my governor, hmmm, Akwa Ibom state gov, hmmm
all my gov knows how to do is talk, and try his best to disparage his predecessor,

his high point is the latest order that no commercial okada ater 6.30 pm, creating hardship or his citizens in a state with no other means of transportation apart frm okada.( no buses, no town drop, or any thing of d sort, people r just suffering,

he compares his state to cross river and rivers with established means o public trans, its really sad

Am cracking maself up wit f.r.i.e.n.d.s.

i do not particularly like joining issues on religious debates but i gotta say d issue of tithe is a sore one,

the New Testament, as i Understand it and which tenets bind me, as a christian certainly does not specify tithing as a way of worshipping God, instead it tells me to give as God has prospered me knowing that God loves a cheerful giver and no tithe-preaching pastor can convince me otherwise,

i think we shd all study our Bibles prayerfully as God has not given the prerogative to understand His word to a few select.

it is certainly not CHRISTIAN

I must add too that in religious circles, this tithing just surfacedsome years back and its amazing how people dont ask questions,

i hate the nose-picking, really,if e de hungry u so much, wait til u reach house, then u fit pick and chop[, grossssss!!!

never say never ooo, hmmm, i used to say a llot of such hings, now a few yrs and two lil ones down the road, my perspectives have broadened and i see the world a lot differently,

pls am also interested in d EMS/ISO training, pls anyone with additional info?
i just have to do it this year ,
thanks

see wetin una don cause now, our dear poster has crawled back under the rock from whence he came, not a word from him, i no fit shout,

@mp007-
yeah thats wat i wanted 2 say, d poster's surely repping d gay community, as he is one of them,
hin just de find people 2 co-opt,

so people cant b friends anymo, there's gat 2 b some sexuality thing going on?
abeg eh, why would they choose a popular luxury hotel to go flaunt it, if they had something to hide?

some people's minds r skewed,

i de wait 2 see picture of their pikin,

d issue is not abt her age wen it happened, of course she was a minor and her consent doesnt matter, (thats by d way)
d guy is delusional, and as has bn said , must have some over-rated sense of his self-importance,
am not some Genevieve fan or anything(i think she's ok tho) but this guy is either just trying to score some cheap point or trying to b popular?

by d way, frm which rock did he crawl out frm? abi did they ask him for child support?
ACURA ko, HONDA ni, na CURE hin need, foolish ''boy'',

y una de raise hell 4 dis mata? the woman wanted to b minister, and minister she now has become,

but really, making her PRO for yaradua is a very sane move on d president's part, yes, for a govt that is fast losing credibility, they need someone the public trust to polish them up in d eyes of nigerian, it is a wise political move on his past

however, the only loser will b Prof Dora cos by the time she's thru, nobody wil take her serious anymore, i know she cld achieve a lot in communications but she is there primarily to sell yaradua to us and assure us that he is not as his 'detractors'paint him

i agree wit all NLanders,
infact even if she aborts now, a pregnancy test might stil come out +ve,(seeing dat d wedding is around d corner) 
but really, wats d big deal, she de fear wetin her papa go do?,
if she'l old enough 2get married she should b old enough to take responsibility 4 her actions, otherwise she shd grow up first.

some people de cause wahala 4 themselves, when dem go de waka crusade de find pikin them go say na witch

clapping's got nothing to do with worship, abeg,
i cant belif som1 actually quoted Heb 13:15- how does d fruit of our lips translate into clapping? lets stop getting into a frenzy and understand wat worship really is,

i agree wit malama & d others,

a few words, christians need to know wat they believe, these frenzies, hmmmmm they are definitely unscriptural,
not all powers r of God,

but pleasantly surprised that so many people know abt these antics of the evil one, so who de full dem churches

back to topic after the love-play of rubypearl and A40

me thinks, a man that loves his wifey is sensitive to her feelings in all ways.

like seun says , housework never ends, and so it becomes imperative that both join hands.
our fathers prolly didnt get to do house chores because our houses were filled all d time wit people, cousins etc

nowadays, we hav hav essentially nuclear families
it bcomes difficult if everything is left to the woman,
when babies come nko? d woman will stil slave it alone?

see, it is one thing that affects relationships so gravely cos d woman can get so tired at the end of the day that she cannot give attention to the man, 'sides she will get resentful and u know where that can lead


me, after all i have read, i thank God for my love,
he loves washing - so he washes and irons for us all, he even wakes up at night to wash( tho imake sure i wash sometimes so it wont seem like i delegated that one to him
he sweeps, makes d bed washes d kids, changes diapers

hmmm,otherwise how i 4 do with 2 pikin 4 hand
but cant cook to save his job , lol

think am gonna appreciate him special 2nite

abeg, there's more to this story,

very possible, yes, i married one!!!

i really dont like commenting on issues like this but i wld say she is beautiful, go watch that movie she acted a maid, she is,

i wonder how many people rushing to write cld hold a candle,

as for d attitude, well, who can say, am sure most of it is media hype anyway, so wateva,

i'd say go girl!!! anytime

doc abeg, an urgent reply needed,

i just got an iucd inserted, was told of some effects i might notice,
but like a week after, i noticed some outbreaks on my skin ( inner thighs), papules that ripen and rupture

i was wondering wat cld av caused it til i remembered d stuff,
cos i havent changed cream,soap or anyother thing,am stil lactating,not yet resumed menses

pls, cld this b caused by the insertion?
if so, wil it b a one off thing? what can i use? or wil it go on its own

i can just imagine wats going on in some minds , LMAO

hmmmmmmmmmm, nairalanders, so imaginative

that, my dear,is art!!!! amazing!!!

d guy's an ass, surely?

@ poster
this is d worst case of hasty generalisation i have ever read, seeing that naija is such a multi- ethnic, cultural and religious country, i wld say ur opinion just cant be true,

am married to a born and bred in naija man and our rlnship is wonderful, so is my parents', and i know a lot of other balanced naija marriages, so are these not in naija, there r bad marriages everywhere, not just here

castigate us all u want but i wldnt agree with you, if u are talking abt an article review of the 1960's (as indicated in the writeup) then,

also ,those nigerian friends of urs u talk about just might have left naija some light years ago, how else wld they exhibit such crude mentality, u know, thats why they have trouble with their pick-from-naija wives when they realise things aren't the way they thought,

watched 2face on moments with mo, and well, would that be an improved 2face? hmmm

then i wld say pasu seems better,


ma thots

;Dthey actually might go thru iran, u just wait and see

just like the military administrator who was asked the types of mineral in Kano state and mentioned coke , fanta etc

shalom

i sincerely think people should review their perception of marriage,
  how is d rln/ship that anor man you do not know is calling ur wife, i mean she has a lot to explain, its not  about saying 'he's just a fren

i strongly suggest You find out from her who the person in question is, is it someone You know,
  the way i see it, d woman should b anxious to sort out the issue and re-establish trust-  even if she was just enjoying the attention,

but seriously, it is a show of disrespect for a spouse for someone he/she doesnt know to call at that time of the nght

nuff said,  ur marriage needs checking out, something obviously aint right

abeg, if u do not have an idea abt sth, its beta to b quiet abt it, wats wit brain damage i am not yoruba, at all, but where i come frm , this is done and very well so,

actually, not all babies need it, truth is that at birth, the head takes an oblong shape to enable the baby come out and for some children, this corrects itself within days after birth, (my 1st child 4 instance) so that need not b done

but for others, esp if the baby had come at some point doing d birthing process b4 coming out completely, it becomes necessary , this is just some gentle moulding with d palm (my girl for instance, she's like 3 mths and i stil do it, ah, especially as i just came back frm home and had my eyes full of chidren with ogor, )

it is also recommended that d baby sleeps on her back ( make sure she burps after eating and is asleep a while),