Mynd44:


The same way female inheritance was decided on.

When culture is tangential to law, the law is first considered. Davido is the father and according to the laws of Nigeria, it ends there.

You asked how Davido is the father. The law does not see the woman as an incubator owned by her father and he sells his ownership to her husband when she marries. The law sees the woman as a full individual capable of owning herself amd her decisions.

In this situation, the baby is Chioma and Davido's. Chioma's father does not even come into the picture.

If Davido is decided by the court to be lacking in ability to raise a child, he is still the father but the baby will live elsewhere as decided by the court. But to say that the baby belongs to the grandfather is jokes.

EOD

ExAngel007:
that my girl...

I believe she don't want because something about the guy is not right

But to dey chop the guy's money dey right?

The truth is the gal na player. She dey enjoy the guy's money and gifts alongside some other side guys. Committing to this guy alone will end other sources of oshofree.

Greed

iyatrustee:


Thanks for the enlightenment. Is it safe to say it is scripted then? Bearing in mind, both winner and loser gets to take home same amount? And judging from Joshua's previous match where he earned more than the winner?

Boxing is not scripted o.

Did you see Wilder's left ear and mouth?

Who agrees to a script that could damage their brain and potentially kill them?

It's not wrestling. Lol

I believe the sharing is also based on popularity and how marketable they are. AJ brought him more views and as the champion thus the sharing ration between him and Ruiz.

Expert17:


Mr boxing

You need some lessons?

virago:



Both Fury and Wilder are overhyped , I put it to you Ruiz will beat both of them

Andy Ruiz could bring down wilder with his speed and power but I doubt if he could do that with Fury. Fury has excellent head movement, accurate punches, legwork, strength, endurance..... He's all round.

greggng:


Keep quiet Joshua was humiliated by Andy Ruiz....he fell like chicken several times....even the rematch was not up to expectation cos he was running up and down like chicken been chase by another for the purpose of sex

So you expected AJ to wait around and get punched when he clearly had the advantage of keeping a distance and avoid getting punched while in the same vein inflicting pain on Andy?

Outstanding performance from AJ to claim back his belts.

I believe AJ would beat Wilder. Why? AJ is clearly more technical and skillful than Wilder. The only thing Wilder has is the right hand. Keep him from using it and he's left with nothing.

BabaO2:
rubbish, we have been telling you, he is an audio American boxer, AJ would have done similar thing to him. Ortiz out boxed him in both of the encounters they had. No one understands Furry, the guy is strong.

Exactly, ortiz would have beaten wilder if he had landed more power punches.

Fury just exposed Wilder big time. Every boxer has their weak link.

Andy opened up AJ weaklink as well but AJ did well by making amends.

Expert17:


Joshua that was beaten by Ruiz like a baby.....

He later won the rematch, running about the boxing ring........Boring match ever

You don't understand boxing

SavageMaster:
Hmm. The guy's English is even somehow. It runs in the family oh

It's FTC again. My second FTC in a day, in less than an hour

Kemi's son can be causing this kinda of quake with English language. I refuse to believe this.

Dave233:
see this mumu... do you know what it takes to get a basic medical/Dental degree not to talk of becoming a Consultant?? The courses i did in final year medical school alone was 96 credit units. Thats more than 2 Masters degrees in only final year

Congrats. However, that doesn't make you a masters degree holder.

You went through that to become a doctor and nothing else. You want additional accolades? Earn it. #nodisrespect

I think the main problem is doctors feel they are supreme and better than other professionals. As important as their job is, the decision to become medical practitioners was independently made by them and not forced to become one.

kitone:

Ignorance.phd is just 3yrs ofpaperwork.residency sents you back to school for another minimum of 6years training after medical school.which includes practical training and research.pls get your facts right.doctors need more of hands on training that just book work

As much as I agree with the fact that doctors spend more years undergoing practical training and research for their residency, it still can't be equated to a PhD.

Unless both can be integrated together, doctors interested in lecturing should acquire the appropriate requirement.

Maybe it was the girl in question that took the boy out. Who sabi?

haryomikun:

Stewpid talk

Yeah. Absolutely irritating comment.

elektra:
The only time cheating bothers men is when it is a woman doing it.
Look at this OP, he is not even the one being cheated on, but it worries him so much he had to open a thread about it.

The woman left the kids for her husband. Who should she have left them for? Are the kids not bearing the man’s name?
There are many women tired from raising kids by themselves, have you ever noticed anyone of them? The moment you see one man raising his kids you come to open thread.
You men should get used to raising your own bloody kids.

You would do same thing right?

He chose to look like that. Don't be deceived. He has tried different looks and now this.

If he wants to look like a sweet boy, trust me it will only take a few moment.

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sylvestersamuel:
Good morning my fellow Nairalanders, I will try to make my story brief and precise.... I have a fiancée whom I am already engaged to. As a matter of fact I have already done all our traditional marriage and rites the only thing left is our white wedding which will be coming up in the next 3 weeks.

Yesterday, my fiancée came to visit me in my house so as to discuss our wedding plans. But before she left, we had a slight misunderstanding and the reason for our misunderstanding was because I allocated 50% of our wedding expenses to her i.e (she would be the one to sew her wedding gown, pay for the catering service amongst others) while I take care of other expenses...

On hearing this, she didn't even utter a word but left with annoyance, since then I have been trying to call her but she hasn't been picking my calls neither have she replied any of my messages....

Please I need your advice, did I do or say anything wrong, because I know how much I spent during our traditional marriage rite and mind you, she earns close to 200k per month.... Insult in form of advice is allowed all I need is just your advice.

Now when your fiancee sees this thread, how do you think she would feel?

mimimile93:
When your sister was alive you didn't honour her.

She is late you now make mockery of her with Aba made boots.

God punish you.

You deserve to be beaten at the market square

Ijeoma1187:
This is what I get anytime money comes up

This is terrible.

How could any loving husband talk to his wife this way?

sholatech:
Hmmn. Both Husband and Wife are on Nairaland and giving their two sides to the story..

It's not a good look at all.

Ijeoma1187:
Well my husband didn’t complete this story and he still brought it here ... ok this is my own side of the story. He gave me some amout of money more than 450k ... during November and asked me to do some certain things with it... even our transport to the east and all. Even his brothers transport was part of that money. My baby was sick last year and we kept going to the hospital with this same money, this January too the sickness came back and I was referred to gariki specialist hospital to meet with a dermatologist and all .. we have hospital card all over abuja seeking for solution to this illness.. so the dermatologist asked me to go to a pharmacy to buy some medication which cost 60,150 and I have been on hospital appointment since then and it takes 7,500 to meet with a dermatologist for 2 weeks ... I told my darling husband oh that I am a little bit low on cash. Hiss normal him him with abuses like you are foolish you are mad you are an ingrate you think I pluck money on trees, I said no problem we will be fine , but he kept on dragging it and dragging it and started telling his friends oh that his wife used money for 3 months and I asked him pls did you tell your friends you went to ask what we have been through and why on earth will you seek 3rd part opinion in our marriage

Haaa...

Wife,

Please can you talk to your husband offline please? Please seek the help of a respected family member or a marriage counsellor.

I would appreciate if you could delete your comment and advice your husband to do the same.

You both can sort this out. Your side of the story is reasonable but nairaland.com comments may do more harm than damage.

Please speak with him and sort this out offline. Not online please.

Many of the comment here will be from people that do not want your happiness or progress.

Once again sort it out offline

This is a great opportunity for you to draw the line and demand the respect you should be accorded as the man of the house.

You do not have to call anyone. Although it's important for you to have a heart to heart talk with your wife and let her know your stand.

Let her know you owe no one any apologies, infact her brother should apologise to you for trying to scather your new home.

Having said that, it is also important to point out your errors. You don't forward messages from people to your wife. Who does that? You have to be diplomatic and also stay in control. You can't afford to be seen as someone that dangles off other people's opinions.

Your wife is going no where, I can say that for sure. Lovingly remind her that you have decided to spend the rest of your life with and you intend to stand by that promise but if she so wish to leave you and go back to her fathers house, then, you can't stop her but only persuade her to build your home together.

You making that call is tantamount to you giving them the key to your entire marriage. You will receive the same threat till everything eventually goes wrong.

.........................................

Mr husband,

Please delete your story and make amends. You have forced your wife to come online to give her side of the story and it doesn't paint you as a reasonable man. Please delete your story, seek advice and marriage counselling. You are far away from your family so the least you can do is treat them with utmost love, care and attention.

You should be glad that no be hiv you carry from her.

Did Ihedioha in anyway call for Sowore's release?

WhatsApp is working joor

Bros,

In all honesty, you are soft, way too soft. Although you are reasonable, it's important to be decisive and put everyone in their place.

You have been able to thoroughly understand both your mum and your wife. You have solved the puzzle halfway. Now, you have to take some rigid decisions. You have been flexible enough and it's obviously not yielding any positive results. You mum still acts the way she always does, your wife still plays you emotionally and dictates how she wants things to run.

As the head of the family, take a stand. Call a meeting between both families. Before doing this, have another discussion with your mum and your wife separately. This time, let them know you are not having anymore bullshit from none of them. Tell them, henceforth, things are going to be done your own way as the head of the family. Tell them loving each other or at least pretending to love each other is non negotiable. Your mum should have access to her grandson just as your in-laws do.

The meeting between both families should go a long way in resolving these differences. Your wife's parents also have a lot to do in talking sense to your wife. If they want you to have peace, then they should plead with your wife to make peace with your mum.

Pray to God for guidance and remember to take a stand. Show a different and a much more manly and decisive side of you and watch both of them behave.

gidgiddy:


You should be more concerned with what would happen to the woman if the board she is standing on gives way

There will be no need to worry about that if he could provide a borehole for them.

As much as I stand against jungle justice, it's hard to speak against it if you have had an encounter with with a thief. I mean if you had been robbed and beaten by an armed robber.

Those guys are heartless. They break into your house in the dead of the night, hit your head or face with a gun, kick your belle or private part with their robbery-infested boots, threaten your life and that of your family members, beat you to stupor, rape your wife or your daughters or siblings, steal your hard-earned money, and so many unthinkable atrocities.

So permit me to say, I don't flinch or pity them when they get a jungle justice treatment.

Seunaj05:
This fight is already finished nau. Its Trump vs Iran vs Democrats 2:0 in favour of the Potus!
Well, I knew that Iran would make mouth to protect it's ego and then stage a downplayed/watered retaliatory attack.
I bet you that no country wants to go to war with the United States, not even Russia (And if not Russia then it can never be anyone else) As for China, China would rather keep doing its bussiness than participate in any war at all. In any war involving the United States, China will always be in the middle because it needs the United States to grow its economy more than the whole of the rest of the world, the same way Iran needs the US to grow it's economy.
I lost sympathy for the Iranians when I heard that the Obama administration gave Iran 150 Billion dollar! and an additional 400 million dollars as part of the peace deal initiated by the United States. Guess what, instead of Iran to judiciously use this money to grow its economy and provide livelihood for it's people, they went and use the money to buy armouries and weapons of mass destruction in order to fight the same person that gave them the money. This singular act makes it clear that Iran values conflicts more than human lifes and livelihood.
Let's be frank, Iran do not understand negotiations and diplomacy, the language they understood of course is WAR! My prayer is that may any country such as Iran never become the world power, otherwise the whole world will be soaked in blood.

Please read and do proper research before spewing false information on a public forum.

USA didn't give Iran money. The Obama administration only returned the Iran government money that was frozen by the USA government as part of nuclear compliance deal. The money was never owned by the USA.

donstan18:
It's so pitiful that someone like Bobrisky is more famous and richer than 80% of Nigerian first class graduates.


E no fit better for this country again.

Because he's smarter than most of the first class graduates you are referring to.

He shifted away from the norms of the society and carved a niche for himself.

He created job opportunities for himself and sells products online.

He cashes in day in day out without giving in to several threats and negative opinions about him.

He deserves every bit of what he gets today.

How many of these graduates can do what he's done to get himself outta his predicament?

czarr:
someone else bust the cherry either before you guys dated or very recently, she won't own up to you cos she knows eventually if she keeps dating you you'll find out and leave her.


better to end it herself and keep her sanity
she'll start afresh with a new guy who she won't lie to that she is a virgin, probably the guy who bust it.
[b]
the things is virgins just want someone bold enough to convince them [/b]and deceive them into giving up the cherry, trust me women just want someone to blame other than themselves , be that person they'll blame for leading them astray and they won't leave you.

True.
a part of them want to have the experience, the other part wants to wait.

If you try to increase the hunger for the experience, she might give in or run away

AAUAite. Wa gbayi