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deathcomestoall:
My first highlight is a very big turnoff for anydecent girl. Ask me. I once thought I had all the money that could last me a life time. Let me tell you how I lost it, little by little then all at once.

My second highlight shows pride, you not saying much and how money isn't a problem. You introduce the money aspect again. It like repetitive redundancy which could have been said just once showing us readers how much you place importance in your money.

The point where she was pregnant and you almost giving her one of your cars is another arrow pointing towards wealth again. And trust me, any decent girl reading this would already judge you based on this and more. And it's not my place though but it's no man's responsibility to take care of any girls family when he is not married to her. Maybe you attract a particular type of females, the ones who use you for financial security. As I said earlier don't plac yourself worth in your account balance.

Any female reading this that would be interested in you would have already placed her mind on the financial security she would get from you not even minding to know the real you. Goodluck and I hope you find a decent female.

now you are already sounding like im looking for a lady here, which is not the case. i never even thought to that direction, pride is not my case, you'll only understand that if you knew me personally

MrCork:
^^^^^WebSufer...bro pls avoid this one too..number one trouble maker..they all ways talk baccck...anyways don't worry a but widey, I recommend the best wifey material for you on nairaland...and guess wot..she's lightskin. Her name is Farano!! (REAL TALK)

thank you, i dash you back

deathcomestoall:
Your post really touched me because would I say I'm the female version of yourself even if I'm I'm okay I won't say it. I wanted to say something foolish now (you just found a decent girl and make sure you surf my Web, websurfer). Ok that's foolish. I feel you're putting yourself under unnecessary pressure.

I am envious of your career. I wish it was mine. That's what I have to say.

And I also feel you show yourself a lot. You explaining yourself how you're this and that already gives readers an insight into your person. You feel you're wealthy enough to get a decent girl and shouldn't attract the wrong ones. I feel I'm beautiful and decent enough to meet the guys I term right but that hasn't happened because I place too much in what I believe I deserve which is what you are doing.

Drop all your I have this, I'm that and flourish.

my dear, i aint trying to show myself on anything, i was only trying to get readers to have a view of me and my story so as to suggest what might be wrong, believe me i aint even trying to portray anything other than that..

Funkyswagzz:
Bro meeting a decent girl requires a lot. You cant knw for sure unless you give the person a try as far as you follow your heart. If this is your prioty you could sacrifice going out without your car. It will create more chance of you meeting different girls and eliminate the thought of her seeing you as some that is wealthy and all she want is your money. Decency is not writen in the face and you know a decent girl when study her. So keep searching bro.

i have tried this before numerous times but i dont think that helped.

lazeal:
You are my kind of person, we share similar ideology but unfortunately, I was corrupted by the society of these girls and so I changed along the line.

Now, you have made a right choice NOT to date school kids. Also avoid girls from poverty stricken homes (these ones are liabilities if they lack dignity of labour)

Beam your search light a decent girl who is at least striving to make something for herself, no matter how little.

Look for one from a decent home where they can at least feed themselves comfortably.

Check your church for someone, take your time to observe her.

Thnks for this post bro, was like you had same experience i was having... Appreciate

Come and see me too

MrCork:
..true..UniQuegrACE is one of my chicks but am givin her away for free......she a troublemaker..she's yours

Thank you for your help. But I'm looking for a wife now.

Now back to the topic, you might suggest on how to meet a decent girl/wife prospectives if you know any.

Just take a look at these two couples up there ^^^

MrCork:
^^^^^WebSufer....bro come and take this one call UniQuegrACE..she single an searching

She's certainly for you since you like them lightskin girls all the way

mhiz:
Advertisements at its peak

advertisement on what exactly ?

ojoisaiah44:
Go to the church, tell your pastor to connect you with one of the almost expired babes then marry.

I might be a christian but I don't allow myself with christian hypocrisy. I don't think the best girl for me must be a churchy girl. I would prefer the one who has a good heart with a conscience even if she doesn't go to church.

opethom:
too long story, Pls summarize

You don't have to worry about that if you can't go through all of it, even when I made the last part in summary.
Those who can help will be up during the morning to help me with suggestions. Not my fault I don't have the time during the day to make this up.

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Ujuhot:
The most difficult time to be in a relationship as a guy is in your early twenties.The period when you are stuck in a limbo, trying to figure out yourself and who you want to be.

At this age, you find it a herculean task asking money from your parents, considering your dad will always remind you of how he was self sufficient at your age. So you are always left with "Nkechiyere" anyone that comes from them willingly. To compound your "woes". You have a girlfriend whom you love so much, you are 24 and she is 23. And guys being wired to want to take control, you are frustrated at your inability to take care of her like you want to.
I mean where is the money??
You are still jobless, still hustling, still finding your feet.
Still putting hands in to many things hoping for good. All of a sudden, she starts acting out and showing attitude. You call, and she takes forever to pick or return your calls. When she finally does pick, the call is like an interview session with those annoying and frustrating one word replies. Yes, no, fine, okay, nothing.

Then finally she ends the call with a flimsy excuse like " wait let me close the fridge", i will call you back. And the call never comes back. Then one day she calls you and asks you "where is this relationship heading to?.
You don't even know where your own life is heading to, not to talk of a relationship. Then she drops the bombshell. Tells you that she met a guy who wants to marry her. And how age isn't on her side, and you are almost compelled to scream "But you are just 23". Can't you wait 3 more years let me make it.
You just hold yourself and play the good guy. You ask her if she loves him, she dodges the question and replies you with " He treats me well". Well since she wasn't informing you to take permission, she was simply telling you.

You have to be the cool guy and wish her well. One week later, she gives you the traditional wedding card. And then you do the math yourself. She was talking to the guy a long time before now.

Then you realise that for every "K" you got on WhatsApp, the guy was getting a long epistle.
You have been played. Worse is you cant even blame her, you are just a prospect who no one knows what will become of your life in 4years time. Would you have made it or not? She has gone for the real deal, someone who has already made it.

In footballing terms, you are a "Anthony Martial" ( prospect) while the guy is a Messi ( has made it already). I mean you were sending her cards of N200, and the guy was telling her to manage 10k for the weekend. No comparison there.
And then you go through that silent heartbreak guys go through, the ones they don't talk about. And unceremoniously you get inducted into the special hall of fame where members are young guys whose childhood loves and friends or girlfriends they thought they would end up with left them to marry someone else. Your heart is broken into smithereens. In this hall of fame, you are all victims. Victims of not having found your path in your early twenties.
At the wedding, no sight is more heartbreaking than seeing "the love of your life" say "I do" to this guy she just met 6 months ago.
To make matters worse, you get an alert from Diamond bank telling you how N13 have been deducted for bank charges. You are mad.Your N4000, is down to N3987 rendering that N1k useless, you can only withdraw N3k now. And that's your home and abroad. Can life be more unfair at this moment?

6 years later. You are 30 now. Congratulations, you finally made it. You are as rich as you hoped you will become. You are one of the happening guys in town. You go to a wedding. With your friends, the men on suit. Those guys that just intimidate everyone in the hall. You are seated scouting the hall, and the bridal train passes by. Of course, bridal train and ashoebi ladies always show themselves. That's part of the job description. Sampling. And you spot one, she is beautiful, elegant and tall. You walk up to her, chat her up. Exchange numbers and you leave. She is 24, ripe for marriage. Three months later, you are sounding marriage to her ears. She loves how it sounds.

You are on chat with her always.
And somewhere else, a 25year old boy still finding his way is wondering why the girlfriend is becoming distant these days.
Why is he getting those one worded replies which is unlike her. Why do there chats seem more like interview. And fast fast, you have proposed and simultaneously she is asking the 25year old boy that question of
"Where is this relationship going to". And then you marry her, and somewhere a boy gets heart broken.

You see we are always going to do this to ourselves.

Written by @jaetomz


What goes around...

Mehnn, I had to quote to keep this piece

The World is finished

na wa o

Hmmm

this recession period ? Where the money dey ?

Millionaires self like us dey feel am gan.

They should let us see list of people making attempts to purchase any in this recession. let us know who to probe next

Always oweing

Lok

MinorityTribe1:
What's all the fuzz about? Kim Kardashian made a séxtapé, Kayne West watched it and like it and that was how he found his true love. I advice Ladies should make more séxtapés. You never know who is watching .

of course only st-upid people with your way of reasoning find it cool, not everyone csn take such side insults from anyone

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