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The person got it wrong. Did the seller told him he was selling meat pie or he assumed it was meat pie by mere looking at it?

Daddyboy21:
meaning you are only good for sex and and you have confirmed that sex is the only thing you have to offer.

This means that I don’t indulge in random sex because I am asexual.

This also means that aside sex, boys and girls have nothing to offer each other.

Rawhumper:
Deep down u know its not true.....guys spend more on girls in Nigeria.


But he is right,in overseas,ladies don't like a guy to pay the bills after eating.

The ladies see it as a norm...

You are not being straight about it. Guys spend on girls in anticipation for sex.

How many guys will wholeheartedly gift a lady 50K without asking for sex in return?

When you’re surrounded by people with depraved minds, you will seek ways to profit from the situation.

aribisala0:
At the end of the day it all comes down to what do you get in return for sex

Of course! It’s called trade by barter.

nedekid:
I rebuke and reject your hit bottom proclamation. Let's assume you meant something else.
See this guy, abi don't you know I have paid my dues? Besides who told you I am rich? I just explained how I live within my means, manage myself, cut out frivolous spending.
Are you suggesting that I give all my little change out to everyone that ask me?
On this forum years back, based on giving airtime or breakfast to 10 people, I ended up giving to over 70 despite the little I have. Who gives me? Don't you know I am a family man with kids, private university school fees to pay?
I explained that I don't pick calls, what is the reason? People call to ask for money and since I don't want to offend anyone by declining, I will not pick. Simple!
Or are you saying I should lend people money, then it turns to fight to get my money back? Last guy I gave 2 months ago told me it was till month end when he gets his salary. I told him to take from online app, dude said he hid not like them. I gave him, till today he has not mentioned he owed me not to talk of paying. He sees me and walks pass.
Abeg, I don't like your first statement!

No offense meant. I was just trying to make a point. I am even surprised that you are a family man. I am also surprised that you don’t pick calls as a family man. You should start picking calls cos some calls could be an emergency.

I will tell you a brief story. My mom will never see a missed call and not call back. It is one of her life’s policy. Do you know why? Twice that my siblings were involved in an accident, it was a random call she got.

There was a wealthy man who claimed he doesn’t answer calls from strange numbers. What happened? His only son was involved in a ghastly accident.

A good Samaritan tried to reach him but he wouldn’t pick up. The good Samaritan decided to send a message and by the time he responded it was too late.

My mom will say: “Don’t reject a call but you’re free to reject the message behind the call”. I hope you get it now?

Antoeni:
Australian girls will travel from Australia to Canada and spend $2,000 dollars for flying ticket which is nearly One Million naira and travel a distance of 17 hours on air to visit a man
American girls will spend over $2,500 dollars which is over # 1M naira to buy air ticket and travel almost 9hours 30 minutes journey on air from America to England to visit a man and also buy expensive gifts for him
European girls will spend over £2,000 euros which is around # 1M naira and buy plane ticket to fly 17 hours all the way from Europe to Asia to visit a man
But a Nigerian girls cannot travel a journey of 15 minutes that cannot cost #500 to visit a man inside her own country, she will ask for TF ; yet she will tell the Nigerian guy that she needs good and caring man.......
Absolutely incredible They are good in signs and wonders

So?

An American man will buy a Porsche car for his crush without asking for anything in return.

A Nigerian man will ask for 3 rounds of sex before he buys Zobo drink for his girlfriend.

RexTramadol1:
Well may we not have reasons to beg



If you’re in their shoes, maybe you will understand it’s not most of them that are happy being redundant



It’s life, shiit happens….. some are fortunate and others are less fortunate


That being said if you can, help and if you can’t you don’t have to blame them for such situations they’ve found themselves in.


When I get such messages, I don’t make promises but anytime I get to have I just give and hope God will replenish



No act of kindness will go unrewarded.

I like your reasoning. It is filled with wisdom. I always tell people who talk like the OP that no one derives pleasure in begging but it’s just life’s circumstances that plunged them into such a situation.

nedekid:
As for me, I don't pick calls again, especially unknown numbers. Thank God I have a dedicated business line I don't use to make calls so folks don't have the number.
Why? See 90% of the calls and whatsapp, fb etc I get is from folks asking for money.
Eg. Old school mate I met at reunion after not seeing for over 33 years. Called
1 week after party I sent money. 1 week later she called that her friend(Sic) was owing online loan app and they are disturbing her. Her friend need 50k as I de write this she de call me sef.
Another one say house rent don expire landlord Wan pursue family. My paddy nko, the one that almost punch my over buhari matter, that one and another no de follow me talk again!
Just say hi to person now, the next thing is Bill.
So to avoid quarell, I don't pick calls or respond to messages.
Those my mind moves me to assist I do, but unfortunately, the next week they are back to ask.
Some that ask me for loan nko, don't even go there, once you give them, that is the end, they will meet with you everyday and do as if you dash them the money. So me, i don't lend money again.
Suppring thing is that na manage I de, If I wanna drink, I buy a bottle of red label, ice etc, stay home or drive out, stay in my car and drink, instead of entering joint and buying drink of 6k for 15k.
I built my own barbeque griller, on weekends we de house grill fish that they sell outside for 7k outside. Chicken they sell 8k for bar, I go buy 2 kilo chicken, 2 kilo turkey. Spice am grill for compound garden
Things are really hard right now for Nigerians due to this evil regime.

When you hit rock bottom you will start receiving calls again.

This reminds me of a guy who said he doesn’t receive calls. Would you blame him? He was wealthy with a nice paying job. Niggar looked down on people and would never receive or return calls.

Fate dealt a blow in him and he lost everything. Dude became humbled and learnt to start flashing because he couldn’t even afford airtime.

Or11:
I will get straight to the point. I get messages all the time from people in Nigeria asking for money and the surprising thing is it's abled bodied men who beg. Some of them act like big boys on social media but codedly begging using every excuse to ask for money.

I wonder why they can't go and work. Ok there are no jobs but what happened to being an entrepreneur. Anyone can be a real estate agent, car sales agent, shipping/clearing agent or just learn a handwork.

I don't go on Facebook anyone because as soon as I go online, the next thing is *beep beep*, a message comes in that reads "baba every red, pls send anything I go manage am", " My dstv sub don expire, na weekend, borrow me 20k, I go pay you back on Monday ", " My pikin get asthma, abeg I need money buy inhaler", "bros pls I travel go village and spend all my money, I need funds to travel back to Lagos and many more.

What is going on in naija abeg?

Abeg park. People beg because they are broke and may not have a way forward.

Just because things are working for you doesn’t mean broke people are not hardworking.

Come back and say the same thing when you hit rock bottom then I will take you seriously.

DryMouth:
Lol!
The guy is a real niggar!

Send me location and date of the wedding make i go present am with very chilled red wine.

Am sure you did worse to guys when "time" was still on your side. Now you dey find emotional support for nairaland at your old age.

Shut up!

advanceDNA:
Are they 10years old?? How did they allow the whole sh!t happen to them before “summoning the courage” to report??

I don’t understand??

I tire. Even if they are 10 year olds, I would be surprised that they kept mute. Unless they were hypnotized.

Is he practicing his teachings?

Why is he telling us now that she is dead? Some secrets are meant to stay that way. He just betrayed her.

Nengi once claimed she paid a stylist 15 Million naira. Saga has exposed her lies.

airsaylongcome:
There's a YouTube video of him in his full elements. Raging

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1JSmYlSlYc

The guy doesn’t look like a normal person.

DeLaRue:
So married women should give up their right to work because of toxic fellow employees.

If they give up banking, should they also give up nursing, civil service, and in fact all trades and professions in order to satisfy insane bullies.

Even little girls hawking stuff on the road are subjected to sexual bullying and harrassment.

Women want to work and will insist on their right to do so in an atmosphere of respect without toxic people making their lives hell.

You don’t get it. This isn’t about sexual harassment but using your femininity to get clients. No management will compel a nurse or civil servant to convince a client to make deposits in millions.

This is opposed to the banking sector where workers must meet target. It is in trying to meet those targets that temptations slides in.

As a married woman trying to meet targets, you will be subjected to all manners of sexual harassment. This is why I said that a banking job isn’t ideal for a married woman. In fact, any marketing job that is intense isn’t ideal for a married woman.

DeLaRue:
A friend called earlier today saying 'it's happening again'.

Apparently, she's been given a query for not bringing enough customer deposit to the bank she works for.

2 weeks ago, in a staff meeting, her female bank manager told her ' you're beautiful with a nice body, but you don't know what you are doing'. She claimed my friend was not useful to the bank.

In other words, use your body to bring in deposits. Yet, she's aware that my friend is married. Not that her behaviour would be justified if my friend was single.

Prior to this episode, the lady bank manager would give my friend phone numbers of politicians & wealthy people to 'call' for deposit, with virtually all of them propositioning my friend. And then the manager blanks my friend for several days because she did not 'cooperate' with the men.

The bullying that some employees, especially female bank employees go through is incredible.

Why is your married friend working in a bank knowing full well what it entails to catch clients?

I opened this thread just to glance at a picture of the Ebun guy. I was disappointed.

Baitullah:
But what's the need of recording sex moments when you ain't selling to porn industry and knowing fully well this might creep into the public someday?

Now her finely built business and reputation is at stake. No be only alhaja

I think it has to do with the perverted minds. The physical act is mostly not enough and they want to keep relishing the act mentally.

Truthfully, only sick minds will think of recording their sexual acts.

vastolord4:
While I was in camp (nysc) ones burqa had 4 legs under.. I thought I was high af but I call my gee. Na em confirm my soberness..

What are you saying?

PeaceJoyLove:
Not everything you see is natural. Most of these guys have worked on themselves.

Well, I cannot doubt the power of eating good food, exercising, and having good rest. But I want you to know that nature is nature. But these guys have a way of beating nature before it shows.

The only example I will show you is Foxx. He fixed his bald hair, and I am sure he has worked on his facial wrinkles too. Some take botox, and many other stuff.

Do not underestimate what money can give you. It can make you look younger and prolong your life if you are willing to do it rightly. It is not by doing senseless cosmetic surgery, but there are procedures you can go for which will come out well. Then, add eating good food (organic natural vegetables and proteins), cultivating good habits, and exercising well.

Of course, anyone can do it. There is nothing wrong if you decide to remove your belly fat if it's hard via exercise. Nothing wrong with having a simple procedure to remove wrinkles on your face if not too dangerous. And nothing wrong with fixing bald hair before it is too late. Everything is about being enlightened and having enough Benjamin Frankin in your pocket.

You just nailed it. Most of their looks ain’t natural.

princewarri1985:
My brother fucker her, i mean better raw Bleep wey go reset her brain nothing dey happen, but place her on pill so that you dont get her pregnant, egyptians marry their cousins centuries ago and nothing happen. I have this very pretty cousin that lived with us about 2 decades ago very pretty girl and she is fund of always walking out of the bathroom naked after taking her bath, and she always does that when ever just the 2 of us is at home, she always make me hard and i regreted not fucking her then, she still give me that sexy look when ever we meet at [b]family gathering [/b]though she is married now. So my brother Bleep her, thats my advice for you

You still meet at family gatherings but you regret not getting down with her. How can you regret not sleeping with your blood? Please, don’t end up sleeping with your daughter. I take God beg you.

Destiblack:
Tell the parents to stop dividing your home boldly looking them in the eyes, or they should return your bride price and marry their daughter.


Bleep whatever you think about me,always remember there is no competition in destiny.

How much bride price? Is it the 250K the groom paid that they should be grateful for?

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

Why won’t she regard their advice higher? They are her blood. She grew up with them and knew them before you. Her mom can die for her, can you?

Do you want her to rubbish her family just because you paid chikini bride price to marry her? If you can’t tolerate her behavior, then divorce her.

jmoore:
My sister was posted to Kaduna. She went there, filled the redeployment form. She has been redeployed to Ebonyi state.

Kaduna is okay. She has to be very careful in Ebonyi. Too many cannibals live there.

How many times will this post make front page? OP, are you that petty that you want to retrieve the shop from her?

In western countries, after divorce, there are certain privileges that the wife is entitled to. So, let her keep the shop for old times sake.

TimFisher2:


Foolish Idiots!

Typical Africans...Africans are really caused


They will rather run away or peep behind rather than help out

Thats how i helped my neighbour from dying...never knew she was asmatic....As she started developing funny moves..eyes turning..throat choking..body shaking...i quickly checked her handbag no Inhaler...i rushed immediately got a bottle of Coka Cola..opened it and shake it..allowing her to be taking the gas till she was able to normalize


That poor woman could have been saved but foolishness abound in Africa plenty!

Guy calm down! Very few people are knowledgeable about first aid treatment and may not know what to do in most instances.

What you should do is use this medium to educate people on how to administer first aid on an asthmatic patient instead of throwing insults.

Ah! She is very pretty. I imagined her differently.

I see. Anambra women are known to be hot headed. This woman has proved us right.

Omoo! Sick people everywhere. Was there no stench coming out of the car or he hid the car underground?

By the way, I recently realized that Russian girls are very beautiful.

GOFRONT:
Every woman have this Olosho DNA in them.

I even dey suspect two of my younger sisters sef.

That is why I pray to God to forbid forbid me and a Girlchild.

But that Bianca could make a Good MILF sha!!!!

Disloyal brother. The women you sleep with, are you married to them? What should we now call you? Brolosho?

She is bored and seeking for attention.