mikezuruki: you made a whole lot of sense. Thanks.
I am particular about his parents giving their blessings. I have told him. We have been telling ourselves as friends the truth no matter the situation.
Going ahead without parents consent and blessings is wrong
So your principle is to desert a friend when he needs you the most?
Don't forget that parents ain't always right. They tend to be bias towards their expectations.
That she got pregnant doesn't make her a terrible choice of a wife.
I have supported a friend in this similar situation, now my friends parents are happy with their family. Only difference is she didn't get pregnant before the engagement but the parents gave their blessings eventually.
rentAcock: I hate to judge because I'm not perfect either but I cannot stand people who go clubbing on Saturday but then turn to serious worshippers on sunday. That is the height of hypocrisy because its is glaringly obvious to everyone that you are not a true believer.
YoungLionken: I don't really know any of the aforementioned by the OP but, you see Papa Ajasco and Company,Superstory,Ayamatanger(i am at anger), Jaguar, Ishawuru, Fuji House of Commotion, Everyday People ehn...
TonyeBarcanista: Bros, honestly, you are crying over nothing.
Your wife is a woman and you should understand her own position. She doesn't want her relative help to enjoy same privilege as her and her children before things get out of hand. Also, she isn't comfortable with the affection you are showing the girl. You were even wrong to quarrel her and say nasty things to her. Your good intention was spoilt by your action.
Guy, na you find trouble! Even me sef de suspect say your eye de chook for the babe as you don de reason her as second mother.
BTW we have seen relative househelp "chanced" madam in their homes or get pregnant for the oga for house.
Guy, apologise to your wife, and ask her to send the girl to her people.
horpigee1: I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating. (1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing. (2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u. . pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro
Fryzi: But what is Black Face problem sef? All the energy used in blaming and faulting 2face since they went solo, he would have used it for a more productive thing. He only wants 2face's downfall.
Like what exactly?
Another productive thing, only to be stolen again?
When you create something and it gets stolen or used without you getting the appropriate credit and you are cool about it then come back and make your comment again.
Those guys are amateurs and at the end of the day, they will have no case. I repeat NO Case against him except for hearsay and assumptions which will amount to nothing in the court of law.
Thank you for speaking the real truth and highlighting one of the major issues with Nigerians
tatax: To think that many people here supported 2baba after listening to this audio is heartbreaking. I thought Blackface was bitter about 2baba's success as widely accepted but dude was right after all. Maybe because he is not as successful as 2face, the world doesn't want to hear him out. Honestly I feel every pain Blackface must have felt and to think that all these while he have had Faze's back is an example to what an upright man should be.
Faze is the real snake. He is actually sounding forgetful where he knows he messed up. Faze is not helping Blackface and the group entirely. That one is just on 2face side because 2face is more successful and influential. Had blackface been more successful, faze would be on his side. I must give 2face some credit because he and his management have treated Blackface like a professional and with respect. If Blackface is not who is he which I now respect, he would have been on 2face side at the expense of Faze. Faze is not a professional and he lacks integrity. How do u explain coming to places you were not invited knowing what goes underground and you say it's a surprise appearance. Blackface rejected a chance to appear with 2face because Faze was not involved and even told Faze the reason he said no, Faze went behind and attended. How does that feel? I'm more angrier with faze than I am with 2face because if he had integrity and stood up like a man, those three would have come together again making music. Going by the Skype conversation and wedding stuff, it's even obvious 2face doesn't regard him. He's the one attaching himself to 2face. C'mon how can faze be that to a brother and the group? That's a disgusting attitude Faze got.
Nigeria can never be better because of her citizens. The politicians know this and that's why they keep committing many atrocities on the masses because to them, get influence and money, then you can control them. People are on 2face side because he is more influential and successful and have failed to understand what pains this guy is going through every now and then. Funny some are even suggesting blackface should move on. Easy to move on isn't it? but alot of those shouting "move on" can't let go of 5k they borrowed a brother who refused to pay back. Dude is demanding what is right and is thinking like a reasonable person he is and as one who refused to be exploited. Dude has moved on but his argument is that you cant do "plan B" without everyone in the team. An upright man will demand for what belongs to him. We lack people who live by principles and are upright in this country. It's a problem! How would a sane man with conscience support 2face after listening to this audio and it wasn't like Blackface was blabbing or making up words because faze himself acknowledged all what he was saying.
Blackface's only wrong was releasing the audio and I know even faze must be mad at him for doing that but how do we know the truth if he had not done that. Myself who have supported 2face and assumed blackface was jealous all these while wouldn't have had a rethink.
Have you ever being right and because you had no influence, everyone tends to follow the wrong one who had influence? How does it hurt..? If we desire a better society, we must condemn what is wrong no matter who is committing it.
Good thing about life is that one way or the other, the consequences of all our actions have a way of coming back to us. One, to teach people and secondly, to expose the wicked. Time always has a way of telling the truth and rewarding accordingly. I pray we will all be alive and well to know who have the last laugh.
paradigmshift: u be mumu i swear. because vector was talking shit to freeze, u just jumped into conclusion. ve u heard the version of MI? mind u, go play the viper by MI. e pain am
I'm a big fan of MI and I love Vector as well but after watching Vectors interview with Daddy Freeze and also following the pattern and MI's comments and attitude, I can only conclude for now that MI is the snake here.
I mean how could you tweet about wanting the job of your fellow rapper? How low can he go even with his height?
Rappers take shots.. Throw subs.... Arrange wordplay.... Swing metaphors...... Land punchlines.... But we need to know what not to do. Niggas got no code man.
Ifemide123: Waoh Thank you for this. I was beginning to think something isn't right.
From your story, I could only deduce that your parents are some hard-core Christians. No offence, but at your age, you deserve some liberty.
I know this usually applies to men but let's make an exception. "grow some balls"
If your parents wouldn't allow you to attend youth meetings then it's a serious case that IMO opinion has to some extent affected your self confidence and possibly your perception about meeting people, hence your preference to online dating.
Back to growing som balls, this doesn't mean you should be rude and offensive to your parents. It's just about you having a grown up conversation with them and letting them know what's burning you up and how you feel.
Trust me, everything will change after having that conversation.
I was a huge fan of the defunct Plantation boiz group. I enjoy and respect 2baba's music. I used to think Blackface had lost touch of how to make good music and has refused to stop living in the past but after listening to his version of African Queen, I felt a bit different.
He did a good job on the track and if he had released it before 2face, it could possibly have made a great wave.
Quite a melodious and touching.
Have a listen and give your opinion.
I think blackface should let go of the past, mend broken fences, build better relationships, network and connections and give music another shot.
GrabHisBalls: There's nothing anyone on Nairalander could help you with. You were actually not ready for marriage before you delved into it. If you've ever attended marriage seminars/relationship talk shows, you would have known that words are very powerful. No matter the provocation, there are things you don't utter. People forgive, but those words live with them. Most times, not consciously 'cause even subconscious keeps to information. There are certain "truth" you don't say if it's going to cause emotional damages even if it's the truth. I laugh when people blab things to hurt people, then tag it "the truth". You're simply being insensitive. It' s not every truth you should say in the open. Maturity has taught me to keep quiet when provoked.
Your wife may have forgiven, but those words can never be erased even though she desires to.