₦airaland Forum

His immune system is low.

Take multivitamins , vitamin c and treat the malaria with a better drug this time.

Multivitamins and vitamin c for like two weeks at a stretch. It will make u hungry, then eat well too.

After two weeks u are good to go.

DukeofNZ:
e no dey necessary say you lie to am before you go show say you de interesting in her. she no dey like germany person

Lol, abi?

Martin0:
oh really, mehn chai, me too I'm set!just waiting for my friend to shower!

Perfect!

My pics in church right now

Already seated

LordsApostle:
can I send a pm?

Yes!

Georgexx1:
This your beauty is German made. Just that mother nature gave to a Nigerian. #cutie

Na so

Martin0:
my dear, nor be their fault oo, and nor be matter of say them full our area, you suppose know say fine babes plenty everywhere..

you know, work nor dey give me time to chyke, but make we cross over first!

That's true

Am getting ready for cross over night. All dressed up for it. Pastor said we should wear green or mixture of green.

Let's go there

Georgexx1:
You are really soft and fresh. Are you German? I love Germans

Lol German?


No o!


Am confirmed Nigerian.


Lemme see your pic too

It's well.

Eeyah


It's well.


We all need God to keep us moving in strength and in purpose.


Hmmm

Martin0:
this woman how way nau? i know say you just dey pop up with those your fine fine friends

nor blame me, i just dey arrange mys

I'm fine


I understand, it's needed.

But with all the fine babes in your area, one suppose fit your bill nah?

LordsApostle:
Hmn

Nice pic.

U try small

Eeyah!




That's all I can say to your epistle Martin0

sacx:
This babe be like chinko

Hmmmmmm

FalklandOIO:
Hanty Vic, I hear you o... But abeg if na only one partner dey cheat e go bust person brain nah, but if to say nah both of them dey cheat as you alluded than its easy to mend the marriage. But in this scenario na only one party "allegedly" ( cuz the real truth of the matter neva surface) dey enjoy am e come be d woman .

And to think my couz was one of those boiz wey dey always like to "rum n sing n f**k during his Uni days but left that life on the altar of being responsible and faithful

In some marriages, na only one dey cheat, while the other turns a blind eye. While in some both cheats but later forgive themselves and make amends.
So in your cousin scenario, he's having a taste of ladies he has bleeped and dumped in his university days. Karma has decided to rear its ugly head on your cousin, smiles.

If he like let him be, Mr faithful and Mr responsible in marriage, karma will still knock on his door. Except he's lucky to marry a virtuous woman.

Youngpo413:
even cheating?

Yes even cheating


Couples who want their marriage to work, forgive each other.

Celebs whose marriages are still standing firm, simple forgave each other in cheating. Cause they want it to work
Do u think Omotola is faithful to her husband? But they are still together. The husband sef is doing his own, far away abroad. But chose to stay together for the kids and for glam.

Rmd and jumobi, u think they were both faithful to each other abi? Their own almost break them up but they realised they need each other, more than ever.

Ben Bruce and his wife. You think Ben is so faithful abi? He's doing his own codedly and the wife simply turned blind eyes to it.

Even Jay Z and Beyonce.. Jay Z cheats, Beyonce well tries to cope with it, and she's coping well even though it infuriates her sister. They are together cause of the glam, power, fame and money. They make more money and fame staying together than to divorce, even though she's a drop dead gorgeous diva worth billions of naira.


You can see the irony of life, with couples out there.


I'm not supporting cheating but at the end. Some couples do forgive each other, if they are remorseful about it and promise to change? Marriage continues

While some nah Divorce straight or stabbing the partner. While some will kill the cheating partner and all their children with himself or herself join and burn house on top.

That's complete massacre.

Na WA o.

With all the money and expensive cash gifts kanye has been pumping on Kim.
Million dollars gifts here and there, he is still insecure?

Na WA o


Because of Kim, he fell out with Jay Z.

Now it's drake.
Kanye is really obsessed about Kim.. Nice one

nijabazaar:
Thats just the best advice....

Infact, i have sworn to subject my wife to every ante natal test for foetal deformity. Especially, for down syndrome. I can never, would never indulge in having a child with defects. The trauma is just too much

Am telling you, just too much trauma.

People praying to have imbeciles or down syndrome children ,instead of waiting on God to bless them at His own time with good healthy children
I wish them luck

mastermaestro:
I love Aghogho. If I ever married an Urhobo girl, I will honour her by naming one of my daughters Aghogho. Sweet name.

Don't take Aghogho o.

People bearing aghogho are always opposite of their names.

From experience have had through other people and my family.

They cause heart aches.

FalklandOIO:
Wen you swear for better for worse there are still some issues or trials you can gloss over. No one is perfect neither is any marriage perfect. But the decision to abort should have been taken together. You catch my drift?

That's true. She should have told him about it.

Keeping such important info away from her husband is very wrong.

And as its for better for worse. They should seat down and iron things out properly, be sincere with each other and forgive.. Then move on.

Cos some marriages today, couples go through alot and still forgive each other

Kobicove:
I don't see anything wrong in aborting a baby that could have some birth defects

Me too


A friend gave birth to a child with defects they are going through hell as we speak. And the child is really an imbecileee.. I pity them. I told them, why didn't they abort? Why keep such child. They said its a sin to abort.
I say na WA o

Nothing wrong in aborting an slowpoke. They are better off ,not existing sef.

Hmm but op, your friend marriage na wa.


Am short of advice about it.
Cause people like your friend will still reconcile with his wife. And accept her back.. So I have no advice jare.

skentelelady:
Please stop supporting what's not. Can your immediate elder or younger brother address you like this in public as she was there when u were crawling?

That approach is wrong stop westernising everything. Who's her little Anita? That's an insult on a woman especially when their husbands are age mate.

Lola can be 46 but she decided to stoop so low to marry a younger guy close to Anita age so she should mind the way she talks. Don't mention she's trying to be sarcastic here.

Would she take that from another person?? Capital NO from arrogant Lola that I have know for years

Abi o


She's stupid for saying such.

Little ko, lika ni

She should use her brains for Godsakes.

iammee:
egbami which one is ur little Anita

I wonder too


No be only little.. Smhhhh.

She's not serious.

Her mouth will cause another rift again.

Little indeed.

YorubaEmir:
So this is why Yoruba girls de rush me. Since I stepped my foot in Lagos, na soo them de fall head over heels to get my attention. Chai... there girls must be missing something

Na so.

Hyping yourself already.

I have a Muslim female friend from the north and a delta igbo lady friend.. So we were gisting and talking about the home and men.
I asked them, do they know there are some women who do not want to work after they are married, they just want to be full housewife. The delta info for lady said what kind of woman is that! Why won't she work? At this time and age, she wants to be full time house wife? There is something wrong with her. She had better dust her yansh and go work and assist the man at home.

The Muslim lady said, nope I disagree. If she doesn't want to work there is nothing wrong with it. That's some women destiny and what they signed for before God created them and those women, if their husbands treat them well, the husband will be so rich. The delta igbo lady said, that's fallacy. The Muslim lady said that pure reality.

And there is nothing the husband can do about it, than to understand the kind of wife he married. She said like her aunt is married and she doesn't work and she always say to her friends and family, God didn't create her to come and hustle on earth like a man. That the hustle. She hustled before she was born, she had done enough of it already, before she came to this earth, so it's time for her to enjoy.

I was just laughing. She said yes o.. And her husband is progressing in biz and they are living fine. The delta igbo lady almost burst a nerve arguing that the Muslim. Lady aunt must work. I had to use sense to wrap up the gist. Then the delta igbo lady left.

The Muslim lady said Aunty Vicky see ehn, I pity that your friend. She has already conditioned her mind to work like a. Man when she marries. she will just get old before her time and she's even looking old sef. Eeyah she can work o!

I said na WA for u.. Your mouth ehn?

YorubaEmir:
Nne ehn u wan use laff kill me. But na true. Most them no like hustle. Them go just wake up for morning, yawn, stretch leg, go backyard begin smoke weed.

Honestly ehn? Even the ones that have job. They behave like they don't have job. They go to work quite all right, day in day out, but nothing to show for it.

I went to a store to buy drink, and I got talking with one old Yoruba woman. The woman was praising igbos and Hausa men . She was like these two tribes can take care of wives ehn? And they don't allow their wives to over labour themselves at work. While some don't even allow their wives to work But in parties or Churches , the women will wear the best of clothes and jewelleries. If you visit them at home.,they will entertain visitors or their friends well unlike other counterparts. All they want their wives to. Do, is take care of the home.

And other counterparts will so use their wives ehn, make her work so. Much like a man. At the end the men from other regions will be complaining why God is not blessing them
She said how will God bless them? When they can't even make their wives happy..

She said look igbo and Hausa, they are so rich. Their wives head is praying for them to always succeed.. I was just laughing, because there was a Yoruba man seated not too far from her as she was talking with so much passion. The Yoruba man was just shaking his head, as he drinks on.

Lol

Laugh wan kill me there. Lol

9inches:
Hmm.. are you talking out of espilens?

Nope but from what I see amongst my igbo friends

tunjijones:
Poor nko?

Poor also try their best and share all they have with their wives.

PrettySleek:
Yes o! My dad still showers my mum with gifts till tomorrow.

Eeyah that's nice.


But men from other states, will not agree with your dad o.

My Uncle in delta state, once said. Vicky what are u doing in Lagos? Don't tell me, I prefer men in Lagos than delta? I said uncle, there is nothing wrong with men in Lagos. This one am gisting u happened 5years ago o.

So I said nothing wrong with men in Lagos o

Uncle replied : Lagos men from other tribes that don't know how to take care of woman, is the ones u are relying on. Victoria, u will just suffer.

I was like haba Uncle

He said look I know Lagos guys, those guys are not real men, come to delta and marry a deltan man that will take care of you. You wouldn't need to stress yourself hustling. He will provide all you need at home and even give u a car.
I said uncle I don't want to stay in delta.

He said keep wasting your time with those gigolos in Lagos

Have never seen such lazy men in my life before, always waiting for their wives to take care of them. Or share house bills with them.. Lol

Thats what Uncle said o, not me o


I sighed and I said Uncle have heard.



Lol


Do u know men in south south states don't respect men in Lagos ..lol

shadyLP:
You're fantastically correct!

Lol

davecris:
okay. Have a good night rest.

And you too.
Lovely night rest.
Take care

davecris:
thanks alot. Really appreciated. Will love to chat with u more frequently.

No probs. What are friends for?

U can Pm me.

davecris:
i had to be decisive in making that decision of letting go. I find it hard loving again. Tho i want to but it's just not working.

Then give yourself a break.

Just be friends with ladies. Don't date anyone but be friends. Later u will love again, Without u knowing it. .

What u are feeling is normal. Just be friends with ladies