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OrangeDream:
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OK.

Will send a mail to your inbox Tmrw..

Prognose:
And she slept beside him nakkid

She's wicked.. She shouldn't have slept naked beside him.. So cruel

MrBrownJay1:
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i am sorry to say but "you" are the one who ruined that beautiful night by being selfish and thinking solely about yourself.
so you guys spent a beautiful evening TOGETHER, drank and ate TOGETHER and yet, you couldnt go home with him and said the above in bold, and spend the rest of the evening TOGETHER while sleeping in his arms?!?!?!?!

why even being angered by someone (you obviously care for) wanting to spend that "special" night with you?! what rulebook did you read where it says special nights should end when your belly is full and you've received all your gifts?!?! haba! if you dont want to have sex then fair enough, but talking about being angered by someone who want to make you feel special, after doing everything RIGHT that night, is IMHO cheap!

Lol, but the night ended perfectly, as we got to my gate.

I slept very well and my pussy was intact


But anyways he's late now.. He died after a brief illness, leaving behind a wife and two kids. . May his soul rest in peace. Amen

Skyeplus:
she shld move on and come to u in ur 30s or 40s..sir pls goan get married and stop encouraging manfriend..

Lol.

Pusyiter:
hahaaaa....
Drama Queen
The guy enter one seat remaining.

Cmon? Am no drama queen jor!

He didn't tell me, before taking me out that sex go follow come the B-Day surprise gifts nah.

Can't a guy just spend and remove eyes from sex towards the end of a treat?

Must it always end in sexxx?

Pusyiter:
Once had a GF in Uni. who a renowned celeb follow her like butter and bread.
She swore never to date him as she does not date nor even exchange numbers with celebs.
The celeb ended up being a good friend after trying to see if I could help.
For my mind, I say'' see mugu; maga wan mugu mugu, e no fit possible na''
''Moi-moi wey I dey hussle another man wan just chop and go unto say you be celeb? NEVA!''

Lol.

Pusyiter:
Hmm...guys no go hear that one. We believe knacking alone makes a good sex whereas, ladies expect more of intimacy/romance and less of the waist pushups/knackingz

Honestly, it's just like that sometimes.

But most guys brain is zeroed on knacking!

I remembered an ex who celebrated my birthday at Sheraton. After all the wine, dinner, I was in high spirits, very happy, slightly tipsy. In a perfect good mood.
All my mind was, he will drop me at home and I will sleep peacefully with nice dreams
My dear, as he was driving down, he smiled and said will I spend the night in his place? Drink clear from my eyes, I looked at him. I wanted to get angry.. I said in my mind, Vicky calm down.. You should know that's typical of a guy after spending some money, but this night o, am not going to end up in his bed..
No matter what. I don't feel like it and he can't force me.

I controlled my anger and smiled back sweetly, saying darling am really not in the mood for sex.. Can u just drop me at home? Please don't ruin this wonderful night we've just had. Am really not in the mood. Don't worry later we will have enough boogie.. But tonight? Am not in the mood at all.. He sighed and said OK. As your lordship demands .. I blew him a kiss thanks dear..

He jejely dropped me at home with a scowl on his face.
I say Abeg, Na him sabi Jare. Must we Bleep?
Smhhh.

Got home, opened the gate, bade him bye, then my door and slept like a baby on my beautiful peaceful bed.

Pusyiter:
Sometimes, it is not his fault.
These ladies no go let celebrities rest.
They want more than just your voice including your sim card inside them by all means

Even if they rush him like Shawarma, can he just resist?

Must he fucvk every sexy lady coming his way?

It's not right.

God knows I can't marry or date a celeb.

Such a greedy man.

Upon 5wives with two extra lovers by the side.. He's still fucvking around .

She wasnt ready for sex that day. All she wanted was fun, good time and romance. No heavy-duty knacking. Her pussy was asleep .
I wonder why some guys can't understand such basic facts.. Every romance, kissing and fingering must not end in sex.
So relax!

He should be in his twenties.
Immature boyfriend.

She had better move on and leave him with female best friend.

insperyadyou:
please read that your post again. You said you were dating an ungrateful broke ass guy. Can a guy be she. I can see that you are two-faced. I am very particular about details. Just so you know some people are following you and I am on that long list

That was way back In university.. 10years ago. When I was her age. I stuck with an ungrateful school boyfriend. We've broken up years back after some years searching for jobs. Today my best friend made a wise choice, which I wholly support.

OrangeDream:
Hummmm.. This is serious.What has always ring on my head is that, where will i find another like her? This is another major fear in me. What about child bearing? She's had one through CS. What are the chances left with her? How does it go with them please. Sorry, i will be asking alot more questions and i really don't feel comfortable disclosing everything online. May i have your contact please? Or let you have mine?.

No probs.

Type you email here. I will reply.

Why she sef no cook food, upon money given to her.
Sighs

She should have known the kind of husband she married.


God! See beating!

God forbid!

lefulefu:
check out many of these cheating wives the men they hang out with.its mostly their ex nau. Maybe d guy dat was dating her in 200 level ..b4 she now met her her husband when she was in her finals. Cheating wives mostly prefer having affairs with their ex..they feel its safer..unlike a cheating husband that can just nack any random girl he comes across with. I dont know abt ur friend sha but there are ladies that can marry a man they dont like as long as the man is financially stable. They get their emotional and sexual fulfillment from their ex. The Ex factor.

Well that's some ladies.

Not my beloved friend Biko nu!

I already knew something like this will happen.

Some Nigerians sef, they will never mind their business.. Anyways I blame banky and Adesuwa in always showing off everything they were doing to the public.
Some idle miscreants are now mocking her.

Na WA o... Human beings!

lefulefu:
dont be so confident oo.it could be d lady is secretly meeting the guy she broke up with behind her husband's back.she no go tell u. One of my guy told me one of the ladies he had a hot fling with while in school of recent was about getting married to another man. My guy said the girl travelled over to his place and was begging him for one last sex b4 she married her man. Though my guy said he refused her request i dont believe him. I know for sure he smash d girl cos d guy like snail like anything. There are some girls they will break up with their long term boyfriend to marry another man cos of his financial stability but when dem don marry dem go still dey secretly meet their ex boyfriend for hot sex.it happens all d time. I feel pity for such husbands sha.

Lefulefu, you and your mindset about women
I taya for you

Well I trust her and so far she hasn't displayed any form of Infidelity. Not every lady still goes back to their school boyfriend after marriage. Some are faithful, even if u don't believe it

She knows I will be highly dissapointed in her if she dares cheat on her husband with any man, be it school bf or ex. Infact, that will be the end of our relationship. I don't condone cheating and unfaithful ways. Nah I don't.
And so far, I believe she's faithful and focused on her husband.
She had better be, anyways.. It's for her own good.

insperyadyou:
i was thinking the guy you later went on to date was the nice and caring type

Am talking about my best friend, FEMALE.. not male.. Am not a lesbian.

Or don't ladies have female friends anymore?

martinskelly:
madam there can never be next time because i am settling down with her. I am a man i want to man up ok

Halleluyah!

Thank you Lord!
That's a great decision.

Now you are talking!

Best of luck in your upcoming marriage.

A mega rich and powerful queen.

Moukandjo:
So your friend left her guy just like that because she feel say she don see person wey go "secure" her future? Nawa o!
I just hope she's happy within her sha & not just the outward happiness you see!

Sighs such is life.
And she's truly happy.. She's my bestie. She has heart of gold to all her female friends.
When am short of cash, and I need a project to execute? she doles out to me
Trust me she's happy. She had better not loose her husband. He's God sent!
The man dey try and he's also humble.
Do you know what it means to be financially and emotionally secured at such young age?
I bet you don't.
Mehn, when I was her age, 20naira sef I no get.. I was jobless, dating one ungrateful broke asszed guy, who didn't appreciate all my efforts of loving and standing by him. If not for my mum! God bless her soul, I wouldnt be the Boss I am right now.

My issue with the op is this :

Why Bleep her mercilessly and raw for that matter, if you were not ready for marriage or ready to take care of the product of sex.

Some men never cease to amaze me.. If Na sex, they get strength and can do it all day long. But when belle enter, they become as lukewarm as a mouse. Smhhh.

Anyways op, do the needful. You are an adult and a working one at that.
Next time., u will zip up!

insperyadyou:
you've had many unpleasant experiences. What do we call them?

Well it's part of life, I had to deal with.

And it made me understand, there are different kind of human beings in this world.

OrangeDream:
She's 27. I would'nt know honestly cos it's more of a distance relationship. And she hardly tells me when she's ill cos in my own understanding, she does'nt want to scare me off. But i was once told how it goes with her anytime she's in crisis. I do travel to visit her once in a while.

Hmm, long distance relationship covers alot of loopholes . And I bet you, if you tell your family, they won't support your making her your wife, cause she's a sickler.
Are u ready for the bumpy ride ahead? She won't die, if that's what u are scared of,cause she's in her 20s.

But be rest assured crisis will come. Are u ready to see her go through unbearable pains, with tears streaming down her eyes, even after taking her medications? And u feel helpless cause u can't understand whatelse to do, than to wait patiently while the pains reduces. Are u ready to spend money on her medications every raining or cold weather season?
If you feel your love for her is strong enough to go through it all. Then go ahead, marry her.
But if u were my brother, I will tell u to withdraw from making her your wife. It's not an easy ride at all.
The emotional torture is even more than the money u will spend.

Think carefully, marry someone who lives within your town. Or take some leave off work, especially during the raining season, travel to where she lives and spend a month with her. Whatever u see and witness will give u the final decision and step to take.

That's all I can say.

weyreypey:
Beautiful, amazing, undiluted sexy, energetic, adventurous but unforgiving...

Wow!

Well life experiences taught her to be unforgiving, that's why

I don't blame her. She must have been hurt deeply and at this level, why forgive when such creeps are not ready to change?
I like her.. I bet she's more strong and alert with any guy coming close.

weyreypey:
Victorian this is certainly one of the peeps we were discussing about. Something definitely happened to him... Because no human being was created like this

Hahahahahahahaha

Oh Lord! Help us! What kind of human being is that! For God sakes!

Na WA o!

OrangeDream:
Dear, please i would need your advice based on your experience. If possible sef, get your contact and speak with you on phone please.
The girl i'm currently dating is SS and i'm AA. Her's is a bit tough cos she lost her hearing due to it. Another issue is that, she got pregnant for another man while we were dating and currently have a child for the man. The guy denied it and walked away. We are back in the relationship cos i love her so much. But how do i present this to my family for marriage consideration cos i really don't know what to do. I have the issue of SS status,her hearing and now a baby for another man to deal with. Also, i would need to hear your advice on the foreseeable challenges ahead having experienced some of this yourself please. Thanks and God bless you.

First, how old is she?
Secondly does she still have crisis during cold weather or rainy season?
Let's take it from these two questions first.

weyreypey:
Don't be like lalas247. Sleep well.

Goodnight.

weyreypey:
Don't be like lalas247. Sleep well.

Lalas247? Wait hows she like?

weyreypey:
You are capable of forgiveness

God forbid!

Not in this case.
Where my sanity is involved?
Forgive in rape, no dey my dictionary. Such evil people are not meant to be alive to torment others anymore.

Anyways that's it for tonight from my end, Feeling sleepy here.. smiles.

weyreypey:
Death? Quite extreme.

Oh yes, Death!

That's the only thing that will give me peace. I don't care if am killed in the process or jailed.

Such trauma is no joke.
People think its just Bleep and voila! One cleans herself up and move on.
For me, it's more than that.
My spirit and body is violated and I won't accept such and move on, like nothing happened.

I won't. I can be that extreme.

weyreypey:
Amen. But it wasn't easy. You must realise that you were molested before you can heal. Most guys live in denial of the fact

One can't heal o.
Not everyone can heal and move on.

Someone like me, if I were actually raped! I won't be the same ever again. In fact Its either he kills me or I kill him. Such rapist will not go Scot free. Mine was fingering at 7years old.. Then attempted rapes during adult age. Which actually made me detest men for years. So u can imagine, if it were full rape, the whole ten yards!

Mehn! Such guy is goner! Na death go end am.

I just thank God. God saved me several times.