₦airaland Forum

weyreypey:
So you want these plenty unemployed lazzy yoots to use spoon to pour water into your full bathtub of water... Victorian we know whatsup

Kira290:
you dated a looser sis hang out with better boys wey get money..not loosers

Omoluabi16:
you rolled with 1..2..3 scums, and then tar us with the same brush. Enjoy this you state of mind





but you and I know say deep down you are yearning for that dream man.

CarlosTheJackal:
Good but note that we will still see the bad and good side of relationships as the years roll on because nature is balanced.


I will check you up in Palmgroove on Monday

CarlosTheJackal:
Everybody has experienced an up or down side to issues of relationships but stop acting like you are the Einstein to every relationship issues

Rextizzle:
I just pity the guy that will end up with you sha.

Lonestar124:
How does one eating habit relate with poverty?

Many rich men even find it difficult to eat twice in a day.

Someone that eat too much is prone to talkativeness and you know the consequences right?

Ishilove:
And he is 38 years old for that matter. Now we know why he is still unmarried

CarlosTheJackal:
My grouse with you Is your penchant for bringing guys down and making yourself the centre of attention.

ARE YOU MARRIED NOW?

CarlosTheJackal:
I thought you are married with kids or should I dig up evidence of how u said you ve been married before Adam proposed to Eve

Rextizzle:
Imagine some 2 pack of indomie at once, say nah drum dey your belly?

Marry this kind of girl and your bag of rice won't reach 1 week, anty glutton I hail.

Ishilove:
Two packets of hungry man? You have quite an appetite!

May we never encounter men who are being flogged by the spirit of poverty of their father's house.

highpriestess:
Lol. Most of them are stingy.
I thank God for my bf though, he can kill me with food.

Complaining about indomie, lool.
If that kind of man marries a woman, it's starvation is bae logo

dacblogger:
Most celebrities have issues in their marriage,they just choose to stay calm..
Marriage is not as sweet as people think it is..you might really love your partner but love is not just enough in marriage.

The reason why divorce is rampant this days is because women are learning to fight back unlike those days our mothers had to stay back in marriage just cos of what people will say.

highpriestess:
True

highpriestess:
True

dacblogger:
Don't mind those quoting me...
Shebi its marriage, they will all get married .

ositadima1:
Maybe it's time to discriminate a little less and allow guy who you think are not up to par a chance.
Sometimes you find it in the strangest places, places you never knew it could be.

Elderlucifer:
do not lose hope

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I have jam jam jam jam. But I know true love is a beautiful thing.

Elderlucifer:
this recent bitter woman convert. i pity you

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Vicky Vicky, you will meet a good man OK and your state of mind will change.

dacblogger:
The search of husband Is real...
Lemme advice you,there is nothing special about marriage.kuku stay on your own and save yourself the stress... This is coming from a married woman.
Goodluck in your search.

Omudia11:
How is that the reason for your pathetic life?

thornapple:
Hi Victorian, i got furious earlier on when i spent so much time typing one long epistle this evening in response to you but it got lost due to internet issues. I guess i have to make this one brief.
I enjoyed reading about your guy and seeing that he acted almost exactly like mine makes one believe you the more on the behavior of guys,
I met this guy sometime in January last year and after observing him for a while decided to accept his offer of friendship. He seemed not like any guy i've met before. Very honest, nice, and sincere to a fault,
No sooner had i accepted his offer of friendship, he became possessive.Should he call and here a masculine voice at the background he must ask questions. Should i miss his call he would want to know what i was doing at the time or who i was with.He wouldn't have me associate with any guy anymore specially if he's single. Though he has said he do give me breathing space after he had married me but how can i be sure?
At a point i was beginning to withdraw from him when suddenly he called to announce he was going to visit my parents(how he got my family address i couldn't tell though he had spoken to my mom a few times before but that was with my phone when i called home the few times i hanged out with him). Didn't take his threat for granted as he is someone that doesn't say what he wouldn't do so i left everything i was doing in the city i was to rush back home to my parents. By 12 noon the next day the bell rang and there was him at the door with one big travelling bag. He really came prepared though earlier on i felt he was only coming for a few hours visit.
He spent a whole 10 days with my parents who soon took to him. He was always with my phone. Within the few days of his stay he blocked virtually all my male contacts on Whatsapp and most of those on messenger on the grounds they were sending amorous messages. Should any strange number call he do check it up on truecaller to know who it was. My family so loved him that anytime i picked a quarrel over his attitude they will support him. Few months after his departure i was persuaded to reciprocate his visit which i did in the company of my sister. I don't visit males and that was my second time ever of doing such the first being my Ex.
You may wonder why he became my Ex. The stupid boy graced a thanksgiving service my parents had in 2016. Later that year he lost his mom and i was persuaded to attend his mom's funeral. The boy had visited my home so many times and even passed a night at our place. Though he had invited me to pay him a visit so many times but i declined till the occasion of his mom's funeral service. Little did i know what the vagabond was planning. It beat my imagination however when he attempted RAPING me on the very day of his mom's funeral.
That wasn't the last time i was asked to reciprocate a visit. There was one Reverend father that met me on Facebook that came visiting one day unannounced, bringing so many expensive gifts and even pants. I was asked to reciprocate but i dared not because i knew him for what he truly was. No one knew of the kind of messages he had been sending to me on messenger so they all took him to be one Holier than thou man of God but i knew better yet kept it to myself.
If i hadn't trusted my present guy i would never have contemplated reciprocating his visit and he behaved himself except when i wandered into his bedroom and he seized me to confirm my virginity. I wasn't going to take it as i flared up in rage. If he needed to confirm anything there are hospitals we could go for medical examination rather than his room.
My guy loves me for real but i am yet to accept his proposal. Need time to think things through before settling for matrimony at my age. He talks about me a lot and everywhere he went. Will copy and paste what he wrote on Facebook to his friend few hours ago.


She charms every eyes that beholds her. Young and old, males and females, even kids stare in amazement.
Have never in my life seen so many men chasing one Lady. Bringing gifts and cash like they were under a spell. Even so called holy men of God are not left out.
I thought it was because of her extremely light complexion though very beautiful.
What left me bewildered however was when I soon found out that even whites themselves, Asians and Westerns, stare as well.
To top it all, she has never yielded to any sexual inducement or allowed her many chasers get what they wanted from her (the more reason i'm proud of her). The downside is she may reject the man but accepts his gifts and cash. Well I don't know of any Lady who doesn't love those things.
Hanging out with her earns one more than one's share of respect in celebrity fashion though I am not a celebrity but the attention she draws creates the impression.
That's the much I can say bro.

boss1310:
that's still not enough not to remember him as your dad when showing care.women are more emotional and show it than men yet it doesn't mean men don't care.when I was growing up anything I asked my dad to give me which he will chase me away and I later collect from my mother I never knew my father pay it back to her but he will never tell me he did.that's the thing with fathers they have their own way of training you and when you combine it with the mother's emotional training it makes who you are today. most people think that because your mom sold her things it now makes her the sole object of your attention that's wrong.
[b]in your daily activities however you ve been able to handle the harsh realities of life now comes from the side of your dad [/b]and the emotional side from your mom,both are very important. am a father now and am seeing all my late old man did and I tell you its not easy,fathers should be celebrated just like mothers I believe

boss1310:
I want to say something about the things most of us are guilty of.people tend to love their mother more than their father and why.there are people who you won't know their father is still alive cos they barely talk about them
imagine my kids as grown ups and treating me unfairly compared to their mother after how I ve dedicated and denied myself many things for the sake of their upkeep.
I love both of my parents but I love my father the more cos that man taught me almost all I know though he was very strict with me yet I treat them equally when showing them care.I wonder how fathers feel when you carry all the love to your mother and am not just speaking from this topic above

thornapple:
Big Ameeeeen to that. I love you for this my pretty sister.
You are such a Darling.
God will see us through.
A Nairalander had been pushing. He has even been to my place a couple of times but each time my mom asks I just tell her I am not sure of this guy. His jealousy levels are something else.

thornapple:
You are quite right dear.
I can't agree more.