Romance › Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by victorian(f): 12:48pm On Apr 03, 2019 |
Babe forget the guy.
How can u just fall in love like that? Without him even doing nothing to you, he hasn't even touched u or had sex with u, u are already helpless in love.. Better forget the guy. He's the type u will be begging forever if slight issues comes up. Focus on the other guy asking for your hand in marriage and see if u can grow your feelings with this one. |
Celebrities › Re: "My Bae Owns A Private Jet" Daniella Okeke Shares Adorable Photos Beside A Jet by victorian(f): 11:11am On Apr 03, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Hmmmm madame, are you sure? Her yansh is very big oh! If the yansh like, make e big like bazooka! Na my Bae own everything she get. Even the air she breathes. 
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Celebrities › Re: "My Bae Owns A Private Jet" Daniella Okeke Shares Adorable Photos Beside A Jet by victorian(f): 8:08am On Apr 03, 2019 |
Yeye!
My own Bae owns you! Your private jet lover, with the private jet and everything u own and he owns including the air, both of you breathe!
And my Bae is God.
Now get your yansh off my way!
Smhhhh! |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 8:02am On Apr 03, 2019 |
GrossPrice: I did not intend to offend you. Neither, was it my intention to trivialize your right as a member of the society or as a woman. Thanks. |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 3:44pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
MyFlair: I have just sent u an email. Check ur box OK seen. Have replied. |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 2:49pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Francejaik: Babe you fine joor
I was only joking. Do have a splendid evening Smiles thanks. And u too, have a lovely evening. |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 1:59pm On Apr 02, 2019*. Modified: 2:19pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Francejaik: Is this your real face This excess make ups cum cropping made you look like a PS 2 Graphics. Really? It's my real face. I like makeup, but light ones. If u see excessive makeup, u go bow. I'm even learning where makeup is concerned.
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Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 1:56pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
MyFlair: Alright, that's good. I want to connect with u. I'll DM you via email OK cool. What's your email id? |
Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko Is Behind Regina Daniels’ Cars, House - e-NIGERIA by victorian(f): 10:35am On Apr 02, 2019 |
Amatarasha: metchie onu gi biko Dont mess with me akwuna abuja ,
Talking bla bla bla , You and funmisticslave dont av thinking faculty at all Go n marry pls
She misbehave n you clap 4 her ,She will soon stab you for Wat she is, (A rogue)
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Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 10:31am On Apr 02, 2019 |
Champagnegold: Victorian. whatever you said as advice doesn't justify you my dear you have miss it. too bad even to be a Reverend sister you miss it. pelle big aunty.
Oga, if she put ur pics or not, it is a sign of love. guy go fix ur family no they tell third party, na ur wife deal with it.( Shey e bin dey sweet u ) Thank you ! I didn't seek for your opinion, huncle. Swerve! Your opinion is irrelevant huncle Ade Advice the Op, not me . Huncle adviser! |
Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko Is Behind Regina Daniels’ Cars, House - e-NIGERIA by victorian(f): 10:22am On Apr 02, 2019 |
Amatarasha: Shut up there will you !
You are evil and terrible than her ,u be better akwuna u think i dont know YOu fungikween
Pple has told me your life already ur just so filled wt agent of prosiscuity and lies
If she said you **** are serving at terrorist camp borno i will believe
You n victorian might be birds of the same feather in perpetual lies and wickedness
No be only lagos " nonsense liar You are mentally deranged. Jeez! I bet you've not taken your drugs today? So much hate! God forbid! Funmistiqueen, please Biko stop answering this hateful thing called amaratasha. Ignore amaratasha for Christ sakes! , she's a pure waste of time and energy. Phew! I can't deal! |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 10:18am On Apr 02, 2019 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 10:10am On Apr 02, 2019 |
Meliaen: Yeah we haven't. Actually meant you were apt. Thanks sis. Smiles OK. You are welcome my dear  Warm hugs sis # God bless us, amen.  We go dey alright at the end. In fact we are alright ! All we need is an icing on our cakes! 
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Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 10:07am On Apr 02, 2019 |
hausadreturn: Nice epistle. How convenient for you to have said ''oga you're not tall, dark and handsome''. Nawa o.
Secondly, why did it have to be a pastor that advised you on marriage before making the next step? Cause I needed someone who knows me and is spiritual but not emotionally attached to either him or me, to look at my scenario and advise me. I was so sad that day as I poured my thoughts to my Pastor. He saw how sad and confused I look, and quiet too. Im always a lively person but that moment of making a decision about him, my spirit was unsettled and very sad. My Pastor has been my childhood friend from primary school way back til date. We go a long way, on and off. |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 10:00am On Apr 02, 2019 |
Meliaen: Have we met before, fine lady? cos you are so so right!. I can't forget the statement he made that made me decide I was done. It was an utter, wicked one meant to blackmail me. Apart from that, my ex was almost perfect.
- If you want a problem solver, he's all of that. I mean, what most would see as a challenge, he would squash.
- If you want a hard worker, a responsible man, he's all of that. He's the type that would put family first. Ex was a hustler in real time. There was nothing he couldn't do. Why he's very successful till this day.
- If you want a honest man, he's all of that. Integrity is very important to him.
- If you want a generous man. My ex was too generous and altruistic.
- If you want a man who keeps his word, he was all of that. There was nothing he said he would do that he didn't. For 8 years, we talked everyday when we weren't together. Awwwww  Your ex is such a cool guy. Smiles we've not met before  , I will remember if we have. I don't forget faces or events . |
Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko Is Behind Regina Daniels’ Cars, House - e-NIGERIA by victorian(f): 9:56am On Apr 02, 2019 |
Bossjakande: is yigiyaga on ban Nope, he's been very busy lately with his biz , and attending to clients' offers. No time to even chat with me  but he replies late at night . He will soon be back online. Missing him?  |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 9:12am On Apr 02, 2019 |
GrossPrice:
.. "I can't date you because your are ugly"
This happened in nursery school? Gosh! I didn't say he is ugly, I was simply not feeling his looks! Do u know why God created us all differently with different shapes, heights, colour and all? Because everyone have different taste when it comes to marriage or even friendship sef. If not? God would have created us all to look like. The notion that a woman can marry any man cos he's rich or comfortable or average is wrong! Not all women and not me. I can't marry any man out there. I have my own taste! Sighs, Nigerians  |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 9:00am On Apr 02, 2019 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 8:58am On Apr 02, 2019 |
naturefellow: Those are my exact thoughts up there!
And, personal peace and happiness is always paramount, that's why you see lots of ladies are still single today. Most of them have witnessed lots inatabces of unhappy marriages, and rather choose to be single with bliss. That was a wise decision. I hope the right man comes for you soon! Amen! Honestly people don't know what it means to have inner peace. It's something money itself or sweet words cannot buy. And without it, I can't function well. I'm happy o! Others can say rubbish, I don't give a fucvk!  |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 8:55am On Apr 02, 2019 |
[quote author=MyFlair post=77187010][/quote]Yes I teach as well.. And also an instructor. |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 8:53am On Apr 02, 2019 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 8:52am On Apr 02, 2019 |
MChaze25: The truth is that you yourself might wait forever to find love before you marry. It's not even easy for anyone to find true love these days. Irony of life. Keep your faith up dear. We don even search tire. Eeyah  I rather be single for life than marry a man I don't love. That's the irony of my case. I tried it before and it went against me. I was emotionally blackmailed for years due to such action. So It's either all or nothing. And I will not regret my decision. May God help us all amen |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 8:50am On Apr 02, 2019 |
engrelvis: my I look at dp n u said u don't take bullshit .well from experience(am 46yrs n my marriage is approaching 14yrs now) any man or woman dat don't take bullshit always v difficulties in settling down.l doubt d authenticity of dis story .something doesn't feel right. In the past, I used to take bullshit! And I almost died in the process. Not once not twice not thrice. If not for God, I had already given up hope in living. So don't tell me what I know and experienced already. I'm in a good place to say because of God and nothing else. |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 12:09am On Apr 02, 2019 |
Meliaen: God bless your wisdom. As for me, I only started to feel free when he got married. I mean, I began to live only after he got married for he used to blame me for the misfortune of breaking up. The first few years weren't easy but I can now say to a great extent we've all moved forward. Amen my Sis. Don't mind him, he's the blackmailing type. It's not like he spent a dime on u. But he simply used emotional blackmail on you. Thinking with such attitude u will go back to him. Smhhh I'm glad u didn't allow him push u into changing your decision Do u know there was even one guy like that, weve not even started dating o. He simply wooed me and I was like lemme think about. I didn't really fancy him, lemme not lie but I felt telling him no! Outright will not be the right thing to do. So I said lemme think about it, gimme til next week. Before next week I sent him a message : sorry we can't date. I'm not feeling your looks. The guy called my line immediately and said I have crushed his heart. Tears are falling from his eyes, have just ruined his day. He fell in love with me the first day and he thought am already his. I looked at my phone and I was like in my mind, is this guy OK? How can i be yours, when I said lemme think about it. He was like he's so heartbroken, he can't even continue work today anymore and he started talking like he was crying. Then he cut the call. I say na WA o.. See me see trouble! We never start and he's crying or pretending to cry, God abeg o! Thank God I didn't date him o or even collected a pin from him. Can u see how manipulative some guys can be? How much more yours? |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 11:55pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
doggedfighter: Will you shut up. Cho cho cho doggedfighter: Will you shut up. Cho cho cho Heffalump: Are you the lady in question?
Your analysis is so fitting! You are both Daft! Bloody monkeys!
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Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 11:49pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Meliaen: Jeez, you just told my story! However, in my case, no pastor helped me think things over. I had to find the courage to do things my way. We were together for 8 solid years and when marriage started to look like it was drawing nearer, I could see myself developing cold feet and crying on my wedding day so I summoned the courage and broke up with him. What op described is exactly how I felt about my ex. Matter of fact, I could pass as his wife. If ex would describe me, he would say things like I wasn't demanding and all of that. I never did ask him anything materially. When I called it quits, he did everything to get me back. Literally asked my family to beg on his behalf but I stood my ground. Ex is married now but calls me his wife. The break up shook him so terribly that he resigned from his job and left the country. Eeyah but u just had to call it off, orelse both of you will be miserable in the marriage. You did the right thing. Don't marry out of pressure. In due time, yours will come and u will be thanking ago every day for giving u the courage to wait and be with the best ,meant for you. Marriage should not be endured but enjoyed. It's a life time commitment. I'm at peace and content with where I am. Hopefully one day, I will feel excited with the right man for me and he will feel same  Life is all about choices.  Thanks for sharing |
Celebrities › Re: Ned Nwoko Is Behind Regina Daniels’ Cars, House - e-NIGERIA by victorian(f): 3:30pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
husbandsnatcha: She claims she is in camp in yobe ,the tse-tse fly n gnat wont even let her sleeptight victorian come n carry ur sis  Y'all won't stop looking for trouble online. Jeez! Funmistiqueen is serving in Lagos NOT yobe!  |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 3:26pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
forray: His story is incomplete. He shld tell us more. How is intimacy btw them and their relationship indoors apart from the public show he wants and her attitude towards gift.
As for me, I am a very private person, don't like social media show off and I don't get too excited about gift. But my partner is the opposite. I let her have her way but if its way out of my comfort zone, I caution her. So this might just be the way she is.
If[b] she is failing in her duties as a wife then we have a problem[/b] Exactly! And I love the bolded. That's what the op should be concerned about, not getting worried about his wife showing him off on social media and all. My own is, do your duty as my husband and father to our kids. I'm cool with it. Personally ,deep down i don't like show offs! |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 2:08pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
gaby: Hahaha....this babe and Victorian ehnnn una case na war...
Were you guys per chance buddies in your former life and decided on the opposite in the present?  She's the one asking the questions nah . What have I done again? Can't someone answer in peace again? 
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Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 12:37pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
PaulAris: Simply feeling yourself huh Of course you're, you're clearly chatting with King Charming na I guess you must be raining too,: hehe! ... [At bold]; Lol! so chewing works it for you? Damn! you must be an aggressive lover(lovemaker) Well I could consider your proposal, but, my lips are tender right now and it needs all the softness it can get So... Lol No comment. |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 12:22pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Thought you're a seamstress? What has classroom got to do with sewing? Smiles, Being a Seamstress is not my main job dear. If I talk about other businesses and career I have alongside , u will start all over again with insults , saying I'm lying. It's no use talking about them. I thank God I have more than one source of income. Infact the sewing is a part time job, once in a while thing. Not my full time job. |
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 10:32am On Apr 01, 2019 |
Ishilove: My sister, op seems like a social media person while his wife is the opposite. I don't find anything wrong with her attitude. The only thing that raises my eyebrows is her cold attitude to gifts, but I bet if we question the wife what she will tell you is completely different from what the OP has painted here.
My verdict- OP is a noisemaker while his wife is his exact opposite Exactly! Her attitude to gifts is also the only thing I see wrong.. Apart from that, Op has no issues. He had better adjust, likewise she too. |