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Mercychen:
Oga "slapper", just take it easy. Remember shes still not strong enough for all the slapping you're dishing out to her at the slightest provocation.

Your mum didn't do well.
How can she come to a nursing mother and instead of helping her, she expected her to be cooking fresh meal every hour of the day?
That was why your wife was not happy about her coming because she knew it will end in complains of neglect.. imagine that " patience ozokwo" fake cry. What was that for? So you can beat up your wife for her? Hmm.. all this mother inlaw though.

Your wife and her mother probably ate the same refrigerated food but your mom chose to make a mountain out of the issue.

Omugwo is meant for the new Mom, not your mother. So your wife was not expected to serve your Mom in this case.



Lastly, you have to choose who want to be married to. Your wife is your wife and your new mother. Your Mom has to respect that fact.

TinubuGoQuench:
SHUT UP!!!

YOU ARE TALKING RUBBISH

advanceDNA:
He’s just feeling less than a man after you hit him...he can’t tell anybody becos of shame...he ddnt see the slap coming.....he knows he has been pushing you naaa..

Initiate a one on one with him... cook his best food and apologize to him that it won’t happen again.

Express your feelings that he has been abusing u emotionally... and your are not happy...

Although I don't support the way the man maltreats her but she shouldn't have slapped him.She went too far.She should be extremely careful cos he is definitely gonna to do something more than even physical abuse.A man who talks too much all of a sudden becomes quite as if nothing happened, sister run oooo

Asgard73:
Don’t think south east cares.. maybe their politicians.. not the people.

Power returns North.

Putindbutt:
He refused to pay up his loan while forging the bank documents. That's why Efcc had to go arrest his ass and his wife was crying is it because he is ibo bullshit.

2018 warrant;
https://www.nairaland.com/4338645/court-issues-arrest-warrant-innoson
2019 warrant;
https://www.nairaland.com/5262564/court-issues-bench-warrant-arrest

Iyaebe:
Shameless man that is sleeping with a married woman and cheating with another single lady.Shame has left all these men and this is somebody's future husband ooo,where are we going in this life like this? I pity the unfortunate lady that will eventually marry this shameless yahoo boy.

Putindbutt:
Trust them to twist the narratives as they usually do. Ask them why Innoson has been running away from appearing in court. He has refused to open his defense. The guy is a fraud.

Putindbutt:
There is no ibo man dead or alive that is not tribalistic. When Gtb was giving you loan, I guess they weren't tribal at the time. You forged the bank documents to take delivery of goods, you were asked to pay back which you refused and then starts playing the tribal card upon litigation.

flokii:
Are you living in another planet?.. GTBank accused Innocent Chukwuma of falsehood and falsifying documents to defraud their bank.
What debt are you now talking about?

flokii:
You will take over GTBank and then use the money in people's account to do business.. I no blame you sha, na GTBank wey loose guard
To make matters worse, they appointed an Igbo woman married to a Yoruba man, on the verge of divorce as MD. Innoson know wetin dey give am liver and na the Igbo woman wey GTBank appoint as MD go help am

MadamVanessa:




It's not always right to judge from one sided story. I wish i can hear what your wife have to say as regards to the story on ground, so i can give my judgement objectively without being biased.

DubaiLandLord1:
This your talk no make sense. It holds no water in the court of law sef

She sef know say her power is only in Lagos alone.

vickydevoka:
Hausas are ruling Nigeria, Yorubas are ruling Lagos n other western state. So who get mouth pass

adekolaelect:
which boundary can unknown person set for someone like Tinubu and his family? Erelevant poeple full internet bagging as if they are known but only on gossip media's.

DubaiLandLord1:
What's wrong in having ijaloja general?

baby124:
The man has to be very humble. Some men will be dirt poor and walking around with ego, doing everything to destroy what the wife has accumulated so that he will be better than her. They can’t see past their ego. That building on what she has will be to the benefit of their family. A woman has to be wise and know who the husband is before parting with huge sums of money.

Some will even dump the woman that helped them once they make it. Because they want someone who does not know their poverty story. So, Don’t blame women who don’t part with their money.

Women generally know how to manage money far better than men. A wise man should seek his wife’s advice if she is successful. She must be doing something right.

Men always trying to prove to their peers that things are still great even when they are struggling. If you perfect humility, contentment and a lack of need to show off or compete in this life. You will go very far.

Go to clubs and see men who don’t have jobs spending their wives money on bottles to impress people who don’t care. Dem plenty. Kings of fake life.

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

A man requesting for money from a woman is only trying to trade his pride as the head of the home.

The only time a man should be given money by a woman is when it is needed for a personal and mental development which will bring a fortune to the man and home

SILVERLINES:
He is a thief

What happened in Lagos wasn't a may accusations.
I was once a student and can tell that lecturers are not heartless except you are not law abiding and d behave anyhow for school

SILVERLINES:
He is a thief

What happened in Lagos wasn't a may accusations.
I was once a student and can tell that lecturers are not heartless except you are not law abiding and d behave anyhow for school

IbileIfe:
Beating a woman is a sin.
Beating a married woman is an abomination.

I beat men who beat women.
As long as the women prove their case against the men.

Tickles001:
I don't even start that kind of relationship with anyone who doesn't like doing. So I'm likely to marry someone who is my match.

But if later in time she decides to use it as bargaining chip, or denies me as show of defiance. Under the guise of "I don't owe you".

This is what I'll do:
I'll join her in the game. I'll become a total stranger to her and she'll has to convince me with good reasons before I do anything for her. Because I don't owe it. I'll start with asking her to leave my house because I don't owe her shelter. No money for upkeeps, nothing at all for her except I'm doing it for my benefit.
I'll plan my withdrawal so it will hit her well, and make her leave.
I can't be living with an inconsiderate somebody.

InTheCloudySky:
Your post is too long.
Concision is the word.

As for the question, no one owes anyone sex, even in marriage. If a woman says no, that means no, even in marriage. Forcing her is called RAPE, even in marriage.

Klass99:
Why do we (women) even allow ourselves get into certain situations? What are you doing with 5 children, knowing you have very little to no support domestically? The wear and tear on your body nko, from carrying 5 pregnancies over time? Don't some women care about their physical health? About looking good and feeling good just for themselves?

My top performing classmate who graduated with a 2:1 in Accounting ended up in a similar situation. Five children later and she is divorced today, she never put that 2:1 degree to good use either, her story broke my heart.

There was a front page story where a male user said - the truth most of us don't know and men won't voice out is that, wives become unattractive to their husbands after child birth, because of the changes in their bodies. Hence the reason they look for younger women, with firmer bodies and tighter pussies, to sleep with.

The guy's post had 367 likes at the time I saw the thread/his post, I can bet you it wasn't women liking his post but his fellow men. Which means they all agreed with his view, I wasn't even put off or offended by his comment because it was a realistic, matter of fact submission. But, what I thought was - if men feel this way then why are women putting themselves through the stressful wear and tear of multiple child births? It's not like the more kids you have, the better or stronger the bond between you and hubby, sef.

These men will flee for a firmer body, forgetting it is because of their children your body has sagged in different places. Hubby hadn't even touched my classmate in 2 years at the time I was hearing her story. Me, I will just quench because touching, holding and cuddling is one of my love languages.

We need to do better for ourselves and by ourselves as women, when it comes to a lot of things.

eazzzy1:
Cheating o. People are enjoying the stability marriage brings and the excitement that being single brings.

obembet:
My advice to all Ladies there is that when a man comes, make sure that he is worth it and make sure that he knows your rules …

Ladycewhy:
So una dey off light do, cos I don't know how he didn't notice your breasts and stomach has been through alot.

Mummiesgirls4:
Yes including your father , uncles and brothers mtcheeew

Mummiesgirls4:
OK maybe after I put to bed maybe after seeing our beautiful baby boy he might find a place in his heart to forgive me

Iyaebe:
Don't ever tell him,don't be an obstacle to your own happiness.