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Restructure the country and stop fooling yourself

Moloso:
They will still not hear you. Cause love have blind their eyes and sense of reasoning

Absolutely

It's a crime for them to listen.

All these old rogues will continue looking for affluence at the detriment of the Nigeria masses

Only God knows how Nigeria would look like in the next two decades. Especially we that couldn't afford leaving this country

Dapcity007:
Every evil in Nigeria from kidnapping, banditry, ritual, Yahoo, cultism is the fault of women putting pressure on men to get socio-economic status, they caused it

When you are done deceiving yourself please let us know

Klass99:
Having class involves good manners, politeness, pride without showing off, empathy, humility and an abundance of self-control.

It is also about an ingrained and wonderful upbringing which reflects years later in your adulthood. Class is evident in your words and conduct, you either have it in you or you don't. It is more about your carriage and comportment as a person, than the flashy apparel you wear.

You can buy the latest fashion, gadgets and glam up all you want, but the moment you open your mouth to speak and from the way you behave, we will know whether you have class or not.

I know an oil and gas worker with Exxon Mobil, who is very mgbekelicious in the way he carries himself. With all his wealth, nice clothes and fine car I will never describe him as a man with class. I can say he is a man of means, but class.....hell no.



They are just wailing wailers, in real life they relate with these same Naija women they like to bash.
One user who constantly insults women here, said he has 3 kids from 3 different women.
What was he doing with the same Nigerian women he loves to hate/bash on NL?
Abi, the women who are offline are not Naija women again?
Las las dem go quench on top Naija women matter.

Any man who always bash women here and there is nothing but a senseless he goat. No matter their petsonal experience or whataview, that doesn't worth the way and manners they bash and talk down at women here

At times, i wonder if these lots was birth by women.

lanre88:
Networking.

This pays massively, now my eyes are open.

Can you put me through on that?

money121:
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I'm interested sir

Irijosa777:
I wrote my final exam in July this year, few weeks later I was in Delta when my course adviser called me to come to school (Uniben), that it's a matter of urgency, I went to school, then I meet her in the HOD office. She told me I failed two courses in my final exam. She said the department is going to upgrade one to "" then wave the other one to me but by imprecation I will graduate as a 2.2 student.
When, I thought about it if I should accept it or come back again to write the two courses (one in 1st semester and the other in 2nd semester) to get 2.1. it was a hard decision for me to make but then I made the decision to accept the offer because of the following reason.
1. Uniben is becoming too stressful/ I'm already tired.
2. The financial expenses involved
3. Economics department in Uniben is not a joke.
4. The probability of me getting "A"s if rewrite the two courses is very low.
5. ASUU and strike
Based on the following reasons I accepted the offer, result came out I graduated as a 2.2 student but some how I started feeling sad. Though 2.2 is not the best but then I also graduate myself. I can't come and kill myself ( schooling in Nigeria university is like war).
If I may ask, did I took the wrong decision?
Opinions please!

PhD holders fought vigorously to get OYO state civil service job, as a class room teachers

I graduated top of the class and still jobless bro

Grab your certificate and move on. You've made the right decision for yourself

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Lostchild:
VTJN

There are different type of ministry in God

The prophetic, pastoral, apostolic, evangelic and school teachers. There is another ministry called (The Ministry Of Help)

I am called to do the ministry of help and servitude, which is the highest among all the ministry of God.

WHAT IS THE MINISTRY OF HELP ?

[b]The ministry help is a ministry of service, care and helpfulness, where a person will live to be of benefit to others, and to attend to the need of others first. It is a ministry where you are called to help in diminishing the pain of others.

You are called to share the misery which lies upon the world.

The ministry of help is the highest calling and one of the most brutal ministry a person will be called into.

THE CONS

・You must have the ability to serve the common good of humanity.

・You are-natured, caring, hospitable, meek and humble.

・You will not be able to enjoy your life for many years.

・You will have to sacrifice your life for others

・You will constantly put yourself under the service of others, by doing the will of others

・Your life will constantly be under the service of humanity

・Your life will constantly be under the influence and control of God.

・You cannot do as you like.

・Your life will constantly be in danger.

・You cannot party or engage in rivelry

・Celibacy or married

・You are not allowed to fornicate or f'vck any chick as you like.

Those who are called into this ministry of help, you will find them in places, like charity organisations, orphansge homes, and more.

It is a ministry and a calling to suffer for others and live for others.

THIS MINISTRY OF HELP HAS ITS OWN ADVANTAGE

I love rendering service to humanity bro. We had almost same mentality to life

Though I do mine as a service rendered. No form of monetary or material intended service. I'm very much incapacitated towards that

That is the major reason why i told you to help me since you claimed you are interested in men now

Lifting one person automatically means you directly or indirectly lifting hundred of thousands of people that surrounds me.

Like i said earlier, not everyone online are scam or fake. Likewise, not everyone online are genuine or real

No matter your love for humanity, if you don't have access to basic necessities of life I.e food, water, healthcare, education et al. You probably would get frustrated no matter the inbuilt traits in you. You just have to exhibit those trait (service to humanity) in you, in your own little way no matter how poor you are. One can't forced service to humanity upon his/herself bro. Once one don't have it, then forget it. Even though such a person is a billionaire

Once you are a selfish being. Who had the mentality of Me, Myself and i alone. No matter how wealthy the person is. He/she is
most likely to turning his/her back at the needy and humanity as a whole

I asked for your support and assistance having coming across your post and seeing your claim with regards to helping humanity, with emphasis to men

You are interested in helping men, I'm a man, who coincidentally had same orientation and believe in helping humanity. Basically, for everyone to live in harmony and be happy

Apologies on behalf of those who were calling you names. It's a faceless forum. Mind you, social media does made everyone equal irrespective of your status, class or whataview. That a young growing person can abused, attacked, and responded to an Adult old enough to be their father/mother/uncle/aunt, using foul words. This might be somewhat difficult to do seeing such an Adult physically

Just be that person you are and never relent helping people.

As for me, you can help me if you chose to. I'm not a fake person. I based in Lagos, Nigeria. I'm a graduate who is unemployed. This is the menace we face in our home country, Nigeria. Many youths are out of job and perhaps underemployed. Those who are gainfully employed ain't satisfied due to poor monthly take home. Some children are out of school, no food nor clean water, some are roaming the streets, some had become nuisance in the community, some had gone into prostitution, some into cyber crime as a result of peer pressure/poor parenting and poverty

There's absolutely little to nothing i could do,(other than to advise and admonished them) if myself who had education is still roaming the street of Lagos in search of a job and yet to find my feet.

P.S: I'm a volunteer advocate with the Initiative for Global Change (IGC) to keep watch over the system on behalf of helpless people. I'm also volunteering with HAZIKE-FITILA support foundation. Where we reach out to inmates in all correctional centres across the federation. Going through their case, giving them food, clothes and other necessities. I've volunteered with some other NGOs during my undergraduate days. It's in me already.

bigCassava:
Why? Not safe?

Don't mind him

I live in Agbara, close to the estate and a stone throw to Lagos

There's constant power supply in Agbara due to it's proximity to an industrial area

You are guaranteed minimum 20hrs power supply

Also, there's security in the location because most places has gate and employ security personnel

These places are assigned with different security personnel. For instance Area A is well secured with gate and has her security personnel

Same goes to Area B and the rest

Btw, i love this place basically for two major reasons

Firstly, constant power supply and it's proximity to Lagos

So we wey no get PC no work for us ba

Bendeco02:
Reading the comments here, it shows that Yorubas (Tinubu supporters) like living in denial to feel good...

How will someone that claims to be enlightened politically say that Tinubu is more influential or known in National politics than Atiku?... Atiku that nearly won buhari in 2019 election if not for normal incumbent rigging system in Nigeria.

Maybe u guys thought that Nigeria starts and end in Lagos... With the way you guys comment here it confirms that Yorubas don't travel.

You must be dreaming. Which Atiku almost won Buhari in 2019 election?

Atiku that lost his polling unit to buhari

His kinsmen voted against him

Tomek09:
I should be asking you.
Una ewedu eyes go clear in 2023. Power is returning to the North with an Igbo V.P. Nothing for afonjas in 2023

;Una no want Biafra again kwan?

I wonder who do una like this.

redcliff:
in the south west. You think the east would pick a Tinubu over Atiku? the north would choose their own, the east would not choose a Tinubu.

Stop mentioning the east east east guy

You guys don't exist. Your 5% votes doesn't count, that you should know

spirul77:
hey boy, are you so jobless? You have quoted 95 percent of the monikers here, what's the problem?

The Guy is senseless sir

The vile and hatred he had for the Yorubas is beyond comprehension

Asgard73:
Typical Apc hogwash coming from Tinubu boy..

How is Wike a major player in pdp.. Yoruba said that about ameachi .. Akpabio.. uduaghan.. today they’re al in Apc.. yet pdp no fall..

Yoruba people should stop propagating Wike propaganda.. e no work and e no sell..

Wike is a minority in pdp with state money.. nothing else and can’t influence nothing.. we saw it in 2019..

Yoruba hyping yo create confusion..

But always fail

You must be a comedian calling Wike a minority in PDP

Tomek09:
So SouthWest divided votes gave Buhari victory in 2019 right

Obviously The northern and south west gave him the victory

South East and south south votes doesn't count

Atiku can't defeat Tinubu that i know. Tinubu had more influence than him. Who lost his kinsmen to the opposition party in naija? That's a big slap on his face bro.

Atiku got the money with less influence compare to Tinubu

Tomek09:
Let's see SW result in 2019 so we can rate Atiku's performance in ur region.

I'm not taking this in favour or against a particular tribe bro

Whose presidential candidate lost in his polling unit guy? See eh Tinubu don't need to campaign much in South West bro

He should just focus all his energy in north. Trust me he will defeat Atiku big time

Btw, what result sheet are you asking of? Tinubu delivered south west for buhari and Atiku lost his kinsmen to buhari can you just imagine

There's nothing to show guy. That alone speaks volume

Asgard73:
No!

Things have changed .. Times ain’t same.. Atiku is not Tofa.

.. reason why we’re calling Tinubu to contest... since Yoruba said he’s Nigeria Kingmaker..
and since they believe times are still the same.

Atiku lost his polling unit to buhari in 2019 election

Imagine if it was tinubu contesting.

Asgard73:
Tinubu is a regional Yoruba god.

Atiku is a nationalist

You funny o... Atiku that lost his polling unit to Buhari in 2019 election

socialmediaman:
You’re getting it wrong. You cannot fix the family system in a poor country with corrupt institutions. Fix the country, the family system will be fixed.

You cannot be teaching a child that stealing is bad yet every time he opens the internet, thieves are being celebrated

Then you don't know the importance of family upbringing. Nothing moves those from responsible family


The problem we have started from the family and communal

JimmyDarmody:
I will not explain

Desist from Yahoo Yahoo before you meet your waterloo

KingGBsky:
Street is for smart people not dumb ass that do money rituals.

channel that smartness to something legit and worthwhile

Not scamming people their hard earned money

JimmyDarmody:
It has been said over and over again that the millionaires who were born poor had to at one point of their lives do something illegal to set a foundation.

I'm not surprised you got your cheap likes from your type

Stop generalizing things Mr man. There are much more people making it legitimately

Olodo24:
So wearing trendy clothes automatically makes one a yahoo boy? Na wa o. Make una die this mentality abeg

Must you wear a trendy clothes? Will you die if you don't wear a trendy clothes?

The earlier you know the way you dress is just the way you will be address the better

Doubleoh7:
Fix the family system and watch a huge junk of Nigeria's problem fizzle away. It's still in this same our Nigeria that a mother was offering her body to an external examiner so as to allow her child cheat in the exam hall.

Exactly bro. Family and communal problem is the major source of our doom in this country. Peer pressure, social media, lack of contentment et al. All these also add to our problem

I was also from a very poor background, lost my dad and mum was incapacitated financially. We are all boys with just a girl. Got educated but no job. Yet, it never occurred to any of us to seek for money or wealth in a wrong ways/places. We don't even do what our generation sees as something normal (keeping boy/girl friend for romantic relationship)

It's quite rare, seeing a guy or girl who had seen the 4 walls of university, graduated and chose not to have anything to do with the opposite sex. It's just for the time being and not forever.

Everything in life has phase, we'd definitely get there When it's time for that

If you as a Nigerian youths, can comfortably tricked someone to ripped off his or her HARD earned money, then you have no moral right whatsoever to talk down and castigate the government

You are a thief, that'd definitely meet his/her waterloo someday

We all had conscience to know what is morally right or wrong. Stop listening to anyone telling you what is right or not. Even notorious armed rubbers had conscience, they all knows what they are doing is wrong. They only chose to follow the wrong path

We all know stealing is wrong, having sex when you ain't married is wrong, looking for means to make fast money is wrong, living a fake life, prostitution, just name it. All these are outrightly wrong.

We only need God's mercy upon our lives and hope for a better tomorrow. Not quick/fast money just to oppress your fellow ones

Lostchild:
I have remove my attention from women and focus on men who have lost all hope of ever obtaining a better life

But I don't do online.

I care so much on what I see

This is my ministry

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I love this your ministry

Ibkhaleel:
useless illiterate who cares abt u.... fetish juju nation

We don hear, sha carry your cow and Fulani go. We no want una

Ibkhaleel:
do you guys knows about the word "Ad Hominem"?


To call Muslims stone age is simply disgracing yourself!

The muslims gave the world the light

The first University on earth was founded bu Muslims

Even the gown you wore if at all u attend school was from the Muslims...

The algebra, Arabic numeral and many basis for sciences are all derived from Muslims

So kindly study history before opening your dirty mouth to lie abt Islam


Hate will only make you closer to your grave...

Must you quote me ?

Guy come na by force? Carry your cow and go na. Southerners no want Fulani again. How is that difficult to grab guy?

Shey marriage na by force ni baba? Abeg enough of this nonsense. Go and meet your northern people and leave southerners alone