my marriage is almost 3 yrs now and i thank God for it, i keep telling myself that we have not even started because we stil hav our whole lives ahead of us

-- a lot depends on ur mentality as at the time u decide to enter to marry that person, 4 instance,my parents have a beautiful rlnship and my love's parents dont, but while dating i discovered that the last thing he wants is a problematic home while my aspiration was to have one even beta than my parents, and so we resolved that we'l always work on our problems and treat ourselves like we've got no one else and it has worked, so far,

so i wld recommend,
friendship, -- wen all d love wey shack u don simmer down, u shd stil b able to like d person
communication,
understanding and d ability to manage personal differences
prayer

;d ;d ;d

yeah, i win

2 weeks back or thereabt, wen they started killing nigdeltans


did u kiss someone?

interesting relationship,

she might just b scared of losing u, talk to her, let her know u love her and want her to b free wit u,
i think 9 months is enuf for a babe to see somthing to disagree abt, or at least something to b vocal abt,

while i dont enjoy argumentative rlnships but i'm sure i wont enjoy such as d one u r in now, we gotta talk,

as for me, wen i used to date, my principle was to find out wat a guy,no matter how quiet he seems, wld do in his worst mood, wen provoked, i carefully push and push and push till he explodes and i just atsnd aside and raise my brows

i've seen some good talk by obnoxious, stillwater etc, i kinda see myself in u and frm experience, i wld say

dont let anyone push to u to wat u dont wanna do, i dont see u as anti social because anti social people go out of their way to avoid human contact, friendship etc. being on ur own teaches discipline and build principles, tho u must learn 2 balance it,


its enuf to have a few friends u can rely on, go out with wen u want to (and having dependable friends takes time and effort),

the best life is not the socially busy one, believe me, some parents wld give anything to have a child that stays home,

i think d issue is just that it is outrageous, we all know it a fluke and they wont make real their promise but its just amazing that the regulatory authorities allow such in this day and time, but this is naija where everything is done upside down

reminds me of the celtel 15milla promo a while back,

abeg, someone pls tell me, why is that d presenter's d same way in every episode?
dont understand it, am thinking mayb they were trying to do a brand kind of thing but that one alone sef don fall their hand seriously,

mehn, that show eh, d presenter no b am at all, so dry
and wats wit d every5 mins advert, e too much nah
bsides, their guarantee level is not easy to get to, i saw someone win 500k today for d first time,
dem no try abeg

like its bn said, they really need to revamp the show

a lot of people have said it, stop searching, i say true words, some women are always in rlnships, one fails, weekss later, they r in anor, it doent giv one time to grow as a person, also, most of the time, we date that next guy on the rebound. try and b patient, and know that men too are mortals

i also believe wat spoilt said.
i like my kind of person(straightforward and principled, )those r good traits, do not belif otherwise.u are also one vulnerable person, eager to help d downtrodden guys who turn around to take advantage of u,like spoilt, said those kain of guys r badnews, believe it, b careful
i believe that a guy shd struggle, with good prospects, it will work

@Remii;
right now

i wonder why people seem to think that we must do everything the oyinbo way for things to work, iam sure that the senate of OAU are distinguished academics who know wat they want for their students, as have bn pointed out by anor, it is not a tenured post, so i dont see any thing wrong in d apptment,

as others have said here, we have had numerous policy statements on housing over the yrs,the problem is not the law but the implementation thereof,
how wil the govt enforce the law and bring offenders to book considering the peculiar nature of lagos state and indeed, the whole of nigeria,

also, how wil the law ensure that the landlord is not shortchanged cos while it is true that the tenant is often the underdog, landlords too have bn serious;ly conned by dubious tenants,

zain again, well, we go just gold arm de look, abi?

nigerians need ti wake up to the reality that this Yaradiua's so-called corruption fight is nothing but a fluke, after dem don connive finish dem go come tell una story,

happens all d time, 9 out of ten d story's true, i just wonder wen Nigerians wil stop being so gullible,

Aloy.Emeka:

RIP; Obasanjo married about 20 wives and about 3 of them are dead now.

seriously

biina:

Why are you trying to make this into a Christianity issue? will it not also affect the muslims?
Do not confuse Christianity with religion. Not everyone that calls himself a pastor is truly doing the work of God.
While there are those genuinely working for God, most work for their own selfish ends, and see it as a way out of unemployment. Otherwise, how do you explain the fact that despite there being a church on almsot every street, we are still a nation wallowing in sin, with corruption pervading every area of our society.
Should we now say that any criminal that calls himself a pastor can no longer be scrutinized?
All religious institutions, like any other above board establishment, should provide details of their account to the government, and should be taxed when necessitated by the law.
Christianity should not encourage secrecy, that should be left to the cultist.

very true, abeg, very true, i thank God for His truth has set me free!!

thanks people,

the 'crowned' king of rap, selfacclaimed best rapper, FREESTYLE, where de arrogant boy de?,

is the young man aiight?

i like stella damasus, really do, but i think on this her hubby's death issue, she's bn palying too d gallery a bit 2 much,
her husband's family r not paupers, not in the least, infact, they r more than comfortable but i thinl she's always had issues with them, her saying they wanted to take d children away is a bit too much, she's never said that one b4, hmmm, these celeb stories, one shdnt b in a haste to reply


besides, shei she said herself that there was no money wen d husband died, so wat did they want to grab?,
infact, she refused d family's offer to sponsor d children's ed and such stuff then(2006,i think)
now we r hearing sth else,

stories,

jolie?, interesting

beautiful woman,

thats reality, , ouch, so ugly,

yes of course, since our dating days, and we stil do give each other our passwords, wats to hide?

really,i know people who take pride in collecting designer perfumes, 10 is not an outrageous no to such,

right now, Chanel no 5

i also love black pearl by elizabeth taylor

but am thinking of getting mont blac's femme individuelle,a friend uses it and its lovely