BareFacedLies:
Fake chat

Blackfire:
This is the reason we are retaining the power in the North, once this power goes to the south we know you will tear everything apart, we also know that the online beef you southerners do among yaself is to confuse us, but know this power stays in the North2023

As for the VAT , we will keep collecting it, and as for the haram of a beer , we will keep destroying it, that is the status quo

psalmistkakah:
is true I stay in Katsina those bandits are having a very bad time now.. since the means of communication is disabled no more informants again .I have seen the pictures and videos of how the armies are wasting them.. The army are now winning.. I hope they apply this in maiduguri and I believe they will end Boko Haram within a short while..

Omoluabi1stborn:


Only few people.will understand what Ondo govt meant here

helinuesIsaMumu:
During Jonathan, i had a job that paid me about 210k per month, i was ok. Now i have a job that pays more than twice of that and i am finding it hard to live comfortably and 'ball'

Now, imagine what people who don't work now go through. Truly, in seeking for solution, Nigeria found a problem

Adeolaissacutie:
Please guys, help me, I beg on anybody in the millitary to help, a guy I met online has threatened me with nudes and I don't want him to get away with, I don't deserve , I was a good person to him, he took the pictures while I was sleeping and threatened me with it via video call, I don't have any evidence but he showed me the pictures via video call.

HigherEd:
That's whatmany of them up north don't understand.

Nigeria has six regions, two from the south are in top 3 most populated. If the entire south aligns in any election and manages to get 30 - 40% fromthe north central, they would cruise to dominate

1MinuteWithTina:
I totally get you.
My husband is one of the pastors in his church but I attend another. I do not 'feel' his church at all and I'm only happy when we shared the grace at the end so I left.
It also created brouhaha at the beginning but I told him I'd rather stay at home. He eventually let me be and I now attend another church.
You need to pray about it.

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

mbaboy:
2023 presidential AMBITION going down the drain

kettykin:
This is looking more like a football match where, the side that wins take home the trophy which includes military hardware and trucks but for how long will the military match continue before alternative means of ending this war is brought to bear

Cryptodegen:
This is classic political assassination! Victim played a major role in installing supreme Court governor and there's a lot of motive within Apc in the state to take him out.

The crime scene suggests he disguised to blend in with just jeans and polo, he even wore face mask on a Toyota camry and still the assailants were able to locate and identify him.

Ps: who else noticed imo state turned upside down the moment a former governor was arrested and disgraced. Connect the dots and you unmask the UGM

SlyIg:
Can this type be whitened?
It belongs to one godfather like that ���

family6644:
I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.

I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates.

My late wife was so organized and we trainned my kids to be independent while she travels on local business trips. So I just needed to continue our family habit of buying and stocking everything at home while they manage themselves with the help of an older maid who has been part of the family for many years, in short, we are faring quite well as I continue to mourn my wife and carry on with life.

Here is the problem, from a lot of condolence messages coming in on my Facebook, I had the chance to reply some of them 2weeks ago, I met this single mother of two who invited my kids to her daughter's birthday party, i was reluctant but she said it is time to start taking the kids out since they are yet to resume school, exactly what they needed at that point was the usual outing which has been missing for a while since their mother's sickness and after her demise, approx 6months in total. She said it's not a loud party that she needed only my kids for the small sitting room party.

I decided, went to the party with the kids, it was fun for the kids, I have not seen them happy like that in a long while, it made me happy too, they fell in love with the two sisters and their mother all like a miracle, my little 3year old boy started calling her mommy, others follow and it all seem like a family reunion. We left late at night with her girls asking that they meet again the next day which was a Sunday. To cut it short, my kids and hers agreed to meet the next day except for me. To be honest, the lady is a nice and lovely person to be with, she's a realtor who can work from home, she's real and beautiful, she has been a single mother for 4yrs after her husband travelled out and abandoned them to marry another woman, that's according to her.

She called me that her kids could not allow her rest, they said if we can't come, she should bring them to our house, I mildly rejected but i was persuaded by my daughter and my first son to have them around, I could see that they have bonded quite well, I want my kids to be happy too, that's what I have always wanted for them so I agreed and gave them our address. To cut the story short, I find it impossible to separate the two families that has come together to become one, when they were leaving back to their house my kids pleaded with me to allow them go with mommy to her house, I understand that is real because she's lovely with kids. I had the confidence to trust my kids with someone for the first time in my life. They didn't want to come back, I had to go and pick them up the next day, all of them made sure they came back home with me, we started living together as a family and everyone was enjoying it.

It became an automatic affair with her, I was worried about it been too early, I had to involve few of my friends to seek opinions, some were happy that i could get a good mother for my kids this soon, others asked me to stop the family union and give it a little time to study her character. I suggested some space but she felt very bad, she thinks I am sending them away. I had to allow them stay while I use the opportunity to observe the new found love and family.

12days after, I realize that in a bid to reorganize me and help me to move ahead in life, she totally disregards anything that concerns my late wife whom I still hold dear to my heart, same as my daughter and my adopted daughter, I don't like to address her as a maid. We loved and cherished my late wife, everything she introduced seems to be strange to the norms of the family. If I try to raise my concerns for her to adjust, she will simply tell me that the dead is dead and I should just forget everything about her including whatever she stood for as a mother and wife.

If I try to talk some senses into her to make her understand that brooding over the dead is different from honouring and respecting the deseased, she gets really angry claiming I am comparing her with a dead person. Whatever she discovers as our way of doing things in the family she disregards it and replaces it with her own way without minding how we feel as a family or how easy or difficult it is for us to adjust.

It looks like we are the only ones tolerating and accommodating them here, I have tried with no avail to stop her from insulting the memory of my late wife. I discussed with each and everyone at home, they all wish I could perform a miracle to have them leave because no one can tolerate the mother and kids anymore, I am equally fed up myself and willing to take a break.

I have a friend who is aware of my problems with her, he told me that I am the problem here, he said it will be hard for any woman to fit into our family way of doing things and it will be difficult for us to cope with a different way of life introduced by another woman.

I hope I can get one or two advices that could help. I am quite confused

My own response would be different, if she claimed her husband abandoned her and Married another one abroad, was she formally Married to the husband? If yes .. has she gone through normal divorce proceedings? If no ... You might be playing with seven years inmprisonment

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless. Marry her she will change

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique

donstan18:
If you want to do good, and you know it will end up hurting a particular wicked party, do it in a smart way without endangering the life of yourself and your family.

$32k is too huge for those G-Boiz to come for him or his family no matter how far he might think he is, trust me on that.

Aside the fact that he wanted to publicize the good deed, he would have simply reached the victim first, return the money, tell her to asked suspicious unanswerable questions to those boiz, also tell her to tell those boiz that she’s contacting the bank and USA security, this will enable the mam perfectly act and tell those boiz that his account has been placed under investigations for receiving such cash and might get him jailed. Simple!!! Those boiz go even dey pity am small base on say them don put am for trouble.


Make we dey tread carefully! Na street we dey and nobody is too far to be hunt down by these street boiz! Boiz wey don reach level of scamming $32k no be amateur for the street and as e dey be like this, this guy fit collect shot.

Hotshisha:




I thought this Deji Adeyanju is even educated...

Issa Pantanmi as a Minister holds a blue passport, with a Diplomatic Passport he is free to enter any country visa free, without restriction


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oilPUSSY:


Nothing lasts forever... Thank God for the internet because all these atrocities you have been spilling all these years will be used against you at the appropriate time... Continue flexing your muscles

kahal29:


https://dailytrust.com/ahead-of-defection-apc-govs-visit-matawalle-in-gusau

Piston65:
The silver is 1m cos it's few months used. The gold is 850 and the blue too

Feddytune:
I noticed that Yahoo is now a trend and fraud is gradually becoming the new normal., I have a friend that always look forward to dating Yahoo boys mainly because they can spend .

I have never dated one before until 2019 I was introduced to this guy by a friend, we vibed along pretty well but he never told me he was into online scam , he just said he was a trader of bitcoin and bla bla bla and since I wasnt into cryptocurrency I couldn't tell if he was lying so I believed him.

He lives very comfortable for a 25 year old man, he owns a car and live in a 2 bedroom apartment in a good location in Lagos ., I have dated boys that drives but most of them were daddy's cars . This guy was the first guy I dated that bought his own car with his own money..

Well I won't deny that I loved the fact that he drives ,it was an awesome experience,he picks me up at the salon ,drops me at home ,teach me how to drive ,drive me to eateries and fancy restaurants..

I took countless selfie and videos in his car and peppered my other friends on WhatsApp status .(just having fun)

what about about the money ?.. Hmm to be sincere the highest I ever recieved from a boyfriend before I met the guy was 15k cash and Samsung s9... I was not the type of girl that bother men for money because I'm quite comfortable.

But this guy doesn't wait for me to ask before he sends , the first time he sent me money was 100k... after that I saw a weaving on instagram I like which was about 220k and he paid for it ..

it was crazy and mind blowing to be sincere , I was spoilt to say the least, I look at my account balance and see 550k upwards and I wonder if it is really my account,and the thing is I don't even spend my money, whatever I need he still provides . I graduated from my samsung S9 to an iphone 11 and I also added some luxury item to my wardrobe.

The only issue I had with him is the constant guys that always visits his place and the heavy drinking . but I didn't complain too much .


I moved to his house during the pandemic where I finally discovered he's into Scam, he did not tell me directly but from his laptop and calls I easily got the hint.
We cook lavishly and most times we order food from eateries, the house was fully equipped with every thing so I hardly stress myself plus he doesn't allow me stress either .

Before long I was initiated into his scam network and he started asking me to help him pick calls or talk to his client . I always refuse which lead into arguments but later he will apologize.

I tried to persuade him to stop since he has made Soo much money for his age,I have seen his zenith bank balance several times and there is more than 6million there plus he has other banks too..but anytime I ask he will just change the topic or tell me to "Dead that talk"...

I have a close circle of 3 girls that I call my best friends and they all dating a Yahoo boy so it is hard to ask them for advice , I really like the comfort that comes with the money but my concience wasn't at peace , so I had to do away with him . it wasn't easy letting him go because I have fallen in love with him but since he wasn't ready to stop I had to leave..

So guys that do Yahoo why do you guys never stop after making so much money ?? and ladies how are you comfortable spending a cursed money?..

ThreeEyedRaven:
I totally agree with him. The Bible only instructs the ministers or church workers to marry only one wife but didn't speak against polygamy

Rhodaogunpeju:
I decided to write this because I have come to realize that Love can get boring..
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I remember when I met my husband , he was such a Nice and handsome Man. I mean I already decided if he ask me out I will say yes from the first day I met him but I still made him beg and purse me for a whole year before finally accepting to date him ..

6 months after our relationship we got married. and our marriage was bliss , I married a friend , we have our downs and quarell but we always make up before we sleep because of the fact that we made it compulsory that we must have a family prayer Every night , we usually settle most of our fights during these prayers ..

But sometimes marriages can get boring , you have gisted all the entire gist ,talk about everything talkable till there is actually nothing to talk about,. Then the husband starts drifting away .maybe he's got a new friend or found a new love ...sometime this new love might not be a person ,For instance my husband new love is politics..He's always working and when he's home he is either watching the News on Tv and even when he tries to talk to me he will be like "Baby can you believe what kai muhammad said again"..

And I'm just sitting like who and what is my concern with lai muhammad?... Yet he doesn't see my reaction,he just continues to talk untill we fall asleep.i listen to him because I have to he is my husband.

The love flame was slowly wearing our ,I mean he no longer wants me to wait for him before I eat. .. if I call him to inquire when he is coming back home , he replies with "I don't know but eat o.. don't wait for me "...

How about the sex life ... What use to be mind blowing sex is now just average .just because he's had too much if it ..I could also say the same about me..I mean before seeing my husband in boxers turns me on but now even if he's naked it doesn't seem to move me

Hmmm but regardless I still love my husband. .I have sat him down many times and talked about spicing things up but you know Men... Anyways the moral of my story is that when you marry ..marry someone that even when he/she changes you would still love them because trust me they will....
. Am sure you are not pregnant yet? Try to ride the dick Wella so that he can get you pregnant, then you shift some attention to your kids and both of you are happy