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lexy2014:
you shouldn't have helped her. not sure she asked u to. since she has the brains to write the topic, does she not have the brains to answer the questios?

what are those "personal luxuries" u are referring to?

when u say "security" what do you mean?

you really didnt answer my question because I dont see any mention of what it will take financially to be able to achieve all of the above that u mentioned. can you pls shed light on that?

Ogbeni, The Answer is Straight forward!😏

When A Guy is ABLE to Foot all his Bills without Complaints or Depending on anyone,
Then he is READY for marriage.🤨🙂

Not a Guy who owes his Landlord Rent, can't buy news clothes, eats BREAD and FANTA, can't buy TV in his Apartment, etc
Now thinking of going to Pay his GF's dowry and hoping Marriage will bring blessings.

That's a Terrible Gamble some Young married Guys made and they are SUFFERING dearly for it!

creolehunt:
So, a woman contributing to her home is conditional?

Hehehe.😏

A big YES to this your question.😏🙂🙂

Women are NOT to contribute, in Nigeria and Africa. By carrying Belle for 9months and giving birth, they have done more than enough.🤨😕

Stop looking for Marriage where ur lady will have to contribute Financially, CHANGE YOUR MINDSET.

lexy2014:
can you kindly define being able to "comfortably cater for yourself and one more person before going into marriage" in monetary nd material terms

Let me HELP her.

A Guy should be Able to foot all his Bills comfortably as a Bachelor before going into Marriage.
Rents, PHCN, Security, Personal luxuries, etc

Not earning 35K per month, Hustling here and there or Still depending on Parents or Relatives
and then thinking of Marriage.

The OP is RIGHT! When I see Young Financially Struggling Guys , already having a Wife and even Kid,
I usually SMH.

Very true, OP.

Some Peeps still believe in that 'Marriage brings Blessings' talks
and end up REGRETTING, after getting hitched.

See how this USELESS Tinubu/APC govt is bringing CRISIS to Nigeria
because of their Evil Tactics of using the Judiciary to Capture States where they Lost WOEFULLY in the last election.

Will our APC Agbadorians MISCREANTS supporters call this elders IPOB too?🤔🤔

Tinubu and his APC Rascals wants to Destroy this Nigeria! 😒😒😔

Padipadi:
Rufai own too much.
He nor dey question PDP and LP govs or States.

He was the FIRST person to criticize Gov Otti of Abia for his BOGUS food allocation.😏😕

He is Not a ZOMBIE like most APC supporters. 😒😒

Vision101:
What is a name? A name is an identity. It's rare for goat to answer dog. Their behaviour reflect the name. In traditional times people give names to their children based on circumstances of their birth or of their families at the time of their birth. In biblical times it was the same.

Irrespective of your belief words have power. I want to pretend to be liberal by avoiding quoting the scriptures. In majority of cases names given with innermost conviction end up reflecting on the person's behaviour.

You must remember that faith is an energizer of any action. Some people can by faith live above the negatives in their names.

So What happened in the case of those Examples I gave?😏😏

Like a Girl called PRUDENCE being lavish with Money or
OBEDIENCE not listening to her Parents and going to have a Boyfriend and Getting fuccked/pregnant. 😕😔😔

The Light don Cum.

*SUCCESS get 4 Carryovers for her Department.
*VIRGINIA get 6 Ex Boyfriends. 😟😧
*CHARITY get 800K in her Acc but give her mama N500 to eat.
*GOODNESS is fuccking her friend's Father.🤨
*BEAUTY no Just Fine @all.😔😔

*WISDOM use him School Fees do Birthday for him GF. 🤦🤦
*TRUST no Gree tell Him Mama his ATM password.

With such Opposites, Do you think NAMES given to a Child, Matter?🤔



Nplfmod!.

Ebola wants Nigerians to Start Patronizing those Early morning Yoruba AGBO Girls.

Him dey use Style to Empower his Pple!

Hmmm, Preek and Towtow palava.

Hmmm, this Razak, Sodiq, Kazeem and Lateef Pple of SW Sha.

ravensckar:
People from poor family always have opinion on how others should spend their money. You'll hear stuff like; 'That guy no just sabi spend money. Imagine renting an apartment of 1.2 million per year in this economy, it's too much'.

The moment I hear the above statement from somebody, I know for a fact that he/she is suffering from generational poverty.

It's only frustration that can cause an Engineering undergraduate to do his I.T in a Police Station. God abeg o.

Nothing Bad!
A Financially PRUDENT Person must learn how to spend his or her money.🤨🙂

Imagine some Peeps doing 25K salary Jobs but renting Self-contain or 2 Bedroom Flat of 200k or 300K Yearly. 😒😒

Is there any WISDOM in it? 😕🙁

Lightway:
They love to Speak pidgin

They beleive that speaking English does not make one intelligent... yet they can't speak English properly

They believe in village people.

They think suffering is a flex... See, if I tell you how I suffered... That's their gist.

They think people that are rich are rich by grace. They don't understand the concept of intelligent work.

Mr ENGLISH, I hail you o! 👍😏😒😒

jaxxy:
Many billionaires came from poor backgrounds so why is ur point op?

even eminem and Ronaldo on ur dp came from poor backgrounds and don't behave the way u stated so ur points are inaccurate and shaming poor people won't help u self-esteem.

The OP point is some Poor Pple have POVERTY mentality which affects them terribly.😔😕

Some People are born poor but have MILLIONAIRES Mentality even when they were young e.g The Ronaldo u talked about. 😯

'I can't marry a Man earning 50k salary'.

Just know her Parents are Very POOR mofos!

Jewessgratitud3:
No be lie. That is what is holding most men from getting married fiunds. Some have been dating for years now but can't take it to the next level due to this same financial constrain. Both couple don old inside relationship. You'll see a couple looking like mama and papa but they still dating. Hm god help us o.

Who see this man now will think he's been married for years.

Lolss..😄😄😄

This is Funny! 😀

But really, APC and Tinubu has scattered this Country Kpatakpata! 😏

SHAMELESS APC/Tinubu govt!

My Landlord's 17yrold Daughter entered my room and told me to explain the Biology Topic 'Reproduction' with PRACTICAL examples 🤨

That her Teacher didn't do Proper justice to the topic. 😏😏

My PREEK rise no be Small but I Overcame. 😔😌😌😢😢

I Can't can biko.

OP, It depends.😏

If you invite a Girl and she visits immediately, she does NOT want sex.🙂

But If you ask a Girl to visit you and she is doing 'I will come, I will come later na,
The day she finally agrees to come, Just take Burantashi, Bitter Kola and Alomo ready your PREEK for her! 🤨😊😊😎

Useless APC Govt of EXCUSES.😕😕

When that Lagbaja Man was boasting that he will defeat Boko Haram without stress, I just Laughed. 😏😄

That's how Babatunde Fashola, under Buhari, boasted he will give Nigerians 24hr Power supply under 3months
But FAILED woefully! 😒😕😔

God1000:
This year is the toughest in recent times, so many people can only count their losses.

A Year that Buhari and Druggie Tinubu did a Collabo of COLLATERAL DAMAGES on Nigerians.🙁😔

OP is talking about Achievements. 😏😏

OP, When I see Tinubu/APC Agbadorians Begging on Social media or Stealing UNRIPE Plaintain,
Dat's an Achievement for me.

Benue State and Cross river State.

The Big YANCH of Tiv and Calabar Girls+ their Superb Knacking Skills can give a man PEACE!

Happy birthday to Davido.🙂

Nice one from PETER OBI.
Greatness recognizes Greatness.😊😊

When Portable is doing his Birthday, our Druggie Presido will send his Congrats message! 🤨🙂😔

Yarimo, LeodeCraze and some APC MISCREANTS
will soon come here to complain as if na Dem get Peter Obi phone. 🤨😕😕

*Ashawo - Roadside Prostitute. Aka Olosho. 😕

*RunsGirl- University/Polytechnic Ashawo.😌

*Hookup- Ashawo that operates from her Father's house.🤨🤨🙂