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@op,so to you its only bachelors that engage in "fornication",just do a little research.Gather 10 chicks,you hardly found them dating only single guys,go to a wh_ore house many of their patronages are married men.I think bein a bachelor is not what matters,rather "self discipline".Nevertheless,sex is mutually enjoy by both genders,dont reduce it to the male folks only.

@op,it depends on individuals.Thou,somany male folks have ulterior motives towards their female friends,if any oportunity avail they wil sample her but that those not mean there are no cool male and female friends.I once had a bossom friend at school back then,many of my gees never believ we aint dating,but i just see her as my sister thou, i benefit from her morethan having relationship with her.

@op.truly,without mincing words beards makes you look manly and attractive.Thou,its a trend now,but if well trim and shave nice,you are good to go.#teambeardgangs

tosyne2much:
You really finished work man!

tanx my man.I hope your day wasint hectic

thefirst:
This is properly articulated. Thumbs up for you. I'm just thinking of how the love that the person has for one of the two persons may take a long time to reduce.

curect man,now you catch the drift.Personaly,i once used my self as a case study to tried what you posted up there,but end up with one whic was so dear to me,thou it was past.Yes,its a multi factors that can make someone to become less attractive to u and by extention reduce the love.May be so many impression and the feelings you build the love on where no more appealing to you,or just get tired of your partner, what i called"routinization" been less spontaneous, then if the bond is weak,you can easily carried away with another person you are lusting for.Thats why psychologicaly,some individual are more prone to "stimulus" than other(s)

tosyne2much:
Spot on bro!

i hope you conquor with that man.

thefirst:
What makes you think love is then so perfect that once you love someone, you cannot be caught loving someone else? By saying loving two persons at the same time would lead to a clash of feelings, the implication is it is possible. You can check that conclusion of yours again and the premise on which it is based.

thats why i said its base on your subjective interpretation of "love"if you genuinely love someone it wil be difficult for you to love another in thesame vein.I am not disputing that you cant get lust or attracted to another person,but developing an intense feelings for someone takes alot of things into consideration,and if by the way you get along with the new person,the love for the first one just wither away.If you said love fade,yes it does,but u cant have equal love at thesame time for two girls.It either be love or lust.Even a hardcore player has a special girl.

@op,its impossible at the same time.It will be tantamount to clash of feelings.Thou,your defination of "love"is subjected to interpretation base on your perception.Some abuse the word for lust or infatuation which love is a way different.

I think for you to have accept your new lover boy"mr parfect"that is you aint really into the dude.Just move on with your corper guy but shine your eyes"not all glitters is gold".No perfection anywhere,we all have our flaws.

IsiahRashad:
Then there must surely be chemistry lol

yes of course,cos we are social animals,which our action(s) stems from extrinsic or instrinsic value we attach to a phenomena or either way round.Its a natural law that is innate to man.

Picture of you and her,so that we can measure the level of gravity in order to know if it worth breaking up.Maybe you are "dogon yaro" and she's 2short,atimes its intimidating in the public.

Goddygee:
[color=#231293]Firstly: Ur parents sent u to school to learn but u went to study girls instead neglecting your books.
Secondly: Like the person above said u deserve flogging cos even after being wit the said girl for months u no even "Cry" the babe the new guy she as meet is probably "crying" her so her brain don re-format and she wants to dump u that's why she coming up wit such stories [/color]

i just stumble on your comment...I like your signature,one of my best shakur's track"changes".

Hmmm...Now i think i have to pay my old friend Ayo a visit.I hope i wunt be disapointed.

luminouz:
Yeah..I get u now

correct guy.I hope your end is goin well.

luminouz:
Nawa o..so all handsome guys must NOT be single abi?
Being single is now a crime ba?

thats why i said"only if it's not his priority for now",unlike the op,who sounds worried and needy.Being handsome or not,u may decide to be single in as much u aint perturbed with your status.I hope u catch my drift now.

@op,you that you aint chasing girl how much have you made.Its all about balancing both.Relationship is also important as making money.I know guy who has achieved alot at his prime age,but whorisome now to settle down due to the fact "the chicks come for the money".So i urge u to speak for yourself,u think is by running up and down makes you rich

@iamj,i think you have said it all,maybe he's just imaginating it.But,if u are really handsome,dress nice and has good physics as u said,you whont be single, only if dating is not your priority for now or you are shy.

solomorinho:
No ofcos

then if u genuinely love her as u said.I tink 6 years is not that much,only that atimes nature will set in,and you being a man,wunt take some certain thing.Let me ask you;is she financialy ok than you,and are you a very "matured guy".Note,matured here is subjected to interpretation.

@op,this is my take on it.You have to consider that this is africa,as such our culture varies with that of foreign land.Marriage is nt a childs play,their are roles and responsibilities attach to bein a husband or wifey as such there's expectation that it get fulfilled.Age is number truly if u understand her personality wella and you can overlook somethings.I hope shes not the one bringing the marriage issue?

Airforceone my guy.Love is real,anybody can fall in love.Carry on,nothing do u man.Just holla me for your weding oh.

Give her your atm card and pin...I think she appreciate this most.

U just registered,and the next thing u need is financial lady.What hapen to your hands and legs.Cheap scam,try another place.

Its obvious,the guy wants to eat his cake and have it.Its either he's gaining something tangible from you albeit pretending that he loves u, or just seeing u as a sex object.I think,you should sit him down and talk to him politely about what he's doing.If he didnt change dump his ass before you found yourself in a mess you wunt like.

Just take heart and do away with her and that snitch.Some girls aint loyal,no matter what you are doin for them.

@op,just lock up for them all.If you are good at ur game they will come back.Those days at nysc sha...

This makes me remember my guy...He call it"mad ass".

Why now...For her to be single up to that age.

IamKashyBaby:
There is nothing to consider here..We're talking konjiness here..its a about d!ck that need a good stroke & nothing more..

ok.I gues you just render him a solution to is problem...Well,i wish him the best in his quest to "dekonjified" himself

IamKashyBaby:


I never realized in my entire life that Konji is a problem now

If i were u, i will fvck all those fvckablez sha..

sometimes,i ponder on your comments.You want him to pansh anything without considering the consequence.

igbeshit:
so , am I a black gay or a white gay ? if I am a white gay, would you not show some respect to a white man ?

i dont respect people base on their skin color,but what they have in their upstairs.And,do u think i give a Bleep bout your sexual preference,its your world guy.Piss out

thepussyhunter:
you get time to dey reply this gay M0R0N

anyways make i dey go jareh

we love you whywhyogun!!
we really do!!

i am just kinda less busy today.Just go through some of his/her post now...I think you are not far from truth,i havent been here,for sometime now.Wel its a faceles forum,but i think heres the wrong place for him/her as the case maybe.Tanx