₦airaland Forum

JaySterling:
One can easily make money here in the states, send money home to Nigeria and build mansions and buy a lot of properties

Plenty jobs and business to do
Educational opportunities too for those looking to further

Many things mehn

Come and see for yourself

God will bless you for being the only person who is telling us the truth. Imagine others saying cold is too much. Mtchww

Kelvin30286063:
You should not say this. I have 100% control over my family but she's human and she's doing alot for the family especially since it's a big house, we don't have a maid and we don't have kids yet. So forcing her to cook is way over the edge and I won't do that. Unlike many men, food doesn't mean much to me. I just need to fill my belly so I can get to work. And if you think my decision not to force her to cook is a weakness then you don't know much about marriage.

Please don't listen to that person joor. He or she might not even be married so wouldn't understand how marriage works. Have an estimate of what you would be needing weekly or biweekly weekly and ask her to transfer it once so you don't keep collecting at intervals. By the way, is it that you don't want to make more money? You want to finish the one you have first before making another one? Start making more money abeg so you can spend from the profit of what you got outside instead of banking on the one already in the house.

Fatiaaa:
Sorry ma I have to do this in public because you don't reply my mail. I am very sorry ma I am not an ingrate person I know you gave me 100k 2 months ago. I use the money for my business and I buy my baby stuffs unfortunaly the business has collapsed. I am broke, hungry and my due date is 27 of next week I don't have any money. I am sorry ma pls pity me for the sake of my unborn orphan pls ma don't be angry with me pls

Okokobioko!!!! Is this a joke or what? Nothing my eyes will not see in nairaland. You blew 100k without saying thank you and now you want another assistance. She you dey whine me ni?

CanadianNaija:
You that is his mother can't shelter him and give him food yet you have the mouth to blame your sister in law.

You're truly shameless, you're alive and your child is being treated like an orphan all because you don't want to leave man. Irresponsible parent, you and the boy’s father are the same do not for a second think you're better.

Judge nowamagbe abeg comot for here before I comot your teeth na

Hotbutt:
Good evening. Please I need information on how to get some Yahoo Boys living opposite me Arrested.

I live in a close. My house is inside another close. In fact it's a close inside a close. You won't even know people live there becos the close is kinda hidden.

These boys are a complete nuisance since they moved into the area. They have no respect for those living around.

They are always packing their Cars infront of my gate purposely to block me from coming out of my house.
They make a hell of Noise.
They behave like complete Touts and Agberos. You can't even have a reasonable conversation with them. (So nobody should suggest that)
All they know is how to on generator from morning till night.
They live in a Flat where they pay about N400k and above.
The Landlord doesn't live there.
When they throw party, it is the worst. They will block the entire frontage with their numerous cars leaving no place to pass.

In fact they are a complete nuisance. I dislike them with passion.

I mind my business in the area 100%. If i look at u and u dont look reasonable or behave well, I avoid u.

If they can mind their own business without infringing on other people's right, we won't have a problem at all.

I want to end it all once and for all becos they think I can't do anything but I want to show them that my silence is not stupidity.

I need help on inviting the Law into this matter. If possible EFCC.

Thank you.

Try to tolerate your neighbors my dear, don't go and put yourself in extra trouble. Most of the young men you see or call yahoo boys are doing legitimate online businesses. If them turning on their generator 24hrs disturbs you kindly turn on your own too to counter the noise. Try to understand that young people would always throw parties even when they're broke and will serve just water or garri. That is why they're called young people. All in all, learn to accommodate your neighbors. Thank you

I don't know about any other person but I'm overwhelmed. I get scared of logging unto nairaland or any other social media platform these days, in fact once someone says 'please I want to see you privately' I start panicking because I know the next thing is one story about lack and need of funds. When will all these end? The economy has become so bad that over 85 percent of families can barely eat two complete meals in a day. There's lack everywhere people are loosing their jobs due to the pandemic and other factors. More people are becoming suicidal, depressed and aggressive. What is the way forward brothers and sisters. What is the way my people?


@poster. Please go out tomorrow, knock on doors and ask to wash clothes for a fee. I see you're already getting angry and trying to fight with another handle, you don't need to do that. The truth is at this critical time people barely have extra to spare some don't get mad if aid is not coming your way. And to any other person who intends to come online for financial assistance please have it in mind that most people are living by faith so when you ask and you don't get don't be disappointed. Peace unto you all.

leomarz007:
that's the exact question I was to ask him or her...tell us the full story behind her bitterness @op

Because I don't see why I should get angry because my brother in-law entertained his guest. Me that would even ask for left over sef

Vyvyanvyvy:
Yes all my 4 children are staying with me

I'm happy for you. Please protect your children. The world is very wicked now and everyone is selfish, be selfish with your self and your children. Their happiness should come first. May God keep providing for you. When your boy is 12, allow him learn a trade during his holidays so that he can learn to be independent on time. Also don't forget to teach him good morals. May God see you through.

Must everything end in a fight? Ask your brother to settle you so you can start your life if truly you both worked to achieve his presumed success. Before he got married he was your brother only but now he's her husband first then your mothers son next before being your brother. Life is not so difficult to understand my dear, besides if not for how bad our economy is are two adults supposed to fight because one person cooked for his/her guest? That's if what you said is truly the real bone of contention o.

I don't understand. Is this a joke?

Boyfriend has the guts to enter your house after dating your sister for 10years without wifing her talk more of borrow money? You as the brother what did you do when you saw them? You nor use 2by4 plank he toothpick leg comot una has?

Why she stubborn na

Does it have a roller? Plus is this brand new?

Since you also have a child take your time and marry someone who is a genuine child of God wether Christian, Muslim or traditionalist. Someone who will treat both children and any other you guys have with equal love. I'm a woman but umunwanyi di egwu.... I believe your heart is also big enough to accommodate hence the specifications. May God lead you aright.

Buy for them or better still give them money to buy their size.

This one don loss o

slimman007:
For you to have agreed to get married you MUST know how to prepared good meal for your husband.I see no reason why I married you and you can't cook good food and expect peace in that home..Madam is better you pack out and allow another woman who is ready to be called a wife takes your place..I come in PEACE

It's really paining you o.

Shortyyy:
Nne you're busting my head with your replies

My love, I can't kill myself, some Nigerians think its only when you suffer till you die that is when you're truly living. Abiarom uwa afufu biko.

DEMZEE:
Ordinary to cook for ur husband is wahala but to slave under ur boss which fortunately most are males is EMPOWERMENT SMH!!!!

You're trying to use your life's situation on me. I'm not the root of your aggression. If youre a slave to your boss kindly resign. Don't assume I'm suffering the same predicament as you are. Thank you.

slimman007:
Madam erase this mentality from your head before you settle down for you not to have have issues with your husband in future.lf you don't know how to prepare good meal there is no shame in voicing out and be ready to learn.There are lots of information on how good foods are prepared on internet which can be of great benefit to you....so go and learn how to cook and stop the excuse

Lool. You're the only one I'm going to reply on this issue.

1. I'm married. 2. I can cook very well. 3. The only thing stopping me from getting a cook is because i can't afford it yet. 4. Marriage is not a do or die affair so if a man chooses not to eat because his 'wife's wasn't the person that prepared the meal hence wanting a divorce, he can as well go his way. 5. Life is too short to put yourself under endless stress when there's an alternative.

Thank you.

No. Just make enough money and employ one. The most important thing is the availability of cooked food.

You see anything involving
1. Husband and wife
2. Boyfriend and girlfriend
3. Pastors, Alfa, Babalawo.

I no dey ever put my mouth again. No 1 and 2 will never tell you the truth and later use you to settle.
No3 hears directly from God and I no fit drag with God.

Thank you and bye.

Chai.

LadySarah:
Is it only in the north? Was it not here a man insisted the wife register her property in his name only by force when he was using his own to solve his extended family problems while the wife invested hers in real estate?When he got attacked, he claimed he was joking?
Joking that made you threaten her with divorce.

Link me to the thread please. Even though it has passed I just want to tell the man something nice

Do you have a job?
Why are you still squatting?
What do you do for a living?
Are you financially stable?
If she gets pregnant now are you ready?
What will you do if her brother walks in on both of you frolicking?

These and many more are things you should ask yourself before your feelings and libido.

Ewooooooo!!!!!



Ekwensu eromansia mamiwata!!!

Gforce2019:
The lady looks older than the guy probably she don play well outside before.she.come settle.with.this.Mumu guy.

Happy married life anyway...

Abeg, make una no scatter oh....because we have been having too.much scatter marriages lately..

She's actually young. Maybe 29 to 31...

Moblux:
I wish you well girl. Take care of yourself very well so that what you left ( if actually you have) won't resurrect in you and destroy this beautiful beginning. Old habit dies hard they say. But I trust if you take yourself serious, you will be fine.

I could remember the day your mum and dad got wedded at a Baptist Church in Ilorin. I was not there physically but your both parents being NTA staff at the time were accorded Newsline coverage anchored by Frank Oliseh. Rev Dr J.K Ojemola's admonition to your Dad was,
" Smart, don't be smart to cheat on your wife
Smart, don't be smart to batter your wife..."

Congratulations to you!

You know them very well. I wish her well. God will show favor and mercy. I wish them a good home.

3yrs ago. Yes. But when you pay you still have to go and pick it. Now it doesn't. The person that designed that website and app should be flogged

EvilSec:
Nairaland doesn't have a privacy policy, your data can get sold for less than a cup of rice.

Wow