₦airaland Forum

Esseite:
EL rufus is loosing it... you can never win a united people with defined purpose, that is why politics is majorly based on divide and rule.

If all health workers drop tools united... the people would go against you in mass, thugs cannot man health facilities neither can politicians.

Though you are right, but those health workers pledged to save lives.. Why the sudden change?

ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.

you don't conclude on someone's feelings or emotions on nairaland just like that

Teleguiding him to marriage as per say na Dangote pikin or what kwan?

Oracleforce:
I was raised in one room but now I live in my own duplex...it depends on the couple....there are crosses in marriage....let everyone face his or her own cross.

You are serving a living God, i tap on your grace!

Though still living in one room!

Iamdbull:
I moved from Abuja to a popular local town in ogun, I don't want to mention the name, in order to pursue my music career.

First of all let me explain something, sometimes as human beings to keep the spirit healthy you need people superior to you or people of higher value to draw energy from or to draw inspiration or an environment that excite and brings live to you or make you alive.

Now that's the problem am facing currently, there are no too many well to do young people in my environment, I can decide to stroll from one street to another and like 10 people would have begged me for money, I went to chicken & co ( it's a fast food outlet like kfc or chicken republic) and I was stopped and harassed by police just because I bought food at a fast food joint. They were asking me what I do for a living. What saved me that day was that I was dressed in some faded clothes, i can't dress nicely because everyone will start hailing and begging me for money and as an introvert I hate unnecessary attention, the ones that don't beg for money will try and engage one in some meaningless side talks that will lower your I.Q.

The ones that are okay are Yahoo boys and I can't relate with them. It's really getting depressing, I can't remember when last have had a highly intellectual conversation. Everyone just seems so rigid and unexposed and it's tiring. I am not really sound and exposed myself now imagine people reducing the little I.Q I have. It's so depressing.

Naturally you Will expect me to move from there but the nearest place is Lagos which will have to be on island because I hate noisy environment and you know how expensive that will be. Am so tired and fed up

Ogun state is not that bad completely though depends on the location

I reside around Agbara environ, a store throw from Lagos

It's a cool place with adequate power supply

It's an industrial area, you get to find the good and bad once

Personally i did isolate myself due to my kind of person (introverted?)

Nonetheless, i still have one or two peeps that reason alike!

Those attributes you made mentioned exhibited by the inhabitants in your area isn't present here

TimmyTen:
If you are a police or military man in SE/SS parts of the country, Resign or just abscond from the service.
Your family needs you. If you die, the country will move on, your family including wife and children will suffer, Nigeria will not care for them and wicked Nigerians cheering you on now will not care for them either.
Nigeria is not worth the blood of anyone, especially the commoners which you are part of. If anyone should be dying to keep Nigeria United, it should be the political class and their families. They are the ones benefitting from the current arrangement.
They should send their children to the East and arm them to fight UGM. It is they whose means of sustenance is at threat should Nigeria cease to exist.

I wish they can do exactly what you said, this country doesn't worth their blood shed!

Resignation is the best option for them now, expecially those in South East and South South

Toks2008:
We all need respect but this thread is about the men so let's stick to the subject.

And let me make some things clear as regards this respect of a thing...

Many people usually say respect is earned and I quite understand that but the question is.. "Do you wait for your parents to earn your respect before you give them"?

The Bible never wrote at any point that you should "submit/respect your husband ONLY IF HE EARNS IT"

It was an absolute instruction that has no condition attached but we can argue that if the guy misbehaves then he does not deserve your respect but that is where many ladies got it wrong...

If at anytime you feel you can no longer submit or respect that man, just leave his life... But as long as you still decide to be with him, respecting him is very sacrosanct regardless.

That same Bible said Men should love their wife wholeheartedly and unconditionally

How many men of today's generation follows that rule

What you seems not to understand is that the task God bestowed on men is far higher than that of women

How many men of today's generation love their wife unconditionally
I'm pretty sure you know what that words "UNCONDITIONALLY" simply means

JuniorLix:
Guys come on board........ Its a place to be

As we never marry nko?

Don't be a selfish being, be contented with whatsoever thing you have, do not give room for peer pressure, be hopeful for a better tomorrow

Have love for humanity!

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yanabasee1:
What about my prestigious university? UNICAL.... Almighty

Lol

greatiyk4u:
Illiteracy is lethal

As in eh!

Illiterateracy na big disease

KingTom:
I've seen worse... one parley said he schooled in the US and shouldn't be subjected to such rigorous processes in the name of interviews, I ask am if e fit perform surgery without light, the boy change am for me... na small remain I wan tear tear him face with slap but I kept smiling and saying we'll get back to him

This very applicant with his response to the HR, he's capable of hitting the HR had it been it was physical

NarcoPolo:
HR that cannot even spell is 'very trained'...you be mugu

Since you're obviously an illiterate, when next you apply to the post of gateman and the 'very trained' HR mistakenly asks you to be the cleaner, you mustn't complain, since na you be Mr. Humble

you got it all wrong

He never said it's wrong for him to decline the offer

He meant his response exhibit pride

To me he lacks emotional intelligence!

If truly he knows his worth then he has no business verbally showcasing his acclaimed worth

He should have politely decline the offer and leave!

victorVIC1:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
Lala, please move to front page so others can learn.

Your friend is just so full of himself. The screenshot simply proves that your friend is very arrogant and has no clue of how to communicate professionally.

Absolutely, i quite understand the applicant considering his worth

Nevertheless, he wasn't taught how to communicate professionally

He lacks emotional intelligence seriously

Imagine the kinda response on phone, what if they are physical? that means he's capable of hitting the HR or perhaps insult the living day light out of him

It is well!

GreaterFuture3:
MSc holder Security Guard? Cook?

Are you not in Nigeria where PhD holders are vying for federal government 30k job?

NairaMaster1:
Go back and read the post. He's already on a high profile job.

Secondly, we must develop as a nation.

Why is it that you don't get what you apply for in Nigeria?

From university to labour market.

The company advertised and he applied and you said he suit admin assistant. Do you even know who's an admin assistant?

They guy has a high self esteem and that is good. He has developed himself above that low level admin assistant and that is very good.

Advice: go back and read the post. HE'S NOT JOBLESS that's he said if you know me you won't say that.

the HR is unprofessional no doubt

The applicant is also wrong

Good he knows his worth, but that is not the way to portray your worth

You don't verbally showcase your worth!

sgtponzihater1:
Following the flooding activities in previous years in Isheri North GRA as well as Opic area. I this still a Good place to invest on properties. If not which other affordable please would you advice.

do you prefer Lagos?

Do you mind Ogun state a fast growing industrial state? Expecially Agbara and it's environ

There are quite affordable free lands which i can recommend, my father happened to be a land surveyor so no cause for alarm!

pixey:
Emotional intelligence is bullshit ! These are tools and tricks fraudulent companies use to deceive their employees of their benefit.
Read the message well! The HR is the egoistic one.

if the HR is egoistic, then what adjective do you want to use for the applicant?

Or you're indirectly saying the applicant is good to go with such kinda response?

hakeem4:
so because you are looking for job, you should be disrespected and given another position which is lower than your qualifications

its just like a supplicant serf kneeling before a filled tempered monarch. once the company sees you are desperate for the job, they would treat you like trash

No doubt the HR is unprofessional

The applicant lacks emotional intelligence!

Biglittlelois:
Your friend is very arrogant and full of him/herself, imagine saying administrative assistant is demeaning cos he has MSc. Why can't he politely decline the Job? Even said " if you know me", imagine, e nor suppose dey look for job na, since e be dangote pikin,

Pride smh.

Lol, na normal Nigerian day to day slangs!

Do you know who i am? Do you know who you are talking to? Do you know this, do you know that!

The guy exhibit pride in him, and he sounds so arrogance with no any iota of emotional intelligence

Maj196:
He doesn't need the outburst if truly he knows his worth. Just thank the HR and decline the invite that's all. Seems more polite to me.

exactly, he doesn't need the outburst at all!

Self worth don't necessarily have to wrestle words, it's an inbuilt trait that will showcase itself

MejiLoyon:
Tell your friend to take that msc certificate and pour oil on it every morning. It will bring money and help him build large houses and buy big cars.

He is the proud one. And he will stay long looking for a job. That's pride and not self esteem. You are better suited at this job.....oh sorry I no do. Finish. Which one is if you know me. That HR is very trained and I commend the company. If na me ogbeni I go compose better swear give am and damn the consequences.

Aimoiye msc wey be cook for hotel. Some na security

there's an atom of pride in his RESPONSE, DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM? Even with first class in both first and second degree he's not supposed to sound this way

I presume he lacks emotional intelligence!

Qatar2022:
Oga it doesn't matter, the girl in question don't complain but her stupid sister

we truly differ

Left to me i can't be going to my girlfriend or fiancee house to eat on a daily basis

No matter the condition, there should be a more better way she can send the food or i hang around to collect the food without her siblings knowing if possible


He has lost his self worth doing that often and often, even in presence of the toddler in her family!

Qatar2022:
Now he lose his job he is parasite but when that money was coming he was god to your useless family, your post show how desperate you and your family are, you want to discard him because he lost his job, shame on you and your family

but the guy should have shame a little and stop going to her house to eat on a daily basis!

It doesn't speak well of him

adekusibe10:
i will be needing electrical engineei in Abuja

have you gotten any?

TheSociopath:
Go to private. Half of the people in this multinational where I work graduated from private unis

what is the fate of we that graduated from public university?

Mrval20:
Ado-Odo/Ota and its environs. You'll never regret it, trust me.

Are there good organizations that accept corpers?

Akintundexxy:
Thanks bro,
do you know much about Osun state University? and if they will also take new candidates this year?

osun state university isn't bad, but their tuition fee and other necessity are somewhat high compared to Lasu

There's vacant for utme candidates, but for now direct entry isn't available for medicine aspirant

You have higher chances of getting admission to osun state university as they are not competitive compare to that of lasu

But you must consider the cost!

Akintundexxy:
I don't really know much about LASU admission,I'm an aspirant who wants a school with fast academic calendar and solid academic system.
if not so for LASU ,can you guys pls recommend any other schools in south west that is likely to resume this year..thanks in advance.

Lasu is a good choice as they're to resume this year

but if you're just preparing to write jamb Your resumption is next year

Lasu has one of the best college of medicine and their academic calendar is currently one of the fastest

Lasu consider olevel and jamb for admission

for aspirant of medicine you need distinctions in your 5 olevel compulsory subjects and minimum of 295+ in jamb, expecially if you are not Lagos indigine

Lasu do consider their indigine first, but a non indigine can get in with good result!

Ademola47:
Firstly bro, when it comes to getting medicine, age is a negligible factor. Don't incorporate age into your plans.

Having a first degree in Chemistry isn't bad, to make it better you completed it happily. There's no remorse whatsoever.

Since you are still on the path to medical school, taking jamb is fine. But with the type of huge competition faced among medicine aspirants, do you think you can spank 300+ (at least) if you start preparing now since the exam is in about one month's time?

Truth be told, I doubt it. Why? Since you've had your first degree in chemistry, you've narrowed your academic paradigm to mainly chemistry. Even if you scale through biology, what about physics and use of English. The first degree will give you leverage later in your year one.

Without being trying to discourage you, the best thing to do if you must get medicine is to dust your four o levels and Jack thoroughly, to be foundationally reinforced. That should take about 4 straight months of intense reading.

However, you may take the jamb on a 50-50 base to know where you are lagging behind, and to try your luck.

What about your o levels? Do you have distinctions? If No, stay away from schools doing Screening instead of post utme.

Another thing worthy of mention is the financial aspect. I don't know how loaded you are, but if averagely, I will advise you to hustle and get some kobos before running MBBS admission.

Best of luck!

Spot on!

well noted

Good morning Nairalanders.
Please I'm in a dilemma right now. I'm a fresh graduate and possibility of me going for service this year is very low due to my school slow mobilization. I did alot of hard labour during my days in school (mostly labourer) in other to pay my bills without requesting from my parents. I'm the last born of my parents and ever from my teenage days I always love paying my bills without depending on anyone. I graduated with second class upper from the department of Business administration, not that I'm brilliant, am just an average student who loves giving his best. After rounding up with uni I had to leave 2weeks after in order to represent my elder brothers in my sister's introduction because they said they won't be able to come due to some situations (my regret that I left school too early). I spent all i had saved in school after 2weeks at home doing nothing and I hate staying idle(already used to school suffering and hustling) then I decided to search for job. I finally got one as a sales boy, 12k monthly Monday-Saturday with hard labour. My boss gave me my salary yesterday evening and I almost cried, I felt dejected my zeal for the work reduced to zero. The money added to my depression cause I was expecting him to add to my salary cause have made alot of sacrifices for him, he knows I'm a graduate but he decided not to help. This man do brag of me to his friends how hard working I am (though he has never tell me to my face) and he told them he is scared of losing me. We make sales of nothing less than 1M a day. I was told he paid the guy working with him before 15k with daily feeding of #400 even though he knew the guy was stealing from him till he got fed up and send him away. I don't want to steal his money because I hate stealing (I don't even have the mindset of stealing).
Now I have to share NEPA bills with my mom and I will have to drop 5k for feeding out of the 12k and I still have to save so I'll be able to collect my result when my school release it.
Deep down of me I want to learn handwork, but how will I survive? I'm 25yrs old. The only thing I'm benefiting from my parents are mental instability, depression, morning and night food, not like the food is okay am just managing it.
I'm thinking of quitting the work please advise me

my brother quitting the job with no hope in sight for another job is pretty risky and i won't advise you to do that

No doubt it's not been easy for we that came from poor background, we only keep pushing and be hopeful for a better tomorrow

Don't steal his money, don't quit the job yet if you don't have any in replacement, don't cut curners to make money

Just keep on pushing till when God finally pick your call, by then you can gladly say the storm is over!

If i should say my own side of story for you, what I've gone through just to be a better person in life

The root cause of our predicament is our background, we are from a poor background

Considering the nation we found ourselves, it will take nothing but grace for us to change our family condition for good

Let's just be hopeful for a better tomorrow and never succumb to peer pressure

It is well!