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The late wife is not an ex, the new wife knows this before getting to that marriage, even saw the pictures before marrying him, so why the noise?, She should have discussed it with him before the marriage.
Whether we like it or not, the late wife is part of the family and will always be, especially when she has kids, you think is only the husband that owns the wife...the woman should have told the man to remove the pictures of the father or mother if they are late.

NB: those commenting about if is the woman having the ex picture on the wall, your sense suppose tell you that is the man's house not the woman and is the man that paid the bride price not the woman, let's reason like people with sense nah

Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child.....
What do you advise me to do guys?

Bros ur patience is SuperB ooo.... I will advice you to also run the boy against his mother too...just to be sure that there isn't a mix up in the hospital...B4 u will kill an innocent woman....just to be sure

StilmaVsBorn2w:
I informed them for the burial arrangements not for marriage ceremony

You informed them for burial arrangement as your wife or daughter?, Oga you are insane....You are just too arrogant to admit your Fu*cking mistake to start with, you are busy talking tr*sh that your mum said as advice, if is ur sister or your mums child will you feel and be saying the same nonsense, you are the one with tribal sentiment and bigotry...I think you are so wicked....a lady birthing ur kid is not a must that u will marry her but keeping her is another thing, African and Nigeria is a country that has culture, if u want to quote the whites and 21st century nonsense you better travel out there

If i were you but i will not, i will seize her phone from that spot, from the phone u will get concrete evidence and answers

Why you wait for the doctor to decide, if she is using pregnancy care...pls do well to stop and just use routine drugs...engage her in exercises like climbing stairs, brisk walks etc daily...let her eat more of fruits and blood given food...God will see u guys through...same was almost my case but they came out naturally

You are on point

Depends on her reason and how staunch you are rooted in catholic church, you can choose another neutral church to attend that is not hers, if she agrees is okay but if she wants you to attend only but her own church, then she is just a selfish bi*ch...take heed while the sun shines

I pray the pregnancy is really yours, to start with

Op i think u are senseless, "your child" yet you have not taken drink to the girl in questions house, you think the parent of the girl in question does not have ambition and future for their girl...you have no claim to the child, i think you are a tout like the woman rightly said

Wow, so brave of you
This is really educative .... Is it same as hermaphrodite

You are facially beautiful from your DM

The feeling is not bad, but never you drop out is not worth it....you can school and still program....this is my 11years in programming....dont ever think of dropping out ....just secure the certificate to avoid regrets ....tomorrow is still far

Is normal but stress, both mental and emotional stress are not good for conception....try to abstain or have sex few times prior to her ovulation, eat sperm boosting foods which garlic is one of them, then do it when she's ovulation...above all prayer is the key ...provided she has no past that ruin her womb...she will conceive ...give it time 6 months is not bad ...i know its not easy...but God will see you guys through

Is not out of place to plan according to you pocket because "he that wears the shoe knows exactly where it pains him" you should have discussed with her giving reasons while you should do it in the village and standing strongly on your words without involving your mum.
Another thing is that you can actually pay her bride price with indoor celebration and do your white wedding in SW

You are a capital Idiot

Which ever way she will rise to her destiny, 60k is not so big from what u earn, invest in her with mindset that u r helping a human but have an agreement that she will pay u back, have it signed by her, if u think u cant forefeit it...

I think u should totally avoid them, because from ur story they are suddenly interested in u cos of material gains...."use this period that u dont have external obligation to invest, build house cos tomorrow if im red 4 u, no one is coming"....forgive them and move on with ur life but dont have anything to do with them, cos they will suck u dry n leave u....READ THE THE QUOTED ABOVE AGAIN...E get why

You just gave us ur own side of the story, am not gonna judge that nigga yet.....but my simple question is why would u be spending 1k per meal for days and be claiming that their is no food stuff in the house to cook n no money ...are u guys in buhari's class

I think u should tell him, but u should be matured with ur words while telling him, dont just hit the hammer on the nail.

Make him to understand that there are many good Nigerians n few bad eggs , so is it in every region

Forgive your self first...most important

Always go out, is not good for a man to stay indoors always, u might get some menial jobs thru friends ...dont despise ur little beginning ....God will see u through

Brother u dont need advice rather spiritual n physical cleansing with canes

It will end in tears

I will advice that u stay put, cos US or Nigeria might wake up morrow and decide to shut their border and u will be stuck n frustrated

RIP

ubongchrisetim:
hello fam, please what is the latest on this recruitment. I am informed that people have been invited for interview. Who can confirm this?

ya got d text for interview too....
any idea on wat their interview looks lik?

my opinion......hadnt it bn she was specific regardng to wat she needed d moni for n u knw is smtn pressing.....secondly u checkd ursf n d 15k is small change for u ....u can gv her after u r only helpn d needy nt cos u r maga......bt knw ur purse oooo...cos sm pple earn up 2 #500,000 per month..

Dear sir....i took time to read posts without skiping any line.......wit all ds points u raised....hw r u sure dat u r still into d marriage at ur will via d juju?......u r still alive cos of one tin or cos of she needs sm1 called husband......d evil she did is still disturbng her ....God can forgve easily bt nature doesnt.....be wise n take ur heed......numerous threat to life for no reason is nt funny......i knw u r afraid as per startng all over bt is beta late dan late ......be wise sir

Bro...change ur password to a stronger one n cant b easily guesss evn by robot... Aphanumeric n special xters eg....123lamb#$@&fada

inspirational indeed....nice wrk bro

@poster i was thinking dat ur daughter in question is older bt jus 1yr...u got to make sure is ur biological daughter in d first place cos d question is somehw

is a painful one indeed after 5 gud yrs ....bt i will advice u to try and meet him face to face to sort out ds issue...evn if u guys will breakup afta dat...bt atleast get d reasons behind d whole change....he cud be dodging u cos he thinks u dnt deserve him cos of wat he did behind u ....who knws u guys can still iron tnz up...#real-love-dosnt-die