₦airaland Forum

HardMirror:
in all honesty, you are a talkative! I know many guys are asslicking you here and saying nice things to you, but he is very right, you talk too much. Coming online and saying so much about yourself and your friend. No need to say too much here before you think i am just bashing you.

Am not talking too much. Someone like you has to learn,know and hear that other men are taking care of their wives and women. And not always women are unfortunate with all Nigerian men.

But if it's to scream all women are hoes and oloshos, it won't be hard for someone like you to be screaming online that all women are suffering, they are useless, they are leaches.. Abi?

Lemme talk too much.. It's not your hand am using to type.. It's my hand.

So deal with it!

Anyways such lady cannot hide her character from her man. Her husband saw her, witnessed her bold character and sharp mouth before kneeling down and asking her : babe will u marry me?
I bet with tears running down his cheeks.
And she replied with haughty looks down at her husband, yes honey, I will.

And viola! He is married to her.

Husband no complain about her behavior, Nigerians are complaining worldwide about her character.. Isn't life wonderful?

ImaIma1:
Naah...i enjoy your comments better.

ok

Funny u.

ednut1:
U deserve to be shot. After all these u still no wise

Lol


The poor guy is inlove nah.

Lol.



Op move on! She doesn't love you, she's just after your money.. Please receive sense!

The guy no well!

What an ill mannered guy and he's still surprised why she dumped his assz and married another. Smhhhh.

Such a lowlife!

Uncle! Move on with your life and stick with your imaginary new babe!

Mtchewwwww

Traffic is crazy when leaving mainland to island . I almost cried while driving, come and see holdup! . Have taken a turn back to my office , mainland. I can't take this shitt!

Until next week before heading to island again.

And see people stranded at the busstop, especially Yaba busstop. The red busses are filled to the brim carrying people like sardines.

Mehn forget island movement, if u are coming from mainland.. It's crazy out there. Thank God am back to mainland. Ope o!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
No disrespect but you can talk. Like wtf! You for give us your life history na

If I say my life history. You all will feel am lying and making up stories..

So no need.

I brought up her story cos it's way different from mine and it also shows that there are men out there, who are happily taking care of their wives ,in-laws if need be and extended family without blinking an eye.. Without coming online to scream that Nigerian women are leeches and oloshos.
Cos that's all most of u guys here are good for.. Screaming leeches, bitches and oloshos.. Lol

U people should go to the real world and see how successful men take care of their families without grumbling. And they get blessed more and more.

Awon aranguntans
Lol.

Alexrayz:
I must commend ur personality

Thank you

chimauk:
seriously,I love your conversation. Both of u are so matured.at one point I expected u would get pissed.he was intelligent in asking and u brilliantly answered.good questions, good responce

He's a wise man

Thanks

kaycee125:
Is that what your father gives your mother monthly??

My dad even gave my mum more when they were both alive.

He opened a thriving business. He was the CEO, she was the MD. They made lots of money. She built three houses in her name with his blessings, he built three as well..
And they loved each other so much. Helping their extended families alongside.

Men of those days are far different from most men of these days who like to complain on every little thing they spend on.. Especially adding value to their wives.

So don't get it twisted.

generationz:
this your friends husband is an IBO or middle belt man abi

He's from Kogi.

cruchenutii:
Madame, It's like you will invite me to meet this your Lawyer oh, You cannot be enjoying the connections alone
In terms of the 60k salary & other sources of income.
It's not easy oh. Some fields are just low earners, you need to change your career path totally.
For example, marketers earn as low as they come. These are hard times

Abeg you go wait first o

Let him conclude the pending business deals we have on ground with his top clients, first Biko.

After then, u can come into the equation, as long as u have a business plan that sells like hot cake.. That's when he will be interested. If he buys your business idea and see it as a good deal with his rich clients, he will talk percentage with u, which is always 10percent. If u agree?. Then he will tell u what steps to take in making your documentations tight.

But first let him complete my own first

Sop18:
Don't conclude yet your husband can still earn more!

By God's grace, he will earn more. Amen.

Thanks

ImaIma1:
@victorian. This is the point you guys kiss

I enjoyed your conversation. Nothing wrong with a man dropping money for upkeep.

A lot of people responding are just talking based on their perspective of marriage

Besides, as long as the couple agree and they are ok with it, every other thing is background noise.

Lol


Na so..

Stop reading mills and boons

kowasco:
can a male apply or when are u gonna apply a male please

You can apply, as long as you have the qualities stated and if u are attractive join? Then? God don butter your bread.




Just saying o#

princechurchill:
He should have gone to the front and be snapping it from there

Lol

Na wa o

Maybe the father of the girl owe the old man lots of money and he can't pay back, so the best way to offset the debts is by giving the old ancestor, his daughter for marriage. I really pity the girl. What a life!
If it's what am thinking? Her own family sold her out!

Smhhhh.

cruchenutii:
Okay sha, 60k a month is pretty much. Also we need to consider if the money for her alone OR for the home in general, food stuffs, children snacks etc.
Her husband has to be earning close to a Million, else that Family will go poor by excessive spending.
I know some graduates that earn less than 50k a month.

On a serious note sha, you need to connect with your friends Husband to link you up with his friends, 60k a month is like a full time Salary oh

He has already settled food and drinks at home.. Their store room is filled with yams, bag of rice, garri and the rest. It's not for food at all. Fridge is filled with all kinds of drinks. This Sallah was eat and drink til u can eat no more
It was great fun.

He Should be earning much and he's a top official in a federal government office .

My dear, I have a big link am working on with my lawyer which is 100percent concrete and legit . Also with my kind of biz and the kind of links I want is different from what the husband can link me to.
But my lawyer? That man knows people and has worked for a lot of top shots.. So am better off with him, than with my friend husband.

Anyone earning 60k as salary, should please look for other source of income.
Cause for me, am looking at other source of income o

Am not focused on just my company alone.

Eeyah she try..

It's clear.. Music is her life and her existence.

Sighs. It's good for a human being to know their calling in life. One will live a fulfilled life and die with inner peace.

Am happy for her

goldbim:
Oops!!too many dirty details ..i could remember many babes claiming the kind of this lady's engagement last year..be careful of what you wish for!!not all that glitters is gold.

There is nothing wrong claiming this kind of engagement.

The second wife bleeped up!
That's why it collapsed!
Married women, if u your ex comes calling. Use hot water spray for his body. Very useless thing!

Her village people no rest for her matter

How can she marry a billionaire, that spent so much on her and her family and at the end still fucking around with her ex?

Some women brain, honestly I don't understand

No wonder he went back to his first wife

Smhhhhhh Chai!




Now where is the ex now? The useless fuckkk boiz wey no get let their ex gfs marry. Marry you won't marry her.. She marry finish, na to disturb a married woman.

Smhhh

weyreypey:
Victorian...

Why call my name?

Wow!


Their wedding ceremony was so extravagant and glamorous , I was like how can a man spend so much money on traditional marriage things.. Hmm, just 8months!

Wow!

cruchenutii:
How much does he earn please.

I don't know o.

Am not his wife.. And I didn't ask her, how much her husband earns?
We went shopping, I saw lots of cash in her bag as she was about to pay for her things, then I said u are loaded o. She beamed with smiles and said thanks to her Oga. He always transfers 60k to her every end of month for her upkeep. I replied u be madam cash o, even without working lol. Make him always happy o.
Then, We laughed it off.

Bluezy13:
Hahaha...

I hope you did.
I'm not Yoruba

You should get some sleep.
So as not be dull on duty later in the day.

Lol

Oh,my bad. I thought u are a Yoruba guy.

OK smiles.. Rest well too

And have a lovely night ahead.. Goodnight .
Cheers

Bluezy13:
Thanks...

you are welcome


Keep it up! .. Your replies are constructive, precise and matured.. Unlike some wild aranguntans on this website, hope I got the Yoruba pronunciation well?

Bluezy13:
I'm glad you understand my point.

I am positive our conversation will not instigate some negative sentiments about your family and also your friend's family too, on you... right??

No, at all! Am not like that.
Am a free minded and positive minded person. I feel we all have our own destinies and life on earth to pass through and fulfil. Have accepted my destiny, it wasn't pleasant inbetween and I can't change it. That's how God want our different lives to be.

We are simply pencils in the hand of God, no matter how hard we try to have what we want or desire at certain times in our lives.

I understand.

Bluezy13:
And among other things, that explains why you see it as a normal thing that your friend collects 60k monthly allowance from her husband for the purpose of buying clothes, shoes, jewelleries, buying phones, lending (not borrowing since borrowing means collecting or taking) and for rainy day (which is in doubt) and yet her husband takes care of basically everything in the home and their respective families as well, whether with gladness or not.

I'm not after how huge or little the 60k may seem but I believe you would have had a different perspective of reality if;

(1) Your husband was earning more than you are and was giving you monthly allowance.

(2) If you were instead in your friend's husband's shoes.

(3) If you were of the average standard of living.

(4) If you could tell with 100% certainty who really happens in your friend's family because she may only reveal what she may think you should know.

True on that. I would have had a different perspective if our roles were reversed.

But she's not making it up. Shes an open book. I know their inner struggle and it's not money.
But Incase am happy for her and her family. It's way different from mine.

Bluezy13:
I like you.
I would have fallen for you if you were single.

You successfully and effortlessly disclosed your friend's own, but you didn't disclose yours.

So, tell me; how much do you get monthly from your husband??

I and my husband, our arrangement is different. I earn more than him and I don't request for monthly allowance. It's not necessary for me. I don't have parents or siblings to take care of. So am satisfied with what am earning.

mrAMG:
To the best of my knowledge none. But let your mechanic check all the same so that everyone will have peace of mind.

Yes ma’am, my number is on WhatsApp.

OK good.

Will get back to u.

Bluezy13:
"She buys hajias clothes, shoes and jewelleries...She even bought a Samsung galaxy phone for her dad last week."


Hmmm...

Are you married??

Yes am married. Why do u ask?

mrAMG:
Ahaan

Aunty buy my market well na

But is there any hidden issues with jeep? Be sincere cos my mechanic will check everything.

Also is your number on watsapp?