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GoldenJAT:
BIRDS of same feather flocks together!ops...i read d SHIT of a Comment u called an ADVICE....and could c y u r vexed!!its quite PATHETIC and Hurting when u cant even keep an ordinary Gf as a result of ur Low level of REASONING....i cant describe ur stupidity...as it Stinks 2d High HEAVEN..GOODMORNING.

E pain the bastard. Silence is the best answer for idiots like you. Anuofia.

@op,

I've been in the same shoes like you before. She even comes back now, my case is, sometime last year she came to indirectly check if I am doing good, if money has started to come in as usual,she even came and passed the night In my place (family house). We still talk,but she behaves like she wants to use iron hand for me, when I give her space she keeps coming back again with a story or two. My case if I upload a picture of myself, she won't say anything, or even click like, if she sees me upload pics of me and a girl, or a new girlie, she'd click like and comment, sometimes she's sending messages to me, that this girl wants to eat my money, blah blah.... I just tire fam.. Means, she is waiting for me to be stable,then she's coming back... maybe or maybe not, but na focus we all need now.

Get yourself together. What you'd do is very simple. Focus, this is a new year, a week gone already,shes going to use her confusion to derail your plans for this year just like what my own ex is doing. But you need to focus.
Don't start this year like this. I know one thing for sure, any girl who dumps you for another guy and sees your success, 2 things either she'd regret it, or she just forgets about u totally, in this case, let her go. Focus. Like I said, a week is gone already. Just be calm,back to drawing board and try to know those things that made her go, then the next girl who comes by, correct everything.

Take care. Jah bless.

GoldenJAT:
carry ur FRUSTRATION 2d right place.abeg

slowpoke. Look at my signature and know i am doing fine as a programmer. i earn self employed salaries, not like you who doesnt know what hes doing. The boy said advices , you saying hes gay, shay that one is called for ? when would show how useful you are , acting like a dumb useless fellow all the time. this is a forum, you cannot advise people, go to hell... we dont need you here .there isnt anyone who doesnt have relationship problems or a thing or two worrying them ...a dog like you calling someone gay and saying another person is frustrated... i pity the fool who let you be her boyfriend sha, na this low dog like behaviour u go day show am. like say u never get problem before ode.

Sweetguy25:
Stupidity. 3 million naira car and four hundred thousand naira cash. why not the other way round?

Which one did u give?

GoldenJAT:
The problem is with u...and not her!INDECISION IS THE BANE of so many relationships around!u av got 2 Man up...and stop her from blackmailing u emotionally.and besides u dont seems stable enuf 4 a relationship yet....it is good 2b flexible in ur decision making....but some amount of RIGIDITY will always be required.go bk 2d drawing board...and let ur yes b a yes...and ur no...a big NO.

It's his problem. You not giving advices, you sounding like u know all. Give him advices, stop sounding like a dead fellow. Mxm

amicable09:
Don't epp. I only trust my washing.

I understood what you typed then too.

I'm only being nice o abi you don't like nice guys.

What's the maximum amount of money one should have (asides BTA) how much can some one have in order to make a trip to say the European Union? I need advices for a friend who's moving to Schwiez(Switzerland) , he's saying $20,000

Advices.

amicable09:
Lolz.
How did you know that I will understand that vernacular you typed?

You can't wash mine BTW, thanks for making the request. My hands work well.

Ah shu hepp? You not ibo girlie?

amicable09:
There's nothing new under the Sun!

What will he see that other men who wash their sister's or wife's undies haven't seen?

If you have to take care of a bedridden loved one of the opposite sex, you'll wash them undies with joy while praying for her to stay alive and get back on her feet.

You guys should stop acting like you fell from the sky in this section.

Nne oma, calm down na, iwe gi adikwa la oku.
Which one u day? Oya bring your own Lemme wash.

amicable09:
What's there to understand?

You brought money for food. I bet she's the the one who cooks the food.

The house is housing the two of you for night time.

Your clothes, you wear them alone. Do you wash hers?

I don't think any guy should make any lady wash his clothes. That one don cross line abeg.

he's scared to wash undies... make em eye no blind from there cos what he may see...

You not ready to make her your wife hence bear what she's giving to you. You cannot get it all 100%. If you want it 100% marry her then and talk to her about it.

SUPERPACK:
what of in the struggle process he was shot by the policeman, will they nt collect the phone, dis is naija and at the end of the day u will here that it was an accidental discharge.
LETS LIVE TO FIGHT TOMORROW.

You're right. But they are not. It's robbery.
You walk on the road they search you, if they see you with envelopes, if they see you with bags they search you. What's that suppose to mean? Shay them want make gun turn watin every man wan carry before them go behave?

SUPERPACK:
why insulting him, can't he voice out his own opinion, a stitch in time will always save nine

He's right. Why would u search his phone?

dabraska:
No offence to the guy but he was wrong. Police asked you to unlock your phone. C'mon show it to them! They have the right to ask to search your phone or belongings. That's why they are policemen. You refusing to open your phone is not right.

However, how you could have had a case is if you were being accused wrongly of being a yahoo boy after your phone has been searched.

And what if he's not a yahoo boy? Nigga it's a criminal activity, check this story and see things for yourself

http://tiwasblog.co/2016/10/14/how-cctv-exposed-disgraced-police-men-who-followed-yahoo-boy-to-bank-to-withdraw-money/

That's a yahoo boy o, I guess it's time we start using the right things to dock these thieves in uniforms who call themselves policemen. They don't fight crime, they fight citizens. If you are a policeman, you have no right to check phones. Even your wife at home doesn't check your phone, why check others? Mxm.

Ka wu serious onye ara

Buhari no day taya.

2019 is close sha. APC and lies are brothers.

ILuvGummyBearz:
[color=deeppink]i know enough here is a good place 2 learn about people.

Ok then bye[/color]

Of course not.

Some girls are prone to misbehaviour, don't you know? Hence I said what I said. I'm not a bad person, judging from what I have tolerated from people, I decide to keep to this kind of life.

Don't be angry if I behave or sound this way, so let them learn the hard way. Don't take it personal.

ILuvGummyBearz:
[color=deepskyblue] man below is a typical example of 'the nice guy'
He claims himself nice and good 2 women but is clearly the opposite,evident from his statement below

There are many more "Nice guys" like him but few actual nice guys [/color]

Since you don't know me in person, I won't talk back at u. take care.

2dice01:
cool seems maga is in some people dna enjoy

I don't understand bro.

sarrki:
I will rather ask you to read it.

Your hero did nothing to contain the spread of Boko Boiz
Rather he turned the money meant to fight the insurgency to ATM machine operated by dasuki

Baba is doing everything to clear all the mess your hero caused.

The planned mess abi?

Kalatium:
That's what I'm saying, you can even see that your nice guy attitude prevented you from having a girlfriend, probably because you are afraid or many other reasons stated above. You have a nice guy Syndrome and you really need this therapy.

kudos to all of you way day deal with them sha. Na una type we need. But me o, I just let them be. Girls are stupid and cunning, in the end na beg them go day beg.

2dice01:
seems you dont get i bro..so you will leave it in God hand
A girl will use the card you sent to her call one guy that is making her crazy begging him while doing i will leave it for God better wise up my guy.

I won't lift a finger. I'd let her go, when I know I stand nothing to loose. That's me.

Bolster:
I just attached a piece that shows you a minimum of 4 Muslim countries in Africa, Asia and Middle East with Christians in leadership positions. What else do you want me to prove?

Your post reeks of ignorance spiked with distasteful bigotry. That's my point. Tune down the hatred for Islam and Muslims, you will only hurt yourself. That religion is growing, expanding and breaking new grounds, your hatred isn't affecting it in whatsoever way. Save your sanity.

I'm not mad.

Those christians your islamic brothers killed, what you have to say to that? It's justified yes? Not so?

Bolster:
You just displayed your abject ignorance and pathetic bigotry. But let offer you a cure, here:

If there is anything I have said here that's a lie prove it.

nnokwa042:
talk about saudi but not america even till today some kids in america dont know what islam is, u can go to northern pakistan is called waziristan there u can talk about Islam or yemen or afganistan or Libya or indonesia, we allowed obama to rule cus his mum is a white christian, muslims can only rule jungle place if lie check northern naija

If you noticed I didn't talk back at him. Make I day waste power for people way no know wetin them day do, wey dey collect bans every where they go? America isn't a christain nation and 83% are catholics and other religions? Christian to be concerned. Na nonsense them day tell them for mosque, am not surprised. Leave am.

tomiyin777:
Haters continue,all I know is that Islam will rule the world if u like go and hug transformer.

Just as they ruled Spain? Go and solve the fights between Shia, alawites, Sunni, and stop imposing Islam on people and watch how you'd 'rule the world'

Go ask mohammed since he was the last prophet, why do you believe in Isa Masjid? Your religion is very confused. Sorry to be this blunt. A religion that kills for a god, isn't a religion, its a phenomenal misbehaviour.

2dice01:
lemme share you what happened 3days ago seems you dont understand the op
A guy customer always ask for a colleague at my working place but whenever he comes she is either on shift or not around
So on monday he came luckily she was around..i was like 'guy you see the bae wey you dey ask now oya find me something'jokingly
My guy just scope me i was just smilling ..he tried talking to the girl she started giving attitude after about 3mins she rem she want to call somebody then turned to guy to give her money to buy recharge card ...the mumu nice guy gave her i was just laugh..she didnt even say thank you...she just collect the money like its her fathers right...phone number my nice guy no see collect.

Na their way ma brother. But see, what would you do, be honest? girl don collect money from you go do abortion way another guy fire her the belle? come day warn you on top say make you no ever call her number again? Abi girl don cheat on you before, come your house, pretend like she's begging you, only for you to leave she come back, Jack your door and move with all your properties,gen set, TV, mattress, upto spoon? abi girl way you day date don call boys beat you before? If she hasn't done this, my brother your own still good

That one your guy see na small compared to what I've seen or what my friends have seen. But still we let them be. The greatest thing I do is I let their conscience fight them. They'd get married, thoughts of what they did to you,will never leave them. Sometimes many of them end up with broken homes when they don't do things correctly again.

Just relax, I don't want to go into stories, if I do, you'd shed tears. They are all the same my brother but if you serve God, you let them be. No greater judgement than "I dumped this boy for this my boyfriend,look at him today.. if I had known..."

I let God fight for me,i don't fight for God. Don't take laws into your hands.

ahmg001:
so America, Britain nd Switzerland re nw ur country. Nt Nigeria again ba

Hades Awaits u, you can go give a f*ck there.....

0b10010011:
You totally off point....


But Shamecurls has already cleared the air so I need not make any point further.

One day you'd claim britain , the founder of the anglican faith isnt a christian nation just as you say USA isnt a christian nation , because we let Obama rule.

keep deceiving yourself .

shamecurls:
Very interesting article I must say..

http://edition.cnn.com/2015/07/02/living/america-christian-nation/


"A culture warrior as well as priest and public intellectual, Neuhaus demonstrated with more clarity than any "village atheist" that the idea of Christian America was a fiction in search of believers."

lol, America is not a Christian Nation? hahahahahhaahhaahahaha I laugh. no need to argue, im laughing at you really..