₦airaland Forum

KIDfurniture:
Plz one slap isn't domestic violence.
Have you seen the way and manner most of the women behave lately ? The way they talk while the head of the house is passing a message? The way they behave when the of the house is trying to avoid trouble. I don't blame men who opt for baby mama. The type of girls we have today , it's better they live far from you not under the same roof.

Why didn't she call the cops when they were dating.

Most of them behave like saints b4 marriage. Their real demons surface soon as u put them in the house

Kobojunkie:
American men killl their wives?
ROFLMAO


So Nigerian men don't also kill wives? It is now only American men that kills wives and this because of your rubbish way of reasoning still.. na wa oooo!

Kobojunkie:
Again, not every one out there reasons life and even marriage as you do. Some husbands out there are willing to accept the fault was there's and deal with themselves for it so their marriage can survive past such incidents while there those like you who allow their egos do their thinking for them.

Kobojunkie:
Even Jesus Christ made it clear that the New Covenant is only for those who believe, not for us to go around imposing on everyone we meet. And since the OP never indicated that the man in question is of Christian orientation, let's not pretend he is.

So, back to general law, marriage is indeed a contract between a man and his wife and the beauty of the contract is that each couple gets to decide for themselves what their marriage will look like.

Kobojunkie:
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. She can if he wants it so
4. Yes

Look, not everyone out there reasons things as yoi do. There are so many marriages out there that survived Eve after the cops showed to an emergency situation. Pretending the cops are there to ruin your marriage when what in fact started it was instead the acts that led up to the calling of the cops is still ridiculous reasoning as far as I am concerned.

Kobojunkie:
First of all, there are in fact cases of men calling the cops on their wives out there. That they are not as publicized does not mean there are no such cases.

Second, recall that the reason many a woman calls the cops to the scene of her assault, is in order to avert any further violence against her person.

Kobojunkie:
Being a help meet has nothing to do with you and marriage. The term was used to specifically describe Eve who was created to complement the man named Adam, the one and only man who was described as being alone in the garden of Eden/Earth at that time.

God told you, even Jesus Christ affirmed it, that marriage is a contract agreement, a business between a man and a woman- no third parties, and you refuse to accept what they made clear to you thinking instead that I am the problem.

I am bitter about marriage because i am accepting of what God really created and gave to us? ... LOL

Kobojunkie:
It is assault regardless of who initiates it.

Kobojunkie:
If I were to slap you, will you be willing to simply walk away then?

Kobojunkie:
God created marriage as a contract, a business agreement, between a man and a woman - Genesis 2 vs 24. This was before the same God then cursed marriage after man sinned against God - Genesis 3 vs 16.

So I am still not certain why you chose to deny what is right before you.

Kobojunkie:
So, a divorce will happen anyways?

You just don't want her calling the cops to come defend her from the brute who already landed her a slap is all, and could potentially land her some more before the divorce goes through?

Kobojunkie:
Marriage is itself a business. The acquisition of the property for that marriage is part of marriage business activities. So when the marriage is over, the property needs to be divided amongst the marriage investors, in this case, the man and woman.

My mindset is not the problem. Instead you refuse to see marriage for it also represents is what.

Sholaco:
No governor in igbo land has ever done this..no wonder they hate yoruba

Kobojunkie:
Huh?

A marriage is a business contract with both recognized as investors in it. So, indeed when it ends, the property accrued during the time of the period of the marriage need be shared between the parties involved.

Kobojunkie:
So you can slap your wife and still expect her to love you again?

Kobojunkie:
Not before you file divorce papers and obtaining good settlement money too.

uvie66:
but slapping her is assault...or is she your slave?

Kobojunkie:
How can a man slap his own wife and still be answering her Mr.?

Mercychen:
Imagine. You slapped someone and expects her to be calm? What a warped mentality.

You're lucky she was civil about it. Or would you have preferred she took the laws into her hands and stabbed you with a knife?

Next time you'll think before you slap.

Maxymilliano:
Lol ... Aboki will always be aboki .. Treating women as conquered slaves

heendrix:
Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

TripleOh7:
So, just as the whites colonized Africa, Igbos are trying to colonize Yoruba, abi?


When I said Fulanis and Igbos have a lot in common, some disagreed with me.


Wouldn't it be a good idea to properly colonize and develop your own space first before thinking of colonizing others?

TripleOh7:
So what's your point?

How does this stop Chinedu and Nkechi from abandoning Alaigbo and running to southwest for greener pastures?

DeadCountry:
International, and flight to where? Some of you are so daft.

Iyaebe:
He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple.

Iyaebe:
He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple.

Blackfire:
We will not take this insults from the south.. how dare you demand 50% so what will be left for the North that is bigger than you lots..??



Be warned and desist from this madness
Nigeria is one , learn to be your brothers keeper

Ur a bastard.Why is d North hiding the gold in Zamfara? Y can't the north also make it a national assest so the whole of Nigeria would benefit from it but ur benefiting from oil from the south.ur a bastard.Satan would punish u shortly.


North2023

AdakaBoro8:
niger delta militants fightin for it people freedom and never attached or forced any other part to be part of niger delta like you fulanipob doing nigeria and biafra

AdakaBoro8:
asked the Ibo elders on how their ancestors deceived and convinced ebonyians to be part of Igbo

AdakaBoro8:
igbos are well known for their oppressions..... we knew them during the old eastern region where they marginalised us to almost dead..... thats why we rejected the biafra championed by any igbo.....ebonyin people have also distancin themselves from biafra because of that oppresion attitude of igbos.....
igbos are worst than fulanis...

rapheal5:
I later read that the girl was just catching cruise, just to gain followers...

Yemi4luv:
If nah me be her boyfriend I will retaliate I will Bleep her sister or cousin and I will video it too and send it to her and I'll even take the nude pics of her sister or cousin too and show it to her as proof, I'll do my own back I swear