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Family / Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by VeniJu: 6:39pm On Apr 22
janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

I'll like to talk to you personally.
Religion / Please, Help A Brother. by VeniJu: 11:00am On Nov 19, 2018
Hello, dear Nairalanders. Please, things has been so rough and hard. it is shameful to ask for financial assistance online, but like they say, "desperate times" and i can't steal. Lost my little job, spent the little I've saved on my dad's burial. currently searching for any kind of job. Right now, I'm starving. Please, just a little token to feed while I garner the strength to continue the search for a job. Please!!!
Acct. Name: Julius A. Stephen.
Acct. No: 2089570447
Bank: UBA.

Help, Please!!!

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Family / Please, Help A Brother. by VeniJu: 10:53am On Nov 19, 2018
Hello, dear Nairalanders. Please, things has been so rough and hard. it is shameful to ask for financial assistance online, but like they say, "desperate times" and i can't steal. Lost my little job, spent the little I've saved on my dad's burial. currently searching for any kind of job. Right now, I'm starving. Please, just a little token to feed while I garner the strength to continue the search for a job. Please!!!
Acct. Name: Julius A. Stephen.
Acct. No: 2089570447
Bank: UBA.

Help, Please!!!
Business / Re: Advertising: Multinationals, Banks, Get Knocks For Undermining Local Contents by VeniJu: 8:59am On Oct 16, 2018
Doerstech:
They have their reasons.....
How much for a small website design?
Business / Re: Scam Alert! Beware Of Kwikcash. by VeniJu: 3:32pm On Oct 09, 2018
cc: Dominique cc: FOD cc: naijacutee
Please, help save others from falling victims.
Business / Scam Alert! Beware Of Kwikcash. by VeniJu: 3:31pm On Oct 09, 2018
Hello, Nairalanders, I'm using my ordeal and experience to warn and save people from falling victims to these scammers called kwikcash, an online money lending platform. I took a loan from these guys, which they said has been disbursed into my account. But I didn't get any credit alert for the said loan. They will get your account number and other vital info to give them direct access to your account. after that, they will keep telling you to wait, from a short while, to an hour, and now, it's been five days since it happened.
Please, be warned. they are scammers.
There customers service don't pick calls.
when you chat with them online, they keep asking you to wait. they will send you mails and sms to wait, but would never do anything. Please, learn from my mistakes and safeguard your account.
I have screenshots of their mails, chats and sms. but it's not uploading here.
Politics / Re: PDP Convention: Saraki Won't Step Down For Anyone- Okupe by VeniJu: 5:11pm On Oct 06, 2018
Going by other aspirants, both from PDP and APC, his looks is very much presentable to the world than any other.
very much younger and vibrant.

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Food / Re: Man In Owerri Who Sells Crocodile Meat - Photos by VeniJu: 11:48am On Sep 25, 2018
oyonu:
hmmm! Not every animals should be killed and eaten na. These are animals that may likely go extinct soon, we need animal protection law in this country self but by the way, these ones na baby crocodile why not hunt the large ones if u can?
In other words, you mean it's "CrocoLizard?"

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Phones / Help! My Phone Is Misbehaving.. by VeniJu: 1:46pm On Sep 24, 2018
Hello, friends in the House. please, what could be wrong with my phone, Tecno W3?
First, it started by restarting itself.. Later I discovered the menu and minimize buttons has stopped working. I can't get notifications atop the phone as before. now, I can receive calls.. Any ideas, please help.
Romance / Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by VeniJu: 2:14pm On Sep 15, 2018
maikbanj:

How do I make him back off??
Find out more about she and this bestie. PM me and know how to get info using spy chat.
Pets / Re: See What Was Done To This Fowl. by VeniJu: 7:04pm On Sep 12, 2018
check out

Pets / Re: See What Was Done To This Fowl. by VeniJu: 7:03pm On Sep 12, 2018
see

Pets / See What Was Done To This Fowl. by VeniJu: 7:02pm On Sep 12, 2018
If this is done by someone, then I think it's bad.. what do you think?

Family / Re: How Akwa Ibom Makes Their Daughters Unmarried Via Marriage List by VeniJu: 2:48pm On Sep 08, 2018
HungerBAD:
Reading

This sounds interesting. Story not complete. Joeruano complete this story.

Joeruano thanks for completing the story.

I try not to talk about my personal stuff on Nairaland,but will make an exception today and tell a story before commenting on yours.

I am a Niger Deltan like you too,and a couple of months ago,my younger sister got married. I am also the oldest child and my dad is late(RIP) and so I am the Head of the family.

I had known her husband to be for a couple of years,and I know him to be a struggling young man,who is into different businesses and trying to survive.

Sometimes, without telling anyone, I push little contracts for him to handle so as to meet up,since he never once approached me for money considering the fact he knows I am on the okay side.

I liked him then,and I like him now. I wished him my inlaw,which he eventually became. I consider him a younger brother and that was how I treated him.

My Sister too, a beautiful young lady works for one of those organizations that pays in the 200k region . My sister is also a prudent woman who I know does not spend money on petty things.

When it was time for marriage. They approached me,and after giving them my blessing, I agreed they should go ahead and plan their marriage in Lagos. Later my mother started giving me heat that we should not ignore tradition,and out of pressure from more of my mothers family, I asked them to go get the list from the village.

When they brought the list, the young man went into a very sad mood and my sister called me complaining that village people want to destroy her marriage.

I will finish this story tomorrow. I am about to go take care of some personal matters.

Finishing my story.

When I saw the list, to say I was taken aback would be an understatement. They asked for everything there,and then some.

Now let me talk about this my village people and my history with them.

I went straight for my post-graduate degree,after my NYSC,and after graduation, showed up in my community,thinking they will hook me up with one of the Multiple National oil companies there, as a native.

They refused to help in a hostile way,and called me a Yoruba man,since i was born and bred in Lagos. And that the spots for jobs they had was for the people that grew up there,and not for strangers like us.

I left there after weeks hanging around, knocking on different doors. It was the humiliation of how I got to Lagos that still gets me upset. I sold my shoes,belts, trousers and my wristwatch.

I swore to never go to my people again for anything.

But my sister was getting married,and her husband to be did not have the muscle to sort everything out. I wanted to help, but did not want to look desperate as if I am in a hurry to just throw my sister way.

Told them not to worry,and that I will sort everything out when I fly back into the Country. A week later I flew into Nigeria,and called for a meeting with my inlaw to be. I asked him to look at the list and see what he can afford there. And when he picked the little things he could shoulder, I told him to bring the cash equivalent,and that I will go to the village myself to beg on his behalf.

I went to my hometown that weekend,and had a meeting with the elders of my family and the community, where I presented them with everything they asked for. I told them my inlaw had provided them to me in Lagos. They got their complete list,as I had swore me or any of my family members will never beg them for anything again.

The only thing they did was send a 5 man village representative to Come for the traditional wedding in Lagos,and that I took care of too.

My sister got married because big brother would not let traditionalists hold her marriage to ransom. They got what they wanted, and everybody is happy.

Not everyone I understand has a brother, or even anyone willing to stick it out for them to make sure their marriage works,as regards meeting the financial burden. And this is why the Tradition of extorting people under the quise of a long lists for marriage should be stopped.












Big Bros, please I seek your assistance. Please. sent you a PM
Health / Re: Help Me! Syphilis Wants To Finish My Life by VeniJu: 2:25pm On Jun 03, 2018
mark123456789:
hello people
please I need your help
I need the sure cure to syphilis,my joystick is very ugly now because of this std,help a brother
Sorry my dear brother.
Are you on whatsapp?
Career / Re: Travelling To Canada And Starting A Pure Water Business In Nigeria. by VeniJu: 2:30pm On Jun 02, 2018
papascode:
Good day all,

I have been confused on what to do with the money I have saved. I am a contract staff in one of the banks and I have saved considerable amount of money over the years I have been working there. But I am tired of my job, as same as many of my colleagues who wish they had one quarter of the money I had saved to quit the job.

I am not a lazy man I am very hardworking as adhuged by my supervisors but the issue is I have stayed on one spot for too long and no promotion. My greatest joy is that I was able to achieve a masters degree in a federal university in nigeria while working but my job doesn't give me time to even look out for other jobs.
So please guys I am throwing this up here because I know on this thread there are people who have been in my situation before that made the better choice and are happy for it.
I have two very important decisions to make either to use the money I have saved to travel abroad for school for masters and hopfully settle down there or to stay here in Nigeria to start up a pure water production factory but Nigeria and it's uncertainties keeps discouraging me. kindly note that I have saved up to 9million naira to take up any of these ventures and I am 35 years not yet married.
Please I need honest advice to a brother there are some persons like me who will benefit from this advice we render.
Thank you
Abeg, 20k can save me from a situation.
thanks in anticipation.

meanwhile, setting up a pure water factory depends on your location.
Canada is equally good too.
My advice, Canada.
Crime / Re: 2 Schools Fight With Cutlasses In Ibadan Over Girlfriend - Pictures by VeniJu: 2:23pm On Jun 02, 2018
Pupils abi students?
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: A Nairalander's Photo-realistic Drawing Of Atiku Abubakar by VeniJu: 2:21pm On Jun 02, 2018
Nice Paper. tongue
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Celebrities / Re: Wizkid, Alex Iwobi & Models Pose In New Super Eagles Jersey by VeniJu: 9:09am On May 31, 2018
I don't know if it's because I no longer find anything good about this country.
there's nothing special about this #30,000 Jersey.
Romance / Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by VeniJu: 4:18am On May 31, 2018
Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz

whatsapp 08129078105
Romance / Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by VeniJu: 3:17pm On May 30, 2018
Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz
very serious delima.
I know how it is.
chat me up let's talk privately.
Properties / Re: Pls Help: Breaking Of My Shop & Stealing Of My Property By My Landlord (Photos) by VeniJu: 10:20pm On May 25, 2018
Imole477:
Hi Nairalandlers,

Pls I need your help and the help of well meaning Nigerians.

I am a hairdresser at Santos Avenue, Abule-Egba, Lagos. Since last year 2017 my Landlord Mr Bernard Adekunle Santos has been threatening and harassing me at my shop. He conspired with one woman they call Iyalode who is his elder brother's wife and they have been tormenting my life and business ever since then. They also conspired with one woman they call Iya Esther who is my neighbour and they cut off my electric wires last year and took the wires away and left me in darkness for many weeks last year.

Even when my Lawyer wrote them a letter to return my wires which they maliciously stole, they refused to return them. After stealing my wires, the Landlord now came and asked me to go and apologize to the person that stole my wires even when I never offended her, rather they were the ones that conspired to cut off and stole my electric wires.

This year when I wanted to pay my rent to the Landlord he refused to collect it and told me that he gave me one month to quit his shop despite I'm a yearly tenant and he never served me any official quit notice. Since then he has been bringing thugs every time to threaten me in my shop. He has been threatening me that he will deal with me.

So on Wednesday 23rd May 2018 my Landlord Mr Bernard Adekunle Santos came to my shop in the afternoon and broke my shop, removed the door, stole my one hundred and seventy thousand naira and stole my goods worth over eight hundred thousand naira. This matter has been reported at the Area "G" Command, Ogba, Lagos. The police has invited the Landlord Mr Bernard Santos and including Iyalode and Iya Esther to come to the station on 25th May 2018 but they have refused to come to the station. On 24th May 2018 when we went with the police to serve them the invitation letter, the first son of the Iyalode by name Dare Santos was threatening to use charms to slap me and make me blind.

My life and the life of my 2-year old baby is currently in serious danger as they keep threatening to deal with me. As I write this my shop is currently without any door as they have removed the door and went away with the door. I have pictures and evidence of everything which I have attached.

I hereby call on the Lagos State Governor, His Excellency Governor Akinwunmi Ambode and the Lagos State Commissioner of Police and all well meaning Nigerians to come to my aid as I want justice to be done on this matter because I have suffered enough in the hands of this Landlord and the Iyalode. My life and the life of my baby is currently in danger as I've been receiving threats since that day. I want justice to be done on this matter.

Pls share this message until it gets to the Governor and the Commissioner of police. I'm not safe anymore. Pls help.


send me a message on whatsapp
Religion / Help!! Please, Help A Brother. by VeniJu: 12:58pm On May 19, 2018
Good day, fellas. please, I'm in dire need of an assistance of #7,000 to save a situation. please, thinking is eating me up. Help!!!
Celebrities / Re: Ebiye Blasts Aramide: You Probably Had Sex For The Headies Award by VeniJu: 2:53pm On May 06, 2018
scarramenga:
She no even fine sef
same stale comment you made on another post that made someone dragged both your mom and sisters into the matter.
we don see u wey fine.
Go collect pension.
Aturu.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Truck Crushes Man's Car In Calabar, As He Goes To Ease Himself Inside Bush by VeniJu: 9:27am On May 03, 2018
His village people thought he was inside.

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Celebrities / Re: Maheeda Reacts To Davido's Assurance For Chioma. (Photos) by VeniJu: 6:35pm On May 01, 2018
would you prefer he breaks it at once?

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Celebrities / Re: Ali Baba Reveals What Stopped Him From Repairing A Community Road In Warri. by VeniJu: 6:02pm On Apr 26, 2018
It is true that warri don't like good things, but that is not a good excuse.
something similar to this happened in 1942. Yet, the philanthropist did what he wanted to do. cheesy

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Family / Re: Lady Flies Young Son Alone From UK To Naija. by VeniJu: 10:50am On Apr 26, 2018
cry Pics and screenshots refuses to upload

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Family / Lady Flies Young Son Alone From UK To Naija. by VeniJu: 10:44am On Apr 26, 2018
Mothers, how many of you can take this risk?
Pretty mum. cute son.
Romance / Re: Beautiful Pre-wedding Pictures Of A Young Couple by VeniJu: 7:00pm On Apr 24, 2018
Flexzybone:
NLanders Please Help me Wish My Bro A Happy Married Life...

your brother applied make up, why?

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