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Family / Re: Finally Married by Vyvyanvyvy: 4:59pm On Jan 12 |
ikeno: Amen thanks so much. God will answer your prayer in Jesus name 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Finally Married by Vyvyanvyvy: 4:58pm On Jan 12 |
madridguy: Thanks so much |
Family / Re: Finally Married by Vyvyanvyvy: 4:57pm On Jan 12 |
Zonefree: I am married to the widower 13 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Finally Married by Vyvyanvyvy: 4:57pm On Jan 12 |
Richnero: Thanks so much |
Family / Finally Married by Vyvyanvyvy: 3:16pm On Jan 12 |
Hello my lovely famz long time, I hope you are all doing well. I got some great news for you I just wanted to let you know that I have gotten married on the 6th of january 2024 my traditional and court wedding done and dusted. You have been a great support for me over the years that's why I couldn't keep this great news from you. Thank you once again to you all for all the support and love you have showing me and my children. God bless you all. 16 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 7:38am On May 07, 2023 |
Beremx: Lol no dear , my personal use is not his responsibility , the most important thing is the children upkeep and I hope as he has started to take care of them now he will continue to do so. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 7:35am On May 07, 2023 |
sisisioge: Amen thank you dear hopefully he will continue to take care of them while they are still in my care because I will not give custody to his sister. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 7:34am On May 07, 2023 |
Klass99: Thanks dear, my first daughter is 9 almost 10 she is too young to have a phone even my son i think he is still young to own a smartphone but the father bought him one for them to easily communicate with him and his people. No she is not the same person that i bumped that one is my ex husband ( father of my youngest 2 daughters) elder sister.. The one I am talking about now is the younger sister to my eldest two children father the one he asked me to give custody of the children in order for him to start taking care of them which I refused. Last time when their father called he said the sister want to see the children and I've agreed but I couldn't go with them because of work , my help went to dropped and she picked them up, the kids said their aunty was nice to them she offered them drinks and nice foods and she ask them to keep visiting her more often which is fine but the only thing I will never accept is giving her custody of my children. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 4:53pm On May 06, 2023 |
Good evening fams hope you are well , I just want to keep you updated about my children and their father abroad. He requested for the children school addresses he sent his sister to clear the bills shich she did and the children visited her today and she gave son a smartphone brought by his father and son is so happy. I am so happy for them and their father has done so well and I can't keep the goods news from you fams. That was all I had to say😊 7 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 3:14pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Klass99: Thank you dear yeah he has 3 more abroad 2 boys 1 girl his hands are full, no wonder he has forgotten these 2 in Nigeria lol |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:47pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Klass99: Yes it was a video call my son said their father had showed them their 3 siblings abroad. She will be 10 years in october and she is the quiet type she hardly talk to people she is not familiar with , she wasn't excited like her brother. Honestly speaking even myself I don't know how good their relationship will go I am just hoping for the best. i think even if the worse comes i will be spared by son because he is old enough to know the type of father he has so he will not blame me in the future . 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:26pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Foodqueen: Lol my dear God is great I am happy that he has proven her wrong 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:26pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Klass99: He asked for her but she was shy she refused to speak , it was only my son who was doing the talking. Lol My dear trust me I am not exaggerating but if you have seen the way this woman has humiliated and wishing all the bad things in the world to happens to me just because i refused to abandon my son the same way she had abandoned her own daughter in the village just because she wanted to answer mrs from the age of 3 years till now she is 19 years the girl is suffering in the village like an orphan when she has a mother but I thank God for proving her wrong all her insults were in vain. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:25pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
sisisioge: Amen hopefully they relationship will be greater |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 12:04pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Ulunne777: He had finally called yesterday my son is so happy to speak with him and he promised to call him again on weekend 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 12:15pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
sisisioge: Thanks dear yeah he probably knew is holidays and the children wouldn't be with him but he called because he want to prove to son that he called but it was my fault that I wasn't at home with them. Son messaged him that same day with my help number telling him they are on holidays , i go to work if he want to call them he can reach them using my help number. We are still waiting for him to call 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 11:49am On Apr 22, 2023 |
Octopusssy: Hi dear he had actually called on wednesday I was in my shop alone the kids were at home with my help. I told him I was not at home but I can give him my help number to call her so that he can speaks with the kids, he said no he asked me to call him back when I will be home. Once I got home I told son his father called he was very excited and he couldn't wait to speak with him, unfortunately we had called him numerous times he didn't picked up , son messaged him pleading with him to answer the call he has seen the message but he hasn't bothered to call or texting him back. Son was very disappointed he was close to crying and I had console him telling him people in abroad have a busy life than us in africa, told him he could be busy with work convincing him that he will call again when his less busy son. We are still waiting for him to call again 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 11:46am On Apr 22, 2023 |
Graxie: Amen thank you dear I love you too we may have not known each other in real life but you guys have been supporting me since day 1 and I am very grateful to have you guys as my family. I don't even care about haters they are pained because i am not suffering the way they wanted me to suffer my success is paining them. On saturday it was my first time in 3 years bumping into my ex husband elder sister i was looking so good my whole outfits was okirika less than 3k and my children were well dressed too ,she couldn't stop staring at me because I was looking so good that she was wondering why I am not looking like a trash that she wanted me to be. I thank God for being faithful to me and my children and for shaming my enemies. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: I'm Officially An Orphan by Vyvyanvyvy: 1:55pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
So sorry dear 1 Like |
Family / Re: Which Would You Rather Have? by Vyvyanvyvy: 1:51pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
I rather win the 5m 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 7:07pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Klass99: Thank you he is a big boy now , I want him to learn the hard way so tommorow he will not blame me for his father's mistakes and my hands are open to support him. He left in 2013 when I was pregnant with our second child, my son said he will ask him if he have a wife or children over there but since they haven't spoken yet I don't know if he is married or have children there. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 3:49pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Hello fams just want to keep you updated , son messaged his father on Saturday he had attached a picture of him and his sister , he didn't get any response , so on sunday son called again through facebook video call he picked up and told him he is on his way to church he will call back later. He hasn't call back yet and son wants to call him back again today but I've told him to not call he should be patient he will call him when he's less busy. Son is desperately waiting to hear back from him and Hopefully he will call back anytime soon 5 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 5:09pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
bukatyne: You are bitter and judgemental you have accused me for something which I don't wish to be in the nearest future.Yes I know that I am a very overprotective mother nobody has told me that before but I know I am which sometime can not be healthy but with time I will adjust. also calling my son a ungrateful human being was out of anger I had expected him to keep quiet after telling him no but he kept on begging and begging that's why I called him that ,which i regretted later , I owe him an apology which I will do tommorow when I will give him the permission to speak to his dad, the word came out of anger and it will never be repeated. For your information I have a life outside of my children , I am in a new relationship with a widower and I am enjoying life to the fullest , I hope you are now happy to hear that I have a life outside of my children and you will not accuse me of anything else. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 11:21am On Mar 31, 2023 |
bukatyne: You are judging me for being a caring and overprotective mother and you have concluded that I will be a bad mother in law , God forbid I will never mistreat another woman daughter for my daughters to pay the price in their marriages never , if you see a woman who has female children hating on their son wife she is a brainless woman and she has no idea what goes around comes around and her female children will pay the price of her wickedness. My elder brother was my late mother favourite child she train him till univeristy and she didn't train my sister and I to university because she had the mindset that only male children can go to the university not female children and my brother is doing well and she has never for once became a nuisance in his house until she died and I will do the same as her my future daughter in law will be so happy to have me as her mother in law . My prayers is for my children to find good wife/ husbands who will be a blessing to our family so that we can leave in peace and harmony and not the ones who will come to destroy. Stop judging me based on my parenting what I am doing for my children is totally normal, as a parent my children are my responsibility until they can independently provide for themselves. 12 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 9:09pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
bukatyne: It wasn't neccessary for you to say all these harsh words to me. I know why you are always bitter with me , because of what happened 3 years ago when i choose my son over my marriage you were one of those people who were against me choosing my son , you wanted me to abandon him on the street so I can still be answering mrs and I don't know why are you showing so much concern about him 😒🙄 as if you were not the one that asked me to abandon him 🤔 stop being a hyprocrite it doesn't suit you . 19 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 3:03pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
Klass99: True I didn't trust his advices that's why my mind was not at peace and I had to rushed here to seek advice from you guys i take you people as my real family your advices are helping me for the past 3 years that's why anytime i have a problem i always come here even tough sometimes i feel like you people may be tired of listening to my problems all the time but please don't because I trust you people more than my own blood siblings. Lol no worry i have no problem answering your question we are dating i told him i want to take things easy not in a rush for marriage he accepted , 2 days ago i spoke to his son that lives abroad even tough i told the father to not inform his children yet but still he called him and passed the phone to me , i was very nervous i didn't know if he will accept me as a stepmother but he was okay we spoke like we have met before he sounded cool and respectful and i am happy the son has accepted me and i haven't spoke to his daughter yet hopefully she will not have any problem with me lol 6 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:34pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
pocohantas: Thank you 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:32pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
Klass99: Thank you i will allow him to talk to him, my brother is the same one you mentioned lol. i refused to pay evil with evil God will reward them 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:28pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
Ulunne777: Thank you, I am so proud of him for asking my permission first and I will definitely allow him to contact him 8 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:26pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Thank you 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:24pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
Foodqueen: Thanks for the advice , i have seen the guy post i truly sorry for him , no matter what happened between his dad and mum the mum should tell him the truth about him because he has every right to know his dad . I hope find him soon |
Family / My Son Want To Contact His Father On Fcbk by Vyvyanvyvy: 1:46pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
Hello fams sorry to bother you again i need your advice please , my son is nearly 15 last year when their father came from italy he contacted me via facebook requesting for my number. I rushed here to asked for advice and you have advised me to give him my number which I did, he called to tell me that he want to 100% support his children with the condition that I have to give them to his sister to take care of them which I refused. I didn't hide anything from my son I have explained everything to him because I don't want someday for his father to corrupt him with fake stories that I was the one who didn't allow him to see them, my son was very disappointed why would his father want them to live with the aunty who hasn't bothered to check on them for 9 years, he said my decision was right because I love them and I don't want them to go and suffer like he did when he was with my brother and his family. It is over a year now haven't heard anything from their father and on sunday my son asked for my permission if he can contact his dad on facebook, my son has a facebook account which is controlled by me , he doesn't have a smartphone so he use my phone to access his account. He said he is a big boy and he want to chat his dad to ask him why he refused to take care of them while they are still in my care , i told him he should not bother himself God will help us but the boy was begging me to please allow him to contact his father , I even shouted at him out of anger i called him ungrateful human being, he cried and apologised to me but I came to realize that he is now a big boy he only want answers from his father and to form a relationship with him only if the father will also see it the same way. I asked my brother for his opinion he said i shouldn't allow him to contact him the father may think that i am the one who sent the boy to beg him to do his duty as a father and he added nobody beg a parent to provide for their children. So far I have taken the advice my brother has given me but my mind is not in peace i keep thinking about it ,i feel like i am not being fair to my son and I should allow him to contact his father, I am taking care of all my 4 children alone as a single mother and i will never stop any of them to have a relationship with their fathers as long as things are taken to the right channel. please help me with your advices should i allow him to contact him or i should let the matter slide ? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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