₦airaland Forum

AGurlnoname:
Maybe your home is not comfortable for her too. Who knows if she is the only one taking care of the children, still prepare for work. Oga, stop waling here and take care of your kids. If truly you're always at home and have close bond with your children, none of the kids will ask for their mum.

Let the woman enjoy her break abeg.

Is anyone stop her from enjoying her break pls? Simple cook food put in freezer for her own kids again ur saying oga is wailing.She didn't even consider that she's starving the kids.Shame on you

chii8:
Hmmmm....you just said she went to visit her sick mother?You said money is not the issue,then cook nah....You sound like a father who's not always around so you don't know much about taking care of the family.Is it your wife's fault that you can't pacify your own crying children nor cook for them?The in-law is sick and sickness doesn't give a pre information before it comes.

Oga,man up and take care of your children,biko!

Now because you can't cook and pacify your own crying children, you are thinking of divorce.Na waoooo, there's nothing Reverend no go see for pulpit

Shut up please!!!! Are the kids not hers too? Why can't even cook for her own kids b4 leaving.She didn't care if the children would feel hungry as now ur saying he should man up my foot.Isnt he trying doing his duties? Abeg getat ungreatful gender ass licker

Terrier99:
Well, it won't be out of place. Afterall, no matter how many clothes you have, you still need to get rags. Besides, the Igbo woman would be very useful in appeasing our gods.

U are such an idiot

musicwriter:
That place wasn't a slave market because slavery came later. Europeans had been in Africa, buying cash crops, gold, tusk and Ivory, timber and they used that place as processing and shipping port, many years before slavery.

There are many such shipping ports dotted all over West Africa and other parts. Before Europeans arrived, that place must always have been a port!!. Otherwise, why did white people anchor their ships there? And how did they anchor there? Such places were originally meant for legitimate business before the Atlantic slave trade began. During slavery, they were used to process the slaves before shipping. IT WASN'T A MARKET!!!.

Do you think the only and first business to happen between Europe and Africa was slavery?

See, the true history of slavery and slave acquisition in Africa https://www.africason.com/2016/03/the-true-history-of-slavery-and-slave.html

The Portuguese 1st came to Lagos in 1492.They were the ones that named here "Lagos".They were business men who sold other stuffs.It was d arrival of the British in 18th century that lead to slavery being big business.You re right my friend.

Daveambition:
Alaye relax.
Na when yu wife a woman yu go knw say dem get manipulative formats..
Yu either abide to most of their terms&condition or angrily leave the house, las las yu'll stil return home & by then; she sef go don strategise another method to provoke yu the more..
Hardman no be for wey punna dey o, conji go bring yu to ur kness begging..
Forget wetin most men dey form outside, behind close doors dem weak dyeee

This strategy doesn't work for all men pls.Try this shit with Ned or Tuface u hear?

dirtydiva:
How on Earth will you refuse to be part of house chores? You dey look for trouble nah

Let her also be part of providing money too pls

Kobojunkie:
Do you really need for your wife to go through all that in order to remind you of your part in your own marriage - this through denial of sex - before you know to play it?

She is meant to be companion and partner in your relationship - not your 'trainer'.

And when has sex in marriage become a prize for help rendered? Really!! That is the reason why some men get side cos of this rubbish behaviour.

Yankee101:
The rule is this, the bed must be undefiled. So both must not try sex before marriage and must marry as virgins

It's easier to tell a man no as a virgin. If you're not, he'll say after you've finished sharing it, you're denying him

So avoid stories, remain a virgin and any reasonable man will marry you without sex

God was right when he said the bed should remain undefied but the problem is we humans.We have so many problems of both infertility, damaged wombs,choices of dick and wideness of pussies.i stumbled across a news where a woman is seeking to dissolve her marriage because her husband's dick is too big.God created this world well but humans manipulated his creation because of greed and selfishness.So many ladies of late has damaged wombs believe me.

Emuforlife1:
Hisbah shouldn't be intimidated by noise. Whoever doesn't like it the Kano Way should move to Aba or Nnewi. Immorality isn't our Calling

But terrorism and religious extremism is in ur DNA right?

gassbee:
so because he is giving her money without any future plans of marriage, she should continue to stick with him until he completely waste her life, you are not smart, iiddiott

And ur so dumb to realise that women can have numerous boyfriends,women can also decide to marry someone they like and turn down another serious suitor because they don't like him.Ur brain is leaking.Patch it please.

gassbee:
The man is a big fool and a bloody time waster. Thank God a serious minded person stepped up and married her

Ur so foolish for that comment.She didn't remember he was a time waster when she was eating his money baaaa?

alfredfrddy:
if na so e ordinary, she no for borrow am if she's not poor herself. No matter how small, can we just stop calling things ordinary when people want to collect back their valuables? He didn't steal the money, he worked hard for it.

Why did she have to borrow from him since she's rich? You that is talking are u worth up to 50k?

Kobojunkie:
You are really just here to waste my time, aren't you.

Who ur time help pls? Just read wat u wrote might be d reason to justify using a knife.May ur daughter in-law do same to u.Amen

God1000:
Who cares, all these mum and dad's lapdogs/proteges won't allow us to rest.

U that ur a street boy nko? Wats ur achievement?

Truvelisback:
Anger must have led to that. If he handle their misunderstanding maturedly, it wouldn't have resulted to all these. He was one sided in handling the issue.

Wat stupid anger would lead a lady to pick up a knife and threaten her mother in law? Stop blaming the man when the woman is a devil.The bible says it's better for a man to live on top of a roof than to stay with a quarrelsome/hot tempered wife

Kobojunkie:
Only the OP can answer that very question for us hence the reason why I call for him to spill the details that led up to that happening.

Who knows, maybe the husband and mum threatened to take the baby away from her ... Op needs to fill us in on what led up to it.

Ur such a small child honestly.ur thinking is low for this platform honestly

bummyla:
Where we dey see all these wives we dey marry? Madam fight Mummy in-law! Maka Why? So E no go one day become mummy in-law? All these wives must collect Oooooo!

Wisdom full ur head. All these vagabonds wey dey call depression up Nd down must collect too

Truvelisback:
Forgive ur wife. I begining to suspect that u didn't handle the issue btw ur wife and ur mum well. Perhaps, u were one sided in ur judgement, which is very bad.

Is that enough reason to use a knife against her mother-in-law and physically assulting her? Her family has failed woofully and she needs to be sent packing with immediate effect

dawnomike:
Her actions is as a result of post partum trauma... Forgive her and let it go!!!

Till she pours him acid baaaa? Abeg getat

Kobojunkie:
Can you be a bit less cryptic abeg. Giving us random bits of what transpired after the major quarrel will not help you or us any.

What led to your wife threatening your life?

Why do you in return insist you will deal with her after all the pleading?

My friend getat.You seem so immature honestly.Wat will make a woman threaten her husband's life even with a knife and u think she's alright? Did ur mum ever do such to ur father?

EkehPraise:
Except there's any other reason you are not telling us, then I suggest you let your wife's mother go so that you and your wife and the new baby can have some time alone as a family. Before this whole thing I believe you must have been living peacefully with your wife therefore whatever happened between her and your mother shouldn't be a yardstick to coming online to for people to paint her as trash.

How can his wife use kinfe to threaten her husband and her mother-in-law and ur here talking of painting her black while she is terrible.The way u reason at times shocks the hell out of me

Mariangeles:
Have you considered the fact that your wife might be going or might've gone through postpartum depression, which might've led to that behaviour?

Were she and your mum having problems before your wife got pregnant and had a baby?

N.B. Postpartum depression is not an excuse for bad behaviour, it is real.

To the extent of pulling a knife baaaa?

LILTJAY1:
Igbos with wickedness. .
I hate them

U are a bastard.Smelly pig

SARSCoV2:
Same Miyetti Allah that GEJ is the Grand patron?


Where you expecting it to deescalate? This is not a problem you should blame on a regime. You knew how it started during GEJ, and now you blaming Buhari. If you dont tackle a problem at initiation, you have no right to complain when it goes full flight, This was the issue with terrorism. We granted amnesty to bandits in the south-south, who became millionaire's for just being terrorist. That was an encouragement to terrorism.

Blaming Buhari`s administration for the cankerworm that has eaten deep into the nation is unjust, unfair, partial and feable.

Ur still unwise and even more senseless.Have you forgotten all d campaign promises buhari and co made to Nigerians? He promised to destroy bokoharam under 3 months now this is 6yrs and counting.Who brought bandits to Nigeria if I may ask? Nigeria had an issue b4 fine but Buhari knows he was clueless yet he made fake promises to deceive Nigerianz.if u can't stand the heat y go to d kitchen? Nigerians hate him so much because of the fake deceitful promises he made which he never fulfilled one.Stop supporting evil this man.

SARSCoV2:
Oh! Seems you have forgotten! Boko Haram dealt more blows to Nigeria then, compared to now.

Don’t tell me you have forgotten. It was a binning spree

My friend ur so unwise honestly.Nigeria only had bokoharam to deal with during Jonas regime but now we have many branches of terrorism ranging from bandits,iswap,killer miyeti alla etc.Can u travel to ur village by road now without the fear of being kidnapped? Use ur brain please.is there no single day hunderds of people aren't being killed in Nigeria during this regime.

IboHausaYoruba:
Why all these curses for Christ sake! We citizens should learn to respect our leaders. He met all the rot created by PDP and this Reno of a guy was part and parcel.

My friend shut ur gutter you call mouth.Who is borrowing Nigeria's future destiny? Who created bandits,killer herdsmen,iswap, kidnappers etc.How much is dollar, pounds,how much is gas,feul kero diesel etc.how much is rice between Jona and buhari regime.Ur existence should be questioned

U see why I do often blame women for wrong choices they make.When you tell a woman to marry a responsible man they won't hear rather they go for touts,Bleep boys and their likes.See how irresponsible this man is yet she loves him.I don't know why women hate responsible guys honestly.

NCE1:
Well we use constantly was locked up and you think the best person to ask why is the tenants?

When the landlady is around and the people that locked it up.

Don't mind those fools

KiNg0G:
quiet your mouth, your own still dey your body.
after you bite her finish, you still get mind go open the well.

you won form jaguda bah.

it be like the woman pickin na small boy, left to me...na just me alone.


who give you right to go open the well for my papa compound when I lock, you go tell me.


the judging you judged na from your side.


I go still like here from their side.



because I definitely know, you went there to form vuga for person house when you dey stay.
you didn't go there to ask politely.

how you go fight person just now for him property, you still gather mind go open the well.



the woman pickin na small boy na make.

this one nor supposed to be police matter.

Ur very stupid and irresponsible.Didnt u hear him when we woman and her children first attack her? Why will a landlady lock up the only source of water in d whole compound because her son has issues with a single tenant since ur brain is leaking.

[quote author=EzegeNdiigbo post=108484242]I guess the boy is the only son and daughter of his parent's. so with the menace going on in the north they gat to act-up to avoid "had i know".



I don't blame them na situation.. [/quote

Oga park well biko.U don't blame them in this situation (11yr old boy for that matter).Oga pls switch off ur phone and sleep

Mercychen:
At 10 months, she's not strong enough to serve an old woman with all her troubles and still look after her baby that is already a handful.
Let's stop being bias just because it's the man's mother.

Ok if the child was already ten months, why was mama still hell bent on coming to do her own omgor? or what exactly did she go there to do?

Pls read properly b4 u spill shit here.Did she come for omugwor? She came for just 2 weeks holiday pls.Read the story again.And pls stop hating ur mother in law pls.There is no gain there.Accord her d same respect u give to ur mum to her pls.U sound so bitter forgetting ur children will get married too and if they treat u the way he sounding I bet I will hate urself