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PaulAris:
Hahaha!!
I thought she was supposed to be at work
She couldn't resist showing me herself huh
So what, you want my review?
Uhh... those lips keeps on staring at me though. Gotta change the angle
p.s. Its just a kiss, it won't hurt nobody. As a matter of fact, I'm coming over to come get it!

I'm in the office already. I took this pic in the classroom. Im simply feeling myself . No harm sharing my today's look nah.
Who's asking for your review?

No be only come and get it, nah come and chew it!

PaulAris:
Aii
Morning kiss?

Kiss ke! U want make guys wooing me in this forum get angry with me.
No kiss! Biko. I don't know who I will end up settling down with. Lemme not burn my bridges with my own hands.

Just my morning pic instead, I'm just feeling my looks this morning

Lol .

Ishilove:
She is not abnormal. She is just very reserved. I see a lot of myself in her and i can identify with her, which is why I know she's normal.

Not every woman likes showing off their private lives on social media contrary to what you think. I know I don't. I know I can write about my private life online, but definitely not post pictures. You two just have very different temperaments.

If you know you like social media wife then why did you marry her?? Never marry a person with the mindset that you will change them. Have you changed yourself? Are you the Holy Spirit that changes? You saw the kind of person she was yet you still went ahead to marry, thinking you are the doing her a favour by marrying her, now two years down the line you are complaining.

Abeg carry your cross and make things work. Your madam sef is acting like she is doing you a favour by marrying you. A little appreciation would go a long way in making your partner feel like they didn't waste their resources buying you gifts, although I wouldn't go as far posting pictures if my man buys me a car. That would be dialing your village people's numbers.

Na una two sabi abeg.

Correct Babe!

Your head is screwed right!

People just like posting pictures of their lives, as if they will get paid doing it.

The op prefers celebrity wife.

They can show off anything, even their bathroom, they will post it online.
Smhhh.

Op problem is the wife doesn't show him off on social media and publicly, as if she's won a huge prize marrying him.

I like the way u analyze the situation. For me, anyone waiting to see the pic of my husband will wait, till 1000years to come. I ain't showing off Nada!

PaulAris:
Ladies and their maked-up mind, so beautiful!
[Paragraph 1]; You know, I was gonna tell you I was not interested in knowing.
But then he told me how you know all these things, so I just gave a grin to myself saying of course.

[Paragraph 2]; Women!

[Paragraph 3]; You know you could be charged to court or given subpoena for your comprehensive skills, its preposterous.

[Paragraph 4]; Aww, how cute.
I could give you a hug right now if only you were

Yawns"

Have heard. Need to rush off, to work.

Whichever way u come to your conclusion is OK by me.

No time to argue back and forth this morning. So many things I need to resolve today at work.

Byeee .

sowilli:
bow is my post an insult. You are the one insulting. If you don’t have enough wisdom to defend or make a point, you keep shut. Don’t come with the silly talk” don’t judge how people live their life” . Now that I have painted a picture how these lifestyles can affect your life, you are insulting. Get sense !

Not time to argue, money has to be made, this is April 1st.

Keep arguing with your keypads and cursing yourself

Byeeeee!

highcollide:
You're going to have daughters tomorrow. Be careful of your utterances. Life can surprise you.

I will still not condemn people , that's the plain truth.

You know why?

Condemnation changes no one. It even makes the person's heart to be more hardened than ever Or lost forever.

sowilli:
Gunmen will one day come steal kill and rape your children or even you and I will like to hear the society repeat the bolded like you have said. Let’s stop this how person live their life talk. Speak for the truth and what is right.

Lol, you don't need to insult or curse. Cause your curses will not work on my children and me. You are cursing your children and yourself. Amen.

I dont need to waste my time on someone who is delusional.

If e pain u so much, she's sleeping with man old enough to be her grand father, go and arrest her, and arrest the mum and the grandfather join. Or better still use cane flog all of them.

Ode! You have your life issues, u Neva still solve till date, another man own is paining u.. Lol

Your mumu na follow come!

Smhhhh

PaulAris:
Does she even know who Prince Albert his?!
Just cause you see Prince you already assume some movie scene, lol
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I do not do pms!
Ask for my number or better still, scroll through my "Posts timeline". I put it up in one somewhere.
And hey, I don't sell his Pups online.
So you might as well not bother.
Cheers!

Ok

highcollide:
Be reasonable. You're going to raise your daughters in this same society. I hope you're going to free your daughters when they start sleeping with their grandfathers mates

Well by God's grace I will raise my daughters to make right choices in their lives.

How another person choose to live his or their lives is none of my business, that's what I'm pointing out.
You all can wail and insult them from now till tomorrow, they will ask u? Has anyone ever cared how we eat, pay rent and take care of ourselves?

The answer is no one has ever cared how they survive. And no one will.
Because we all have our own for body to solve.

I don't castigate, I don't condemn people especially when it has to do with selling their bodies for money. They know where the shoe pinches. And are ready to go all the 10yards to survive and live in luxury.

Nobody helps, nobody cares, so allow them take care of their needs, the way they see it fit. It's none of our business.

PaulAris:
He could be, infact he must be.
But that doesn't change anything does it.
I feel he was used or prolly still being used.
Like you said, she saw she was ticking so she accepted out of pity.
No wonder she dosn't wanna show him off. She must have bragged to her friends about the kind of man she wants or must have been engaged before and everyone knew about it. But fortunately(lol), she got dumbed and used and became heart-broken prolly even a sadist who knows.
And Yh, she surely must be cheating, don't ask me why, the signs are just clear.
Writing sweet words bout' your Masculine friends instead of your Husband?
C'mon!
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By the way, I notice you seem to know a lot of similarities about such women. You been in such shoes before huh
I do not wanna believe you still in it

I doubt If she's cheating on him.

I know much about what almost everybody goes through, not only her type. And please don't ask me how, cos I wont reveal.

Then i'm not in her shoes and God forbid I won't be in her shoes.

Almost everybody has gone through one heart break or the other, she's not the first, neither will she be the last person on earth to be heartbroken in love. In fact more heartbreaks coming up worldwide to people across the globe.

Almost everyone has had the dream and wish to marry someone they feel is the perfect one. With a perfect image in our minds. She's not the first and she won't be the last as well.

So no need making it look like, the husband married someone who felt her life is done and over with due to her past life.

Then pertaining to me, I'm OK with what I have going on in my life.

And lastly I don't resign myself to circumstances. No way, i don't.

If king Solomon could marry 1000 women, who are we 2 judge.

Abeg free the babe! Na her pussy do am for am.

If Toyin Lawani is disgracing herself online, showing all sorts, even appearing stark naked online to land a big god or gods . How much more this small girl.

It's her choice. That's the only way they know how to make it in life.

PaulAris:
Lol! Why are her ears all pointy at the mention of the beauty of such a man.
So who did you think I was describing, Prince Albert??
[At bold;] Well from where I'm from, we not so few in number.
Well, your eyes sees what your mind wants it to see. Whether it be myopic or not.
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Something fascinating huh
Now I'm wondering what word you'd have used if it was my photo you lingered on instead.
[At bold;] I should "holla @moi"?
How does that work?
I'm a lil' too stranger for all thisslang

I wonder o, not only Prince Albert, Pls add Treyz songs as well to the list.

So back to your dog? I said if u have any extra dog or puppy that looks like it, Please click on my pm and contact me, I would love to buy one as well. Such breeds and colour are rare.

So op simply move with the flow in your marriage. Your wife won't leave you.
She's made up her mind to be committed to you . Don't bother your mind about showing u off.

Tonto dikeh that was showing off her husband and their kisses online, where is she today? Lilian esoro? Where are they today? So it's not about showing off.

It's all about commitment and you've got that at home

At least thank God for that.

Oga, you are not tall dark and handsome. Talk true make devil shame.

Anyways I understand what she's going through. Cause I almost got myself entrapped in such kind of marriage but counselling with my Pastor saved me on-time.
I'm not saying u are a bad person, neither am I saying u are ugly but the thing is this : you can be someonelse dream man , perfect and Denzel looking to another woman except your wife. Your wife has the idea of how her ideal man should look like.
Not all women are tall, dark and handsome as their ideal looking man. Some prefer average height, natural for looks with a muscular or athletic body. That's why God created us in different shapes and sizes.
And your wife who got married in her 30s must have seen it all, got heartbroken by the kind of guys, she would have love to marry and settle down with. But reality dawned on her, such guys won't make A good husband to her. Then u strolled along into life, she realised u are serious with marriage. She checked herself, she's not getting younger, what da heck! Lemme marry. I will simply resign my self to this marriage as long as I have a family with him. Who cares about happiness and love. Most marriages sef are just there.
And with what friends will always ring into our ears everyday. Marriage is not about love, it's about marrying a man who is ready and capable to stay married. Just be humble and calm, have your kids and have a business or career going for yourself. That's all. We don't always marry who we wish to marry and here we are with our kids. You cannot be selective anymore, forget about falling in love and just Marry!
That's exactly how your wife feels. She's resigned to her fate with u. She cannot leave u, cos she's determined to stay married. Her happiness is irrelevant as long as she's Mrs.

What a life


In my own case, I stopped myself on-time from marrying the guy who proposed to me, after opening my heart to my Pastor. My Pastor said do I want to be lifeless in the marriage, I said no with tears almost running down my cheeks. He said good, then don't marry him, cos u will regret it. Tell him kindly u simply don't love him, which is the truth. There and then I felt so free and alive, I even felt like hugging the pastor with so much joy! Lol
I told the guy, I'm sorry dear, I can't go thru with it. And I don't regret it. I feel free and alive! . I don't care about my age. I just want to feel at peace wit my soul and being.

PaulAris:
Lol! Yh
But a logical man(which is almost all men) never willingly marries them(side-chicks), especially after that occurrence.
They'd rather seek spiritual help for their Wives and if to no avail, they'd remarry. But not to those silly lil' girls that're on the sidelines.
Men don't really do this fighting for another man's wife, I guess
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[At bold] In between reading my post you checked my profile?
Lol! why do most people do that.
So what were you hoping to see, a photo of a pleasing facial appearance with an expressive thoughtful deep brown eyes subjected to a defined lip that's laced with a piercing smile?
Not so quite!
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By the way, what's pree?

You said: A photo of a pleasing facial appearance with an expressive thoughtful deep brown eyes subjected to a defined lip that's laced with a piercing smile?


At the bolded, do Nigerian guys really have such looks!
Please stop reading Mills & Boons! Such looks uv described are rarely found in Nigeria. Lol
You funny! Describing such looks as if they full town remain. Lol

So guy! I checked your profile, at least 2 see the face of the guy behind your words. It's that simple . Don't be smug about it. Almost everyone online checks profile, I won't be the first, neither will I be the last.

And alas! I saw something Fascinating , your Dog!
So pretty! That's what Pree means, Short hand form.

If u have a spare dog like yours, holla @moi!
I love such dogs.

dawoyo:
Bro come on, she's good looking abi nor be she be this?

My funmistiqueen baby!


You are in camp!

Wow! She looks takeaway!

Love her to the moon and back, muah!

Funmi camp fit you o!!!

Sighs her fashion designing biz and restaurant biz, hair dressing salon biz, no pay again.

Prostitution now is the next big thing!

Na wao

I use to respect this lady way back, but with what she has diverted into? My respect for her has turned into disgust.
Sighs! Na real wa!

PaulAris:
Let me help here:
Divoc isn't disputing this
What he's simply saying; the level of dangerousness(this sounds better) of one is greater than the other.
Cheers!

Do you some side chicks have dealt with wives spiritually, by making some wives run mad or even die mysteriously, so the husband they are sleeping with, will marry them. I know of such cases, very well!

In between I like your dog

So pree!

Your dog is pretty.

I don't even have time greeting anybody's husband sef.

Who get time!

If u greet me, I reply but keep walking to my apartment.

Smhhhh! The wife must be arrested. Bloody nuisance!

chiroyale:
How do people move on biko.. I need lectures..

If you don't move on and your husband is like you, who finds it hard to move on.
The next move will be Divorce.

And Divorce helps no one, especially a couple who still loves each other.

Marriage has its ups and downs. You must be flexible to understand life goes on after the storm and learn on what brought that storm, so it won't happen again.

ednut1:
The soceity is at fault . Dem go blackmail ladies to marry monsters because of biological clock smh

My dear, you can say that again.
Have seen cases where a lady was pressurized to marry, by friends and family, and she did. Guess what? She died mysteriously before one year of her marriage. Her husband said she fell ill and that's the end of the matter.

Another one , the lady was used for rituals during the process of going with her fiance to meet her in-laws, so she can know where his parents live but guess what happened to this one. The lady was found raving mad at Ibadan expressway, the fiance no where to be seen. His address? The place is empty, neighbors said they have no idea such guy lives in the apartment.
The girl is locked up till today, still trying to recover her senses.

Another one, she got married, and got pregnant the first year but died within 6months pregnancy due to high bp . Ask me, who made her bp so high that killed her?
Her husband of course.

That's why I look at getting married with great fear, cos some men are just not IT at all! The peace I have been single is amazing but las las person go marry.

And that's when I'm very sure of whom I'm marrying. Anybody who pressures me about marriage, na cut off straight!

I pity the lady, such pretty lady.

Smhhhh

She will make bastard billions off politicians and every other person worldwide that wants their sexual fantasy to be fulfilled . Na WA o

Sex sells, big time!

This one na high level sex! Just name it.

The world is truly coming to an end. More souls will be lost and manipulated there, all because of sex. She looks like a Marine Queen.
I wish her customers luck!

No be only celebs dey owe.

No be only celebs dey run down business.

This gbese thing cuts across all classes of people. From the top to the bottom

Some Nigerians can ruin biz with owing and slow down things. It's that terrible

Next time, he won't allow credit. Likewise me, I won't allow credit in my biz.
Na wa. It's when u hold them tight on the jugular, that's when they start taking one serious on settling their debts.

Well in my real life understanding, When a woman does not like her fellow woman, just keep clear from her . Because if people or other friends reconcile both women. Trust me one of the two women will be thinking of striking back, even after the reconciliation.
But if u have a female friend who likes u naturally, most times they stand by you especially if she has a good heart .

I don't force friendships with women, if u like be my friend, if u like don't be. I care less but just don't block my way or tamper with my loved ones or else na war to the end. Live your life and lemme live mine.
Shikena.

Money2000:
Pls, a solution is what i seek. Youre making matter more complicated

Lol

Some guys never cease to amaze me.

The hunter is now the haunted.

beatmonster:
Hmmm. From my experience, it is not that simple though it works.

Let's see if my luck will shine via this way.

#TeamForeignLadies

Please try with these foreign white ladies and u will be amazed how they will fall for u.
Just be sincere and loving

[quote author=chriskosherbal post=77113396]babe yes you are right but not 100% though and it mostly apply to foreign babes and very few I mean few naija babes. Do you know how many men did the above you mentioned to these naija babes and still get cheated on several times cos they tagged then 'nice men' if you think women are smart, I tell you babe two can play that game now men are getting smarter everyday knowing fully well that most naija babes forming love are just after want they can get.

This is my opinion ...when it comes to relationship issues there is no standard/almighty already made formula/template, cos what works for A may not work for B[b], just be yourself and trust God.[/[/b]quote]








@ the bold, you are right, especially when it comes to an African woman, especially most , simply be yourself . But for a white young pretty lady? And a lady like me? Biko take to my advice. If being yourself means u are not naturally caring, or loving but you expect love and commitment from the woman u want to be with? What then happens?

One of my nephews contacted me saying he wants me to choose a wife for him and he's scared of today's kind of ladies and he prefers his agemate or abit older lady from age 34-38 and she must be abit fat , can be dark or fair. But he likes them fat. But I told him can't he woo ladies around him or in his church? He said he doesn't have the time. And I was like wow! You don't have the time shey? I said OK. Have heard. But in my mind, I know he will need to create time from that 'I don't have the time to really achieve this feat of finding a wife for himself. That's one

So I notice most nigerian men are not caring , no time to be romantic, maybe they don't know how to be caring and loving, . There kind of care is SEX!
And that's how they care.

Also most men can lie for Africa with make believe stories, and it's sickening. Most Nigerian ladies may not buy the idea of having a loving caring man but there are still some ladies out there, who will cherish such men, as long as he has something going for himself.

Even when ladies coming close to me lie in some sticky situations, I get so angry and cut off, how much more a man?

So to land such Oyibo chick, not Nigerian chick Pls heed to my advice.

beatmonster:
What I don't understand is the template Mikel Obi used to hook this girl down.

I need that template

Be sincere, loving, and caring. Don't fake it. Cause women are smart, then how much more white women. We know when you are faking love that's not there. Oyibo don't have time and patience to stay with a fake guy with fake intentions.
Then have something good going for yourself, don't be a broke assz without job and expect such beauty to look your way.

It's that simple.

She looks like the Boss in the relationship. See Mikel look quiet like mouse!

Money covers bullshit! She's gat the money!

Boss lady!

Na WA o


All these actors are seriously depressed!

He doesn't have patience for deceit or lies.

Or to be suffering and smiling, when he has gotten to a level where he can have the best of all women. Why suffer just few days after wedding ?
No time. Before kids starts popping out.