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Eeyah, I remember one fateful evening I was strolling back home from work and a man came begging, his children have not eaten since two days,his job they've not paid him. And he feels so ashamed going back home with nothing and please even if I have rice or garri at home, he will take and that's all he needs.
I sighed, I shake my head. I said look I'm coming back from work, that's my house over there . I don't have cash on me but I'm about going to the ATM to withdraw. Come back to the gate of that house in the next 30mins, I will give u something . He said OK, with sad face. I was like eeyah. I got home, changed and head to the bank.
I came back fee minutes past the 30mins. I stood at my gate waiting for the guy.
Then from afar I saw him with nylon bags and yams. With huge smiles on his face greeting almost everyone on the street.

So I waved at him and he came, was smiling. I was like wow! Who gave u all these? He was laughing.. He pointed at one grocery shop, he said the madam and she gave him all these, two paint of rice, 1 paint of garri, semovita, two yams, beans, and tin Tomatoes..i was like wow! God will bless her o.
So I think he begged everyone on the street, so they were happy when she gave him. All those things.
I then said OK Thank God. This is my. Own share, take this 2k, I know it's not much but use am buy soup ingredients. He was almost crying with joy. Then he left, with all his hands filled up. Mehn people are suffering.

Sighs

Men try and play with your wives, so that things like this will not occur.

I can imagine how many married men tickles their wives at home.


None! Smhhhh.

My younger brother used to tickle my mum and he became her favorite. There was this great bond between them. Even though she was 60years old.

Op sincerely have a babe of your own and tickle her. She will love you more.

modik:
Reason is simple :

They have been elevated to the higher level of Mrs and can't wait for the social respect and class distinction it attracts.

This statement always come to mind : "DON'T YOU KNOW I'M A MARRIED WOMAN? "

Known as a married woman doesn't change anything.
That's the truth.
In the bank, carrying placard a woman is married will not make her jump queue or receive alerts in her account.
In schools, same thing. It doesn't change anything other than she has experience on how tough managing her husband and home is.
Being called a married woman, won't give her free access to travel abroad like water.

I think the only joy in it, is the sense of belonging in feeling I'm married and having legal and righteous sex. that's all.

Status quo remains the same. While bills triple.

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS

Because they don't understand how Nigerian marriages work, they think it's all about the wedding day.

Most men naturally are not the talking type. Women love to talk and share our everyday life with the one we love. In relationships, yea some men can bend a little and chat with you, but in marriage? Most men close up and behave like Oga and employee kind of relationship.

Nowadays marriages amongst the poor and average class, it's women that's the bread winners in homes. Sad but true. They work their assz out to keep the home running and avoid shame.
Anyways I wish all intending brides and grooms 100percent best of luck, cos y'all really need it.
Ain't easy.

See the number of men viewing this shi..t!
My phone can't even screen shot all at once

The men online don provoke! Lol

kenigwe18:
see early momo savage.... Aiit guessed u figured everything out. There's no point saying anything anymore

It's well. Sorry

kenigwe18:
Now I'm intrigued what u thinkin'

Which one is what I'm I thinking.

You said u look like jidenna but the dark version.

But looking at your profile pic? You are short not tall, sighs

You don't have his look at all! Not even the burnt version of him.

Lol

Guy! Look if you say you be male like jidenna, you right on that

But remove those glasses u might have on and see the huge difference between u and him.

It's so clear!

Haba!

Charelsz:
Thank God I'm not the only one, before people talk say I they envy am

Hahahahahahaha

No mind dem

Let the truth be told. Lol

Charelsz:
The ike self no fine

As in ehn?

No fine at all


With his shark teeth.

Jeez!

Onyi22:
A child born out of wedlock is already in London while some children that their parents r legally married can't even make it to the airport..... Such is life

Hahahahahahahaa, you this lady, you wicked I swear!

Chai! No filter at all!

Haba! Take am easy naw?

Eeyah, he's so happy, Linda is his mom.

That's nice.

Be happy son. Na your head carry you enter Linda womb.
Nice shots

obiekunie2:
very very stvpid and foolish boy!


he doesnt know the media are like cult - dont mess with them or they will mess with your career.

just watch how they will all silently gang up against him in both the print media, online media, tvs and radio station. they silently stop playing his songs or marketing anything relating to him.

He's not foolish



He shows he is not into jungle justice like most Nigerians and he's not a coward too



If print media both offline and online don't play his songs.

Abroad medias will play his songs and even make him more popular and sort after outside the shores of Nigeria.

Musicians making it, are the ones spreading the wings outside naija.



Naija is just all about noise making ,nothing more. The real money is outside.



People like wizkid, davido, tiwa savage knows, na abroad money dey. Especially when they sell concert tickets in pounds or dollars. It's finished.



Allow him be! He's a patriot!



He has earned my respect more.

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kenigwe18:
Sure now I'm just the darker version

But your profile pic says otherwise

Chai

flowx:
Definitely!

Na so!

luvyaself95:
humble guys still dey naija oh
no forget or doubt it.
madam Victoria...

Humble cute guys o

Anyways the few pms I have received , And chats Ive had with guys here today , I can sense humility in their chats. Some are pretty handsome, smiles, with good career. Nice one!

Lemme not call names but so far so good, let's see how everything plays out. I can only be with one guy cos of my faith.

So I concur there are still humble guys in existence.

kenigwe18:
Hmmmmm she's tripping

Yes o! I'm tripping o!

Lemme not lie!

If you have such looks Biko holla at moi! With or without tattoo.

Seeing him, as brought all my senses alive!!!! Lol

nuelyoyo:
WOW!!
I really feel sorry the man. Nobody said she shouldn't have had sex when she was in school, but she should have insisted on condoms. There is no magic about it, if one indulges in unprotected sex frequently, pregnancy is guaranteed.
But the girl sef, so after going through the painful process of abortion for the first time, she didn't learn her lesson to stop unprotected sex.
I just pity the innocent man that married her
This is the reason why some men are looking for virgins to marry.

I feel sorry for both of them

I asked her that same question, that after one abortion, why didn't she learn and just take precautions and be careful. She said the abortion process only last for 10/15minutes and she's good to go later in the evening. And she didn't have anyone advice she and her school boyfriend. They were carried away with catching fun.
Only a miracle will make that marriage last.

U say men are looking for virgins to marry? Lol

You men are very funny o.

Who are the ones disvirgining girls upandan? Spirits abi?

When una spoil another person daughter with dickkk, saying u are having fun. How will the virgins now materialise, in the spirit realm bah?

Men waiting to marry virgins, go wait taya!

Virgins are almost extinct species. A man cannot be breaking hymens upandan and be expecting to marry Virgins later in life.

Ko le werk!

nuelyoyo:
can you please share more details about your 23 years old friend and her husband? Maybe I can learn from thier story.

Hmm ok

She's a student dating an older guy who didn't know she has a school boyfriend ,same school in one of the higher institutions. She has done several abortions for the school bf, because she claimed she was in love. Immediately she graduate her older boyfriend who is very comfortable and rich married her in lavish marriage ceremony.

He doesn't want her to work, let her just focus of getting pregnant and having children.

Everybody was happy except the school boyfriend who still loves her and wished he was the one marrying her even though she had aborted for him.

Oya, take in for your husband, became a herculean task. She has gone to hospitals, they told her point blank she has tampered with her womb and it's only a miracle will make her pregnant at this level. She went with her mum. Her mum was heartbroken, dissapointed but the deed is done already.
They went back home, telling her husband she is fine but it's just some hormonal imbalance , which drugs can solve and in a month time she will be pregnant , Doctor said she will be placed on drugs and injections. The husband doled out money, gave her. She paid for fertility drugs, took injections for months, but nothing.

The mother of the girl came again and said they can go into herbal and there is a man somewhere who is perfect with helping women have children. The husband gave out money, she and her daughter went, the herbal doctor too said the same thing, her womb has been badly tampered with, he said maybe the massages will work. After series of massages and herbs to drink, nothing.

The husband no longer comes home as he used to. Always travelling and claiming late at work. He's getting impatient with his young wife. She is on a hot seat in her marriage as I type. When she told me everything , I was like but for God sakes! Why commit all those abortions? Ha! She said she was naive with youthful exuberance and didn't know it will be like this. And she loves her school bf so much, so they are always having sex. And moreover babes in school are doing it. It's a normal thing.

I said normal ke! She said so I have not done abortion before? With shock in her eyes.. I replied nope. My mum will kill me and moreover I didn't stay in hostel all through my school days, I go from home to school, no night parties, my mum is always on my neck! As per her only female child. She is always on my case. So I had to calm down listen to mum. She sighed and said ha! I'm lucky o. I said eeyah.

I then said anyways the deed is done. Na prayer remain. Be hopeful God will do it. But my concern is if your husband will be patient because he's not a Young man, he looks advance and no child. Hmm babe na WA o. Such men will be desperate o, cos of his age. Assuming you marry a young man, he for patient small but with your husband look and age, hmmmmm e get as e be o!

She started crying, I was like look crying will not solve your problem, because this is a huge problem on ground. Babe, na miracle remain and it's only God that can give such miracle. Ha! Babes na WA o.

The husband knew her elder sisters, who are married with children, when he was dating her . Those ones got married late but before 3months into their marriage, they were already pregnant , within three years, her elder ones have kids littering in their husbands house, so the older man felt, the same will be my friend's case. But unfortunately she ruined such luck with I'm in love.

Honestly I feel for her. I pray God helps her marriage and give her lots of children starting from this year in Jesus name. Amen

That's her story.

Nowadays students I just don't understand their mentality.
Parents will send you to school, to come out with good grades , with higher level of mentality but na boyfriend and girlfriend, they are hell bent on sacrificing the hard earned school fees on.

Some commit suicide cos they were heartbroken by one stupid love
Some get pregnant and come back home with liabilities with no father in sight
Some commit all manners of abortion, pretend they are innocent. Manage scale through, see one innocent hardworking man, he falls in love, not knowing she no longer has a womb cos of numerous abortions in campus ( a friend of mine ,23 Years old babe is suffering this as we speak! And her husband 45years has no clue, thinking he has won a jackpot! Anyways I pray their marriage end well )
Some join cultists and still get killed anyways

And I ask, what's happening to youths? Why focus all your energies on things that don't make sense!
Sex and love is everly there after graduation, till one grows old!
The feeling of love never fades off. It's everlasting.

So why this fever at this period, u are meant to cement your future with success and not mare with unnecessary distractions. It's not worth it.

Make una stay focused for God sakes!

Just carrying one baby she looks overwhelmed already, sighs

She could have easily bought that cradle, people place baby on and strap on their shoulders. Simple and she is good to go.

Her outfit looks so dull and drab, then carrying the baby so clumsily sighs

Na wa.

So cute!

wow!

nuelyoyo:
rude and brash is when you said three some is guaranteed with a mother and her 18 years old daughter because they took a picture together, that is even more rude than calling them Olosho outrightly.

So just because thier shoulders are showing in the picture means it's unclad and suggestive.

No be only therapeutic session.

If someone comments on ur pictures that is always showing ur breast in a way that that suggest sexuality na, you would rain fire and brimstone.

You were wrong with that post of yours, just admit it and move on.

OK o! Have heard.

nuelyoyo:
this is a lady on Nairaland oh, bashing a mother and child that they are Olosho. When men start calling women olosho na, they will say we insult women unnecessarily. Vicky I didn't expect this bashing from you . So because she decided to take a picture with her 18 years old daughter, means she is advertising her for Olosho

I will remind you of this post in future.

Why take naked suggestive pics, then?

I didn't call them olosho outrightly, that's rude and brash u know?

OK lemme give it a name then. Hmmmmmm

Dey are advertising about sex therapy.

It will be therapeutic having those two in a session.

Are u satisfied now?

Fuckthamods:
Replied dear, your number is not complete

OK Roger dat.

will check and retype it again and send.


Check your mail in the next 10mins.

LaMujer:
I and my guys were arguing this same thing few days back. They were saying that guys appreciate ladies who play "hard to get." And I hurriedly beg to differ.


I like you.
You like me too.
I ask you out, but you want to play hard to get? For whom exactly? It's not that you don't like me o, you like me, and are probably dying to have me, but would play hard to get.

Lol, only Lord knows how many girls I've lost to "hard to get"


I never ask you out, unless I know for certainty you feel what I feel also, no one likes rejection, but the moment I ask you, and you say no, or what not. E don finish be that. Those wen dey say, "lemme think about it", I never talk about it anymore, until they actually bring the topic up.


There are too many things to accomplish in life than to be chasing a girl for months, some, years even. Ladies plenty everywhere

So true

I see it as unnecessary.

What am I thinking about?

Move on jare

hammerFC:
Nothing worst for this world, more than wen people take it upon themselves to limit another person growth.

She is in a better place and comfortable.

For now, her future is secure, wat about yours?

Let me remind u one more thing, we get older everyday and not younger.


Let us stop copying nonsense from the whites. Every year young.

U will see MATURED ADULT, U CALL HER CHILD.


ARE U OK?

Don't mind him, it's pure jealousy.

The lady didn't complain she was married off against her will.

She's very happy with her husband.
When she was single and dating her young boyfriend back then and always claiming 19years every year, it's the same people that screamed online and said 19years no dey end? Some one who looks 21, claiming 19years every year.

Now she's married to a billionaire, the same people screamed, she's a child.. How come she got married as a child. Really?

What can I say about some Nigerians?

Well the mother knows sex with teenagers sells like wild fire!!!

Men eyes and dickkk no dey rest. So why not start the trade early in life.

Smhhhhhh.
Na wa, mother and daughter. Three somes guaranteed, if you know, you know

Fuckthamods:
Babe u never reply o

I have pm you nw..

Hopefully u should receive mine.

Pls reply as soon as uv seen it. Thanks

macho44:
The TASTE of the PUDDING is in the eating, and ya don't JUDGE a book by it's COVER. Personally, i like WOMEN like the lady in question. She's a go getter. I ask a woman out, once, twice and she still acting like an object lost in ANTIQUITY, that's a major turn off. Great things start from small beginning, just like ya know "Falling In LOVE is akin to Learning How To FLY".

I know one does not judge a book by it's cover but its easy approaching a friendly face guy and shoot shots than to talk to a guy looking all tough and all boned up.

And when Guys say ladies form? I was like really?
I don't understand the forming?
For me personally I don't form. If I like you? I will tell u there and then but that doesnt mean it's straight to sex. Nope it's not.
It simply means, I'm open in understanding the character of the guy if it blends with mine.

Anyways I don't have time to form, that's just me.

If I'm not feeling you? I say it diplomatically, and if I like you? U will know. Simple.

SIR0:
Most guys are guilty of this. But this comes in when trust is getting weak

As in ehn? Over guilty and it's frustrating and annoying.

From day one, a guy who has been dealt with bitterly by his exes, don't trust any new babe coming into his life and I will be like in my mind ? Even if you don't trust any woman anymore, just hide it! No need displaying it on his face and carrying it like a placard.
It kills vibes.

And I will be like where will I start from in gaining his trust, if he's resigned and all knowing about ladies. I can't deal with this attitude abeg.

Have had my fair share of heartbreaks and torments But I still believe there is someone out there meant for me only, I can strike a balance with and feel happy been with.

I met an Indian elderly man today at illupeju ,he's married with kids . But what he said really melt my heart and I realise there are still good kind men in this world. The kindest word have ever heard. Smiles.

Anyways that's by the side.

So guys please give a new lady u are wooing that benefit of doubt.

macho44:
Indeed, she is and BOLD too.

She's bold because he looks humble with a friendly face

So it's easy to approach such type of guys.

Those guys that behave like alpha males and God's gift to women, on your own o