₦airaland Forum

Bianca2o24:
Omo on god. I don sell my house bet untop dortmumd na them go bring me funds wey I go use buy jet. I dont tire for naija

pansophist:
Widespread prostitution, criminality, corruption and every other societal vices are symptoms of an extremely sick society. Look all around the world, the more fallen a society is, the high likely its social structure will degenerate.

Your solution of expecting men to voluntarily stop seeking sexual services will not work. It's like applying bandage to an internal cut instead of surgery. When a country is so corrupt that it doesn't give men hope, then men will seek pleasure, and sex is one of it.

More specifically, it's in women hands to stop prostitution, not men. It's why women are shamed more for being sexually loose compare to men. If all the sex workers that dress and go stand in the junction stop coming out, then men won't see who to pay.

Women are the gatekeeper of sex. They deny sex to men daily, such as the guys they ain't attracted to, their faithful simps, and friendzone brethrens. So why not deny the men that want to pay for it? It's the same dynamics.

For example, people always blame men that let a woman use him for cash and attention. you may scream till tomorrow that women should go and work, and that relationship is not a Poverty alleviation program. But it's not effective, except men stop bankrolling such women.

It is he, who is the giver/seller that has the monopoly to stop anything. When government wanted to ban okada in Lagos, they didn't start arresting paying passengers, instead, they ban okada and arrest any stubborn drivers who still choose to carry passengers.

For prostitution to stop, it's more on women, not on men. But a bigger solution will be for society to become better, so people can live a dignified life without selling their soul.

englishmart:
97% of girls in Lagos are into oloshoism. Mu babe of 5 years was found at Obalende oloshoing

abah52:
Well done my brother. Am so impressed by your hard work and struggle to make a career for your self.

Have you heard about Bug hunting? With your Dev skill you can move to the next level and start earning good money searching for bugs for companies online.

Search for bugs hunting tutorials online to learn the skills . Thereafter you can register with some bug bounty platforms to start searching for bugs for companies.

pansophist:
Sometimes I just observe the way animals live their life, and I see how they don't have many of the problems humans have.

The only time animals will be taken care of is when they are still young, and need mama's breastmilk and protection. But as they grow older, mama chases them away, and it's over.

Take a lion for example, if he didn't learn to hunt from his mum, he would die of hunger when he chased off to fend for himself. No such thing as depending on another lion, or being a burden.

Actually, the biggest killer of animals is their inability to hunt themselves. It's purely survival of the fittest. To animals, this way of life is their default, but to humans, it is not.

Until you are in a position of being a breadwinner to adults, especially those who are ingrates, you may never appreciate the animal's formula.

Because one day, you will tell yourself the bitter truth, which is that a lot of these people you are helping aint seeds, but stone. They will need your help until you die, they die, or you stop giving.

Like seeds, many will never on their own become independent and blossom. Instead, they will become more capitalistic (aka manipulatory), and strategize to milk you maximum.

I call them stones. Pour water on a stone, bury it in the most fertile soil, and expose it to photosynthesis, it will still be eternally barren.

There is no justification for a healthy adult to not be capable of taking care of themselves. No single excuse.

thesicilian:
You've got the tech skills. Now what you need are behavioural and communication skills.

pansophist:
Vanity test. Are you ready?

1. You will become a billionaire in US dollars instantly, but magically transform into a 95-year-old man. If you do not agree to this deal, then ''time'' is more important to you than money.

2. Also, you will be a billionaire, but lose all your loved ones. You will be the only remaining one of your lineage. If you do not agree to this deal, then family is more important to you than money.

3. You will be a billionaire but must give up sex. If you do not accept this deal, then sex is more important to you than money.

4. You will be a trillionaire right now, then tomorrow, you will be killed. If you do not agree to this deal, then life is more important to you than money.

5. You will be a billionaire, but the price you will pay is SS genotype and stroke. If you do not agree to this deal, then health is more important to you than money.

6. You will be a billionaire, but spend the rest of your life in jail. If you do not agree to this deal, then your freedom is more important to you than money.

So please tell me which of the above you will sacrifice for money, and then we proceed from there.

coputa:
Nobody is real in this world. Everybody has a dual face.

People respect the money. Not the person.

The person whom you love the most will hurt you the most.

When you are happy, you enjoy the music, but when you are sad, you understand the lyrics.

In life, two things define you—your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything.
People like good looks, not good thoughts.

First, failure slaps you in public, then success hugs you in private.

A poor person has no friends. If he/she has any, he/she has no fake friends.

Trust means everything, but once it is broken, sorry means nothing.