₦airaland Forum

lefulefu:
some ppl ehn zee world films have messed up with their mind.u dated a lady for five yrs and prolly had sex with her and now im wan enter d elder sis

Lol, am telling u

He's toying with 6ft under.

I pity his life

davecris:
she wasn't d one who made d call. I made d call cos things were really escalating. Distance was the issue. Took me a long time to get over it but it really affected me physically and psychologically. Since then it has created probably an everlasting scar in me.

Awww! You have to let go, mentally and make up your mind to let go.

If you guys were destined to be together, it will definitely happen. But as it is, just relax your mind, stop feeling guilty and have a free mind towards any other lady coming your way.

You simply need to make a decision of letting go and u stick by it and give the next lady coming in, a chance. And let your mind be in the new relationship.
Just be decisive.

davecris:
amazing words of wisdom from u. U must be therapist. I used to be guilty of no more call or chat after sex. I always get tired of the person after that till whenever i am in d mood. Lost a very good woman cos of such. I sought for help and was told it's cos i don't love any of them yet. Truth be told, since i lost my childhood girlfriend, my love life has never been the same. And it's still affecting me.

Thanks for the compliment
I try as much as possible to understand why relationships breakup, including mine.

You need to let go of the memories of your childhood gf.
But first how did she leave you? In summary what caused the breakup between u and your childhood girl. Then I can know how to come in and solve the puzzle in your mind.

SilentWisper:
oya HBD Miss Victorian

Thank you.

At the end something must kill a man.

He's only digging his own grave.

When dog refuse to hear master whistle, it ends up in the pot of another master.

Enjoy while it last

asuustrike1:
Happy birthday beautiful doll.May the lord add more years to your existence in Jesus name. Amen

Amen and Amen! Thanks darl

SilentWisper:
so how old are you now. our very own Chinese Nigeria

You don come again?

I'm a year older , huncle.

Awon born date watchers!

funmisticqueen:
uwc boo pls save mr small cake

Definitely you bet, I will!

funmisticqueen:
Happy biirrrrrttttthhhhhdddaaayyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!

Long life and prosperity and the choicest things life has to offer in Jesus name! Amen!

hpretty:
Happy Birthday dear

MannieA:
Happy birthday babe.Wish you the best things life Has to offer, wish you good health, long life and prosperity and I pray that God continues to bless you.Hbd once again babe.

LightQueen:
Happy birthday ma'am

MariaLavina:
Happy Birthday Miss Victoria.

dacblogger:
Happy birthday dear...age gracefully.

Awwww

Thanks lovely ladies, God bless you all


And lovely Funmi

Thank you.. Amen!!!! To all the birthday wishes.

You all made my day.

davecris:
true that. Lilian is always on instagram shouting "give them hot hot". Wonder why she preferred these rubbishes to making her marriage work. Some men are shameless cheats. But tit-for-that is never d way forward. These things makes me very scared of getting marriage honestly.

Honestly I wonder at Lilian. Maybe her beauty is getting into her head. She feels, she too fine. Maybe that's why , and she's not ready for marriage sef. She prefers dating. That's how I see her.

My dear, don't be scared about getting married. Hopefully shine your eyes well, pray about it, date and marry a good woman and don't cheat on her. You will be fine

Also I know tit for tat is never the way forward but the reality is this. When a man cheats on his woman, and she knows. She feels rage within her, u beg from now till tomorrow, some will say she has forgiven u but the thought of u with another woman still burns in her mind. And make e come happen say u be fine man like RMD?

it's either she gives that colleague in her office, who has been flirting softly with her for some months, a green light and start fucvking him immediately or

the rage within her, will make her kill and stab the man or

she quietly withdraw, throw away her wedding ring, move away from the man cos his sight disgust her and she seeks for divorce. Or

she starts nagging, never ending nagging. Or

she accepts her fate and say anyways men are the same. I can't come and kee myself.. Na him sabi. Then she shuts down and becomes cold

It's either of the five things I mentioned . She's human.

So if u want to marry, make up your mind . Create time for your wife and kids. Balance your work and family. Don't feel because uv paid her dowry, she ain't going anywhere. So u leave her and do whatever u like. Nope, u must always treat your wife like u guys were still dating. Let the spark continue. Communication must not stop. Some guys even after sex, they stop chatting or calling. Thinking she doesn't need such attention any more but that's where u are wrong.
The communication keep going, even more than before.
You don't stop being close as friends because ur gotten the pusssyyy

That's the way I see it sha

Igbo men know how to take care of their wives , be it rich, or average.

davecris:
you are spot on. Kudos to them for making it work instead of tearing it apart during those bad moments. Marriage is getting harder as the days go by. Reason i respect those who has stayed married for many years.

Exactly! Kudos to them. They truly want their marriage to work. Rmd retraced his steps, likewise Jumobi.

Marriage these days ehn? Pride, unforgiveness, arrogance, and selfishness is the order of the day.

Look at Lilian es..ro.. Immediately her husband cheated on her, when she was heavily pregnant, she called it quits and filed for divorce. Now she's posting sexy pics upandan, about to start from scratch. It's not suppose to be like that. To forgive is the key word, as long as the husband has shown remorse in his action.

If Jumobi were like ladies of today, it's either she will stab RMD to death or she will seek for divorce within two years of marriage. In her mind, she be diva, how dare RMD cheat on me? But she did the opposite.
And they are waxing stronger as old age don enter

placeofallure:
I remember Jumobi Adegbesan then of Lunch Break, she was a delectable presenter and darling of viewers. People thought the marriage would crash before take off but God got them. 18 years and counting, Congratulations to you both!

It almost crashed but they had to forgive each other, make amends , so it can work ,stay firm and focused.

davecris:
Lovely. Couples like this makes you looking forward to marriage. Marriage goals.

It takes a whole lot of work and perseverance

Their marriage almost crumbled, in the early years.

He cheated several times, she herself cheated, in retaliation, no be only him like better thing. Family came. In and settled them. They forgave each other and were determined to make it work.
They stopped the extra curricular and stayed focused again.

That's why u see both of them standing strong and firm.

It's not that easy.

God bless their home and may they last together for many more years, amen.

DukeofNZ:
HBD. you no look too bad at 44 years.

Lol



Anyways, by God's grace I will get to 44 years and even 100 years old in Jesus name amen.

Thank you.

ariyebaba:
delta woman, happy birthday to u.

Na so!

Thanks dear

faithfull18:
Happy birthday to you, your new year is blessed already.

Thanks dear

God bless you.

Ranchhoddas:
Yeap. You look Mongolian.
Happy birthday sha!

Mongolian?? Hia!

OK o

DanDeeBoss:
Happy Birthday Miss... I wish you the best of everything......BTW you don't look Nigerian....

I know

When I went to immigration office to make my first Nigerian passport. The immigration officers were arguing with me that am not Nigerian, that I look Chinese. I almost cried that day. They said OK, I should speak my language, but unfortunately I couldn't, courtesy of my dad.
In frustration, I had to, then call my dad on phone to speak to one of the officers. After few mins, the officer hung up and said its OK. I can now go for capture. My dad has confirmed am Nigerian.

U can imagine.

Jagaban880:
Happy birthday ........u look sumptuous

wish u llnp.....enjoy

Thanks dear

SmellySperm:
Happy birthday miss, I wish I was him

#my love for lightskin gals

Hahahahahahahah


You are so funny, I swear!

Lol

Ranchhoddas:
Are you from The Philippines?

Nope I'm Nigerian.

Although strangely I look like them..

But that's how God wants it.

CaptainMitch:
Happy birthday, I love your complexion Live long and prosper

Thanks dear

Amen!!!?

lefulefu:
..happy birthday dear
enuf gbedu dis hot afternoon

Hahahahahahaha

Thanks honey!



That's so sweet of you

Jesus you love me too much o!
Too much o!
Too much of excess loveee!

Jesus you love me too much o!
Too much o!
Too much of excess loveee!

Too much love
Too much of. Excess loveee


Thank you Lord for Creating me, keeping me, taking care of me

Baba God you are too much!

Thank you Jesus for another new life!

God is Great, Awesome, Marvelous and Unimaginable.

Celebration on point on the mainland. Join us









Please haters, no need saying a word. Simply ignore and move on
It's not hard.

Lonestar124:
Listen Victoria, i'm not good in constraining, if you don't have whatapp account you can make it known to me, though my email is not working for now or are you for a reason ignoring me.

You can reply me with Yes or No simple.

No, am not ignoring you.

OK, am trying to add you but your number is not showing on watsapl


Have sent u a message, like a minute ago. check your phone. It's also my whatsapp number. You can add me on whatsapp .

Check messages in your phone.

Tashacobbs:
hbd sis

Thanks darling

God bless you.

lefulefu:
some ppl can be crazy around food. Did u not read about two brothers who stabbed themselves over a plate of rice on christmas day in bayelsa state.

I read it, just too bad.. Because of plate of rice?
Na wa

klenton:
what about why ur still single, all ur experiences with guyz have been nothing to write home about and u think its nothing to do with you?

to start with who finishes two packs of HUNGRY MAN indomie? like seriously we are nt even talking about super pack bt hungry man pack...my dear u must be a disgusting fat glutton and in truth u need help

keep telling urself "after all how much is it" its nt about the many after all 4 cups of garri is 100 naira so that means u will finish it

a piece of adivise for u...no man want a glutton ( except maybe a fellow glutton) its disgusting and unlady like.

Story.


No woman needs an end time douche bag like you.


Spits!

weyreypey:
Drop phone number.

Pm me.

I will drop it thru mail.

lefulefu:
dont get married to a man wey dey selfish over food oo. A man wey go hala cos u chop two hungryman pack of indomie like victorian ex or a guy dat slaps u cos u fry four eggs ..those are endtime men.

Lol, real Endtime o

Ranchhoddas:
Your mum kept telling you crap. And you kept absorbing it. As a consequence, those men began to come your way?

I didn't absorb it


I rejected it. But it happened anyways