate between nuclear family and extended family. I think the man sidelined his wife way too much. This is also her house for crying out loud. The kitchen is very important for every woman. It's thier entitlement which you do not deprive them.
And I think there is more to this story than what we have read. They have already had plans to throw the wife out of the house prior to their arrival.

I dey tell you. I'm sure she contributed more and bought almost everything in that house. This is a new marriage for crying out loud. Who goes for medical check up with her son, his girlfriend and another relative to a newly married couples home? Who does that oooooo. You see some hypocritic people in nairaland that can never say the truth even if you use it and customise contact lens for them, na ogun go faya all of them. Tueh!!!

Your friend should be grateful everything is happening early. If she has mind let her move on with her life. Thank God she still has her job.


Ops friend if you are reading this, please rent a self contained apartment and start your life afresh. Statistics has shown that Nigerian men of these days even preffer to marry someone that has been previously married so you will see another husband even before you say Jack. Nothing reach to kill yourself about o. Carry army and go pack all the properties in the house if you want to do agidi but I'd advise you to walk away quietly.

Millenniumlady:
The man just played himself he'll live to regret the cause of his actions.......how dare you take side With your mother when i'm your wife which automatically makes me your new mum ......Ladies never you marry a guy that's so close to his mum if you want a successful marriage.

What kind of talk is this one? I hope it's sacarstic abi?

SweetCunt97:
All your savings for rent nkor?

I'm a lady and I went through d lockdown without touching 1kobo of my savings. Mind you, no man or father gives me one naira. So people using lockdown as an excuse eh, should sit up.

And people should stop spending anyhow during Christmas and starting all over in January, That Shii is Getting Old abeg.

This is not a kind thing to say
Op truthfully me sef don't know what to advise you o.

She will walk. No pressures woman.

My mom said I was her laziest child, others started walking at 7months while I did at 1.3 months. Now I'm the Ajala wakadugbe of the clan.

Although Yam, oil, knife all belong to the maker, man can change his destiny through will power. May the work of our hands bring us all the good things of life. Amen!!!

Sepsis:
I don’t exactly mean that. But I hate to be threatened with a woman leaving a relationship due to infidelity. Heavens won’t fall

But you're threatening her. I'm sorry for your wife. It's only God that knows how unhappy you must have made her with your stinky attitude. I've read everything you typed from the first page to here and I'm disgusted by your personality and attitude. Do you know what it takes to give birth and nurse a child? Do you know how much a woman needs to produce quality milk? You're just a selfish SOB and I pray no one I know marries someone like you. So, since she has become a *curse* to you after getting fat what steps did you take in order to turn it into a blessing? I pray someone else appreciates your wife and take her off your hands. You said getting a replacement is just a choice abi? Oya na, let's see you go get that perfect woman who wouldn't add weight and be fast about it. Mtchwwwwww.


Why una dey beg am sef?

DonroxyII:
Was was just recognised...
I'm sorry Ma'am!

It's fine

DonroxyII:
And u decided to be doing nothing ... Haba ... Not even your own start up business .. same way u start up ur dissertation..... Dear lord.

Keyword: *was*

I don't have the energy to argue with or prove anything to you.

No. I was at home after my masters o. I was at home my guys.

slashthroat:
I will like to sponsor your remaining education but the naija life has made me not to trust people i see real life talk more of strangers online

Work hard brother you will weather the storm

Since you can't trust humans. Don't give him money, why not empower him. Since he's a student please buy him

Photocopier, printer and one all-in-on desktop. (London used are cheaper)
Give it to him as a gift so that he can set up his life in school and at least pay his fees.

I don't have such funds, I'd have gladly done that.

Thank you for considering him. Hugs


PS. He will use it to set up a business center.

Lekan239:
the only place I have is my room in school, I have told her severely that she should leave, even if it's staying with me in school, I don't know maybe she's afraid of starting afresh, she's is recovering now and the lockdown is still the only issue keeping me in this House

Take her to school. She can be cooking and selling to students in front of your lodge. People will always eat.

nnamdibig:
I understand you. The reason I said so is to avoid being blackmailed with it later in life.
To avoid stories like "I am not the biological father", "My own biological children comes first", "it's you that I love not your child", "take the child to her biological father".

like I said, if he loves the child naturally, fine. if he choose not to fine too but you won't be bordered because you are already taking care of the child with your business.

Nnamdi which kain advice be this?

Giving birth to twins boys is the best feeling ever. I'm grateful to God for his ever ending mercies right from conception, pregnancy and then the birthing itself. He has been faithful.


This is part of my thanksgiving speech during their dedication. We are still waiting in faith.

Tissaia:
Fake he never likes Yar'adua. His types will never like us
They wanted Yar'adua dead and they got it.
Right now they wanted Buhari dead, they never knew anything about Abba kyari but they celebrated his dead they killed sarduana, tafawa balewa, Gen Hassan Katsina and many more

Praise be to Allaah.
Allaah has stated in His Book that the kuffaar bear enmity towards us and they would not spare any effort to cause us harm, and they wish us ill, and they will not be pleased until we follow their way. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“O you who believe! Take not as (your) Bitaanah (advisors, consultants, protectors, helpers, friends) those outside your religion (pagans, Jews, Christians, and hypocrites) since they will not fail to do their best to corrupt you. They desire to harm you severely. Hatred has already appeared from their mouths, but what their breasts conceal is far worse. Indeed We have made plain to you the Ayaat (proofs, evidences, verses) if you understand.

119. Lo! You are the ones who love them but they love you not, and you believe in all the Scriptures [i.e. you believe in the Tawraat (Torah) and the Injeel (Gospel), while they disbelieve in your Book, the Qur’aan]. And when they meet you, they say, ‘We believe.’ But when they are alone, they bite the tips of their fingers at you in rage. Say: ‘Perish in your rage. Certainly, Allaah knows what is in the breasts (all the secrets).’

120. If a good befalls you, it grieves them, but if some evil overtakes you, they rejoice at it. But if you remain patient and become Al-Muttaqoon (the pious — See V.2:2), not the least harm will their cunning do to you. Surely, Allaah surrounds all that they do”

[Aal ‘Imraan 3:118-120]

“Never will the Jews nor the Christians be pleased with you (O Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم) till you follow their religion. Say: ‘Verily, the Guidance of Allaah (i.e. Islamic Monotheism) that is the (only) Guidance.’ And if you (O Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم) were to follow their (Jews and Christians) desires after what you have received of Knowledge (i.e. the Qur’aan), then you would have against Allaah neither any Wali (protector or guardian) nor any helper”

[al-Baqarah 2:120]

Ibn Katheer (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: The words of Allaah, “Take not as (your) Bitaanah (advisors, consultants, protectors, helpers, friends) those outside your religion” mean people other than you, the followers of other religions. A man’s bitaanah (advisors, friends, etc) are his closest friends who know about his private affairs. Then he narrated the report of Ibn Abi Haatim with his isnaad from Ibn Abi’l-Dahqaanah, who said: It was said to ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allaah be pleased with him): There is a slave from the people of Heerah who is literate; why don’t you employ him as a scribe? He said: Then I would have taken a bitaanah from people other than the believers. Ibn Katheer said: This report, along with this verse, indicates that it is not permissible to employ ahl al-dhimmah as scribes in a position of authority over the Muslims where they can become acquainted with their private affairs, where there is the fear that they may disclose them to enemies among ahl al-harb. Hence Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “since they will not fail to do their best to corrupt you. They desire to harm you severely”.

You need help. True Muslims do not have this kind of hate and bile in them. Don't hide behind the Quoran to spew evil. That itself is haram

I can barely understand you

salford1:
Lunch from yesterday.
Jollof, coconut fried rice with flame grilled chicken drumsticks.

Come make I kiss you abeg. Una go teach me how to cook all these meku meku ooo

Hmmmm