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Lostchild:
Yes, I spend my money a lot on women, because I have sisters.

But right now, I only help men and men only

Good

I am a man, a stranger that you don't know. why can't you help me?

crestedaguiyi:
Most of you on this thread have succeeded in making me feel my wife is not prudent or is not telling me the truth about feeding expenses.

I will not let his thread make me start a conversation that might not end in my favour.

I don sign out from here.

Una weldon

Don't be bothered sir. Your wife is quite prudent and you ain't doing bad.

Don't place so much importance on social media talk sir. Just read and move

Do not allow that tear your beautiful home apart or cause a rift between you guys

Resurgent2016:
Depends on the industry. For a consultant in say a big4, he wont say much from that money. I have been there and I can tell you cutting too much corners to "save" will cost him his career in some industries.

Good thing is he can make 2-3x that amount in a few years if he invests in himself

Interesting

Please how can i get into any of these big4?

Do you mind sharing or help a brother? Thanks

Lostchild:
Angel Mariah

I truly thank you for your encouragement and I also fancy your life in understanding things in deeper level.

In 2016 I was walking around my hood, when I saw a mentally sick (mad) woman, carrying a female child of about 2 years old. I was sadden because the baby look so lean and dirty as a result of suffering. I stopped, walk a bit closer as I stare at the child.

The mad woman kept looking at me, while I fix my whole attention on the baby. For me, I badly wanted to go and collect the child from her, but I can't because I am not at the right position to do that. I was lost and sadden in my thought as I greive that I live in a society that is upside down.

If I see a woman taking care of her own child, for me, I see it as a humanitarian work for God.

If I see a woman suffering because of her child (ren), for me, she deserve to be paid or compensated because of the child.

When a teenage girl need help and no one is ready to help them, they go into prostitution and do things beyond their control.

When a single mother need help and no one wants to help, she goes into prostitution for the sake of her child.

This is why I keep trying my best against all odds, and no matter the wisdom I used in doing it; the devils will manipulate every kind act, to back fire and work against me.

In order for me to continue with my purpose here on earth, I had to come up with a different strategy to show kindness and give help to strangers - the people I don't know.

Why are you so concerned about the female gender? What happened to the male gender?

Anyways, I'm a stranger too as you don't know me yet, so come and help me

DrPurple:
UNIABUJA made the List but there's no FUTA?

This list nah scam

I wonder myself

Interesting

PhD holder, working as a teacher where they earn less than 70k.

Sirjamo:
Where did I lie my comment?

Anything that doesn't fit your biased and hate fill sentiments is rubbish to you.

Your comments is all wrong. People are suffering and dieing. No security. Naira has become useless. No sector is working. There's inflation every where and you are still supporting it. You seriously need to be checked.

x123xlolls:
When I realized my parents are getting older at any second, and they are always trying hard to set my life on good things (school, business).

I start to double my hustle to take care of them, after taking care of them, I will take care of my self.

Moral: don't take life easy, and work smarter, not always harder, but sometimes work harder.

Bravo!! I'm proud of you bro

Your parents must be lucky to have a kind hearted son like you. You will make it by God's grace

IBBG:
. You've just said my mind. I'm pro PDP, but if PDP fields a northerner, and APC fields a Southerner in 2023, then i'm voting APC for presidency. Like you said sothern interest must come first before party, just like the north has proven to us.

Naso o Southern presidency comes first irrespective of any party.

The agenda is that a southern president come 2023

Naajjii:
Buhari doesnt earn it but he became your president, where were people when buhari became president? your eyes just opened in 2021 that shows how immature you people have been,since your eyes just opened in 2021. by the way who among you will be president igbo or yoruba? hove you people solved that yet

That is none of your business. Who would be the president amongst the southerners shouldn't be your concern. Go and face your northern presidency and let's see how it plays out.

We only know that southerns will emerge as the next president come 2023. The particular region in South to become the president is none of your business. Go and face your North.

We are much more wiser now. Enough of the suffering

Naajjii:
the same way if there is any northerner who earns to be the flag bearer of political party then so be it, nothing like zoning

Do you know what the word "EARN" Means? Do you know what it takes to earned something? Are you directly telling me buhari earned it to be our president amongst hundred of thousands of intelligent, vibrant, with track record of politicians?

See our eye don open. The 8 years suffering of buhari don reset our brain. Nothing for una gaskia

NSK4U:
Akeredolu must have spoken for himself and those who buy his idea this time around, not for all Southerners.
This is because if he's been making appeal for the presidency to come to the South, he should be clear on which geopolitical zone in the South......hence, if the two dominant Political parties do not zone the 2023 presidency to the South East, then Southerners stand on no moral, legal or Political pedestal to be making any demand for a southern president come 2023.

Sadly being a flag bearer of a political party isn't by just zoning. The person has to earn it. If there's any south Easterners who earn to be the flag bearer of a political party then so be it.

They just don't hand pick anybody in the name of flag bearer. Nigeria politics is far beyond that.

ststyreal:
Don't mind the guy, rather than amending his ways and attitudes hoping he might be considered somehow by the girls family, he is inturn adding salt to injury by planning to go with his fellow gangsters to the girl's house.
I also think, the girls family aren't comfortable with the boy and his family's character/ way of life.

Ofcourse they know his family isn't responsible. The guy said his mother was happy for his son who impregnated a rich man's daughter. A family whose son is 19. No education, no handwork, no good moral upbringing. He's a tout. A 19 years old as tout if this one enter 30 eh. Anyway I hope he won't do his 30th birthday in cell sha. Because the audacity wey the boy get on top person pikin no be small o

The guy fit be gold digger who knows Thankfully the girl mother too is wise.

Ayanwukoma:
Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.

Guy stop this nonsense. I feel like seeing you one on one

I go beat that tout and Agbero commot for your body

How dare you insert that worm of a dick into someone's else child body?

I doubt you even deserve to live because you will still continue with this wayward lifestyles.

With this useless thing you are typing. If i hold you eh, I will sniff the miserable life off you

Omo oshi

Ayanwukoma:
Sorry I can't.

You will live to regret this if you don't listen to what everyone is telling you

You will end up in cell, and your fellow prisoners will so beat you like mad for coming to cell because of a woman. Not just a woman, a woman whom you are not married to legally

You will hate your life in the cell. You will be full of regret and by then it would be too late

Better you listen now

BRATISLAVA:
While you may have a point here, what do you want the parents to do?

They had better face reality, and if accepting it is how they do it, what can we say?

The girl parents has a say to this not theirs

Even in normal marital rite the bride family choses the date for the ceremony

The mother can't imagine her child having pregnant out of wedlock. Talkmore of a Tout and Agbero from an irresponsible home.

The girls mother has chosen what is right for her daughter so be it

If OP parents are seriously looking for grandchild, then they should tell their daughter to go get pregnant as fast as possible. Even if na mad man for street or a beggar by the road side. She should just get pregnant at all cost and bring it home for them

Ayanwukoma:
So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

PLEASE LET THEM GO ABORT THE CHILD FOR PEACE TO REIGN

Stop looking at her parents money. You sef can become great if you stop sleeping with people's child and pursue your dreams. Stop the Agbero job that you are doing and find something reasonable to do

Forget everything guy. You are too small for all these and you are disgracing your family as well

Romanoff:
He's not even responsible.

He's a miscreant.

Magnoliaa:
The mother wants to do the abortion tomorrow. Time isn't on his wide. Plus, they might use their wealth to influence things if he should try to push harder.

I think, ultimately, a huge chunk of changing the mother's mind falls on the girl as well. It's her mother. She should stand her ground, refuse or anything. I think she's over 18. The OP says they are almost the same age.

Have a child for a tout and Agbero? Una do well

Romanoff:
The girl's parents are even entertaining him. Something that they will abort the pregnancy and send her to live with a relative elsewhere without a phone or access to the guy.

Tell me the guy will not move on.

They should also cut off his smelling dick because he would still carry his useless dick to another mumu girl

Martinez39s:
SMH. If I was your father, I would kick you out of the house for gross stupidity and irresponsibility. You still live with your parents and you haven't established yourself in life, yet you added extra long-term responsibility (a child) to yourself and parents; in this harsh economy and country of all places. Kai! Why recycle poverty and multiple suffering? What legacy will you leave your child? Can you afford your child options in life? A 19-year-old boy... SMH.

Anyway, next time, use a condom.

He's a product of deformed parenting

His mother is in support of his useless lifestyles. Applauding him for impregnating someone's child

Collins4u1:
Is that how your father impregnated your mother to born you.
if I were to be the girls brother, I'll castrate you.

The useless guy deserve death by hanging i swear

Poopypants:
na cos of mumu like this I dey pray make I no born woman ..

If he come our way we go kill am instantly no time

generalwo:
.... U have dreams and u impregnated a girl? While you gain admission and go to school, the girl stays at home and takes care a baby right? Have u seen how wicked you are? U want to pursue your dreams after killing someone else's own? I think the girl's mother saw all these before asking her daughter to abort

What do you expect from a Tout and Agbero cutting ticket for junction?

If you know those people you should know how the letter P in psychology is more useful than them

Newboss:
Woke for supporting my fellow man? Guy, you're a lost cause.

My last reply to you

wow!! supporting your fellow guy for crime committed? Impregnating someone's child when she's not married to her legally or otherwise? You think say almost everybody wey support the girl parents to get rid of the pregnancy no get sense Abi? We no be guy Abi? All of us na woman Abi?

You must have been sleeping with someone's child and you are not married to her. You and Op are birds of same feather no doubt about that

P.S: if truly you are in support of his action. PM the guy and follow him to go bus the girl house. Then come back to give us feedback

No family will ever allow their daughters marry or have a child for a useless guys. No go find how to better your life and be responsible before running after someone's daughter. You are just wasting your time. The family will never allow her marry you or have the child if pregnant. Except the family is senseless like the useless tout too

Ayanwukoma:
Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.

Guy forget that girl and the pregnancy. Let them do whatever they wanna do to it. Nobody will allow their daughter have such child

It will not only affect the girls future and possibly the child as you no get money. The thought of having a child for you an Agbero and a tout is mind boggling. To cap it All, your parents are even in support of you. That shows you are not from a good home and your parents are not responsible

Na all these things they look to decide to help their precious daughter life before one tout turn her to single mother

Davash222:
You have dreams of impregnating people's daughter

The baby guy na he goat

He deserves life imprisonment

Newboss:
Deceiving myself? You don't know how much Nigerians hate the word "abortion". They can even lynch a person for abortion.

If the guy wanted the abortion, no problem. But the girl's family cannot make that decision alone. He did not rape her. He should get the community involved. It's only at community level that there is justice for the common man because Nigerian police can be bought

Guy wake up and stop having this myopic mentality. The guy has no say to someone's child. He's a tout and Agbero. He wasn't married to her legally or otherwise

You go just recieve correct beating of your life with this your woke mentality. Except You try the nonsense with family wey no get sense

Ayanwukoma:
My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get admission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

You get dream and you dey do Agbero work. You get dream and you be tout? You get dream you dey follow woman at your tender age? You get dream you dey get erection to the extend of having sexual intercourse with someone child you are not married to? You get dream you carry your dick go impregnate somebody child? Person wey no be your wife o? You get dream and you dey look for how the poor girl go keep the pregnancy because you be agbero or something?

This your dream na only you and yours go believe yourself. No one else

Ayanwukoma:
Thank you very much sir.
I will

See this Tout, Agbero and Ticket cutter dey find pikin

Even a mad man will rather die than for his or her daughter to have a child for a Tout from an irresponsible home

No go start jamb lesson and prepare to write jamb and go to school. I wonder wetin you take has the poor girl sef to open her legs for you

Newboss:
Guy, abortion is illegal in Nigeria.

If you really want that child to be born, GET THE COMMUNITY INVOLVED IMMEDIATELY.

You may be a street guy but that child is not a street guy. Let's be reasonable when passing judgements on others. Make sure you get justice for your child. If na to burn down their house, so be it. Them dey craze?

I support abortion 100% if both parties agree to it.

Keep deceiving yourself baba. Whether abortion is legal or illegal. She's not having the child if her parents stands on it.

Even Yorubas are wiser now. Na before if them give Yoruba girl belle gbam the person automatically becomes her husband

You go die for jail you never know memememe in naira mail's voice

NnamdiN:
Wonders shall never end walahi. No bride price, no marriage, no traditional rites, no court marriage and shame gree you dey type my child upandan
If I were the girls dad, I'd shoot you on sight.

Exactly what i would do

I will kill him 3 times sef. Shameless tout and Agbero from an irresponsible home