l agree on this one , a 3rd class graduate in public university can easily make 2.1 in private university,,
let be honest with ourselves most private school were exorbitant bills are paid do everything it takes to award good grades to students so as to maintain their customers!! l have taught in a lot of this private schools and l must tell u DAT is not funny!! that reminds me of chima a law graduate from Babcock university who can not differentiate between executive and judicial system of government!!

An average poor man just hate the rich for nothing!!

Emodeee:
Traders? It's local. Even in accounting, trading, profit and loss account was changed to income statement. Even in Victoria island, water corporation road was changed to corporate drive. Come up with something better, trader is a "no."

lol

haryorbarmie83:
Hmmm. It will not locate me and my loved ones.

but it will locate those u don't know abi? selfish prayer!!

Ahumanbeing:

Alright!

bro let me have your WhatsApp contact l need help on how to begin with fiver ! thanks

VeeVeeMyLuv:
With the way things are going many many people will end up unmarried

how do you mean sir? pls explain

There is this girl that l have been after for some time now, The problem is that we are very close but l notice that this girl will hardly text first or initiate a conversation when we are online, but when l text her she reply fast and we usually have a good chat,,,l just feel that if a woman is into she will at least try once in a while to initiate conversation,, pls is this a sign the girl does not love me

vanity upon vanity!!

Xanos:
This is going to be a hard pill for many of you guys to swallow. The truth is, if you are always texting a girl she is going to begin to lose attraction for you. She is going to begin to see you as more of a friend than a potential fuçk mate.

Guys who fuçk girls don't spend long hours texting them. Even if they text, it's only to make plans and meet up. Stop trying to keep a girl company by being her text partner. It won't do you any good.

Stop commenting on her WhatsApp status and stop sending her funny memes and tiktok videos. That's nonsense. Text only when necessary and be as brief as possible.

l can bet my life you are not up to 25yrs going by this post, someone like this may not have seen a woman underwear for over a year now.

phemmyfour:
The mumu always want to be the hero. Waiting to take the 5th penalty. Unfortunately , juve lost the first two penalties

imagine?? If they cross check your life now you will see a low life individual struggling to feed, but yea, he have the gut to call someone like ronaldo mumu.

stanliwise:
That is the way attraction works. You don't controll it, every man is attracted to anything that we find pleasurable and it is beyond our capability to control it.
Until you live the compound, nothing will help your case... for the main time just discipline yourself. watch the attraction symptoms for like 2 months if still sticks then bro you may need to make her a part of your life.
Just ensure you act responsible and maintain your respect in all circumstances and whatever decision you make ensure you reflect upon it. you're a man and whatever choice you make as much as it is a responsible one, it is no one business. As much as your feelings and intentions are genuine then don't overthink things. The only thing you may worry is if the said girl is also a responsible girl also. Somethings cut between reality and our dreams. you must balance them for sake of public respect.
Apply wisdom with every step

thanks very much

olisaEze:
Rather than focusing ur energy on how to hone ur cv to give urself better chances in our ever dwindling labor market, ure focusing ur time & energy on one small brat in ur compound who is still testing her social boundaries. Na so bros take dey turn area adviser.
My broda go and hustle so she can be d one doing d chasing when u become somebody later! Remember, the beautiful ones r not yet born.
If u like hear word if u like continue chasing luv upandan, just understand that love does not grow but growls on an empty stomach!

Ka Chineke mà ézi okwū!

true. Thanks man

stanliwise:
if you're attracted to her then you can't control it. The best you can do is to avoid her and cut all bridges to always be with her.
Also remember we have something called infatuation, this feeling may rise due to been naive or just because you have been to idle, wait with this feeing for upto 2 months and this time get busy with other things if it still there then it means your attraction for her maybe real.

Been nice to her will get you no where, it is not a step forward. A step forward is for you act accordingly that you find her attractive, this is by just merely gestures and some playful confession. chances is that she knows you really like her already, Girls aren't that Dumb, they read body language more than we guys.

Make a decision today, if you like her and you think you can start something with her, act accordingly and when you feel you wanna go forward then just discuss it with her how you feel and you will consider a relationship.

If not then just keep in the midde, don't ask her for a relationship and don't pretend you are not attracted to her. Coming out straight and not hiding your feeling for a lady is a mature way of expression rather than doing unnecessary kindness and buying useless gift. Show your attraction by expressions and simple compliments of what you like about her. Any form of kind gesture to her must be on your own term and what this means is that you act kindly when you see fit and not because you feel it will impress her, by doing this you will always respect yourself.

BUT NEVER, I REPEAT, NEVER PUT HER ON THE PEDESTAL AND WORSHIP HER.

Thanks brother, staying in the middle is what l already resorted to do, The playful hint on expressing my feelings you suggested, l have done that and she her self should be well aware of it, l don't call her everyday and don't use all my day chatting her up, when am at work she barely comes to my mind, but once am done for the day and strolls into that compound l lose all guards and the feelings creeps back, l just want to be in control of my sanity about her. Thanks anyway

moscow406:

Typically what happens when a guy gets locked up with a lady, devoid of the sight of beauties of the other gender. He starts seeing what he is cooped up with as his best chance. The local dog now looks like a foreign breed.

The best way to overcome your challenge is to get out and get busy, meet more girls, don't stay at home too often, watch movies, develop yourself, strengthen your mind; it's obviously weak. It seems like she's the only one proximal to you so your brain is automatically tending you towards her. If you're not careful your feeble self will lose control to her slightest touch, making you salivate like a lost puppy that has finally found a master.

Get up and get going

good one

Baddestguyp:
is she up to 18? Even if she is, don't let one small girl toy with you... Leave her alone and face your hustle

yea true

billynoni:
Am always waiting, am always chatting, am always thinking... Mr graduate, "I am" please.

thanks

Olude193:
For Godsake


You a graduate with no job

I think you happy being a parasite abi

You had better go and engage your thoughts and energy in being money productive...


No shame at your age... Compound relationship.... You a baby

so all graduate automatically have no job? Get your fact before spewing pls.

fuckingAyaya:
U get play station?

nop

This girl lived in the same compound with me, she is a jambite and l just graduated from the university last year, how l develop feelings for this girl to this extent baffles my imagination. I hate compound relationship but my emotion is just too weak to resist this girl. We have become very close and here lies my problem, :Am always thinking about this girl, am always the one chatting her up, am always waiting and watching when she will come back to the compound, am becoming a complete simp and an idiot due to the feelings l have for her, am becoming more vulnerable with my feelings towards her and am afraid this girl will know how much l love her and use me. This evening she wanted to go through my chat on WhatsApp and l refuse, she formed anger and l became weak and even have to beg her to collect the phone. I doubt this girl feel half of what l feel for her, but each time l try to get her off my mind l fail. What do l do nairalanders this is not what l want to occupy my mind with at this crucial point in my career, how do quench this feelings?

themaestro08:


Still doesn't prove anything, just the usual anecdotes

dont let me call you a fool with this your illogical assertion, go to my profile and see what masturbation have done to me, science can go to hell on this issue of masturbation

EngrEgghead:
Gather your life first, bro. Get your bearing about life. Be fulfilled to a certain extent and leave the poor girl alone.
There are several fishes in the river and you can get one after you have become successful.
It's obvious the girl needs someone who can guide her through about life and relationship as she lacks good orientation. Be the one to offer that proper advice. Stay focused, bro

Thanks very much

theTransporter:


You feel? Locate the nearest trash can and put that feeling son.... Yeah, I get your point but u will end up with exactly what you are trying to avoid(the friend zone) , how about that?, you want to hear "you are now like a brother to me" right?. Women love confident men, everything you are doing now she knows you r just beating around the bush, she feels you r not bold enough to say what you want. Cut the crap of all those excuses and make ur move. Better be bold oh cos it strikes me that you are the shy type

Thanks boss, l will do this before tomorrow runs out,

FromZeroToHero:
How old are both of you?

she is 20 and l am 26

varnaija:

Frame ko glass ni. Don't go and find something worthwhile your time, continue asking and dwelling on inconsequential things. Your life will end up in the wrong frame as you are now. Idiot

one can sense frustration all over your ranting, probably a woman in her 37yrs that have been unable to get married due to her obnoxious behavior, take your frustration else were ewu.!!

Coborona:


You have a weapon in your arsenal you are not using
You are thinking like a woman, all emotional.... She's using your emotions to tease you

This is what you have to do,
Women loves attention
You just said it... You've gotten close to her
And she can't do without talking to you each day
Starve her of that attention and watch her running to you

Now you are in charge and can start stamping your foot on the ground

thanks man

varnaija:

What you should work on is your English. I pity that gurl putting up with a Dundee like you

hope you are not stupid? You should be sensible enough to understand that l was not in good frame of mind when l was typing this, "professor in English," how many mansion did you build with it?

oluwaleinad:
She's offering you free PK but you're busy asking for long range freekick,free goodies for you if you know how to play the card well.

boss u think say the girl dey interested

luvyaself95:
Once i found out my crush has bestie my brother is a no no for me. Beside those kind of girls do chop their bestie divk.
As for me i will just chop the cookies before that you need to act like her boyfriend to have her cookies.
but that doesn't mean you should be spending money on her and buying her gifts.
Just use your brain that my advice.

thanks

anthonyuncle:
see baker dey offer u cookies for free,
instead of u to collect, taste, chop & see if u go receive more,

u dey ask for da recipe

bros how l go take chop this one, l just dey confuse. Help me abeg.

theTransporter:


You have not even toasted her, u will soon enter friendzone if you ain't there already. Tell her what you want ASAP, if she don't want move on, if she agrees and continue with her bestie bestie, then u can bring up the matter here. Don't simp around son

thanks boss! Na the friend zone l hate pass, l have use every opportunity to communicate this thing to her, she is well aware of my intention, the girl is just 20 yrs just feel like asking officially for a relationship may make her feel caged and put her off, just want us to flow naturally until it click to we're l wanted it.

This girl live next to our compound, and my feelings for her develop rapidly even before getting to know her. When we got to know each other the feelings become just too much, l enquirers if she is in a relationship which she said No. However through her Facebook account l notice her always tagging a certain guy and l jokingly tease her abt the said guy which she claim was her bestie. I have succeed in developing good relationship with her, she can't stay a day without wanting us to talk, and when l goes out she always want to know if am with a girl. She have given me a gift of perfumes and even wrist watch. The problem is that she most a times bring up the issue of this her bestie telling me how they spend time together, l have jokingly let her know that am jealous when ever she say so, but to her she sees it as teasing and fun. Yesterday the guy called her and she was just echoing honey and sweetie cus am there with her. If this girl is already my girl l would have easily warn her to stay away from him BT am still chasing her and she is initially closer to this guy before l came. Pls am confuse are these normal games women play or l should forget abt her?

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