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Lucialovely:
it depends on ur definition of love, u can feel love without all those things listed below

How would one feel this 'love'.... how can you be sure that what you feel is 'love' How can you claim to 'love' someone you do not know How would you define love in these circumstances?

SINNZ:
In such cases its the girl that is to blame for not being able to spot a sexually perverted guy. Trust me, if she couldn't spot him online, she won't spot him in real life either.

You don't get it...
You only 'see' the impression I choose to 'show' you online. Whatever I do online can't be used as a yardstick to judge or probe my character offline. I can lead a completely opposite and conflicting life - offline or online. And you wouldn't notice a thing. You might chat with someone online for a zillion year and you wouldn't be sure of her/his real names - not to talk of knowing her/his true character.

SINNZ:
I don't recall receiving any form of gratuity enough to make me offer "painstaking sacrifices".

What happened to selfless service? Teachers receive their reward in heaven - you seem to forget

SINNZ:
Its appears impossible due to that road block you've mounted in your head bro.

You're not a good teacher. You should persevere for your students and make painstaking sacrifices to make sure they understand and learn what would ultimately better their lots. Exception being that your student holds an objectively better argument(s) to yours. Then you ought to congratulate them and take an honorable bow

SINNZ:
I don't know how you see things bro

lol... your opinion btw. feel free to school me

SINNZ:
There are social networks that draw people closer more than others... There are places where you just can't fake a persona. That's the reason why a chic can freely chit chat with you here on NL but that same chic won't give you her BBM pin even if you bring the Saudi Prince to beg on your behalf. Psychology 101

You'll agree with me that those 'social media networks' that you claim draws people together are not fool-proofed. Anyone could easily take advantage of the numerous loopholes that are so common across all social media networks.

SINNZ:
U've got a valid point there.. But you're talking about NL, I'm talking about social networks like whatsapp, bbm etc..


One might exude a certain personality online which doesn't really blend with his/her reality. But that doesn't mean the persona is fake! It simple means that there's a warrior somewhere inside that lamb. Psychology 101.

Yea...but it seems someone is trying to build a mansion on air....It is possible tomorrow... not now!

SINNZ:
Constant communication.

What if they continue to feed you constant lies? How would you know what there are up to?

SINNZ:
You can. No one can fake a persona for too long.

Online and Offline are two different worlds... They are world apart. People can fake their online presence for as long as that profile/presence exists. In other words... for a life time.

SINNZ:
Its very possible to fall in love with someones personality. Very possible
.

How would you know someone's personality online? Please school me

ivyT:
Mehn,dis ur post is long na...*stretches*.after a hard long day

Wetin harden your day? Na bricks u deh carry

This meme says much ..
Just replace 'twitter' with 'social media' and we're all good to go.

I have heard and read about some couples that met via social media and things have worked out just perfect. They had their unique challenges and have managed to sail through. Glory be to God. Yet, I believe social media love is more damning than all that.

The problem with falling in love with someone's two-dimensional Facebook/Nairaland/Social-Media profile is that you never know what lies beyond that sparkling smile in front of the Taj Mahal. After all, his photos might just be the most exciting thing about him/her. Many people post/publish things they would never dream of saying in real life.

The personal notes of a person's profile on social media will never give you an accurate representation of the reality. We create the image that we want to convey through our activity on social media. It's much easier to convey the "reality" that we want to portray on the Internet than to live it in real life. My own Facebook profile portrays a character; the real me is much more complex. It would be easy to choose a boyfriend/girlfriend or future wife/husband based on information from his/her social-media presence, but the longevity of a relationship resulting from such matchmaking techniques would probably be about equal to your techno's battery life.

The truth is that the content and character of a possible love should be revealed in layers. The development of a fruitful relationship takes effort, and it is impossible to reach a level of depth with a person by meticulously parsing his Facebook or other social media profiles.

Sure, social media can provide supplemental reading when studying a person's qualifications as a potential plus-one, but you are wasting your time if you use things like Facebook/Nairaland/Instagram to learn about the content required to answer all the right questions.

When it comes to dating and mating, sometimes it helps to unplug in order to connect, before all of a sudden you are questioning the real connection you had with him.

It's beats me dead. Always.
How does one suddenly 'love' someone they barely know (save for a couple of posts and probably photoshoped pictures)
How does one begin to really feel true attraction to someone they are not friends with
How can you profess unending and undying love to some random stranger on the internet
On what basis did the supposed 'love' grow
You're not friends? You don't know what she / he likes? You don't know what the other person despises.
You don't know their personal outlook on live?
You don't know what/who they really are (save for your limited online impression)

This is my personal opinion - Insults are not felicitations.
Gracias..

Blood Money...
500 * 250 = 125,000
But still blood money...
May or may not be useful . ...
But time and chance happeneth to us all..
who knows tomorrow

Did it rain in your area? Sheh his pictures deh bring thunder storm and rain for harmatan period
Stop looking at him ... Unless you want to remain wet!

Tell them that you will marry her...
I no say na ur problem... be responsible..
If them refuse..and threaten to deal with you..
contact me... I go give otumokpor to help silence them patapata...
Quote me and loose your internet connection..

Hmm I have always told my friends that this kinda elite bureaucracy applies world wide .
Where political, industrial, economical, military and financial power revolves around some very minute entities.
More than 80% of our lawmakers have directly or indirectly 'held' or 'tasted' political powers before. Same holds for other countries as well.

loverboy4l:
You said prick

Lawyer.. . I didn't say 'prick'...

Walk away from everything - From his life - from the r/ship -
If you pull the trigger, even if the long arm of the law doesn't catch up with, your conscience would prick you for ever. You've become a murderer. Your hands are no longer clean. karma might not forgive you. Just walk away. Love no b by force. no b do or die.

If you cannot guarantee independence for INEC .... Then there's serious problems at hand.
It seems APC is not actually ready to rule this country. They should have used this two elections (opportunities) to set some records straight.
If you down INEC, you down the country.

Got to go . .... Could continue when I return (Having issues with network)
i.e if you guys wouldn't complete it before my return.
(Feel free to complete it though...)

11-Sleep and junk foods
12-Survival

9 - Really? Even without a mouth wash?
10 - Isn't this discrimination?

7-Touch anything next to you - Did you feel anything? Is 'anything really there? Some one should please explain.
8-They sure have something in common with most ladies.. True / False?

5-This is really 'sexific'
6-Faworh Brain

3 - Did you also fail this?
4 - #WaterNoGetEnemy #Fela

1 - Is Bottled Water Hygienic ?
2 - Cockroaches Better Organized than our Politicians?

cruzita:
just be honest .that's what you do

Nope....Not pained at all. Am just wondering how you're gonna survive? You don't seem to have the prerequisite empathy to take on such a fight. Or better, to talk about such or even open a thread concerning such.
Just stick to the subject matter and confront the message, not the messenger. Thank you!

cruzita:
are u pained because that's what u do?what if it happens to ur sis.just asking

Nope....Not pained at all. Just leave my 'person' outta this and tackle the fair questions I posited to you objectively and responsibly.
Am just wondering how you're gonna survive? You don't seem to have the prerequisite empathy to take on such a fight. Or better, to talk about such or even open a thread concerning such.

cruzita:
sorry dear I don't have time for men.

Why then are you so engrossed about the fate of others?
Did anyone complain to you about the person that deflowered them?

cruzita:
my mom married the man that deflowered her and that's why my dad respects her.and she also imbibed that into us .we don't have time for men

Well... lucky her...
I can tell you from personal experience though.... that 1 out of 10 married women I have spoken to (about the subject matter) actually did not marry the man that deflowered them. Hope am not sending out any wrong signals?
I for one understand the fact that sex outside the original plan of God is sinful.

I consider your questions to be 'rhetoric' and they ought not to be answered conventionally.
Is your mother married to the man that deflowered her? Ask her, you'd be amazed at her answer (No offense).
Are you still with the guy that deflowered you?
Do you sincerely believe that you both have a future together?
Have you not asked anyone to do things he would ordinarily not do?
Are you going to marry all the guys you've managed to corrupt?