₦airaland Forum

saphiere:
Men are terrible

Haakeem:
Like isaac and rebecka in the bible right? I am not in support of the nonsence talibhan are doing,but you are indirectly insulting all the muslims.

hakeem4:
The son looks like him. I wonder how his NURTW boys would look at Oluomo children bagging academic degrees, while they are bagging various degrees of injuries

koladebrainiac:
Dino Melaye is dumb
I just realized that now with his statement

Nigeria economy has been under the mercy of Covid 19 since last year
many industries can not function anymore because of this

so with this vaccine, lots of business will come back to life
eg exhibition business



this is where I work and no international exhibitor will visit Nigeria because of Covid 19

the perception itself will scare the foreign investment away.
The vaccine will bring confidence into the mind of the foreign exhibitors to come to Nigeria, creating revenue to Nigeria through import duty and revenue for Flight sectors and entertainment sectors will benefit from them.

So dino does not know what he is saying


No matter the dept of his dumbness as claimed by u, I swear u nor fit get one quarter of his sense till u kpeme...

felt:
I struggle a lot because I don't have an emotional relationship with my dad. He never opened up about anything, not even his childhood, failures and all. He is well respected, so it always feel like a struggle to be as good as him. He is nicer to people outside and just cold at home. I don't even want him to be nice at this point because I am already used to him being cold, but I still hate it.

I grew up with a "2 parent" childhood. I say two because my parents have been together for about 30years and basically argued all through.. For about 15 years, have never slept in the same room.

It may sound crazy but I can tell you all my life, I ve seen him laugh just once with us, and that day, I was shocked and confused how to respond to it. If I never saw him happy with his friends, I d have thought he was never capable of it.

He never congratulated me, instead compares us with others. Even when I finished sec school, the first words from his mouth with disgusting look was "no prizes" when he realised I didn't receive any graduation prize.

No one feels comfortable with him. We can't even be around close perimeter when he is around, we speak to him from a corner because of fear. It's extremely uncomfortable when you find yourself alone with him, because the only conversation is perhaps a complaint or talking about the future, and it is one-directional and controlling.

Yes, he didn't really beat us, but he was and is still distant and extremely controlling. If he entered the sitting room, we all left. He watches (TV) news alone and even if we just weren't interested, he makes us feel worse by asking us questions and ridiculing us for not knowing. And not a joke type of ridicule, but plain... "Are you stupid" type. The first time he saw me watching a movie at 14, he called me stupid watching people make money, instead of learning how to make mine. First time I genuinely asked him a question about something I didn't understand in my science book, he made me look so stupid. It made me doubt myself so bad and want to choke myself whenever I didn't understand anything. But looking back, how will I really fully understand something I ve never seen and a young age. Infact the exact topic was on electromagnetism (Motors and generators).. But I was 13yrs old. I remember I will then read random abstract non-related books online to force myself to understand everything, and go in a loop when. I can't. Recently I ve tried to slowly and very consciously tell myself that it is okay not to understand sometimes.

The atmosphere around him is horrible. Very horrible. I hate being around him, I do. I am closer with my managers at work than him. I tend to bond more to strangers than home. And I am by no stretch a failure, I have achieved things that people would have doubted I did, but he never congratulated me. Instead he makes me feel bad for not doing it his way or not doing better. He compared me with many people growing up, but now I am better than them, he never congratulated me.


I don't like him. People say they love their dad. I basically simply do not!. I only feel appreciation towards him and tbh, I d love to gather and return all the money I think he may have spent on me growing up, so maybe I will feel free. I don't just like him.

To our Older people here,.. Please help me...

I m getting past my mid 20's and this is troubling me. I don't want to say this, but tbh, I hate him, I hate the person he made me become. I do understand people have fights with their spouses but I question what we (kids) really did to deserve this. What was our offence

Maybe my offence is existing and I am sorry for doing that Sir.





Edit. For those asking. My relationship with my mum is essentially dead! I live two worlds with her. Most of our conversations is about her fights with my dad and while I am not relating it toq him directly, for other whole reasons, I don't like her too. But at least, I am able to say simple things to her.

Kuns84:
..and what are the traits of a real woman?

Nairaland is full of jobless girls who are quick to define what a man should be yet have no standards for themselves. That's why half of you open social media accounts to show off your bodies and twerk for likes since you have nothing else to offer.

You claim men see women as "sex tools" when you sell yourselves as sex tools - sleeping with men (old and young alike) for money. Proud to be a 6th wife like Regina Daniels to an old man for money.

So which gender actually portrays women as sex tools?

helinues:
50k is what you called paltry? Though we are yet to authenticate this latest development but if you can not fear God, try and fear devil small

PlayerMeji:
While Buhari trekker just got a car and 2 million naira simply for trekking politically...

SarutobiEky:
loud it. Them no dey hear. Girls have enough helpers. Imagine if we help each other more? Most men would not be jobless. But if you check well most positions have been taken by women because if boobs and yansh

SarutobiEky:
It's another one. Men assist your fellow man, life is harder for us, una no dey hear. I don't pity this bastard. If him like make him drink poison for the matter.



Any time you assist a girl instead of your fellow strugglerz, you're prone to receiving this kind of treatment, fool. Help a guy, and the tendency that he'll return the favour is extremely high. A woman's only interest is herself.



Stupid piece of shit. Clueless fuvk.. useless asswipe. I hope you cry your eyes out till you run out of tears. Lesson well served. Another lousy fella receiving penance for actively serving in the simping 606 battalion.