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weyreypey:Eeyah ![]() That's good Very good You made it out strong! ![]() Thumbs up! May God keep you strong always to see them through life, amen. Smiles. |
weyreypey:Wow! Na wa o. And your parents believe her? ![]() Wow! So what kind of guy are you now, as uv grown up? |
weyreypey:Such aunties are to be arrested.. That's very terrible! Children both male and female should voice out when raped! Men raped by women should also arrest such mentally unstable women Women too should arrest such men who rapes. It's completely bad. Parents should be close to their kids, so when such things happen, the children will easily tell their parents. When I was very little, I should be 7years old then, my cousin who was way older tried raping me, he started with fingering me. I was like what's the uncle doing? He said I shouldn't tell my parents and he will buy chocolate for me tomorrow. In my mind I was like this is wrong, why is he touching me this way? And this guy came for the weekend. Omo! Immediately my parents came back from work, late in the night I ran to my mum and told her what happened. She was very angry, she told my dad and the cousin was really spoken harshly that night and sent off very early the next day. So parents be close to your kids, and they will tell u virtually anything or threats from extended family or strangers. Such boys should voice out to their mums or dad. Cut off such evil quickly! |
weyreypey:Sex must be consensual, I agree. But rapists do not have the patience for it to be consensual from the lady's part. They simple pounce! Which is completely wrong. |
insperyadyou:Smiles, patient means he didn't pounce on me for sex. Or he didn't force himself on me. He took his time, which I like. I do have panic attacks when a guy tries to be all over me, all at once. It scares the hell out of me. |
weyreypey:But what if she doesn't allow you to play around the point? Is her polite and courteous nature means she wants to get laid? Is it bad to be polite and friendly? Why is it when a lady smiles in one on one discussions means she wants sex? Should she always frown ?to get the message across that hey don't touch me, cos I don't even know u that well? |
Cooleasy:Ha! Have seen much blood that will last me for a life time. I tell God when my second brother was about giving up in my arms, that God if I see another death around me, I will just loose it. I won't be able to take it anymore. Please let these deaths stop! Those periods was heartwrenching. I pray no one witness their loved ones dying on their arms.. It's a terrible thing to go through in life. The helplessness cannot be described. Amen and amen to the bolded. Amen Lord Jesus.. Thank you. God bless you amen |
weyreypey:Thanks. Yes, everyone does. Feeling secured is very important . |
weyreypey:Am not single. |
insperyadyou:Well am in a lovely relationship as I type. Thank God my man didn't rape or attempt to rape me during our dating level. He's patient and disciplined. That's why i said not all men but considerable number of men these days are not in their right senses. Although it took me 5years before now to trust, with help of God and foresight choose wisely, start a relationship and maintain a stable relationship with a man. Later, I Met my only one and only Chef, Mr Romantic, Easy going , works hard, balls hard, but with a sense of peace around him. Am fine but I will never forget the past. It pops up sometimes. Am human. |
lefulefu:Smiles, true.. So true. |
TimeManager:Am not demonizing men.. That's the reality. While I was living alone, I was almost raped three times on different occasions cos I wan marry! First rape attempt! Was in my office! Yes in my office ,some years back. I invited guy wooing me, we've been chatting for a while. And we were like let's hang out. Let meet up at my office, then we can hang out. He came when I was about to close office. I showed him round, he had this innocent smile. I never knew he was a devil. As we were about to leave, I had a pressing headache, I was like u know what let's call it a night. Am not feeling fine. He said eeyah sorry. Anyways to cut long story short, he hugged me , relaxed then he wanted to kiss I pulled back. Come and see his hard grip, I was like pls stop. He had this mad excited look in his eyes. He said cmon? Relax.. I was so pissed, I was struggling, he was laughing saying am. Making him more excited by my struggles, then he pinned me by one of my tables, his hands were just like iron. I was scared, I then remembered security guard is not far from my door.. I said if u don't leave me I will scream and security will throw u out! Leave me now! Then I screamed, he thought I was joking. Security knocked at my door. Madam are u okay? . That's when he let go off me. With shaky hands, I opened the door Security walked him out immediately that's number one Number two, after some months, I say make I date again. At least I can't be single But I will be careful. We met at my place. Foolish me.. I easily forget. That one sef also tried raping me, but I pushed him and ran out of my house with speed of lighting. Number three, after a year, I say make I date again. Sighs.. This one happened in his family home. He said everyone will be at home and wants to introduce me to the family, whereas it was just him and his friend. God saved me. Immediately I notice no one at home. I became nervous and ready to run. Lol And I did ran, when opportunity came. Ha! God!.. Some men out there are evil. Ladies beware o! Be very careful and alert. Not all. Men u see walking towards u with a smile is harmless. Some are demons! And that's the truth! |
You've entered already. You can't leave the poor boy on his own. Mehn I pity you bank accounts, in fact you and your wife bank accounts. Cause of taking care of a sicker is not a ride in the park. It's damned expensive, especially when crisis starts. I lost my elder through sickle cell. He died age 18. I lost my second brother through hole in the heart, he died age 24. Am the only left but with AA genotype. They both died right in front of me. Terrible past moments And my parents spent fire to take care of my late brothers when they were alive. Sorry op, you can't run away from your son. It's good uv decided not to have more kids with your wife. But please take care of your son. Some sicklers survive while some don't. May God see both of you through amen. |
Be patient op and open your eyes well. U will see such ladies. It's not hard to find. Also make yourself good looking , and a husband material, it attracts such ladies like bees . Best of luck |
lefulefu:So true! The man will even end up marrying her. He's protecting his investment and school boyfriend is still asking questions. My friend has similar story as well.. She ended up marrying the other guy who's spending more on her, immediately after her youth service. Her school boyfriend almost went crazy with the breakup, after call up letter to service. But shes now married to the other guy. He even owns a house in lekki, shes now a landlady at age 23. Well taken care of, her husband dotes on her .. While the school bf is done with youth service searching for job In his mum's house. You can see the difference. And moreover she's on the big side, then also looks older than her age. Maybe that's why she chose to marry immediately and discard school love. She had to choose the available over I love you. They both love her anyways ![]() So op, just move on Biko.. If she ends up bn yours? Thank God .. But if not? Move on. |
Guy! Free yourself jare. Talk to both of them, your flat mate and his girlfriend. And let him know there and then, you don't have feelings for her but you just see her as a friend. So he should calm down on his suspicious attitude. Cause u don't have time to start feeling awkward at home, like you are walking on eggs of shells. Then crack one or two jokes, and tell your guy to loosen up. Life no hard reach that level. If after the round table talks and he is still behaving childishly, that's his problem. abeg free your mind and yourself in that house. |
Thank God, my man can cook even better than me sef . He takes it as a hobby at home. I can't start pounding yam. I don't even know how to pound yam sef. Its something we would have made clear during courtship. I don't pound yams, sorry dear.. Except he wants poundo yam. I can't come and break down cos I want to please husband. He should know better. Me, I can't do it, after am back from work. Oga sorry. |
Eeyah Sorry about the rape ordeal. I can imagine how u will be feeling all through. I wouldn't advise you to marry him and I doubt if he really had plans to marry you. He simply deceived you, made you trust him, all for the cookie. Na WA o. ![]() Don't worry take heart, tell your parents about it and get him arrested. He shouldn't go Scot free. And please next time, don't go visiting a guy without a friend or else same thing might still occur, if u don't play along with him. Visiting a guy wooing u, in his mind, he is like..... You want sex! That's the truth. That's how most of their brains are wired. Not Every guy out there will just seat back, smile at you in his home without wanting to touch and have sex. Please be wise and careful next time in the future. God be with you. |
She went extreme sha. But next time, he will either stick with a teenage girl he has disvirgined and stop been greedy for another pussy. He got served, even before conviction. If the dick survives by surgery and miracle. He will never in his life cheat again. |
justscorchone:See you! Alert u are waiting for, will just land u in jail. Through your bank account details u will be traced and gbam! You go vomit everything u steal, even with an imaginary 500k on top. Lol. Be wise, don't be greedy! In between, Stealing is bad. |
Harryfrosh:Don't mind them. Awon desperados ![]() Aunty, shine your eyes well o! Come by yourself and supervise the building.. You can complete it within a month. It's very possible. As long as the workers are not lazy. |
Truth be told, he oozes pure sex! . That's a machine! ![]() |
Pusyiter:Eeyah ![]() Truly it's been a while . Will expect your chat. Take care ![]() |
Pusyiter:Paddy mi You are here! Tell them as e dey hot! ![]() In between For me? Marriage is the next best thing I could ever wish to have in my life. Being single for life is not a great idea or path to choose. Companionship and family is a deal breaker, anytime, anyday. Simply marry the right person and like u rightly typed, people should just lower their egos and make it work. How's work today? ![]() |
cheeyoma:Jeez! She's stil alive and kicking strong. Biko take am easy with false news. |
nonjebose:You are right. It escaped my mind. I forgot am on nairaland. ![]() |
Bizibi:Yes! That's another reason too. I didn't think of it initially. All girls boarding school! I remember have heard cases of such too. That's another disadvantage of enrolling a child in either all boys school or all girls school. I won't try such with any of my kids. #Team no boarding school# |
Hanseel1:I don't interact with wild animals. Carry your wahala go. Eranko! |
nonjebose:God bless you jare. You can read, understand and decipher what am saying. Money spent on your education was not wasted. You are the first human being with correct sense, am interacting with today online. |
Donjazzy12:Typical of a Nigerian man, always in denial.. That's why your relationships and marriages pack up , at the end you bring your frustrations online. Come and turn me to lesbian. Oga Gay |
Hanseel1:Who call you? I didn't end up disgracing myself cos am not a lesbian and am in a fulfiled relationship. You are the one disgracing yourself by taking it personal and starting up with insults. Typical of guys here. You people cannot type a sensible sentences without insults. Read to understand? You won't! And u will beat your chest, am a graduate. Simple words, you can't even comprehend.. Smhhhh Carry your frustrations off my mentions! |
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