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After 40years?

Girls, if you know you don't have a job, keep sleeping because of sex.

U want to stylishly decamp, confess

U keep it

Her father wouldn't have finished the bride prize money.


Take her to her parents house for refunds but if you like her, let her still go back to her parents house for marital IT (industrial training).

Na so

White Konji

Her girlfriend u mean?

Now I need to find a place to run to. Ondo state isn't safe.

Its like its not the president they'll give ultimatum to vacate the seat of the president. Ibinabo should show the president how to vacate the seat of presidency.

Will she go to Otuoke? Nope, I think Ketu is closer.

He should not worry, march 28 everything will be over.



Just hold on.

Bra?







The only time I hear that word is when my teacher says "open the bra and close the bra".

They told me in my village that I'll be dull when I drink coconut water.






I'm not drinking, I have one last exam to write.

Opportunity for Nigeria to life the world cup.

And someone is somewhere looking for a reason to live again.


Shitty brains!

Low IQ africans

Smh!

God bless the Nigerian Military,
God bless the Mobile Police,
God bless the Civil Defence,
God bless the Vigilante group in the North East,
God bless the family of these Men
God bless Nigeria


We're winning!

It would've been a good idea voting you but you haven't shown any seriousness in ruling this country, GMB.

If you have the best plans for the country, your team would've been made up of saints and good hearted people.

These people you parade yourself with are thieves, liars, corruption and angry politicians.

We don't want to be ruled by past cabal and their hunger for power. Especially the brown-toothed man from God-knows-where.

Sir, try and coach a young man who will have the same mindset as you're telling us you have and let him come out for president. We will gladly vote for him.

We're only refusing to be deceived, stolen from, deprived of our right to speak out and feel free to walk in our streets.

Good job

See the stomach of the politician.

Bad person!

Take a step backward from relationship.

Look inwards and see what you need to develop in yourself.

Love yourself more and spoil yourself.

Work hard and save more money

Spend time with family and friends.

Now, look well this time and choose wisely!

God using fire to bring down unrighteous places

Flytefalls:
What makes you think I plan to get so involved in his love life? My mum leaves my brother to learn his own lessons in his relationships, yet she is quite close with his gf. My mum does get it wrong sometimes, I am not afraid to have a mature discussion with her about the issue at hand, not just accept what she says just because she's my mum and she's 'more experienced' as you say. Nonsense. Since when did anybody have all the answers?

... Bloody Kanye

Let's how the game plays

bukatyne:
The MIL business did not start today So the point of nowadays ladies is moot

I asked you a simple question: Can the wife's father also correct the husband?

The husband is open to correction if he's doing something wrong.

bukatyne:
Lols

The MIL described is not ready to have a smooth relationship with her DIL

Serious Lol @ she has taught her daughter like her DIL was not taught.

Such a MIL has failed If she could not select a well bred DIL for her son.

I also hope that the wife's father can also correct the husband

I don't concern myself with what the wife will be doing with her family. Her business.

Oh! Now its the MIL that selects DIL for men now. Hehehehehhehe.
You have forgotten how humble most women are when they want to marry these men. They deceive everyone and when they get married, they start showing their colours.

Ladies of nowadays bad sha!

Flytefalls:
Feel free to laugh but it doesn't change a thing. When you choose to marry, you accept the fact your wife now holds importance, do not brush her aside because your mother, or father, tells you to do so. Did your parents intentionally plan to raise a robot? I doubt it.

Your mother is someone's daughter, who became a wife, then a mother. Don't get emotional about it, this is the way things are. If you call all DIL's manipulative, then your mother is not exempt from that judgement. When you speak of wives, you are speaking of your own mother. When you speak of mothers, you are speaking of your own wife. Don't marry unless u understand that we are all prone to misjudgment and mistakes. No one is exempt, not even any mother, not even any wife.

Ladies love bringing that leg. No wahala.

Mothers will be mothers and wives will be wives.
When your son gets married, just leave him to his wife.

bukatyne:
I am calm mister

Who should be the all in all in a man's life if not his wife and vice versa

Would you be happy your wife has placed her father or mother above you?

Why should the mother wait till after marriage before she starts her saviourship skills? What was she looking at before the marriage? Or she was not There when the officiating minister said everyone should talk now or forever hold their peace?

And I hope the salvation extends to her daughter or does she want to leave the daughter to her fate?

First of, you didn't meet the man as an island and you can't come and claim him as if he is all yours. He has a family and has a responsibility to them and the family has a responsibility to him. If her mother sees something wrong in his son's life, she'll say it because you don't expect a mother to see something wrong and keep her mouth shut. No way!

DILs hate to be corrected and the MILs will correct you whenever you're wrong. Some DILs will cook meals for their husbands late and expect the mother not to be angry. She'll talk.

Some DILs will tell their husbands to stop some thing he is doing for his family and when the MIL finds out she'll talk. How do expect a mother a keep quiet when her son stops caring for him just because he has a fat woman at home he calls his wife. No way! Mother will talk.

Some DILs have seen the bound in the family of the husband. She is afraid that the man will be that close to her like he is to the family, she'll start poisoning the man's heart. Trust mothers, they'll talk!

Yes, her daughter has gotten enough teachings from the mother. Mother has taught daughter to know the MIL well enough to be able to avoid problems with the MIL.

The main reasons why most ladies have problems with MILs is that they don't take their time to get to know the MILs before running into marriage. Thinking marriage is all about me and my husband alone. Madam, you are on your own when u think like that.

bukatyne:
A mother who has the time to 'save' her son from his wife's 'manipulations' all the time has a terrible relationship with her husband.

And I would believe the manipulation nonsense If the same mother can warn her daughter to stop manipulating her son in law

Pray your mother has a loving relationship with your dad and she has stuffs going for her and let's see If she has time for deliverance.

Your here is not personal.

Be calm please, my mum had the best relationship with my dad his family. To the extent that whenever my dad travels to the village, they all ask of her as if she's the one they're missing.

These mothers you girls are crying hell about were once good when you were dating the man. Or you girls didn't take time to know them when you were dating the man?

You girls want to be the all and all in a man's life when you know he came from a family.

When your son gets married, leave him to his fate.

Flytefalls:
BS! If that's the truth then your mother is equally as manipulative as any wife, therefore deserved any disrespect that came her way from her own in laws . If your paternal grandmother called your mother a fool then would you want your father to stand idly by and agree with her? Don't be ignorant to the true issue here, some mothers get it wrong and cause tension where there need not be. If someone is wrong, why would you praise that? And let's be serious, what would a MIL know about her DIL that her son would not know more of? If you want a sustainable marriage, you've got get real, or don't get married.

I just laugh you. You didn't raise any point here. If you really respect the mother and son bound, you won't interfere with what the mother tells her son. Whether you like it or not, you can't change it and the son can't help you in this. What are you offering to the man that another person can't offer that you're looking for a higher place than the mother?

If you listen to the story of how mothers train their children, you women won't come here to cry foul. All your responsibilities in the home can be taken care of by a paid maid. So?

When men get married, what they hold strong start changing. They start thinking like women. The women will smile in the sitting and shout in the room. Confusing a healthy working man. He'll be so confused when he goes out and always find solace in his mum arms who understands him and knows how to quell his anger.

Why can't you women try to know these MILs before marrying the man. After marriage, the MIL is now wicked and a witch. Stop hiding your bad behaviour like you just showed by calling my mother manipulative.

Please don't say that again. Thanks

Eneze1:
Whether we like it or not no one can like you the way your mum does. Some MILs still believe they still have to control everything that goes on in their son's life after he is married which is not possible. A lot of times most MILs sees their son's wife as a rival and someone that comes to take their place in their son's life which is the major cause of rancour

I disagree with some of your points there. The mother knows the son more than the wife no matter how the wife is close to the husband. Most wives are manipulative and turn their husbands to their switch but the mothers see these things and call their sons to order. They even go as far as warning the women to stop manipulating their sons.

A guy who has a kind of principle of life which the parents have seen and cherished, the woman will come with their manipulative ways and make the man think another way. A man that takes care of his family will start ignoring his parents because she wants money to do some things.

Our mother loves us more than you women can ever do, don't hate, just live with it.

Don't forget, mother's love and prayers keeps us going.