₦airaland Forum

Kingrshd3:
Similarly to age bracket too your school female can't marry u instead they will marry a man older and greater than you 😆

The Op never grow up like can I say is maturity is not standard yet

don't mind OP, he should let those small small boys on the platform to decieve him.

It is normal, girls will marry guys that are older and richer than them.

Negroid001:
Me and my younger sister were having our usual afternoon gossips and gists and something came up.
I asked after a close friend of hers whom i know to be very affluent and she erupted that i should stop asking after her that she doesn't support me dating any of her close friends. I asked her why, she said i have nothing to offer her friend. I mean, imagine, I'm some years away from 30, working with several firms of which 1 is among the top 10 highest grossing in the country and this big head has the audacity to tell me i can't hook her rich friend.

I take us down memory lane to the reason why she ditched her immediate ex, she told me the dude was struggling and she didn't see much prospect in him, her childhood crush oo. I asked her what's the difference between me and her? She couldn't come up with a valid response. She kept on hollering that I'm supposed to be a provider. Provider my ass.

As a man, I've set the standard of not getting involved with women below my economic class or earnings and i see nothing wrong with it. If women see marrying above one's class as normal, we men shouldn't accept anyone below par also.

Woman wey no get shingbai for account go dey give man wey dey earn conditions, what absurdity!

Let's stop fooling ourselves with love shi. Marriages and relationships are transactional.
It's an arrangement and one has to make the best of choices. What are you bringing to the table?

I blame low self esteemed men for putting a false sense of value on our women. The thing dey mess with their brain. The only thing most of them have to offer is sex, nothing more.

Men, raise your standards!

you may likely remain single for life. Your sister was right. As a man, you will be the provider even if you're furtunate enough to get someone within your class. It is the norms in our clines.

Reason why i said you may likely remain single for life is because it is much easier for women to get men within or above their class but not that easy for men. If you like let all these small small boys for nairaland dey decieve you or applaud you. It's just like me saying the girls i graduated with in school should marry us the guy. Like who does that. Some of the girls in my class got married in their final year while some during and after service. How on Earth will they marry their mate who probably don't know where life is taking them to?

bukatyne:
My concern is how Portable married this clean babe.

As in this woman lets Portable sleep with her?

Omo!

some women no get taste naturally

richidinho:
She no rate portable at all

if na you you go rate am? That ugly thing

AOB1:
Guy can't you read and understand the point the man is trying to make. Everything is not politics, Bwala is just saying the truth

helinues is a nuisance you should know that already. Everything is politics to him.

AbuTwins:
Yes, Tinubu was wrong to have done some of the things he did back then!
But that doesn't make him wrong now!

Then you Tinubu family members shouldn't be angry at anyone trying to undermine his efforts. It's pay back time. Karma is a bitch. It will definitely hunt him and his household.

Angelfrost:
Wishes are not horses... If they were, Nigeria would be lending money to America, Russia and China.

You say those against the President should be disgraced... Lol!

Maybe you are too young to remember that the current President fought tooth and nail, and ganged up with enemies of Nigeria to frustrate Jonathan while he was in office.

If God answered such prayers, would Tinubu and APC members be alive today?!!


Think about it.

don't mind @AbuTwins, he's just an hypocrite. Everybody knows how Tinubu join hand together to frustrate Jonathan government. How Tinubu supported Buhari a known colossal failure for good 8 years because of his ambition. He thinks he's more Nigerian than others.

AbuTwins:
I don't revolt against government!
I don't abuse government!
I support the government!
I can critic the government policies constructively and not destructively like you guys!
We can't go the Libya and Sudan way!

but you can abuse the masses? You can even fight the poor masses because of your government? This is not patriotism.

Inshame3:
Good morning nairalanders, I can't bear the pain anymore as a result of what betting has done to me
I am planning to take my life by 1:00 today but before then I still have little money in my account 25k

In view of this I will be doing giveaway for 5people just drop your account if you are interested

After that I will end it all, I am no longer giving my money to the bookies again. This last cash will be dish out to those who need it

God have mercy. Please don't take your life i beg you in anything you believe in. Consider the pain your parents, siblings and family will go through. I am broke though but i don't need this kind of money. I want you to live.

Chucks13:
E dey still dey pain you. Who fear the North? Do you want us to open he Can of Warm started from 1960 till date who in Nigeria fear the North, should we start and let me disgrace you?

I will take you though the course of history and shame you that it as our own tribe that feared the North than Sw and SS.

Should we start?

Lousy mouth talking shit. No common sense, you talks gbahu gbahu laulau like a slowpoke.

face what TY Danjuma said. Is Nigeria not gone?

AbuTwins:
May all these devil incarnate that rejoice in the evils happening in Nigeria be disgraced!
May all those against the President of Nigeria be disgraced!
May the naysayers be disgraced!
May the animals who with/without their families live within/outside the zoo be disgraced!

keep disgracing your ancestor here no be prayer make America great o. The prayer wey your forefathers don dey do since 1960 where e don carry us go? Wake up guy. You're not more Nigerian than others. You can't claim you love Nigeria more than others. Supporting your government when they've failed in almost every area of governance is not patriotism but foolishness.

You should love the masses more than your government because your government can afford just anything including dual citizenship but the masses don't have food to eat

Benwallt:
I never believe this, not for a sec. No one believes it really

you mustn't believe it. Statistics has proven that several times. Additionally, an illiterate person in South East can still speak English than a Yoruba illiterate. Do you also don't believe this?

PeaceNmaEze:
I need a good job no doubt but I have a little business I'm managing which seems better than those options. If you understand my message, I'm not looking for money to eat, I was admitted and took a loan hoping I will pay back but I have been borrowing more to repay loans which has accumulated.

I need help for my loan

I don't understand you o. You borrowed money for your health issue and you went ahead to borrow another money to pay the previous one you borrowed? You keep doing that while your debit keep increasing right?

PressMyButton:
There's no child labour worse than igba/nwa boi. It is an organised child labour with the complicity of the parents. In a situation whereby these boys literally become servants for their masters and their madams at home. They sleep inside the containers, wake up early to open the shop, run errands for Oga madam in the day, clean up the poo of Oga's kids, go to their Oga's house to wash plates and clean the toilets, all for a plate of food. Nwa boys go through the most pathetic condition of existence.

Nwa boy isn't slavery. It is one of the best culture and tradition in Igbo land that has helped lots of youths out of poverty. Unlike the yorubas, Yoruba guy are naturally lazy. Yes! Majority o, f Yoruba men do not pay their wives bride price. They just impregnated their women and she automatically become wife. Yoruba girls are the cheapest in Nigeria. In every 100 Yoruba guys in Nigeria today, 80-90 of them are into cyber fraud popularly known as Yahoo Yahoo. They're very lazy while they're good at using bleaching cream. Some of the Yoruba guys that managed to learn a skill like fashion design, plumbing, mechanic, electrical engineering, weathering et al. Majority of them usually end up being useless because they don't have money to establish themselves in the skills they learnt. Those that cannot do Yahoo Yahoo amongst them end up working in a factory, AGBERO or street urchins. Some of Yoruba men that cannot even feed themselves and their wife will still go ahead marrying more than one wife. Yoruba top the ladder of polygamy and patriarchal in Nigeria.

Igbo men are very much industrious and hard-working than Yoruba men. Igbo men don't marry more than one wife and they will never impregnate their woman before marriage. Igbo men definitely do pay their wife bride price unlike Yoruba men that do marry cheap and free wife. Igbo men generally takes good care of their wife. Wetin you spend money to get guy you go value am unlike how Yoruba men treat their wife like slave because they do marry them freely. Just give them belle gbam. She don become iyawo. Reason why Igbo had the least number of divorce women in marriage because their men do treat them right. Yoruba has the highest single mothers in Nigeria compare to anIgb. And the reason isn't far-fetched from the fact that their men do impregnate them and dump them. Unlike Igbo men that has common sense and class. They came to Lagos and became successful. They dominated the highbrow area in Lagos while Yoruba dominated the slum area. It's a known fact.

If we should go to food, you and i know say Igbo has the best delicacy in Africa after calabar. It is a known fact even to the blind. The only aspect i don't really like about Igbo is the aspect that a girl child don't inherit property from her father. Although i heard the culture is gradually phasing out. I love every other thing about them.

FYI, i am a Yoruba guy from Osun State. You can check my chat history to find out yourself. I speak the truth. I am not gullible like you lots.

franchasofficia:
Men with these qualities are too many in Nigeria but you will need to delete No. 13 and everything is fine

there are men that doesn't womanize. I mean comfortable and rich men.

Donyenye:
If we can't find it in women we can't find it in men too,but if we find it in women we can as well find it in men 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

you are competing with women? Na woman go help you pay your groom price, rent or built house and furnish it? Na the woman surname una children go dey bear?

ojonugba2014:
I have all this qualities .

Although I never build my house finish.

One thing I know for sure is " any guy with those qualities will never settle with some Random 9ja girl who has nothing to offer. I am an example of those guys I am talking about. I don't do any of those things listed there.

I listens to musics a lot though.

My girlfriend is a virgin, industrious ND beautiful both physical ,front ND back.

But the only issue I have with her is" entitlement mentality " I was made before we met, so, why feeling entitled.?

it is our culture. I don't think she's entitled. It is your responsibility to take good care of her and protect her once you're married to her.

Vikynas:
Which of these qualities does your father have?

she didn't chose her father just like you and everyone else. But she has every right to chose who she'd spend the rest of her life with.

gratefulheart:
Why is it difficult to get these same qualities in a woman?

women aren't judged by their financial strength so having a house, car is not necessary or essential unlike we men. Women don't need 6 packs. Women don't necessarily have to be tall, an average height is cool. An average Nigerian women doesn't smoke nor drink

All of these qualities itemize by OP are men attribute not women

lwise:
ot[b]Carry mud build one by yourself [/b]

There are guys like that OP describe. The fact that you didn't tick all or almost all the qualities doesn't mean no guy has it. There are lots of guys with such qualities.

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

i don't do all of these 3 you itemize. There are guys that doesn't do that either

Listen to your parents please. I believe they want the best for you. The world is cruel dear sis. Responsible men are hard to come by. Please thread carefully

essentialone:
Do not get deceived. Most Nigerian ladies are into Prostitution!

Nigerian men are also culprit. At least the ladies might be prostitute but they're better than Nigerian men that are also into prostitution, Yahoo Yahoo, kidnapping, banditary, bokoharam, herdsmen, hooliganism, streets urchins, pick pocket, ritualist, rapist etc.

Metrofox:
You're sounding delusional now like a woman. Except the child is old enough to make decisions on who to choose as his father. The only thing standing between you and the right to any so called child of yours is a claim and aDNA test ordered by a court. Don't allow women mess you up

you know nothing guy

DeepSight:
Wrong. Any party with a claim to inherit him can demand that DNA Test.

dream on

DeltaBachelor:
You spoke foolishly that's why I did that. I am not sorry to call you that. We forget that in law, there shouldn't be sentiments, bias or emotion. A family member from either side has a right to demand for a paternity test to ascertain the true situation of things if in doubt. I have seen the woman's side being the plaintiff in cases like this too so it is not a case of playing the victim card. [b]This is African culture. [/b]Situations like this are bound to occur when a husband or wife dies under mysterious circumstances. Let's forget all this nonsense we are spitting

Law supercede culture and tradition. Let me leave you since you don't like hearing the truth.

yommen:
With that semblance? Compare mohbad to his father Vs mohbad to his son.

physical look doesn't mean the man is the true father of the child. It has been proven biologically. Only DNA test prove that

DeltaBachelor:
You must be a fool without family problems then.

did i call you a fool? You don't like someone telling you the truth. You started insulting me.

imam07:
u were with them when d ex made that statement? If he really made dat statement, do u know what she did or say to him to have said that to her. In life one thing leads to other things. D idiot came online making gest of her ex, and suddenly u people just jump to conclusion and start judging. D new bride just dig her marriage grave by herself. This only shows she did not marry for love. She only want to get married to spite her ex. I pity d groom not her. U never get to dat stage that is why i dont know she is wrong. U saw a video of someone doing d wrong thing. U did not blame her but praise her. But started blaming d ex wey u no see. The ex wey u no dey there when she said it. U should know something is wrong with u.

did she kill his family members? Did she cut off his leg and hands? What has she done to warrant such statement? God put the guy to shame and bless her with a good man. God will also put you to shame if you continue looking for Wunmi downfall. God is watching you With your biased view

imam07:
nah wife go be your bread winner baa? Answer me make I say Amen

you have been the breadwinner of your family but your wife and children are not happy. They're only managing you. How much do you earn monthly? Which school are they going? Which car is your wife driving? Where do you live? Do you have 24hts power supply? For your mind you be breadwinner? You wey your wife and children dey manage

DeltaBachelor:
Sorry to say but I don't think we are on the same wavelength here. You clearly are not rational with your response . I can only pray we don't have any family member(s) who experienced what Mohbad did. I am very sure that you will be among those calling for a DNA test especially when it is something that will bring closure, mend broken hearts and finally lay to rest any perceived or lingering doubt. Nobody will fold their arms and hear cases like that about their son or brother and ignore. I repeat, it is 100% valid if they want to know if Liam is truly their grandson, nephew etc. Nothing like slut shaming anybody. This stuff happens even among couples who are married today. It's just to be very sure . They have been delaying this stuff for far too long. He who brings ant infested woods to the room must not be feel bad when lizards start visiting. The lady you are supporting and the entire family brought and washed their "dirty" linen in public for all of us to see. So, in that vein , it won't be out of place if we want to know if the said "linen" is clean or not. This will be my last response to you on this matter. Do have a great night !

Who are the we? Unfortunately Wunmi doesn't banter to the mobs. She owe you nor anyone else any obligation of carry-out DNA test. Y'all can only rant from now till thy kingdom come. She doesn't owe you anything. You're not her husband. Only her husband has the right to demand for DNA test. Mohbad didn't question the parternity of his child throughout his lifetime so who are you to question it? Go and face your family problem and find away to resolve it.

imam07:
nah woman dey rule your family baa. I pray it will be permanent in your family

If woman will rule my family and make us successful in all ramification then i say Amen. Men has been ruling your family what has come out of your family? What makes your family better than those being rules by women? Is your family richer than those being rule by women? Is your family known at the LG level talk more of state or FG level?