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Who says they are tired? They ain't jare.....

2sexy: women will never fail to amaze me.... I need to summon Obahiagbon ASAP

..... Its all for the fun of it bro.

LastApostle: You are a priceless possession. A treasure of inestimable value. If I am funny, then you are the fun that held me spellbound.

Awwww, that's so sweet.

Before I apply, could you please show me a copy of your bank details.

LastApostle: Hmmmmm... Hand in akimbo style, mouth sealed and head shaking

*murmuring* I know it will come to this.

You are one funny guy.

uj_sizzle: lol who did he woo in the Wooing challenge? I think he lost so this is him tryna console himself

Nah, not me. Do I have a diary? Its between you, Vicky and DYT.

Yes.

shizzle11: NO! It doesn't. Ɣ☺ΰ really need to work on your psyche and search yourself properly. I don't wanna say say Ɣ☺ΰ're confused or don't know what Ɣ☺ΰ want just yet. How could Ɣ☺ΰ 'run away' when its almost done, I wonder what it is Ɣ☺ΰ are scared of. For someone looking forward to marriage this is actually contradictory. I really do pray Ɣ☺ΰ figure it out soon co truly it doesn't make sence.
Good luck!

Yea, you are right, I got to figure this out soon. Tho being confused is far from it, I'm just scared. My best friend thinks I'm possessed, lol ok, scratch that.

I'm faced with such situation again and I'm beginning to run away,,,, well, a lot of peeps are talking to me, counselling me, I just pray their efforts will be fruitful this time.

freecocoa: Close your big big teeth there joor.

Hahahahahahahahhahaha cocoa nwannem, this world na sufri sufri o, na that laugh dey carry me pass jeje.

Double post.

KateSpade: Girl, I feel you. You just have to remember that marriage is just a shared existence between you and your love. Dreams, identity might change a bit but change is the only constant in life.

I guess you are right.

Lynix: yeah, me too

So for how long are we gonna be scared?

You know I really wanna get married. I fantasies about it a lot. I wanna fall in love and have kids and all. You won't believe me that I already planned my wedding. I have a clear vision of how I want my day to be, how I want my home to be, the kind of wife and mother I wanna be and all that. But the funniest thing is, whenever I'm this close to getting married I'd suddenly develop this huge phobia and run away. It feels I'm giving up a lot of things; my dreams, my identity, my independence, etc.

What am I gonna do? I have got to figure this out, soon.

Does this even make sense?

KateSpade: My mother is not like that. I have two older sisters, one of them is married with 2 kids, the other who is 35 is unmarried so I think they are concerned abt her [my mom calls her an old maid]. I just tell them I'm not getting married and to let my older sister give them all the grandchildren she will ever need.

You don't wanna get married?

Forever does scare the hell outta me.

tpia1: hmm, when posting on issues you consider sensitive, keep that in mind before you open threads.

same way someone opened thread to abuse church services, then few months later, was crying for husband.

if the prospective husband had seen her other thread and picked race nko?

Hmmmmm, this ain't that sensitive you know. Babe, if a man sees a topic I created/or things I posted on here as enough reason not to be with me? Then the door is wide open, he should shut it on his way out.

Mrs.Chima:
Op....w hy r u fronting? U know Damn well u went and bright a wedding dress five years ago waiting on his proposal!!!

ok.
First of all, this happened few months ago. It has been dealt with! Yes, I was scared because I just survived a bitter break up at that moment, I was vulnerable, so giving my heart to someone else was really scary.

So I'm good now. I don't even know who dug this up again.

But for the record? You are right, my wedding gown is right here in my closet. *winks*

shizzle11: Take it or leave it! Those gals also pass for big gals. They get whateva they want to be done, done. Anytime, anyday, they'll rub shoulders with †ђξ kind of big gals u described above. Btw, when did gals start giving a damn abt hw they make their money, as long as they have it?, u sound like those who make 'har earned genuine money' never slept their way up. At least many of them do

Are u kidding me? Of course most ladies give a damn about how they make their money. You see, there is a little thing called dignity.. Some of us still care about that a great deal.

When a lady makes her money in a just way, it brings about this inner joy, peace, boldness.

Do you think these runs girls don't break down and cry? Do u think they don't wish there were different? Do you think they don't envy girls decent girls? Do you have any idea what these girls go through? Oh dear, you are a guy, all u see is the hot body and expensive accessories ..... But we ladies see their true colours.

Runs girls are not big girls period! They worth nothing!

Duke_Nija: And She finally agreed with the OP after insulting him. SMH

My dear, toasting is meant for teenagers these days not for big boys and big girls. You know the kind of girl that would ask u; "are u really sure you love me?" before they unhook their bras. In a big girl's situation it doesn't work like that!

Let me tell you how it works, when a big girl sees a butt she wanna hit? She knows right there and then. It doesn't matter who makes the first move, exchange call cards, they keep in touch, hang out (it doesn't matter where) and talk about life. At this moment she observes you, observes your personality. She can always tell what u want from her without u saying it...... If she is interested in knowing u more? Then she is interested in you. If she quietly withdraws, then she is not into you.

No big chick will sit down and listen to u blab........no big chick measures how serious u are about her by how much u spend on her.

Don't get me wrong o, I didn't mean big chicks don't like being told "I love you"..... they do but they simply need you to say it at your own time, when u mean it cos that's when it will mean something to them.

Input: My greatest pleasure to av the one and only ID as my maid of honour.but don't 4get am oliver twist o,I might ask for MORE.

. Ok I have heard.

blink182: yeah they don't ask for cards, they ask for more. I have a friend in abj that lives in a 500k p.a apartment, she has no job but lives like a queen, I know another that lost her bold 5 and just had it replaced, I know one that had her guy buy her a house in abj. Are these not big babes, but are we to say they are different from beggars or pegging their loyalty to you on what they can gain from you?

Is this ur definition of a big girl? Guy big girls are chicks who boast of what they can afford with their hard earned money, genuine money. And they don't shout.

They don't beg for cards, and when u wanna give them gifts? You think twice,,,,,,,

The girls u just described are the ones that hang around Trancorp Hilton/Sheraton hotels, mega supermarkets like Amigos, Grandsquare, shoprite etc.... Them even full for silverbird. They ain't big girls.....they are hustlers.

Input: Haha honey,money should not be an issue for us na.love first.

*singing* you say you love me? I love you kwa, oya prove ur love, bring isiewu and odegu. Chichi must to jolly withy maintenance money, check am well o ijikwe ego? iyo mbo mbo......

Input: Am tempted o swt

Now I know big girls don't ask for card,so if I start the wooing you won't ask

you broke huh?

funny people.

Xynerise, at the risk of getting a slap from ur wife, you are one of the guys I have a crush on.

Input: Creche ke,babe if u nor know most 'big girls' ask 4 card
Anyway I love ur lips,it will be good for some kissing

lead me not into temptation o.

My dear, a big girl doesn't beg for recharge card. Some mgbekelicious babes feeling funky lead you to believe they are big girls but the truth is they are not.

And who still toast girls anyway?