Pls those that have registered.. The voter's card numb is it serial numb or that long one?

Full time draw

Petyprincess:

Forget bring grammar, if you really interested in her you wouldn't be opening this thread!
What made you think being educated automatically means good wife material? You think the 30 years old lady is better abi? Little do you know most women at that age tend to hide their true character just to hook someone's son!
You have gotten someone that loves you,respective,that can cook etc whatelse do you want? 22 years isn't too late to start college as long as you can help her, you have master degree with your vocabulary you couldn't even persuade her to write jamb nd groom her to the educated woman you wanted!!

This is quite a revelation,apparently you speak much more sense when your feathers are ruffled, I've gleaned enough from you already about the true mechanization of the mind of ladies.

I will now follow through with some of your summation

Petyprincess:

Ohh poor girl!! She must be thinking she has gotten an educated serious guy that loves her all these guys that speak big vocabulary are usually deceitful!
May God save us from deceitful guys like OP.

Spoken like a hardcore Feminist! .. Its always about them and less about the guys.

Petyprincess:

So she's even right Oga you are shameless! I'm pretty sure you above 30 nd really baffles me how a so-called grown man still playing two girls!
Please let that young girl go, if her qualification is a problem to you then go for your type simple as ABC! Bt if you chop the younger girl nd later realized she's not educated to settle down with dnt forget what we call KARMA!

You ladies lose your shit even when there is absolutely no need to! You got your assumptions about me all over the place and you couldn't be more wrong about my personality, anything you know about my post is because I wanted you to so halt the drama and form a coherent advise already!

I wouldn't come here if I intend to leave the younger girl.

Crownstar01:
Your English is really good and women love guys who speak good English.

Just go for the 30-year-old, she's a lot better. Any lady less than 26 would always want to stress you. Some are even drama queens.

Thanks! Will keep this in mind.

[quote author=Blackmann001 post=90486732]... I will advice OP to throw some shit about and around the 30years old lady... Dont b carried away with her nice nature.. Her age is her weakness

If sh is Dat good where was sh at 22 to 27.....I dnt trust her.. But marriage with ladies dox ages are better [/quote

Thanks, you know anything I could do? as they both intend to show up fr my birthday? I don't want to hurt any one of them

Oluromantic:
cynosuree come see your colleague












As for me, unless English language is simply used, I won't offer you any advice

So you'd rather hop into the bandwagon of folks picking issues with the grammar used huh, I mean not my fault that's the way I write, now people like you will rather ignore the major reason the post was put up because of their failure to grasp basic English? Proffer a solution or move along

Ariza:
Never seen a self-centered confused sanctimonious being like Op , while you had always worried about the other girl's educational and social compatibility you still tagged her along , settled your "fall out" when you already have a 30 year old who fits you perfectly.

Now seeing your actions are about to fall back at you , you are here speaking grammar. You aren't ready for marriage, that's not your worry. Your main problem is in your last paragraph, the two ladies are set to clash on your birthday and like a self righteous being you are, you decided to try to get advise from people in a cunning way. Simply op "Help! I'm dating two ladies and they plan to visit me at the same time". Nobody will crucify you.

You can't even be true to Virtual audience? Hain!

That's me nailed right there then .. Still need your 2cents on what to do as per my birthday

Ningen:
Set those birdies free.
Figure out your own path first.

You clearly don't know what you want.
You are not ready for added responsibilities.

Not sure I can meet a girl as good as any again if I do dat

Tloc:
Some say "if you have to fall for another then the first was inadequate". Go for a woman that excites your aptitude or be ready to live a boring life.

You speak in riddles

Hello Nairalanders! I must admit I'm not one to run to the internet seeking advice on relationship matters as I'm obviously an unrepentant introvert with the mindset of always capable of single handedly finding solutions to any seeming challenge when I shut everyone out and channel all energy in our usual self isolation mode, but I'm afraid this very issue would seem a daunting task just too high for one person to manoeuvre around

I will try and succinctly go straight to the point symmetrically in other not to bore you all to death about my apparent inability to make a right marital choice

I am in a state of absolute quagmire in a period where I should have logical clarity in making a choice concerning a life partner, this is so because I'm in a relationship with two ladies who admittedly on their parts go out of their way to shower love, affection, care and unbelievable level of understanding toward my person. I mean the choice could have been far easier if one of them was found wanting in delivering desirable wife duties but NO they're equally as lovable just as they're deserving of becoming ladies who should be dolted upon by an absolute faithful man

Just like every other lady they both have their distinct strengths and weaknesses but the catch in all of this is that they complement each other's weaknesses astutely, Wish they could both be moulded into just one person , I met the first one about 2 years back having just returned from NYSC duty,she is 22 and comes from a vulnerable background economically and as such just have the solitary WAEC certificate to show for all her efforts but my goodness! she is caring and kind, she cooks so good, does my laundry, calls 24/7,always the first to say sorry even when not wrong.. etc, simply put she is undoubtedly a good girl but I fear for the mismatch socially and educationally with me, I have a Master's degree in view and don't even know if my parents will entertain such union as I'm clearly levels above her in qualification even though she is currently acquiring tailoring skills

The other I met quite recently, earlier this year to be precise, she is 30, done with tertiary education and working, I first chatted her up as normal acquaintance in January and further escalated proceedings to relationship status when I had a major fall out with my first girl(largely due to my fault) I must add, she calls just as much and hinges little financial responsibility on me,she has even gone as far to informing her parents about me and wants so much commitment from me when I'm not so sure what to even do right now even though I plan to settle when I complete my Master's program

Now I need two form of solutions on what next to do, both short and long term, my birthday comes up next month and both literally intends to spend all day with me for obvious reasons, I'm absolutely flummoxed as to what decision to make, none of them deserve to be hurt by me, they haven't remotely done anything to warrant such treament from me, but what exactly can I do?

Please I will so much appreciate if this gets to FP as I can do with a broader scope of advice and help! Thanks.

God help my state! it is unfortunate the state Governor has his priorities all over the place, focusing on election while all hands should be on deck to tackle covid19 is unacceptable.

My kind of lady

Entom:
Mine was in 2001 when I was about to leave Agbamu in Kwara State after my NYSC year. There was one Yoruba girl I loved so much. We were together on the day I wanted to travel out of Kwara State, I bursted into uncontrollable tears for no reason. Could it be love? She joined me and I couldn't go back to my State that day.
Anytime I remember what happened that day, I can't stop asking myself "why did you cry that day"?

Lol

[sub][/sub]It all started in 2018 when I returned home after concluding the mandatory service as a corp member,I had a girlfriend then during NYSC but for some complicated reasons we couldn't continue the relationship and so I met this girl back at home, young, pretty and innocent, Initially saw her as nothing more than a potential rebound as I was still obviously wounded from my recently failed NYSC relationship, so we chatted up and things moved really fast, started dating and I couldn't believe I was completely falling for her,Well she didn't really make it easier for me not to, she cooks really good, very hardworking, tends to my needs and even does my laundry! I literally had no choice in the matter but to love her! Then came the moment when I began to realize she is just an SSCE holder while I was seeking admission to study for my masters, now I'm almost done with my second degree and I stylishly asked my dad of his opinion regarding such a union, safe to say the response wasn't encouraging, now I'm left in a confused state as she really doesn't have the financial strength to proceed for her education mostly due to the poor background she comes from, sincerely don't know what step to take right now as we've been together for 2 good lovely years!Genuine and kind advise will be duly appreciated!Thanks.

doggedfighter:

No story to tell

Awnn! why not give love a chance

doggedfighter:

No, I didn't write any

Hmmm, could it be you don't feel comfortable telling it or there is genuinely no story to tell?Just intrigued to know more about you.

doggedfighter:

Thank you so much ,dear
We fight doggedly and become victorious.

Thanks hon! Didn't get your story tho or did i missed it

ubcandid:

what's wrong in an SSCE holder who is literate?

Was concerned about the massive gap in terms of education and was eventually advised against it as it would likely lead to issues in the future when it becomes obvious the difference in class.

doggedfighter:

Hey, what did I just read?
I am rolling on the floor laughing

Hey I love your moniker

ubcandid:

Are you a guy or lady?
I'm trying to come to terms with this statement of yours. It's quite not matured.

I'm a dude

I'm a master's holder and I almost got married to an SSCE holder because of love until proper sense knocked me.

There is difference between exercing 'freedom of speech' and outrightly showcasing brazen stupidity and hurling abuse toward the president of a nation!

Its a welcome move to halt such embarassing trend!

SeverusSnape:
I dey laugh

Bubu the mumu is heartless

Continue until they inevitably come fr ur ass

Nice decision to relax the lockdown by Mr President!

You don't just lock people inside without good palliative measure to sustain them

Go out and continue hustling but adhere to all protective measures to stay free from the disease

Stay safe people, together we'll defeat this common enemy called covid 19.

Some Nigerians are just so unbelievable!

You wanted your President to address you, he gladly obliged and currently doing so! yet you come out with other Bulls**t like 'pre recorded tape' 'staged this' 'written that' bla bla bla...

How I happen to share the same contraption with this set of people remain a mystery!

Patiently waiting for wailers to hurl abuse at the messenger and completely ignore the message, very strange set of people!

Wonderful news!

Thought 5 have been discharged in Edo? Why still 15 cases?

Is NCDC a scam?

The speech was not the best in the world but the message couldn't have been clearer! The president has assured the nation that all hands remain on deck to wipe out the beast called covid-19 from the country

Its not a surprise frustrated and spiteful 'nigerians' have completely ignored the messaged and resort to their default setting of abusing the president!

Big shame on you all!

Never ever seen a country were the supposed citizens hurl abuse at the leader with reckless abandon!

It'd a shame I share the same enclave with this people