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Celebrities › Re: DJ Xgee Committing Suicide: Blogger Joel Williams Blames Nigerians & DJ Family by victorian(f): 11:02pm On Jan 02, 2019

weyreypey:
Tell us more about your looks..

My looks is not the topic of discussion here.

You can check my dp, the looks will talk for itself.

Whatever u can deduce from my pic, take am like that. It's all yours.

Celebrities › Re: DJ Xgee Committing Suicide: Blogger Joel Williams Blames Nigerians & DJ Family by victorian(f): 10:59pm On Jan 02, 2019

weyreypey:
Your looks?

What up with my looks?

Celebrities › Re: DJ Xgee Committing Suicide: Blogger Joel Williams Blames Nigerians & DJ Family by victorian(f): 10:47pm On Jan 02, 2019

In the past when I was so depressed, lonely, sad and hungry. No one reached out to me, even dating then was like, am dating myself. Yes even with my looks, I was damned lonely, guys coming my way were wolves in sheep clothing , they appear as calm as a lamb but later I realised they were wolves, I was dealt with terribly emotionally. I was so depressed, then I didn't have these awesome female friends I now have. Back then I was aloner but the wrong guys were wooing me, just to destroy me at the end. They almost succeeded, I almost tried to commit suicide but the voice of my late mum rang into my head, Victoria don't disappoint me, no man is worth dying for. You are all I have remaining, pls don't do it. I sighed.

I cried, like have never cried before. Then I made up my mind, shelve guys one side Biko, focus on God. Always attend church service, so your mind and soul will be filled with the love and words of God.
My Worship time in church and at home and work is like Heaven to me. As if am in paradise.

Then later good female friends came into my life. Their jokes, their humour, their seriousness at time makes me wonder and marvel on how different all my female friends were. I felt better, happier, at peace and more stable than ever before.

Na me, sef dey give them hope, and strength these days cheesy

Especially when they complain about what's going on in their lives emotionally. When they ask Vicky when will u marry your man. I will say Biko, leave marriage one side abeg. I don't have the strength for it. I can't go through what u guys go through emotionally anymore. Have been through hell and back. So just leave me as I dey like this, biko. cheesy

. When time to have kids come., I will have kids.

Am in a peaceful, happy and grateful state. Can't let no man destroy it for me again. That's the truth.

And I told myself one thing: Nobody, I mean nobody owes me anything in this life. If you believe it and let it stick into your brain, you will be fine.

I say that, so that I don't need to depend on anyone or hope on anybody for anything. Except on God. God is all I need. When man fails, God shows up. That's the truth about me. With such knowledge, I don't feel any sense of disappointment if anybody says no to any request I make. But when my female friends go all the way to d things for me, I feel so touched and most times I hug them and playfully tickle them and say thank you.

So depressed and suicidal people out there, should STOP depending on anybody! Stop waiting for people to save you. Cause none will. Everybody is focused on their daily hustle. So don't depend on people.

Depend and focus on God. Breathe and live in the presence of God. Attend a church that gives u peace and teach u how to be strong during good times and bad times. A church that brings positive change in your life. Accept Christ , talk to him whenever u are confused and sad. He always listens if only you come to Him.

That's my advice o. Cause have been in such scenario before.

Rip to dj angry

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Celebrities › Re: Man Flogs And Chases Lady Out Of His Apartment – His Reason Will Shock You(video by victorian(f): 4:17pm On Jan 02, 2019

clive2u:
likewise, most ladies ran dey one corner dey monitor. i never hammer yet but am making progress and my guys still dey

So that's it. You will get to the promise land, simply work and plan steadily, by Gods grace it will happen.

Your own, your guys stood by you

For me? My female God sent friends stood by me. I thought about all of my female friends on my B-Day as I was about to call it a night after the celebration and I was just crying with tears of gratitude and joy late at night. My bestie, a female was with me that night, she hugged me , saying eeyah it's alright and she was also feeling emotional too.. Then we laughed at ourselves, Smiles.
They really stood by me and supported me. I swear.

It's well jare

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Celebrities › Re: Man Flogs And Chases Lady Out Of His Apartment – His Reason Will Shock You(video by victorian(f): 4:07pm On Jan 02, 2019

clive2u:
too much wisdom

Smiles thanks

Have been through hell and back financially

So I know what am saying .

Only ladies stood by me. All my male friends japa!

Chai! God cheesy

This life ehn?

Celebrities › Re: Man Flogs And Chases Lady Out Of His Apartment – His Reason Will Shock You(video by victorian(f): 4:00pm On Jan 02, 2019

Not only ladies are like that.. Men too are like that.

When there is no money, everybody leaves as if one is a leper.

Only very few sticks with one.

Beating her is just a waste of time. For me I simply ignore their chats, especially from guys who weren't there when I had nothing.

Ladies have always been there for me. Through thick and thin.
God bless my female friends immensely. It shall be well with everyone of them amen

Celebrities › Re: Tayo Sobola Wows In Sexy Cleavage-baring Mini Dress by victorian(f): 3:53pm On Jan 02, 2019

I like this lady

She's always on point!

Celebrities › Re: Toyin Lawani Chides Nina For Not Giving Her Son A Birthday Shoutout On Her Page by victorian(f): 3:50pm On Jan 02, 2019

You can't blame her. Alot of Nigerians are petty..

She's actually a mirror to what most people do out there. So no need mocking her mindset.

Celebrities › Re: Ninalowo Bolanle And Wife Kiss To Celebrate New Year by victorian(f): 3:41pm On Jan 02, 2019

zomby:
Again, when you have to show the world openly that the love between you and your wife is hot like fire, something is usually wrong. Sooner or later it will all come out to the light.

Smart couple keeps their love life private...If you love someone with your heart and soul, you need not to constantly prove it to the world. Real love happens to be automatic and natural; no need to force or prove anything.

Exactly!

It's clear he's trying to spite and make someone jealous but his wife has no idea.

This guy will never stop with his games with women.

I pity the wife.

When the time comes he will leave her high and dry again.

Smhhhhh angry

Crime › Re: Man's House Burgled In Umuahia During The Christmas Holidays (Photos) by victorian(f): 1:20pm On Jan 02, 2019

It's an inside job.

Evidence of inviting too many friends to your house. Friends will also bring their own friends. You feel u are among good friends, my brother. Some of the friends are already calculating what to steal and how to steal and escape from your house.

Don't always make your house meeting point for so called friends.

Romance › Re: Happy Birthday To Me! by victorian(op): 10:43am On Jan 02, 2019

Oyindidi:
This year set for us

Amen!

Bigger achievements for us this year 2019 in Jesus name Amen!

Thank you Lord!

Romance › Re: Happy Birthday To Me! by victorian(op): 10:13am On Jan 02, 2019

Oyindidi:
Million dollars babe, age with grace

Thanks a bunch, dear

And a big amen on the million dollars! cheesy

Romance › Re: Sad Story Of A Married Nigerian Man Who Married An American Lady by victorian(f): 10:03am On Jan 02, 2019

Angela777:
She is in her 40s probably. And you forget, even if she was in her 70s, in America many young men would like to marry her, she is pretty and very educated lady, take a look at her Facebook page. I think she really was convinced by a nice Nigerian man talking. You guys have a very nice accent and know how to talk to a woman. Her fault was acting as he was an American and it's natural, she knows American men behavior, not Nigerian men.

BTW, I admire you not accepting such a big age difference yet online they are so many Nigerians. I was once offered a 30 something guy asking me to marry him because of love and when i said no and about age, his father showed up offering himself to marry me or to give me his son as a husband. Is it love or what? And all this love was online only, I never met them in person.

I want to ask, are u a white lady?

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Romance › Re: Happy Birthday To Me! by victorian(op): 8:01am On Jan 02, 2019

Mursz:
Even if it wasnt i wouldnt mind flying you down. All expense paid.

Anyways its here in lag, on the island though . Nothing too big though, just cozy and fancy.

I like simple. I’ll keep you posted.

Smiles, that's cool.

Island is fine by me.

I don't fancy crowded parties too.

Nice concept.
OK till then.

Enjoy the rest of today.

Romance › Re: Happy Birthday To Me! by victorian(op): 7:48am On Jan 02, 2019

Mursz:
Great to hear, gracias ma’am. Although mine comes up sometime in april, so expect an invite from me then. .

Happy new year to you and enjoy your day.

Wow! That's few months from now.

As long as, your B-Day is celebrated in Lagos. Then no probs.

I will make it by God's grace.

Happy New Year to u as well and I will. Thanks

Romance › Re: Sad Story Of A Married Nigerian Man Who Married An American Lady by victorian(f): 7:44am On Jan 02, 2019

Angela777:
Not really Oyibo woman fault as in American society age doesn't matter and we have many big age difference marriages. This woman probably doesn't know how is it in Nigeria about the age difference. By the way, on the pictures the American lady is not old and is very pretty.

and yes, in this case and in many when the man marry for false reasons, it's a cheating man fault, Nigerian or American or any nationality, if he is a cheater, many times he convinces a woman. The woman is weak and can be convinced by nice words.

Mba! She's very young. In fact she's sweet sixteen.

Let's face the truth for God sakes. If I have a son of even 40years that's single and searching, I won't allow him marry such woman, that's the truth. Even who truly loves himself , value his life and is upwardly Mobile won't marry her .

And u say she's weak and can be convinced with sweet words? Really? At that age? She should be in her 60s, and she still taken by sweet romantic empty words. She's not serious. I can't even imagine a 60 sumthing year old woman opening pussy for a guy in his twenties.. Is such woman OK upstairs? No let's look at this thing critically! Is she thinking straight? No shame! God forbid.

She got served. All those her youthful years of sex never do am?

Na wa

They are both annoying to me.

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Romance › Re: Happy Birthday To Me! by victorian(op): 7:34am On Jan 02, 2019

Mursz:
Happy belated birthday to you, I hope you had a blast, would have gracefully come eat rice n cake. Anyways stay blessed.

Thanks dear
I did enjoy every bit of it.
On my next birthday , I will invite you.

Romance › Re: Sad Story Of A Married Nigerian Man Who Married An American Lady by victorian(f): 7:26am On Jan 02, 2019

Oyibo women no dey ever hear word, dating guys and marrying guys old enough to be their grandson age. All the fuckkkk they fuccck for young age, no reach them.. Still fucccking at ancestors age with little boys . Useless old grand mas them. Mtchewww.

Shame no dey catch them at all.

When you can't control the urge in ur pussyyyy! That's what u get! Scam! And used like toilet roll!

And the Nigerian guys, bloody gold diggers, no single shame. Because of money! Some even sleep with a 100years old ancestor, claiming they love her. The thunder that will strike all of you down is still doing press up!
Mad people!

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Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife. by victorian(f): 11:00pm On Jan 01, 2019

Martin0:
eh this your gist now, e don make questions dey come urside oo, wait oo so you nor wan follow our root again!

come babe abeg come online for facebook make we gist well, sleep don clear for my eye now!

Lol, sleep clear so fast.?.

Hmm ok

So what's your name on facebook ?

Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife. by victorian(f): 10:45pm On Jan 01, 2019

Martin0:
my dear, i wan shake the table oo, but na just to shake am around you sha as i dey shake am so better shake your own follow me oo

I hear

Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife. by victorian(f): 10:43pm On Jan 01, 2019

Martin0:
yes oo, babe see eh, wish me well oo coz my eye dey road oo, i dey look for better one you know na, your guy need to follow up before 40 go meet us!

I wish you well, u will meet the woman of your dreams this year! And settle down this year.

My own case on settling down is on another different level. Truth be told. I have complete peace of mind, as I dey like this. I don't need unnecessary stress.

But for u Martin, u want marriage? U will get married, be patient. It will happen. Amen

Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife. by victorian(f): 10:27pm On Jan 01, 2019

Martin0:
oh it means husband wey ripe go locate you...

after one babe pray for me finish this money through video call, she say make i tell all my female friends say husband go locate them...

so I'm telling you now!

Na so

Martin0, , Martin's this table u are shaking?

Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife. by victorian(f): 10:16pm On Jan 01, 2019

Martin0:
Amen ooo, chai dee chalacha ga bialu gi, say Amen!

I don't understand o sad

Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife. by victorian(f): 9:59pm On Jan 01, 2019

Martin0:
mehn see as you soft ooo happy new year ooo

Smiles thanks

Happy. New Year!!

Thank God for new opportunities coming our way this year. Amen.

Romance › Re: . by victorian(f): 2:54pm On Jan 01, 2019

Oluromantic:
Nice. I'd like to enjoy that peace and grace too

Happy new year dear.

I've replied tour pm.

Smiles, simply follow my lead, it's very simple.

OK i will check my mail.

Romance › Re: . by victorian(f): 1:55pm On Jan 01, 2019

Biingoo:
Smh

Romance › Re: . by victorian(f): 1:54pm On Jan 01, 2019

Oluromantic:
Your beauty glows

Smiles thanks dear

It's peace of mind and God's grace.

I give God all the glory.

Happy New Year!!!!!!! cheesy

Romance › Re: . by victorian(f): 11:48am On Jan 01, 2019

elipheleh:
Your comment was an insult to all men of which I'm one. Reality is be nice and people become nice too

OK noted.

This is new year, try move one.

Cause am done with this topic since last year.

I don't carry over grievances into a new year.

Have a great day

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Romance › Re: . by victorian(f): 11:39am On Jan 01, 2019

elipheleh:
No man cares about your experiences. Your failures is your business. Hate men from now to eternity,it won't stop any man from progressing. Who you help?
Maybe you're ugly and nasty that's why you were treated like trash

This is 1st of January 2019.

I honestly don't have time for your frustrations this morning.

Or back and forth insults.. Lol

Who do you like this nah?

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Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife. by victorian(f): 8:18pm On Dec 31, 2018

DukeofNZ:
so as i say make i pity you manage you now you no happy. me i get am for money big big any ticked i can boughts for you. ok i understood say you de shame for here so e go good as you wan sand me private massage i de wait

You no well!

You must be crazy!

Goat!

Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife. by victorian(f): 8:07pm On Dec 31, 2018

[quote author=DukeofNZ post=74333812][/quote]Really?

Go and manage yourself in the sea.

Travelling abroad is no big deal for me.

You can't even afford business class air flight ticket! Am even talking of business class, economy sef u no get!

I shame for you.

Romance › Re: An Open Letter To My Future Wife. by victorian(f): 7:57pm On Dec 31, 2018

DukeofNZ:
e bi like say na i go come manage you. you go follow me come for my over the sea? talk make i arrange import you for my over the sea here shap shap me i be talk and do. i get am for money

Manage me ke!

U never ready!

No man manages me! angry

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