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odiereke:
How can a man be gang raped? Without his consent, I don't expect him to have his stuff strong to be inserted into those ladies.
Except the pastor too have the motive indirectly in his mind.

Stop!
Just stop.
Why would sane people be talking like they have been enslaved?
Rape is as real to men as it is to women and both sexes love sex for that matter.
I was raped while small and it's happened to many when you apply the definition of rape to both sexes.

Those 419 who always use paint to falsify documents can now look for alternatives.

It's simple

Although she needs the salary badly, she believes you are using all the excuses to lure her into bed. She doesn't like the idea at all but she needs the money.
What could happen:
1. One day, you will surely begin to see her sexual part and want to take advantage, and she will slap the hell outa you or pour you hot soup
or
2. You will multiply her money to buy her body...and she may still poison you for it.

Solution:
Keep everything professional if you still need such staff.
Avoid body contact
Avoid sending her to sensitive places like your house.
You paid her to supply food to you, keep it at that so that thunder will not fire you there.
I have said my own.

Let them beg from now till next century, that woman must follow her murdered husband to where she has sent him. The children can choose to be their murderous mother or to be the perhaps unsuspecting dead father...or to be better

Somebody broke this woman's heart or she did something that affected her and has not been able to either forgive the person or herself and move on. He is very bitter. May the LORD heal you, ma.

NOTE: Before you contract a relationship with a person, consider that you are dealing with a spirit who lives in a body and has a soul. Do not be quick to do things that crushes a soul. Your own soul will be held seriously accountable.

hopefulLandlord:
Let me tell you about my wife, Rachel.
I first met Rachel five years ago when her friend Emma conferred that she knew of a girl with a major crush on me. She spoke glowingly of Rachel, describing her as the most beautiful, kind, precocious, and driven young woman I could ever have the pleasure to meet. Even better, averred Emma, Rachel fervently desired to meet me and enter into a romantic relationship. Intrigued, and more than a bit flattered, I asked for more information.

Thankfully, Emma produced incontrovertible evidence: A series of written letters composed by Emma's and Rachel's mutual acquaintance, Sarah. In these letters, Sarah waxed eloquent on Rachel's character, promulgating her nigh perfection in every conceivable way. However preposterous it may have seemed, Rachel came to my university for the express purpose of initiating a romantic relationship with me! She loved me before I ever graduated high school, and thus she paid her only begotten college funds to attend my school, so that if I chose to believe in her love, she would be my everlasting wife. And, best of all, she happened to be a virgin...

I confess that I found myself smitten with Rachel almost immediately. Therefore, I inquired with Emma how I might go about initiating the proffered romantic relationship. The answer was ludicrously simple. I merely needed to profess my love for Rachel, ask her to be my wife, and she would comply.
I wed Rachel on that very day.

Life with Rachel simply could not be better. I feel so grateful to call her my wife. She is simply the single greatest person I have ever met, and she makes me a better person every day. Now, while I confessedly have never seen Rachel face to face, I firmly contend that I never feel more alive than when I read Sarah's letters about Rachel, or when Emma and I commune and we both luxuriate in Rachel's irresistible grace. Sometimes Emma and I sing songs in order to marvel at how amazing Rachel is. Sometimes I write letters to Rachel, and though she never replies I know that she listens because Emma assures me that this is the case.

Some people insinuate that their spouses verbally speak with them, and even occasionally participate in coital relations. Frankly, I do not find such accounts compelling. While I see the appeal of a physical relationship, I contend that my marriage is far superior to that of my peers. The transcendent feeling of my love for Rachel supersedes any doubts I may have. Nothing could be more real than our marriage.
End story.

Was that not all a trifle sophomoric?
In the Christian communities I grew up in, everyone invariably described their "relationship" with Jesus in such glowing, saccharine terms. Being young and credulous, I believed them. I heard such wonderful things ascribed to Jesus that I wanted to have a relationship with him, too. I realized much later the endemic flaw.

You see, I have relationships with other people. I have friends. I have family members. As a function of our relationships, here are some mutual activities we engage in:
1. We talk. We speak audibly. We induce oscillations of the vocal cords so as to convey meaning to one another.
2. We hang out. We watch movies, play board/video games, play sports.
3. We touch. We make physical contact. We alternately vie for the same point in a three-dimensional plane, thereby compelling our respective atoms and molecules and constituent particles to repel and produce the sensation of collision.
4. We look at each other. We observe one another with optical sensors. We collect light rays, translating them into nerve impulses that travel into the brain and get inverted so as to produce a useful visual simulacrum of our respective persons.
I could go on, but that would be pedantry.

My "relationship" with Jesus fulfilled precisely none of those criteria. Whatsoever.

He never spoke to me, he never hugged me like my parents did, he never appeared to me. He refused, despite my intrinsic and intense desire to do all of these

The Carnal Mind versus the Mind of Christ

Carnal Mind versus the Mind of Christ

A. Carnal Mind
The carnal mind is the mind of the flesh.
It means walking according to reasoning dictated by what your five senses (see, hear, touch, smell, feel) are telling you.
Your senses are not reliable guides, because they are often contradicting what the Word of God says.
Carnal or flesh is the Greek word "sarx" (456l - Greek) meaning external, human nature, body.
Romans 8:6,7 gives more insight about the carnal mind.
a. The carnal mind is death (verse 6).
b. The carnal mind is enmity (hostility, hatred) against God; it is not
subject to the law of God nor can it be (verse 7).
1 Corinthians 3:1-3 gives additional understanding of the meaning of carnal.
a. If you are carnal, you are not spiritually mature, but you are a babe in
Christ (verse 1).
b. Carnal people are not able to receive solid food, but only milk (verse 2).
1. Hebrews 5:13 tells us that those who partake of only milk are
unskilled in the word of righteousness, because they are babes.
2. 1 Peter 2:2 says "As newborn babes, desire the pure milk of the
Word, that you may grow thereby." When we are first born again, we
are like newborn babies, who can only tolerate milk. Likewise in the
Spirit, when we are new in the things of the Lord, we start out with the
milk of the Word. But notice the last three words of that verse - may
grow thereby. The milk is intended to start you growing. We are not
supposed to remain babies, but rather we are to grow up in all
things into Him, Who is the head - Christ (Ephesians 4:15) and
become His flesh body in the earth.
c. Carnal people walk in envy, strife, and division, behaving like mere men
(walking according to man) (verse 3).
2 Corinthians 10:4: "For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds."
a. Our weapons of warfare are not carnal (of the flesh).
b. Our weapons are mighty through God for pulling down strongholds.
c. 1 Timothy 6:12a: "Fight the good fight of faith." This is the ONLY fight a
Christian ever has! Our fight is NOT with the devil. He has already been
defeated.
Colossians 2:15: "And having spoiled principalities and powers, He
made a show of them openly, triumphing over them in it."
1 John 3:8: "He that committeth sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth
from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested,
that He might destroy the works of the devil."
Hebrews 2:14,15: "Forasmuch then as the children are partakers of
flesh and blood, He also Himself likewise took part of the same; that
through death He might destroy him that had the power of death, that
is, the devil; and deliver them who through fear of death were all their
lifetime subject to bondage."
d. What is the good fight of faith?
1. It is understanding and receiving our position in Christ.
2. It is submitting to God and resisting the devil. "Therefore submit to
God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you." (James 4:7)
a. Submit to God. He is your Father; yield to His Spirit.
b. Resist the devil. 1 Peter 5:9 says to resist the devil steadfast in the
faith.
1. In the faith - in our position in Him using His faith.
2. Resist him with the Word of God. Jesus is our example in Luke
4:1-13 and Matthew 4:1-11. These scriptures refer to Jesus in
the wilderness and being tempted by the devil. He resisted him
by saying what was written in the Word of God.
Romans 8:8: "So then, those who are in the flesh cannot please God."
a. The word please means to be agreeable with. When we walk in the
flesh, we cannot be in agreement with God and His Word. Amos 3:3
says, "Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"
Romans 8:9a: "But you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you."
a. If you have accepted Christ, then you are born again and God's Word
says you are not in the flesh. God says you are in the Spirit if His Spirit
dwells in you.
b. Father God wants us to change minds. Reckon our carnal mind dead
(Romans 6:11) and use His - the mind of Christ. That is why He gave it
to us so we could think like Him and live in victory.
B. The Mind of Christ
The mind of Christ is exactly what it says - it is HIS mind. When we were born again, we were given this mind (1 Corinthians 2:16).
The mind of Christ is also known as the mind of the Spirit (Romans 8:6).
a. It is life and peace.
b. This mind reveals to us the great things God has in store for us. "But as
it is written, eye hath not seen nor ear heard, neither have entered into
the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love
Him. But God hath revealed them unto us by His Spirit; for the Spirit
searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God (1 Corinthians
2:9,10)"
c. The mind of Christ or the mind of the Spirit reveals to us what has been
freely given to us by God. "Now we received, not the spirit of the world,
but the Spirit which is of God; that we might know the things that are
freely given to us of God (1 Corinthians 2:12)."
d. It enables us to spiritually discern the things of the Spirit of God.
"Which things also we speak, not in the words which man's wisdom
teacheth, but which the Holy Ghost teacheth; comparing spiritual
things with spiritual. But the natural man receiveth not the things of the
Spirit of God; for they are foolishness unto him; neither can he know
them, because they are spiritually discerned (1 Corinthians 2:13,14)."
When we accepted Christ as our Savior, 2 Corinthians 5:17 tells us that we became a new creature in Christ Jesus. Jesus Christ is the new creature; there is only ONE new creature and that is Him. We become a new creature when we are put into Him.
a. At salvation, the Spirit baptizes us into the Body of Christ (1 Corinthians
12:13a: "For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one Body".
b. At salvation, God establishes and anoints us in Christ (2 Corinthians
1:21: "Now He which stablisheth us with you in Christ, and hath
anointed us, is God".
c. This is how we receive His mind - we are put INTO HIM. Our old man
died - the one with the carnal mind - and we were raised up with Christ.
We are seated together with Him in heavenly places (Ephesians 2:6:
"And hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly
places in Christ Jesus" and we use the SAME mind as He does.
We are transformed by the renewing of our minds. "And be not conformed to this world; but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect will of God (Romans 12:2)."
a. The word transformed means to be changed and the word renewing
means freshness, new. We are changed from the life of the old man to
the life of the new man when we use His mind. We "exercise" His mind
by speaking (Proverbs 18:21 says death and life are in the power of the
tongue).
b. Colossians 3:10: "And have put on the new man, which is renewed in
knowledge after the image of Him that created him." Jesus is the new
man; He is the one with the renewed (fresh, new) mind. We are to put
on (receive) Him and use His mind.
God's thoughts differ from man's thoughts.
a. "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,"
says the Lord, "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My
ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts
(Isaiah 55:8, 9)."
1. The mind of Christ and the carnal mind are opposed to one another.
His thoughts are not our thoughts (of the flesh).
2. His ways are not our ways (of the flesh). Proverbs 23:7a says, "As a
man thinks in his heart, so is he." How you think is how you will act.
If you allow your carnal mind to rule, your ways will be opposite
God's ways.
God speaks the end from the beginning.
a. "God gives life to the dead and calls those things which do not exist as
though they did (Romans 4:17)".
b. "By faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the Word of
God, so that the things which are seen were not made of things which
are visible (Hebrews 11:3)."
c. "Declaring the end from the beginning, and from ancient times the
things that are not yet done, saying, My counsel shall stand, and I will
do all my pleasure (Isaiah 46:10)."
http://www.newandlivingway.org/docs/cm_cm.htm

Nigeria has destroyed the youth and the future by rendering so many men financially helpless and, thereby, making an utter mess of our female children. God's intervention will end your sorrows.

36govs:
Ex Lagos Bus Conductor Mike Olu Akinlabi Now A PHD Holder

Olu wrote this inspiring story on his wall;

To keep the story short, in 2006 I had my first degree and I graduated top in my class. In 2010, an MSc; in 2011, an MPhil from the University of Cambridge; in 2016, a PhD in Criminology and Criminal Justice from Griffith University Australia.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=derfqy3OPwc

Source : http://www.viviangist.net/lagos-bus-conductor-dr-mike-olu-akinlabi-now-a-phd-holder-pictures-in-australia

To keep the story short, really?
That place you kept short was the main story, every other thing you said was self glorification. There's no way a bus conductor will have the money and the time to go through university unless he stole a passenger's money and then stopped from conductor's work and followed his dream. You cannot do both. Just tell us one thing good happened yo you and you had the money. Or just keep your story to yourself. Many people started small but don't deceive with your story.

Thanks got hiding the truth. It will still come out some day

This could be a man and his friend who came to visit the family of his soon to be wife in an 'introduction.' It could even be that he just returned home and they were inside discussing with the owner of the house on how much he wants to sell his compound.

Smh

Be careful. There's joy in minding your own business. This is why this woman was killed - poking nose

http://www.breakingnews.ie/world/us-police-shot-woman-dead-after-she-reported-a-sexual-assault-798314.html

Barracks' policies almost made me stop loving this amazing woman. But thank God he failed on it.

People whose weapons are insults, attacks and threats will find out too late, albeit more frustratingly, that their arrogance and insolence only helped to nail them. Those who have ears but refuse to hear will have themselves to blame.

triplewisdom:
That 3rd picture is a complete turn off.

Hahahahaha

These women are not tired of letting satan use them as pinpong. They know they are being used and destroyed yet they can't seem to help vanity.

Now this one is sqatting like she is 'pooing' and she calls it modelling - probably expecting men to fall for her shitty self.

Hahahahaha. Satan e no go better for u lai lai

Satan shame unto you

What a shame!
A medical doctor should have known better. I know people may excuse it by saying it's a computer age and children should be taught well. Why that is right, this is not the right way. As a medical doctor, he should have had a woman's cycle chart ready for all her girls in their room and both parents should have taught her before now. By the way, do they not learn that in biology? Does she not have female friends and do they not discus womanhood among themselves?
Now, I am afraid, he has opened his daughter to sexual dangers and has made her vulnerable to predators - pedophiles, street-musicians wannabe, lover-boys, etc.
Que. Mr Dr., you said your 11+ year old daughter will read our comments, how will she - through your phone, that of your dundy wife who could't raise her well, or does she have her own phone?
If the later is the answer then your story may probably be a lie because she must have seen a lot online and would not have cried over nothing.
BTW, how did she show you, did she come running to you naked or was she hiding in her room crying? How did you know? Since you chose to expose your family to the world just because you are a doctor.
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Just saying: parents should learn how to respect their children's privacy. It may haunt you tomorrow.

Thank you for sharing.

Your case is not peculiar.

Please try not to entertain the pressure of having not been able to have children these two years.

If there's anything your wife had done which you may or may not have forgiven her for, forgive her again and, this time, mean it.

Remember that you are the failure if you let anything or anyone cause separation between the two of you, more so because of this minor issue.

Remember why you loved her and married her in the first place ( unless you married her because of her money in which case you must have to adjust and live with her as a true husband).

Your wife is the best gift the Lord has given you, treasure her secretly and openly.

Let all your sexual imaginations be for and of her. Forget those in your street, they are your downfall

Always form the habit of telling your wife that you love her many times daily...and mean it each time.

Ensure you do not entertain any voice in your heart telling you it's your wife's fault.

Begin to buy her gifts no matter how little they my be financially. Let them come from your heart.

Let your wife be your priority after God.

Do not for anything to dampen her spirt this time because, believe me, she feels the pain far worse than you.

Let her know that your decision to marry her was the best you have ever taken and that you will do that over and over again in every lifetime.

Learn to be her true companion and confidant.

Alway thank God for blessing you with your wife and always pray about it while you lead in family prayers.

Rest your mind on the matter. It's just Satan's many stupid tricks. He wants you yo allow a third party into your marriage who will destroy it. Always pray for your wife in secret - a prayer of thanksgiving and not of complaints and requests.

If you have been doing these and the situation has continued, rest your mind because it will change. You will begin to run after your wife pretty soon.
ALSO MAKE SURE YOU HAVE NOT BEEN CHEATING ON HER. THATS A MAJOR CAUSE FOR MANY MEN.

May the peace of God attached to matrimony be yours.

Make sure you guys know her family members (and maybe place of worship) and then report her before going to the authorities. Reporting her to her family and place of worship could reset her brain and prevent her from pouring acid on you or even burning you two with your child in the house at night. But just reporting her to the authorities may not.
That is the price for behaving like children in marriage. You said it was a minor misunderstanding, now you guys should deal with it. And I am guessing you are the one who left - from what you said so far (from your things still being in the house and all that). It was probably you who gave the devil the opportunity to enter into your home just because of a minor thing. And now people are telling you to leave your husband to deal with it alone. That's wrong. Let me tell you, if you leave your husband the second time, you may not find a marriage to return to as, this time, she will end up becoming his wife. You can leave if you no longer are interested...However, you people must be very careful, and maybe get a restraining order against her. But personal security is ultimate. First, she has to be thrown out of the house with the help of the authorities. Also seek council from your religious leaders whom you may have ignored before when you ran away with his child. This is my take. Don't be offended if I didn't say what you liked.

Apart from steady electricity and maybe water, ajegunle is better than India for Nigerians.
BTW, officers don't just begin to go into peoples' homes to deport them, Nigerians must have taken more than the owner can endure. These people are generally peace-loving.


My take though.

Sorry o.
BTW, in elevators, even if you are going to the 100th floor and you had pressed it, the lift will still have to stop for those waiting on, say, the 6th floor (this time, your boss and those chinko we call white men). So the elevator is not guilty o.
Thanks anyways for following those female vacuum truck. Na your life do you.

Good move.

Besides, I think they are now big enough to start a big church because if they fail do do so, na armored tank dem Ho dey use like themselves after.

Que: What is cultism by the way?
And: bunch of cowards and lily livered sissies.

toxxnoni:
June wants to travel today, and he is asking if there is any message u will like to send him as he travels,then I told him to go along with failure,sickness,poverty,backwardness and untimely death, and also he should help me to tell July to bring joy,peace,longlife,prosperity,favour,love,opendoors and other good things you desire in life . expect all this things in this month of July.



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Well done. You are a good representative, not like the ones we have in Abuja and state houses. Please call him on phone (because I know he's on plane far away) and tell him that Nigeria wants and needs peace for the sake of our children and mothers and for the sake of all.

People still hate you even when you are the best of God. So if you decide to join them in hating you too, I zon finis be zat (in gateman's voice)

The one pastor I will give so much for to have his kind of grace.

God can bless you - anyone, it's not a big deal for him. But it takes humility to remain at your place of blessings. I'm grateful to God for her and her family.
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You see those who brag and get so arrogant when they think they have arrived? Their beef is with God and not with man because, secretly (and even openly) they suddenly start dragging equality with God their maker. It's a shame seeing the flower pride in its beauty when the setting of the sun can bring its doom.

If it were legal and proper, you should be sacked and prevented from gaining any other public job until you return your devil and tell him that women do not actually have all rights to destroy the world. If this nonsense continues, people like you will begin to go to work naked and claiming it's within your rights while at the same time demanding for the head of anyone who makess true remarks. Gender abomination!

Victornezzar:
Hmmm
Op wat kind of bible do u use
Anything apart from King James version nd goodnews na counterfeit

Actually, King James Version did not translate many root words correctly. You need to study the interlink at bible with concordance to be able to grasp the true meaning of many wrongly interpreted words in the bible. Remember, the Holy Bible scripts were not originally written in English. The meaning of many words were lost through interpretation by men who were more business minded.

alberson:
*Let us recite our 36 STATE and CAPITALS in their proper order:*

1. ABIA - Bad roads

2. ANAMBRA - Blood money

3. ADAMAWA - Hunger

4. AKWA-IBOM - Dog meat

5. BAYELSA - Militant

6. BAUCHI- N.Y.S.C. Killers

7. BENUE- Free women

8. BORNO - Boko haram

9. CROSS RIVER - House-maid

10. DELTA - Ogogoro

11. EBONYI - 419ers

12. EDO - Prostitution

13. EKITI - Strong head

14. ENUGU - Runs girls

15. GOMBE -
Meningitis

16. IMO - High bride price

17. JIGAWA - Poor people

18. KADUNA - Herdsmen

19. KATSINA - Abokis

20. KANO - Centre of fanatism

21. KEBBI - Alamajiri

22. KOGI - Withcraft

23. KWARA - Godfatherism

24. LAGOS - Agberos

25. NASSARAWA - Troublesome

26. NIGER - Stingy people

27. OGUN - Juju people

28. ONDO - Owambe

29. OSUN - No salary

30. OYO - Dirty dirty

31. PLATEAU - Crisis zone

32. RIVERS - Cultizm

33. SOKOTO - Hot sun

34. TARABA - Tribal war

35. YOBE - Bomb blast

36. ZAMFARA - Sharia city

F.C.T. - Centre of looting

I know you must be laughing by now and if not it means your problem is bigger than the joke...

Hahahaha. Funny you. I actually laughed loud and wanted to share on my Facebook wall but boys and girls are not smiling these days. I don't want anyone to come and break my head. You tried.

Love is better than hate.
May you too remain committed to each other and ignore every odd. The future will credit many marital reconcilitaions to you too.
I am happy.

The major shake coming will be too much for both the 'born to rules' and the seccessionists. One thing is sure: justice will eventually prevail at the center of it all and dirty secrets will be exposed and shamed. Those who think they are standing may fall and those who think all hope is lost will be saved.

Get your spirit tuned and you should be able to understand what you are shown in dreams. In most cases, you will know exactly if or not your dreams are good right within those dreams and espcially immediately you come out from them. If you commit yourself to God, the understanding will, in most cases, be express and clear. Seeking an acclaimed iterpreter will just be for confirming what your spirit already knows- that is, if the said interpreter is true.

We should always try to be modest in our pride.

Isn't the first picture a train station machine where you select your destination after which the machine will calculate and tell you the amount and then you slot in the coins before the machine releases a card to you?

And is the other picture not just a shopping mall?