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Sirwallace:
This is the most foolish comment I have read so far.
So because no girl graduated without extra and not sleeping with lecturers in your school make you lot superior? Thats absurd.

And the lecture who graded your supposed friend's project need to be checked properly. He probably had a fling with your friend to accept that fallacy of a project.

The only best thing that has happened to female folk of this generation is Chimamanda Adichie.

The rest of you are bunch of idiots parading themselves as the best new thing on social media like you are doing right now.

Those women who you claimed to be bunch of idiots parading themselves as the best new thing on social media are mostly patronized by men like you. Men like you and i are the ones who walked down to meet those prostitutes at the hotel, on the street et al. They didn't come down to your house to drag you. Those things you claimed they do flaunts on social media are mainly for men. They knows there are pervert men that'd dance to their tune.

FYI, I'm a young guy who sees everything good in women and men. The way we had bad men, same with women

You as a man, are you a virgin? You can't be sleeping around and be praising girls that are still virgin. Anyone who does that, as a matter of urgency needs to go back to his school for refund.

Lastly, take a walk to the correctional centres in Nigeria to see the Calibre of men in the society. More than 98% of inmates are all men with sumptious crimes. You are free like a bird to make your research to prove me wrong.

Thanks!

bazooka4jesus:
Contact me on telegram: @clergyman21



I.e https://t. me/clergyman21

I've contacted you. Yet to get any response from you sir! Thanks.

vikgreen01:
It’s not easy but u have to try. This is my 11x of trying. Both military and paramilitary.
NCO
Army 2x
Navy 2x
Airforce 1x
I was using my OND to apply while in uni Nd got shortlisted for navy(both the 2x I tried) and army(1x), but still I didn’t go.

CO
Army 1x
Navy 1x
Airforce 1x (still expecting solemnly on God)

Paramilitary
NIS 1x
NDLEA 1x
FRSC 1x
I won’t give up. Gotta keep trying.

I got wowed! at your level of doggedness.

Elporo:
Can you imagine. Your only daughter whom you claimed to love gets pregnant and your first call of action was to beat her.

If it was Ned Nwoko's child, this same father would be praising his daughter .. Ada Daddy. ... "you have made me proud"

OP .. you reap what you sow. Your family was greedy, and now the tables have turned. Take your L in peace.

And just so you know, your sister has a mobile phone. Yes, she does

Guy did you read where Op said their late uncle get her a phone when she was still in Lagos?

If the man was responsible, would he watch while the girl uncle buy her common phone?Are you telling me he doesn't have the money to buy his wife ordinary phone? Abeg make una try to dey talk truth small small abeg and always put yourself in one's shoe. If it were your only sister would you say this? Haba! That man is a bad man simple

galantjoe:
The OP did not say he eloped with his sister.

The main fact is that the girl is no longer a kid. So his father has little or no influence over her lifestyle.

Despite arresting the guy and all the beating, she still married to him. Don't he knows that this silent treatment from her and her husband must come like. Why can't he initiate peace talk to pacify his daughter for beating her when she ilwas pregnant.

The OP said their father beat her for being stupid and brainwashed that the deportee man would take her to Obodo oyinbo. If i was in the man's shoe, I will do the same for being stupid

vikgreen01:
Chevening, a uk �� government fully funded scholarship is currently ongoing and will close on November 2nd. Have u heard about it?. There’s no application fee just apply and write your essay with minimum of 2years of working experience.

Alright, thanks sir

GboyegaD:
Oga, why not try explore scholarships abroad and move on from there?

Application fee is hard to come by for me since i got no means of income yet. I've come across with some, but the application fee is always an hindrance

Thanks for your input sir

Decide2rise:
You touched my heart with your comment. I was in similar mess few years back but my life has got much better now.I urge you to keep pushing and never lose focus. You will smile soon I assure you and but most importantly, try and take care of your life spiritually. It's very important bro

Thank you sir
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ecomalchemist:
Quote the number you used to message me on Whatsapp here.

08097040690 That's the number sir

Mamayam:
Is your sister above 18? Forget her, she has chosen her path. Dem no force am.
Forget all that crap of brideprice and face your hustle.

What are you saying please? You referred to pride price as crap

Even if you don't believe in it, does that mean others don't? I'm still a young guy and single, I'd definitely pay my future wife pride price and other marital rite

Btw, they can't forget their only sister. The parents can't forget their only daughter

Besides, the Man needs to be taught some lesson of his life. Who does that nonsense and go Scot free? Never!

Their sister and daughter isn't an orphan. She has family. She didn't just fall from the sky

Someone birthed and raised her before he came to brainwashed and decieve the innocent girl. Taking advantage of her because she's from a poor home. They can never forget their sister, never! Wether they're rich or poor.

FYI, that man isn't married to the lady. The family has 101 percent right to withdraw their daughter and the grandchildren away from him. The family will gladly flaw him in law court

If not for anything, to prove to him how stupid he was. The family silence for over 13 years doesn't mean they're stupid. The man is a wicked man for not buying the poor girl a phone to communicate and also isolating her away from her family and friends

If people mean that man eh and chose to help Op, he'd be jailed. Trust me, he'd serve the jail he escaped from serving in Germany

bsalawu:
Ok. U will be credited

Seen. Thanks and God bless

ecomalchemist:
It's okay..while at it I'd support you with a token.

Reach me privately...

Every morning listen to Kendrick Lamar & Schoolboy Q - blessed....remain positive at all times...keep your head up.

Thanks for the advice. May God bless you sir

I've sent you a message on WhatsApp sir!

bazooka4jesus:
Are in lagos?

Yes sir

bsalawu:
Send me your number and the network let me do you data. All will be well

07012213603 Airtel. Thanks and God bless

ecomalchemist:
Okay, will reach out shortly.

Hello sir

You asked me to reach you privately that you'd assist me.

Naijagetskills:
Op you may want to take a look at this

Here's my number sir for the available job, 08097040690 VTJN

Sorry for mentioning you on a dead thread

Thanks and God bless!

bsalawu:
Funny country!

07012213603 Airtel. That's my number sir, VTJN

Sorry for quoting you on a dead thread

Thanks and God bless

Solidkay:
I weep.
God will surely change your story brother and mine too, we deserve better.
Don't give up, don't give in....

Amen bro. Your words break my heart somehow

starexjnr:
Hello people good afternoon, please does anyone know any legitimate online platform one can earn from no matter how little? Please I'd love your responses cause i would like to be involved in an online legit payment scheme, aside my day to day job.

You mentioned me to give you my WhatsApp contact, here is the number 08097040690. Thanks

sunnymighty:
Bsc what? If you are a graduate of Special Education, computer literate and have passion to work with children and young adults with disability, pls DM me.

I'm a great tutor with some experience (online and offline)

Although i didn't study educational related courses. With my level of Patience, Flexibility, Dynamism & Openness to Changing. Emotional IQ. and Good Communication Skills. I can make a positive impacts to the students

However, if graduate with background in special education was made mandatory, you could refer me sir for any other opening. Thanks

Gt321:
God will surprise you positively soonest

Amen, thanks!

Badca81:
. Use your degree and join army, navy or airforce.

Those institutions are too corrupt, they barely consider merit having gone through regorous screening

Sprumbaba:
Enjoy.

Seen. Thanks and God bless

BigDawsNet:
Don't loose hope bro

God will surprise you this week

Amen

Thanks for this

sunnymighty:
What is your qualification bro!

B.Sc sir

Sprumbaba:
Send your bank account here. Let me give you money for Data.

Thanks sir

Op please you guys should look for your sister. That man is a very wicked man. How dare him treat someone's daughter in such manner isolating her from family and friends without any means of constantly reaching her

Your sister was a means to his ends need. Your sister was just too unfortunate to ever come in contact with the man. Your family should get their priority right and put a stop to the way the man is treating your sister like an outcast

Please you guys shouldn't relent

Denvacandy:
Was just randomly thinking how people that are jobless are surviving in this country with the increase in price of things.

I earn roughly 100-130k monthly and i can say its not being easy, spending money on food, data and unkeep..


So i really need to know how people who are jobless are coping in this country, people that have no source of income.

it's not being easy bro. A graduate with strong 2.1 still unemployed. I barely eat once daily

As for data subscription, some friends do help me with #200 airtime once in a while just to search online and apply for any opening

I'm always on free mode on nairaland through opera mini. Life has not been fair with me that i know

To cap it all, I'm just stuck in the house. No money to move around (Transportation) in search of job

I wish God could change my story for good. I'm getting depressed seriously

igbowoman:
How much will it cost for you to go to PH and return.
Good idea not to sleep in his house please.

May God bless you for this show of love ma/sir

NPTJ please respond to this, may God help your family and deliver your sister. Amen!

Neddyogu:
So even if it's 100k, u can't source it to look for ur own blood? If so, stop whining on social media. What do u want us to do? Create a GoFundMe account so u can at least visit ur sister? The girl maybe stupid but I don't believe transportation should be a problem if they're seriously looking to reunite with their own flesh and blood. U want reunion but are scared of monetary sacrifice? What kinda donkey talk is this?

Guy be calming down please. If you read the Op post you will know he's from a poor home and that's one of the advantage the man took from his sister

The education they are opportuned to have and the little exposure makes them realise what that man did was wrong. Being poor doesn't makes one stupid

The Op lost his eldest brother, meaning they are left with just 3 boys

The elder brother earn 50k monthly and he's supporting the family. The last born is in school while Op is hoping to secure a job

Please where do you expect them to get money that will take them to PH and come back that it won't affect the house?

Or you expect them to go and meet their family? Family who doesn't see them when they are suffering seeing themselves through school without any little support. Is it that family that would give them money for that?

Please change your mentality about life. Poor people abound in this country called Nigeria

Tushmanny123:
Your sister is comfortable with not wanting to have anything to do with you people again where ever she is, y'all shouldn't blame the innocent guy.....i have experienced this same issue too.... The problem started when your parents arrested the man who will later become the father of their grandchild and also beat up your sister mercilessly like u said. Did the guy raped your sister? Your parents went too far...now they facing the consequence. Igbo people with their obsession with a girl child all because of huge bride price. Greedy people

And you are very sure you read the Op message before putting tribe into it?

Franklyspeakin:
My own sef is the angle u are coming from. Are u sure its not financial gains you people want from your sis?? Because a right thinking family would have been more interested in knowing if she is fine... That is pay a visit to see her, talk to ker and know if she is OK then probably remind her that her parents are worried about her. Which one is her presence is greatly needed?? Do you even know if your sister is still alive?? When last did you see her with your eyes?? See talk ooo. Go and check on her abeg. It could even be shame thats stopping her from coming back. Shame of you guys laughing at her. Go and show love to her before you start giving her responsibilities.




A family that can't find money to go and see their sister/daughter to be certain she is fine, to know if she is alive, to know if she is sane, but is more interested in her being present most definitely to pick up some responsibilities or to help look after the aged parents who killed her dreams and still didnt show her love when she needed it the most says a lot to buttress my point. See because a man is a deportee dosent mean he wont be able to stand on his feet and cater for his family. afterall they have been surviving all this years. Even the man knows he has un serious inlaws so he can take them for granted. Imagine if the girls family where more involved and concerned with their number one priority being the well being of their daughter, they won't have been complaining of losing their daughter.The annoying part is the dad is still ashamed of her and is yet to come to terms with reality as he continues to lie about the well being of his daughter. How will he make heaven sef If he dies and does he think his village people don't already know something is up as to no bride price collected yet she is married.?
My brother Hustle oooo make them no use you or your family do yeye

Guy you mean say you no see anything wrong in what that man did or what?

See how you apportioned all blame on the Op and his family

Anyway, I'm not surprised sha. we can't have same view