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wetdick:
SO BASICALLY THEY DID IVF THEN BROUGHT OUT KIDS. EVEN WITHOUT THE PRAYERS, IF THEY WERE EDUCATED AND AWARE SHE WOULD STILL HAVE HAD KIDS WITH IVF.

I HOPE YOU KNOW THAT IVF IS LIKE FORCING A WOMAN TO BORN KIDS LIKE RATS, IT IS DANGEROUS TO HER HEALTH

She didn't go thru IVF

wetdick:
SO BASICALLY THEY DID IVF THEN BROUGHT OUT KIDS

She doesn't have money for IVF, she and her husband are teachers . They are not rich like that.

She was placed on some drugs and injections to boost her fertility.
After a year she got pregnant. The pregnancy was monitored and she gave birth, after two years, she got pregnant again, gave birth to another child, then just last year she had another one. That's three kids.

Cause they went for medical checkup.

MissRaine69:
You lost me here
“Before she and her husband were always going to church night vigils, church programs, they are even workers in church, prayers with prayer warrior and pastor everytime. Until Pastor asked them , have they gone for checkup? They said hmm no! They are believing in God. Their Pastor said faith without work is dead and they should go check themselves and that's how they did and knew the wife has low fertility”

Are you aware that someove will step outside the marriage to have a child even when she knows it’s the man with the issueZ

So unless you went to their appointments and saw their results I remain skeptical.
I would walk away. I can’t crucify someone who was honest.

I meant they were all about prayers without checking themselves medically. For 5years they were on prayers, night vigils and fasting, but no pregnancy, until Pastor told them to go for checkup, they went, the man was certified OK. But the wife fertility was low, So she took drugs and injections to boost her fertility and eggs. Within one year, she got pregnant. They have three kids now.

Then For me, stepping outside to get pregnant? I won't do such unless we talk about it and he agrees to it. Cause u will be surprised, some of these men know they have the fault but will play along foolishly with their wives
Their wives will feel they are smart giving him another man's child but he himself is aware he's not the father. He will smile and pretend to be happy but There and then, he will never trust her again. But simply play along with her.
That's one reason we have zero trust in some marriages.

So it's better to walk away if procedures to increase his sperm count is not working. Better to move on. Likewise for a woman too, if it's detected she had tampered with her womb and no uterus? Biko let the man get another wife.

MissRaine69:
Drugs to boost sperm? It’s not feasible in all cases.
Ok Einstein just so you know
Not all infertility can be treated Male or female.
And secondly those examples you given are of woman who have access to money and resources not all women can afford that.
Too many IVF cycles causes early menopause

But at least one will try if there is money, than to seat idle.
My married aunt of 46years old after 20years of marriage and endless trials in drugs and fertility treatments, she eventually got pregnant with twins boys.

Another married friend of mine, shes not that rich. Her husband too is just an average worker and it took them 5 years, before she got pregnant. And they are not rich but she confided in me that her fertility is low and her doctor prescribed some certain drugs for her, which she was taking consistently. Before she and her husband were always going to church night vigils, church programs, they are even workers in church, prayers with prayer warrior and pastor everytime. Until Pastor asked them , have they gone for checkup? They said hmm no! They are believing in God. Their Pastor said faith without work is dead and they should go check themselves and that's how they did and knew the wife has low fertility.




So if it's you missraine, what will be your decision in such marriage? Or relationship?

Jisos!


Chai! This is serious.

You need to arrest her asap!

Odabo123:
Lol I don’t agree with the civic duty but I appreciate the honesty

I will say it as it is.

My dear, no time to sugar coat things.

For me, it's civic duty


I was talking to my friends and we were talking about teenagers in school messing up and all. I said we'll my own is this, I will talk to my daughter, if u want to have sex use protection, use condoms. I don't want to hear u went through abortion? Neither do I want to see any extra human being following back home when u graduate, except the man who wants to marry you and lastly your womb must be intact! I no wan hear story.. As soon u graduate, we heading to our family doctor hospital for checkup. I want everything intact in that body of yours! I no hear story.. I'm I understood? Keep that brain, pussy and womb intact for God sakes! Those are the only three things u owe me in this life, after graduating with First Class or second class upper. Story I no wan hear. And pray our doctor gives us a good result after all the tests and scans
My friends were looking at me.. I said yes o!

amaniro:
You're the type that makes The whites believe our IQ is low. Thrash babies are annoying.

What's my own with me and the white man?

I'm living my life the way I want and have dreamt about it, u are talking of white

What's my own white man?

Make white man go siddon one place and lemme breed my kids and have a lovely home.

White ko, Caucasian ni.

MissRaine69:
Using your argument about God creating women to have children. What’s the purpose of a man who has low sperm count or no viable sperm?
So the men is infertile so what’s his purpose in life? To shoot blanks?
The woman should look to stay or go?

That's another reason why God gave man the resources and idea to create drugs in boosting sperms and also fertility in some women. If I marry a man who sperm is low? We will go for treatment and go through the process of boosting his sperms. I will walk the walk with him, if he's eager to be a dad. If he's not eager, I don waka!

But a man with blanks? That's no sperm? Such men are rare to find, but if God forbid I marry such man? Hmmmm, I will honestly be thinking about divorce or he allows me get knocked up elsewhere and bring home my kids. If not? My dear, na divorce. I can't go through life without having kids, at least a mini me, which have always been dreaming all my life and possibly cute boys that look like me, but if they take their dads look, no probs, but my girl must, I mean MUST look like me! Cos I look like my mother (refined version) while my mum God bless her soul looked like my grandmum( her mum). Invariably I must have my own version( no contesting it).


OK look at Kim Kardashian, she has sensitive body and womb. Doctor says her pregnancy will be high risk, she almost lost north her first daughter, she went through hell and back, lots of tears during the pregnancy stages, mehn it was hell for Kim but she pulled through at the end. Due to those pains and issues hee body went through, almost loosing her life, they resulted to surrogacy in order to have more kids.

In fact Kim and Beyonce are competing who will have more than the other.

Abeg! Kids is extremely important in a home.

Odabo123:
But no one is 100% and I don’t want divorce outside children that’s why I asked. Because I grew up knowing love matters But it seems to a Nigerian man children matter more. Am I just a baby maker?

God has already created a woman to give birth to children, it's your civic responsibility as a woman in a marriage. Love is not the only thing that holds a marriage together. All those talks about love is all that matters is all fairy tales. In the real world Where we are, it's not just about love only.
Family, children, compatibility, team work, loyalty, passion, care, etc are certain ingredients that keeps the home warm and eager to rush to after a hard days work.

Your man is an African man and he's been sincere to you. You are a woman for crying out loud. What's the use been married without the tiny innocent voices and screams of those lovely brats, we call kids

Abeg move on from that discussion ,you both had and look at the brighter side of Spending your lives together and enlarging it.
For me it's a MUST!

I no wan hear excuses. Love alone cannot do it for me

Odabo123:
I guess my point is I feel like it’s just an excuse because chances are I CAN have children

You are sure u can children. Then relax and ask him when are u guys entering the next level. And plan ahead. Kids will come, as long as both of you are certified OK, in the fertility department.

No need opening this thread sef.

Madam U no get problem .

lobell:
Other questions have been previously answered. You might not have been aware but a lot of progress had been made.

Lol

You are a complete joke!

Abeg Bounce!!!

I'm not interested in your questions and answers. Focus on another lady online. They will gladly reply u.

Goodbye!

lobell:
Why so much bile though? Getting to know someone is not monitoring, or is it?

So if you are getting to know someone, the first question u will ask is : do I have kids?

Are u from real?

Lemme ask, how old are u?

Odabo123:
Thank you for your response

You are welcome.

Please meet with a gynaecologist and check your chances of having kids.. It's very very important. My dear this one is not church or pastor matter.
No Nigerian man will accept to marry his gf who says she may not have kids for him, no matter how much he loves her, except she accepts he marries another lady outside the marriage to bear him kids. That's if he loves her so much and still don't want to loose her.
Most will be thinking of walking away. Unless the man is an eunuch , then he can let it slide. Be very sure before u close up the affection between u too. Biko.

May God see both of u through amen.

lobell:
Just curious.

It's none of your business, monitoring spirit.

Focus on your life instead.

Op, can u try and check your fertility status with your doctor, so u can be very sure u will get pregnant after walking down the isle. Don't abandon ship yet until u are sure, u are fertile.

We Africans love to have our own children. For me, I can't trade not having kids with an eunuch for anything in this world. No matter how much in love I feel with my man . We must have children. It's a MUST.

So check your status and know what u are about to face now or in the future.

Better!

Fucvk as u much as u like and whosoever u want. You owe no one no explanations.

Correct babe!

He looks hungry.

Babe no ready to carry extra liability join the one she get already


Sorry dude! Go and make money, then come back to re propose again.

Pure evidence of the man who got her pregnant, leaving her to go thru whole 9months of baby growing and labour all alone . Will such a lady still think normal again? I bet the guy responsible must have kicked her out of his room after she mentioned happily she's pregnant with his baby.
Most men coming your way just want to fucvk and jakpa! Ladies make una borrow sense! And abstain! If he cannot abstain, free him to carry his bad luck away!

Human beings make una fear God, fear wickedness, be humane for once. Men be responsible for once! Anyways the Cane will touch the lives of both the mother and the father of that unfortunate child .Amen.

Fathertony:
dumb question

Too dumb I tell you

All these monitoring spirits roaming online sef

lobell:
Do you have kids?

Why do u ask?

Why focus on me?

Cee c, Nina, Alex, Tobi with everyone here castigating Alex.

All of una no get work!

As if you all are virgins. Typical of Nigerians and their hypocritical ways. Smmmmh

If they av sex, wetin consign una!

Most of you fucvk in all manner of useless places, and yet come online to yab Alex.
Honestly to be jobless is a curse.

That's the result of marrying a bad guy.

Both men and women, know whom u are marrying or about to marry. Don't marry your killers in the name of I love you.

Also it takes two to make a marriage or relationship rosy and sweet, not just one person In a relationship.

Don't worry next life, you will be strong headed and marry your choice but for now? Focus on your kids, grand kids and business, shikena.

You don live your life finish.

That's life.
One day etomi sef go born her own.

Everyone get their own time and turn.

Congrats Linda.

lefulefu:
but even in abroad a lady will not just be accepting money and gifts from any random guy nau cos there must always be a bargain. Even if i had a younger sister i will advice her to be careful in d way she collects money or gifts from stange men. Any brother wey c dat video of dat guy beating a girl over 20k he spent on her wont be happy if na im sister e happen to.so to avoid such embarrasements if a man just dey offer u money jus say thank u.. But in nigeria dat will be hard.

It's better and safe to reject the offer from a random guy.

True on dat

Auladimeji2:
Rule 1:Never stay at home after cooking

Rule 2:Buy small cooler

Rule 3:learn to frown your face when cooking, neighbors go dey fear you when you are cooking

Rule 4:Never you speak good English with him,it makes you look like bom boy in front of him.Speak pigin with some thug slang, it makes you look like a street wise in front of him

Rule 5:learn to say "NO" and stand by it


In conclusion
Oga buy small cooler,whenever you are through with cooking, put the food inside the small cooler,take it to bet9ja shop and eat it there.It works


No dey do like Oteme boy

Lol



On top cooking of food again?



Na WA o!


Op kukuma dey padlock your door with titanium locks. He can knock forever, naim sabi.

That's how I do. I always lock my front door. Then knock forever I won't answer. Except you be spirit wey fit pepentrate walls and doors? Then it's finished

lefulefu:
well it ought not to be so but understand nothing goes for nothing.na nigeria we dey

Thank God u said, it ought not to be

If it's abroad? The white woman will give him a dirty slap and he dares lay a finger on her, she's calling the cops. He will jejely go and cool off his dickk behind bars.
Such men, I don't want to even come across with. How much is this money we even dey talk about? Mere 20k? Naim he wan die put!

Smmhhhh

The guy needs a brain recheck!

lefulefu:
generous u say?. U mean as generous as dat dude dat beat up a girl cos d girl no greee give am puna chop after givin her 20k. Ok i don hear u.

Must a guy be generous to a lady because of sex?

lefulefu:
hahahahaha i had one neighbour like dat then..i pally wit dis girl wella. Anytime some of her facebook and instagram admirers dey halla her on phone she will put it on loudspeaker make i hear wetin dem dey yarn and after d call she go dey tell me how some of dese men are married and how shameless they are. But if dem send her recharge cards or dem credit her akant she dey collect o. On a day babe recharge account go dey read 15k all sent by admirers. Chai nigerian men.

It's good like that.

At least no be all Nigerian men suppose stingy die

There are still some generous ones and God will keep enriching the generous ones who spends on their ladies in Jesus name Amen.

I gats pray for them o

lefulefu:
u are a female so such is expected. Even females on the street both the attractive and d not so attractive get bugged by guys and on the phone is on a different level so its not surprising if u now get bugged on nl. Em Victorian i know u go dey get about a million pms every second

Haba!!!

Take am easy nah?


Million Pms ke!

DanDeeBoss:
JK-Just Kidding....

Smiles ok

martyns303:
I just played a typical bad boy role on you, and it worked.

ps: I am rich, cute and charismatic but not single. enjoy the rest of the evening sweetheart.

Oh really, didn't know that was a bad boy role u played.



Nice one.
Say me, hi to your wife.

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