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It is wrong for people to consume their salaries first before they save what's left of it. I made that mistake even tho I knew where my income was going.

The right way to do it is to save first and then consume what's left of it. This way you will prioritise you needs and stike out the items you want but don't need.

This should be possible, atleast you ain't married yet.

Good luck.

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I totally agree. But would you settle for anything less?

Nah, I won't.

But you have to know its not easy to stick to what you believe in, especially when there are family/friends putting pressure on you, b.i..tching about how you are too picky and all.

Just know what you want, and don't settle for less.

I use QEI+ products; Cream, soap and serum, stay away from the sun as much as I can, eat alot of fruits and vegetable, drink plenty of water, have enough rest/sleep, exercise, use ponds talc on my face and wash my face alot especially before I sleep.

The only thing I miss is s..ex, it helps the skin too.

If i ever give you the silent treatment? It simply means i'm withdrawing, i'm tired of fighting or i don't wanna fight. So, I'm walking out of that relationship.

When i'm still excited about someone, i don't give silent treatment no matter how mad i am at the person, I fight or argue. That's just one of the ways I express my love.

Nna eh, ihe nke a dikwa vely vely lisky, especially when guy man don shack Whisky.

I'm hardly qualified to advise, so ka m shiftu kene.

I have a best friend whom any guy who suggests i severe my relationship with will be shown the door.

I look forward to our children's play dates jare.

*wipes tears* Awwww, pls don't do this to me, don't make me say yes to him without proper scrutiny.

He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour indeed!
This is just a stepping stone for you as greater things await!

Don't go about opening yourself up to a guy especially when he hasn't earned it.

Don't run off your mouth after a couple of dates whether you are telling him the good or bad or ugly part of you. Let him earn it, the more he earns it, the more you open up. This way you'd know what he can or cannot handle.

God knows there is nothing I wouldn't buy; washing machine o, dish-washer o, ironing machine o, sweeping and mopping machine o, even cooking machine just to avoid househelps.

Won't even allow us to have a house i can't take care of by myself. And no visitor will be allowed to stay for more than a weekend unless for omugwo purposes, it doesn't matter from whose side.


When i was a kid I stayed with this relative of mine. I used to hawk ice water for her. Those days there was nothing like sachet water, rather we filled Jik cans with water, chilled them and one sold for #1. Any day I mistakenly lost any of the Jik cans? No be small beating that day o, I'd be sent out to be crying on the road and passers-by would pity me and dash me money to replace the Jik can and I would end up getting enough to buy like 50pcs of those cans. But that wouldn't stop her from giving me left over food be it soup that she added more water or pap that she freezed to become agidi. Did I have a choice? Man must wack na.

Of all the things she did, i still find the "left over food" part really funny.

16yrs later, i'm a grown woman in my own house just like she is. She won't even dare talk to me anyhow, she chop craze?

I have forgiven her o, ofcourse we are buddies and i love her but whenever i'm with her and i see the social gap between us now? I have a good laugh. You will never believe I was once her maid.

So to those mean madams out there? The young does grow!

They are all important to me. I have to love you, be compatible with you and insanely attracted to you.

I love you, and i'm compatible with you but not attracted to you. Or i'm attracted to you, love you but not compatible with you. Or i'm attracted to you, and i'm compatible with you but don't love you...........

None of these conditions would work for me.

My school fee is 105k already, what are they gonna do? Increase it to 200k?

Egbe gbarie kwa ha isi there!

I'm so sorry for your loss. The joy of the lord is your strength. In due time, it will happen again.

Mine is quiet but not friendly. I distance myself as much as I could cos they like to live in their houses and know what goes on in yours, and finding people of like mind is very hard.


I can't wait to run away from there!

Merkki: How pls?

Thank y'all for the comments so far.

I might be wrong o but I think tying wrapper strongly around your chest with the weight of a baby sags the b.r.e.a.sts more, making it look all flabby.

My opinion tho.

Are you and the baby comfortable? That's what matters. Forget what market women or any other person think.

I don't see myself backing any baby, it makes one look old and does damages to the b.r.e.a.sts, i guess. Sling and other baby carriers will do it for me when the time comes.

Yes! The PJ i'm wearing right now belonged to my late sister in law.

Lmao at shake your bootay for Jesus................

You see why i'm better off being in my house? I no fit shout.

In the one-man church I hold in the comfy of my room, there is no shaking of bootay.

Morning all.............

How did you all sleep?

Last night was freaking cold, it rained almost all through and I slept and dreamed away. Sleeping through cold can be really sweet and romantic, i tell ya.

I just opened my eyes, still dreamy, haven't gotten off the bed, yet. The way i'm seeing it i'd need a 750 ton crane to lift me off this bed or i could be here the whole day.

*thinking out loud* When would I get this breakfast in bed treat, again?

Rolls up my blanket again, until someone serves me breakfast in bed and sings me a lullaby, i'm not getting up.

bellong: My mum had a special way of serving it chilled. Anytime we offend, she gives us a special delicacy that night to our satisfaction. In the middle of the night, she will wake the offender up and made sure you are well awake. She then start talking sense into your head, at the point you start feeling remorse about your action, she then bring out this special wire to whip the devil out of you.

I was always weary of her special delicacies at night because I knew what will follow in the midnight... Maximum shishi

Sounds like we have same specie of a mother. Mine doesn't talk much tho, she smiles mischieviously. You won't even get the slightest hint of what she would do cos her face would be expressionless. The midnight chilled delivery was the worst cos you wouldn't be allowed to wail. Eh? Wail and shout so that neighbour would hear that she is pounding her own child? You are not allowed to do that.

Then when i grew into a teenager, she developed another pounding strategy. She would be the one pounding me o and be crying and wailing that I have killed her.

bellong: My mum had a special way of serving it chilled. Anytime we offend, she gives us a special delicacy that night to our satisfaction. In the middle of the night, she will wake the offender up and made sure you are well awake. She then start talking sense into your head, at the point you start feeling remorse about your action, she then bring out this special wire to whip the devil out of you.

I was always weary of her special delicacies at night because I knew what will follow in the midnight... Maximum shishi

Sounds like we have same specie of a mother. Mine doesn't talk much tho, she smiles mischieviously. You won't even get the slightest hint of what she would do cos her face would be expressionless. The midnight chilled delivery was the worst cos you wouldn't be allowed to wail. Eh? Wail and shout so that neighbour would hear that she is pounding her own child? You are not allowed to do that.

Then when i grew into a teenager, she developed another pounding strategy. She would be the one pounding me o and be crying and wailing that I have killed her.

Ngokafor: ...*jumps up and wipes face*...ooh!!..and here I was having a lovely dream of being the richest woman around...with cooks and stewards at my beck and call..*sighs and picks up broom to sweep my 'yard'.. ...i'll get you for this viv!

Awwwww, i'm so sorry. Did you pause the dream? So that you can continue where you stopped another time.


@RR: yesterday was fun for me, last night was awesome as i went to bed smiling. Whenever I have a sweet night, I usually wake up the next morning happy, glowy and energised.

How was your night?

Mine was more than beating and flogging, it was more like pounding. Chei, the couple use me flex their muscles well well.

Now wey dem don get really stubborn children, my mum don tire. My mum now claims she did all that to me out of ignorance, she didn't know pounding me like that was a sin.

Chillisauce: I just remembered me, back in those days in PH, I think is a swim club in abuloma. Cool most weekends. I don't have friends in Bayelsa, only PHC, Lagos and Abuja. When next you are in PH, hit me up so my friend can take you out for a nice evening. Lol. Don't worry, they don't bite. But be very wary, they can be quite persuasive :

Lol, i'd definitely do that. Phc has nice places to hang out, Bayelsa is dry.



@all: Good morning people. Arise and shine!!!
*pours cold water on those that haven't woken up*

Thank God its Saturday! Spring cleaning mode activated! Oya get into your shorts, put on your gloves and get to work.

yellowpawpaw: Enjoyment babe!
Me and hubby r having a swell time at home. Will hang out on sunday.
Sat will be busy.
Everybody pls unwind!!!
Life is too short abeg!
Remember all work and no play, makes ,damiso,chillbebe, ngobaby,(no jydogurl) and some beautiful damsels look like grannies!
(Runs out b4 they will attack me)

Babe, your head dey there jare! If we don't enjoy ourselves, who will?

carry go!

YPP, the motherhood stuff sounds scary o. Yet I have got this huge baby fever for few months now, you know like I really wanna have a baby. I go to baby shops to window shop for really cute baby things, I fantasize about having a baby bump and labour. I see babies in my dreams and this month i started feeling pregnant, which i'm not.

Even tho realistically, I can't have a baby now, still have too much on my plate and too much at stake but I like the feeling. My gf told me its normal.

This is NL's Family section influence on me. You guys keep going on about babies......... Don't let me kidnap one o

r231: Energy drink

You get boxing match for house abi wetin

Yea, with you. that massage might escalate and i wanna be ready and not doze off on you.

I don't take alcohol.

RR, you know the meaning of Vivian is "Lively?" There is no dull moment with me unless i'm unconscious.

How is your Friday night going?

I just got back, i'm gonna go freshen up while I wait for R321 to come and massage me.

Then settle down to this movie; Fast and Furious. Its fascinating, you should watch it, that's if you are a movie person.

Chillisauce: Where are you feeding the eyes @ vivian. Its friday, you are single u berra move it to friday tinz. Chai! These children do grow big abeg! I miss my all night dance routine

I was hanging out at this hotel's pool side. The DJ was good, nice naija jamz, beautiful chicks; some were even swimming, imagine that? In this cold?

Now what could have been more fun than feeding my eyes on these while i sip my energy drink?



About being single? Babe, Bayelsa state is full of shit when it comes to men. They are a lot of crap and i for one have got no time for them.


Just got back to my house already, couldn't stay longer than this as I went alone. Make those guys no obtain me for road.

Where is R321? I think i'm gonna need that massage.

chei! This is one of those nights i wished I was a guy. Wetin my eyes dey see where i dey eh, my hands no fit type am o.

Sweet hot chicks just full everywhere, dangerously dressed or half dressed. Umu asi a dikwa ready igbu mmadu.

Forget about dancing this night joor, i gotta feed my eyes....which is very good for health.

I'm glad today is Friday!!!!!

Lol! YPP, i love money o but compared to CC? I'm a learner na.

How are you doing?

RR, pls extend that bribery tip to me. I also have an evidence on you. I'm sending you my account number asap.



*fastest way to make money*

r231: which airline be dat

chei una go killi person for this thread.

You can massage me when i come back cos my legs would really hurt.